₦airaland Forum

To an average black man (especially a Nigerian), money is everything.

I'm not saying OP should stay or go but all those people talking about investment.... Money is not everything, peace of mind is! Some salary earners abroad have more peace of mind than some so called billionaires in Nigeria.


With your billions as a Nigerian, you'll still drive your car on bad roads. You'll still use generator or inverter to power your home/office. You'll still live in a city with very poor town planning system and architecture. You'll still face SARS/security intimidation.

No matter how much you think you have in this country, your peace of mind is not guaranteed.
Dangote should drop his security and walk on the streets of Lagos or live in ikorodu and see what will become of him
Yes, you can hire a security guard to follow you everywhere you go but to what end?


You need to live in a country where you can be anything you want to be.
You need to live in a country with good town planning system and architecture.
You need to live in a country with stable power, water and other amenities.
You need to live in a country with good infrastructure.
You need to live in a country with some good recreational facilities. All these things help prolonge life.


But in Nigeria.....

You'll apply to study law, they'll give you political science or sociology. You'll apply engineering they'll give you physics, etc.

This country kills dreams. In twenty, twenty five years, all those migrating now will look back and be grateful for their decision to leave Nigeria.

This country bad, asin, e bad. And it will keep getting worse.
But unfortunately, we think once you have money you're ok, which is not true.

To an average Nigerian lady, if you are 30+ with a job, you're husband material.

I don't empathize with all these women.

Men are not good at pretending.
If it was a man complaining of a particular habit by his wife, I will understand cos women are excellent pretenders. They put up their best pretentious lifestyle during courtship, only for them to come and frustrate the gentleman later. If you were observant enough, you would have known he's a heavy drinker. But nope, you were more interested in how the wedding day was going to be.
I cannot be with someone for a month and not know something as serious as this, except I don't enter his bedroom.

My advice is whatever you decide to do concerning this problem, make sure you achieve results asap. Cos once he clocks 40, forget it!
You know what they say about that age right?

Toh

Trayceey:
.. Men and their wahala sef. Infact this marriage is scam. I don't think I wona marry again. Just wona have kids

If you're pretty and in your twenties, I can deposit my precious spermatozoa into you that is certain to give you tall, dark and handsome boys

Pavore9:
Many feel too big to engage in some legitimate hustles that could earn them their livelihood because they feel it is beneath them.

No mind dem as you dey hustle for farm. Wishing you more strengthening.

Gracias

On nairaland, one minute everybody is rich, the next minute, they are begging with a new moniker.

If you want to give up give up, we'll cry and type rip for you.

Na me de here de go farm 24/7 de dry myself for sun. Even guys weh no get shishi for pocket de laugh me cos farming for Nigeria na poor man work, only for those same people to come back and complain of hunger due to rising cost of foodstuffs.

Rubbish.

Some mumu people will think that the governor is innocent and they just want to kill him. Far from it.

The governor is part of the syndicate

Not even a single Muslim governor from NE or NW is innocent.

They should keep on playing politics with people's lives.

E concern who de follow them.

Rubbish

Upon the make up, the bride no still stew

Haba aboki

Kai namiji ne fa

Ba bura kawai ya sa Ka zama namiji ba fa!

Ka taso Ka nima wani abu kayi don chin gaba rayuwa duniya.

How you go call yourself namiji come de slack

I don't like doing anything.

I no like stress abeg

This CCECC and substandard roads are like bread and butter

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mizz2posh:
Torgba= e must complete
Ogbane= e don complete

Ok thanks.
The way Benin people kept shouting Ogbane up and down since yesterday ehn...

One girl for Arise news just carry the word personal.

Before she say jack, she must shout Ogbane.

IkpuNnegiEwu44:
It must be completed

Lol
Ok thanks.

Ogbane in Benin language means what?

Edo people, wetin be the meaning of this ogbane weh Una de shout up and down since yesterday?

Naso one Edo chick just de shout Ogbane up and down for Arise news yesterday when de interview her

Wetin e mean abeg

Ok

Osho Wike has spoken.

But it's his life na

Fake stories everywhere on this site

Issorite

The kind of news children of hate like masturbating on.


Oya, come and masturbate all ye children of hate

This one that both uncle and nephew are fighting for the same cunt hmm. One of two things are likely to be the case here

1. It's either that b!tch's cunt is extra ordinarily sweet Or
2. She's very good at giving a particular style that no other b!tch can

But how on earth do people even consider marrying professional prostitutes?

I know 97% of our 9ja girls are prostitutes but at least they're not professional ones. There are levels to this thing. Even a good number of nairaland girls are prostitutes but like I said, they're not professional ones so they are manageable.

OP, do you want to marry her because she fvvks so well and brought Goodluck to you or because she's good enough?
How do you expect a professional prostitute not to fvck so well? It's her craft, she's paid to fvck, so why won't she be a good fvcker?

I always say I don't care how good your character is, if your cherry is not intact or at least broken by me, then you're a hoe.

Even if your uncle gives you the go ahead, abort that mission. When push comes to shove, your wife will fvck men to pay your children's school fees.

Me, marry a known professional prostitute? God forbid. I'm still struggling to even manage the unprofessional ones.

Meanwhile, give me a link to the site, lemme check it out

There are two things Igbo people ought to have come to terms with in this country that will never happen.

1. Igbo President: Even in the next life, Igbo man will not preside over Nigeria
2. Biafra: Until thy kingdom come, Biafra is a dead course.


Meanwhile, continue wailing and playing the we against the world kind of politics while you wait to answer hades' call.

IPOBs=Buhari, two doomed entities.

Too much disunity in this country.
I honestly also don't like the part of country where I come from.

It's in a very good location, but religious sentiments have stalled it's progress.