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Nairaland GeneralRe: TheAmaka - The female NLander of the month by TheSeeker(op): 11:00pm On Sep 17, 2009
Shut up! When are you going to pay for that stuff?!
RomanceRe: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by TheSeeker(m): 8:06pm On Sep 17, 2009
michelin89:
No I was thinking it was a real turn off to see a guy take care of his posts that much. shocked

Write and post jare. Which one be the decoration?
Don't mind me. It's the Libra in me. Always wanting to be artistic or a perfectionist.
RomanceRe: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by TheSeeker(m): 7:50pm On Sep 17, 2009
michelin89:
Uhm undecided
So you're still a pikin at 20? grin grin
RomanceRe: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by TheSeeker(m): 7:34pm On Sep 17, 2009
michelin89:
You really get time to dey decorate your posts. Colour+bold+italic---pele ooo
Did I strike a nerve?
RomanceRe: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by TheSeeker(m): 6:48pm On Sep 17, 2009
Who dey find Michellin tyres trouble?
RomanceRe: ''what Would You Think If Your Girlfriend Tells You She Is Not A Vigin'' by TheSeeker(m): 9:43am On Sep 17, 2009
hbabe:
I learnt that the hymen can get broken during sport activities. If your girl is an active sports person there is that possibility that she is a virgin with broken hymen. undecided
100% true
RomanceRe: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by TheSeeker(m): 9:11am On Sep 17, 2009
whitelexi:
Girls come here and say "i wont do it b4 marriage oh, i wont do his laundry, i wont be cooking for him yada yada yada", wake up and smell the coffee, in naija, girls are already doing it! Its been going on for ages, they do it to show that they are well brought up and can take care of a home even before they marry. A girl will do it to send out a message to her boyfriend (and his family) to say she is ready for that next step to the next level. . .

For those girls in the diaspora that are saying they wont do it, why do u think guys can date u and then run home to marry? Stop displaying your yeye self pride, it didnt start with u, and it wont end with u. . . When the time is due, quote me: U will do all of it and even more to secure your man's approval of u!
Yes, that reminds me of the verse in the Holy Bible that says, "Because the kingdom of heaven suffereth violence, and the violent shall take it by force,"
Nairaland GeneralRe: TheAmaka - The female NLander of the month by TheSeeker(op): 6:41am On Sep 17, 2009
Answer me now or I send this angel https://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-devil03.gif to you
Nairaland GeneralRe: TheAmaka - The female NLander of the month by TheSeeker(op): 6:37am On Sep 17, 2009
FL Gators:
lol stop playin w/ my mind jare tongue
How am I playing with your mind? May I remind you, that with me, you best finish what you started
Nairaland GeneralRe: TheAmaka - The female NLander of the month by TheSeeker(op): 6:30am On Sep 17, 2009
As tall as what? I need comparisons
Nairaland GeneralRe: TheAmaka - The female NLander of the month by TheSeeker(op): 6:25am On Sep 17, 2009
Gators, how tall is it?
Nairaland GeneralTheAmaka - The female NLander of the month by TheSeeker(op): 6:13am On Sep 17, 2009
THEAMAKA: A new member, intuitive, very young, adventurous, thoughtful, brusque, virgin - as she claims (I wonder what she does on sexuality section). Don't mess with her or she'll turn around to bite you. As I've gathered on NL, the most controversial female - a new member at that - of the last few months.


What do you have to say about her?
RomanceRe: I Don't Want To Be The First To Ask Him Out. by TheSeeker(m): 4:24am On Sep 17, 2009
How do you know he's in love with you?
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Desperate Time Calls For Desperate Measures: by TheSeeker(m): 3:48am On Sep 17, 2009
N2D is a Hausa boy grin grin
RomanceRe: Check This Love SMS Dat will make ur Darlings Think & Think Sleeplessly Abt U by TheSeeker(m): 12:25am On Sep 17, 2009
Thank you poster. There's this girl I've been wanting to scare away from me but I never knew how. You've just provided me a perfect solution. Thank you.
RomanceRe: Moral Dilemma-what Should He Do? by TheSeeker(m): 10:32pm On Sep 16, 2009
[Quote author=Missy B]There are people (Like me) who would prefer You don't make a promise
rather than raising up hopes and later burst bubbles.
Assuming she was very cheery and had to share it with her friends . . . .
How does she explain the ''comma'' to them lerra?

Even if she doesn't hold it against You . . . . In Your own eyes,
doesn't it make You look like a man who cannot put his words into practice
considering the fact that if You wanted to do it, You could have. Only that it meant a step further?[/Quote]

I'm making the guy's case as an example. Of course, if I was in his shoes, I'd have pulled a surprise by having the tickets already rather than make a promise. The kind of promises I make are such that, even if I'm dying, I'll fulfill them otherwise, I can't and will never.

But in this case, no one - not a prophet - will have had an inkling that the tickets will hike more than four times the first price and how is it supposed to be his fault that there was an increase? So he made a promise and something happens that he has no iota of control over, and he's supposed to feel like a man who doesn't live up to his word?

