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Dis Guy:
I meant front page not First page, they can make it stick to the first page though

another thing is moderators are not online 24/7, so be patient as much as we want to help we shouldn't be overly aggressive!


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stillwater:
Just wanted to know the angle you're coming from before answering. You can't tell me you're totally clueless what it entails.
Anyway, I judge indecency on character or habits or what you say, also the way you dress and how you present yourself.
Indecent people hate to be told they are not decent. I don't see people in shades of gray . It's either you're black or white, hot or cold, no "inbetween". Nevertheless it's possible to be decent in an aspect of your life but indecent in another. Yeah, we are not perfect but we should not use that as a reason not to strive to perfection.
These days indecency has been substituted for self expression.
If you smoke, sorry that's an indecent habit.
If you cannot construe a single sentence without saying f**k, that's a straight ride on your path to indecency.
If you cannot dress according to the occassion at hand due to self expression, you're leaning on being crass and indecent.
If you just have to drink to stupor, sorry that's an indecent behavior.

Ujujoan:
If you are addicted to anything intoxicating, its indecent!

If you are not addicted to smoking, then why do it at all?

There's a reason why smoking is considered an anti-social habit. There are 'no smoking' signs everywhere I turn to. Drinking's intoxicating, but its not anti-social!

Moderation or not, smoking is frowned on . . adddicted or not.

I wont want to date/marry a smoker. I wont want to intorduce a smoker to my family . . I'm not saying I wont ever smoke or I've never smoked, I'm just saying its not something I'll be proud of!

So if I'm not addicted to what's not intoxicating, then it's not indecent? OK! I still haven't found a reason smoking is an anti-social habit, and I believe the only reason smoking is detested is because of the risks it poses to health. You choose to smoke, and if you choose to be addicted to it, then it all borders to choice. . . . well, if choice now equals to indecency then I'll understand.

Smoking isn't allowed in public places because of young kids who get to try everything they see -- this is so understandable. So if I'm addictive to sex, am I indecent? Remember also that sex isn't meant for public eyes, and smoking just might fall a little along into this category.

And your last statement about not being a smoker or whatnot, that's a classic 'obamanian' answer

Ujujoan:
I'm not addicted to something that is intoxicating.

Ujujoan:
It's a bad habit that reeks of indecency.

Just like:

Exposive dessing

Drinking excessively

Sleeping around with men/women

Bad language

e.t.c

Even though decency/indecency's relative, there are some generally accepted behaviours and generally 'unaccepted' behaviours!

whitelexi:
I dont find it indecent, but many girls i know do

Yes, and I think most girls should draw a line between 'intolerable habits' and 'indecent habits'

chidyke77:
@the seeker yes u cn, just check d meaning of ''love'' in your dictionary and d nigerian is ''u'' simple.

chidyke77:
@poster Dis ain't a topic for discussion jus consult your dictionary.

Can I look up the meaning of 'nigerian love' in the dictionary too?

190:
theseeker we have scores 2 settle!

scantee:
My elder Brother was in love with a yoruba girl and finaly decide to marry her, the girls father swear that it will happen over his dead body, this keep them from getting married over five years, they where trying to convince the father to accept the proposal.

the worst is that the father cant even given a reasonable reason why he dosent want her daughter to get marry to an igbo guy, but he keep shouting OMO IBO OMO IBO my brother has to apply all the startage he has to win other family members hart. and they finaly give him green card. but do you believe that the father of the girl refused to attend the wedding of her only dauther.

stillwater:
What's your own definition of the term?

C2H5OH:
look at this shameless minister. you are here quoting bible. when you were busy cajoling unitee to spread it wide, you forgot what the bible said about premarital sex then. men sha!