₦airaland Forum

FL Gators:
Us, baby, us. All girls and if God decides to punish me he'll make it 11girls 1 boy

FL Gators:
Really! So by the time our 12th kid comes out, I'll be as passive as Oyinye Oyinda right?

FL Gators:
No, that's where I want you to propose to me , with a diamond ring the size of my eye ball.
By 3 years it'd be too late na

Ok, that's no problem. Well, 3 years is the best I can. As at then, you'll have had a kid and I will see if your stubbornness will come down a little and I can determine my acceptability of it.

Do you know that when a woman is stubborn, it reduces when she starts to give birth? It's believed some of them flow out with the blood. That's another Yoruba belief!

Kunbee:
@charles i dont blame u na ASUU i find faults in rubbish troll

@Theseeker how na thanks 4 explaining 2 na2day u r 1 in a million

@na2day hey boo nothing went down ooo still got d jitters 4 u and only u

Anytime, anything, any day as long as I'm snatching you from him

FL Gators:
Ha, Oga Sir, ema binu si mi. Mii ri yin nigba ti mo wo'le. Eyin nan moh pe te ba ti sun le eyin yin, se la da bipe wan gbe round rock s'ori couch ni. ema binu.

Sugbon, stubborness wo ni mo ni na? se eyin fe so fun mi wipe ee feran stubborness mi ni?


Oooooohh, where will it lead?

debest1:
Are u sure u really like this ur friend?

big head:

Giggles repeatedly man u r bad i repeat U ARE BAD
WHAT IF THE GIRL HAS THE POWER TEN TIMES MORE THAN THE GUY
SHE WOULD HAVE DISMANTLED HIM BEFORE HE COULD SAY "PLEASE I'M SORRY I'M ONLY ACTING ACTING ON A FRIEND'S ADVISE"
I REPEAT U ARE VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY BAD

C2H5OH:
hahaha. ngbo na2day, you don hear?

be like say oyinda is in high demand.

Yes, join the race and win. Get a face!

Remii:
It means father (God) I serve, worship or bow for you. It is a praise song.

ibkaye:
I'm not putting all Nigerian guys in a bad light, just not suprised that the OP would be weary, it's called being smart.

Smart LMAO Smart my black a$$

ibkaye:
It's better to be safe than sorry.

As much as there is a chance of Nigerians not marrying foreigners for papers, there is also a chance that they are, I still don't blame her for being worried.

ibkaye:
Can't exactly blame her, not saying that every Nigerian guy wants to marry a foreigner for papers, but it happens so often that one cannot help but to be at some point worried, better to be safe than sorry 

whitelexi:
I like the way u ended your above post - very nice.  The thing is that everything u've talked about will work if its a babe from any other part of the world, naija babes are different. . .  Just as they attach sooooooo much to respect coming with age - [ask a grown naija woman for her age, and on the average you'll get an answer that is in turn a question of its own - u dont get that when u ask a foreigner no matter their age.], they will also only respect u if they know u are well older than they are. . .   I guess proper love and proper respect creeps into the picture later when u start providing for her but the disrespect from the initial stages alone can crash the entire relationship if care is not taken.

whitelexi:
I'm a rather orthodox minded man and based on the fact that i'm the true son of my father, my answer would be a resounding NO. I would prefer to provide for my family and earn my respect that way, there is no restriction on the wife if she wants to work but there has to be a very well defined framework in place as to who is the man and the head of the family. To that effect, the age gap has to be a minimum of 5yrs to start with.

PS: I want my ishi-okuko on xmas day too

_{and no woman drama oh}

My main man, what's good? Oya, let's dissect your comment. I understand you being all orthodox, not wanting to adopt the new western kind of system and all that. If your wife is older than you, does that stop you from earning your respect? If you're younger than your wife you're still the head of the family and nothing has changed that. It won't stop your "isi-okuko" too . As long as you maintain your maturity and treat your wife the right way you should, you'll always get your respect.

If you fail to perform your civic duties in your own home, if you're 20 years older than your wife, you'll still be less than a chaff to her. But I respect your opinion man, you got policy and that's what's up! They say a man's got two things -- his balls and his word.