My friend, re-think that. He's not morally guilty but he can feel bad it didn't happen as he speculated but that was in no way his fault and he's not supposed to feel bad about it. And if a woman holds it on his head, she's unreasonable.
RomanceRe: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by TheSeeker(m): 10:20pm On Sep 16, 2009
r231:
Yo NLs i'm really happy for you , imma let you finish but ujujoan is the biggest gold digger of all time. grin grin grin
You're a jackass! Cut the president me some slack, I got a lot on my plate grin grin
RomanceRe: Moral Dilemma-what Should He Do? by TheSeeker(m): 5:37pm On Sep 16, 2009
y me:
why on earth should he make the promise if he knows he is not gonna fulfill it
am not making it seem like a sin but never make an unfulfilled promise
Making this a case study, how did he know the price was going to ricochet? Maybe you think people like to make promise just so not to fulfill it. If I make a promise to my girlfriend, and conditions I don't have control over overturns my intention, I'll let her understand why it's not going to work. But if she puts it on me like it was my fault or some resentment ensues afterward, I know where and how to fix her - and it's needless to say it's an unfair criticism.

If my girlfriend makes me a promise and an unforeseeable incidents faults her plan, I will NOT hold it on her head like she's committed some grievous crime
RomanceRe: She Said I Was A Chicken And Now She Called Me Her Saviour. by TheSeeker(m): 5:09pm On Sep 16, 2009
OK. Ujujoan, hook up with me on YM then. Now do you like that?
RomanceRe: Moral Dilemma-what Should He Do? by TheSeeker(m): 4:51pm On Sep 16, 2009
y me:
never knew it was bail-thanks for the correction cheesy
and yes in my part it is a sin
i hate people who promise and fail to keep to it
it is better not to make one at all than to make an unfulfilled one
So if he doesn't have the money he should rob a bank? I know you said he'd explain to the girl but in your case you're making it seem like if he promises regardless of the reason he fails, it's a sin. Pathetic!
RomanceRe: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by TheSeeker(m): 4:20pm On Sep 16, 2009
[Quote author=Ujujoan]I insist on the word obliged!! I think the whole point is that you should be willing to make her happy. If that's what she wants, you should be ready to do it.

And yes if you dont, I'll go with someone else, a guy!! Cos if my BF prefers to stay home and plya video game when I need him by my side, then he doesent deserve me does he? Its not just a matter of choice, its a matter of going out of your way for someone. [/Quote]

He's not obliged to go with you to the party. Just as you need him to be by your side, so he might need to be alone playing video games all by himself. What happened to having fun all alone and doing what you want for yourself in a while? Saying you'll go with another guy because he has refused to come with you to the party is plain retarded - I have to tell you that. You are ridiculous! LOL! So if he doesn't come with you, he doesn't deserve you? You're a joker. I am very sure you're kidding.  grin When I go out of my way to please my girlfriend, it'd come from my willful choice; if she has to demand me to go out of my way, that's being unreasonably overbearing.
RomanceRe: If Another Guy Buys A Phone For Your Girl by TheSeeker(m): 4:19pm On Sep 16, 2009
Ujujoan:
ROTFLMAO grin grin

Seriously I have issues with guys who never want to do anything for their GFs. So what if she can afford a phone for herself, does that justify him being stingy. I mean what's in a phone? I dont think she was asking for an I.phone. I'm shure she would have managed a Noke 1320 cheesy

I think the girl did that because she realized the guy was being innecessarily difficult. undecided
If she can afford phone for herself, yes, he has no right to be stingy; if he's got no right to be stingy, that doesn't justify her to ask him for a phone, does it? By the way, being stingy is a matter of choice.
RomanceRe: Your Duty As Someone's Boyfriend Or Girlfriend? by TheSeeker(m): 2:16pm On Sep 16, 2009
Ujujoan:
I think it should be an obligation. Of course I dont expect him to leave a serious engagement to follow me to my friend's B/day party, I wont do that for him either, but if he's free, he's obliged to go with me . . . . he shouldnt complain when I go with someone else.

Nothing is being imposed on anybody, but if you want to make your partnet happy, you should be able to go out of your way once in a while!! Even though most guys are jerks, some of them still deserve the best!  cheesy
I want you to expunge the word, 'obligation'. He's not obliged to go with you even if all he has to do tha day is play video games instead of going with you. So if he doesn't go with you, you'll go with someone else -- a guy I suppose?

I hope you won't mind if he decides to go somewhere with another girl too. I think it'd be a matter of choice but should NEVER be an obligation.
RomanceRe: She Said I Was A Chicken And Now She Called Me Her Saviour. by TheSeeker(m): 2:10pm On Sep 16, 2009
Ujujoan:
Why are you guys hooking upb huh undecided
Not what you think. No gays in here grin Dirty minded girl angry angry
RomanceRe: If Another Guy Buys A Phone For Your Girl by TheSeeker(m): 2:06pm On Sep 16, 2009
Ujujoan:
Okay so she collected the phone from the other guy . . if the guy dosent like it he should just leave. I'm sure the other guy will like to take his place! cheesy
Uju, I didn't know you're like this. Have a piece of me. Here https://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-angry015.gif
RomanceRe: What Can U Do For Love by TheSeeker(m): 2:03pm On Sep 16, 2009
RomanceRe: Nagging Wife Vs Hot Tempered Wife by TheSeeker(m): 1:30pm On Sep 16, 2009
biola44:
yes of course, but u'll also be d one 2 pet her grin
I don't mind putting her to rest from crying to laughter; but be with a hot tempered woman? No! Two captains can't be on one ship
RomanceRe: Nagging Wife Vs Hot Tempered Wife by TheSeeker(m): 1:20pm On Sep 16, 2009
Why is it only for the married to contribute? Shut the lipsrsealed lipsrsealed up! grin grin

If I have to choose, I'll go for a nagging wife. It's simple to handle them. When she nags, keep quiet and look on like you're not bothered. Believe me, she'll be hurt and end up crying. grin

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