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Don't worry about nice guys. You're going to meet so few

in life it won't even matter. lol

So it's okay as long as he's trying to get a green card? Pitiful!

Instead of invading another country, why not stay home and

try to make your own country a better place to live. Most of

you speak of Nigeria as if it's the promise land, but you can't

wait to leave! Interesting!

This woman is not beautiful. She is attractive, at best.

And stop being hypocrits, if it were a Black woman

with a White man you guys would lose your minds!

She'd be called every bad name in the book.

We know this guy has lots of cash, for sure.

She wouldn't look at him twice if he didn't.

Pygmies

The same situations occur in interracial relationships as in same

race relationships. Lying, cheating, physical and mental abuse,

you name it. Not like their lives will

be a Utopia because one is Black and one is white!

Forgot to mention. Men who need an assortment of women

in their lives should REMAIN UNMARRIED!

I'm assuming this didn't happen in the U.S. If it had

I would ask why the guy didn't have a pre-nuptial

agreement stating in the event of divorce both

parties leave with exactly what they had at the time

of marriage (if no children are involved).

God Bless America! LOL

What would she be doing in his car?

Sounds like he picked up a prostitute and she killed him. Sad story regardless.

Texas is a state which has and enforces it's death penalty. That may be

where this woman is headed!

A man with that kind of money would not be trolling the internet

looking for women! Unless he's awfully hideous looking. Even

then he could have his pick of girls as long as his bank account

is strong. A man like this would be at the most expensive

nightclubs or supper clubs looking for a woman

of quality. Not the internet.

She's tried to talk to him gently and quietly Just TELL the guy, "Baby you STINK!!!"

You're assaulting my nasal passages!

There's a simple explanation for this problem. The man is too good for her!
She SHOULD send him away so that he can find a real woman and also have
happiness in his life. Send the child with him. She is probably a pathetic mother
as well!

The man has done nothing wrong, he left his job to become a house husband
because the wife made more money. In spite of all he does around the house
he still works parttime.

MEN - this is the kind of woman you want to stay away from!!

After she gets into the dating world again and meets a few gigolos
she'll wish she'd held on to this man.

A broken heart equates to extreme sadness after a loss of some kind.
Of course you know the physical heart is not divided into 2 parts.
That would create death.

Set a limit for yourself. Decide what you will or won't do for someone, how much money
you will or won't loan (or give).

Do not feel guilty for telling someone NO when they continue to ask. You've done more
for them than most people so there is no need to beat yourself up.

A couple consists of 2 people. 2 people should be able to accomplish more than the 1
of you.

Do not be taken advantage of. They don't think of you as a great person, they consider
you a fool!

This sounds like a lie.

However,

Your first mistake was giving out personal information to someone you know nothing of. Which I'm sure you're aware
of by now. Learn from your mistake. There are far too many dishonest people, including murders to become so
friendly with someone you met online.

But if you feel you're beeing harrassed notify the police. Online activity is monitored by the police as well. I think some people
are not aware of that.

Be smarter next time. Good luck!

As obsessed with sports as the world is, if this guy is an excellent athlete his career will survive. As long as he remains productive he'll sustain.

Not meaning to be disheartening, but I find it VERY hard to believe he sucked her breast and did NOTHING else!

Men don't work that way Dear. If he or she went to the extent of releasing her breast I'm of the strong opinion

he released something else as well. Plus you said the woman has confessed to being in love with him.

Be careful, from what I've read on this site she may be one of his other wives!

Uncertain how Dangote ranks scholastically, but anytime you amass a personal fortune of over a billion dollars, you are a genius!!

Regarding Farouk Muttallab;

Please don't expect him home any time soon. Matter of fact, go for, never! There's no chance in HELL the U.S. will ever release Muttallab.

Why would they, so he can join back up with his terrorist brotherhood, possibly be successful at his jihad next time? He ain't going back to Nigeria.

If anything Farouk is ironing some guys underwear in prison. But isn't he gay anyway? Thought I read that someplace. His life should be a utopia

now.

Blessing or a Curse? Depends on who you're marrying. If you're marrying Gaddafi, curse!
If you're marrying a man who respects you and treats you well, blessing!

I was 100% on your side with the 2nd guy until you stated you and he are
going to LIE to your friends and family about your ages! Are you kidding?
There's only a 3 year difference. What difference does it make. Or perhaps
it matters in your country, I don't know. But any relationship based on
lies is doomed. Because at some point everyone will know and you'll be
labeled a liar. They'll wonder what other things you have lied about as well.
Keep the relationship, tell the truth about your ages. If its alright with you
and him, it should be alright with the rest of the world.

Maybe Yoruba And Ibo women are the more attractive ones. Nobody wants to look at an
ugly stripper!

The woman is not going to bite you!!!
Just relax and be yourself! If your potential Mom-in-Law sees that you are nervous she'll probably wonder why and maybe
think you have something to hide. So be cool and enjoy the meeting.

He's not the first man this has happened to. He'd better be thankful
he found out before he married 'her' or 'him' whichever.

Well, at least the guy's employed! LOL That's a damn good start to finding a new Lady, my friend!

Explain to your potential employer that it's your wedding day. If they can't understand
that then they're a bunch of a**holes & you probably wouldn't want to work for them anyway.

More than likely it's not you she's really interested in. She wants to hurt her sister and she wants to use you as a tool to do it.

It's also possible the 2 sisters are co-conspiring to test your faithfulness.

A real man can be determined by the way he interacts with his family, especially his children and the manner in which he deals with problems in his life.

If he throws tantrums, cannot positively interact and enjoy his family and children and constantly complains about his job, co-workers; thinks everyone is against him, LADIES RUN FROM THIS 'MAN' or should I say this 'boy.' He would not make a good mate. He is not yet fully developed emotionally.

My question is when are Africans going to stand up in their country like MEN and WOMEN in their OWN country and demand to be treated

as human beings? When are Africans going to make African Americans proud?!

Africans SHOULD be extremely proud of African Americans. A.A's and the struggles they endured and surpassed are the reasons Africans can come

to the U.S. in the first place! If African Americans had not fought, resisted, had dogs and hoses turned on them and in many cases DIED how

welcome do Africans think they'd be in the United States. Africans would have been grouped with American Blacks and made to sit at the back of

the bus, not be allowed in most restaurants, CERTAINLY Africans would not have been privvy to the U.S.'s educational system etc. African

Americans made ALL of that possible for Africans. So why not say 'Thank You' and come to the realization that had it not been for African

American's there would be no YOU in this country!

The funny thing is, most of the men who complain about golddiggers don't have any gold to be dug in the first place! They're just as penniless as the woman, so you're safe fellas!!!