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but she told me she's into a very serious relationship of which i know she's kidding.

but I believe that there is a fundamental difference between my African household and their American one

Is there a common belief that Americans aren't suitable for long-term relationships?

D Donald needs to take his bad hair and sit down.

So vote for the man who promises least, he'll be the least disappointing

@Ezeuche, I see you're a typical traditionalist, and a tone of being a tribalist appears virtually in all your posts. I also notice that whenever someone posted something without mentioning IGBO, you immediately add the word in your next post.

No one is arguing with your sentiment or passion, but trade softly. You might even end up hating other tribes without you knowing it. And as long as these people (AA) are not identifying with your sentiment, there's little you can do. Being an AA who descends from your acclaimed tribe is not a big deal, and identifying oneself with the IGBO tribe is the same thing as identifying with slavery.

To burst your bubble, AA are the most crime prone people on the planet. Saying they should start retracing their root to the IGBO land and not Nigeria is actually a good thing to the rest of other tribes in Nigeria. This will mean more homicide and crime related activity in IGBO land and less worry for Nigerians.

He often compares me saying, "you are very different, such high morals to be American."

Why are some of them like this and what's the best way to treat such people?

Some leave the crucial activity of financial planning to their spouse and run into trouble when there is a breakdown in the relationship.

But sometimes I wonder why the intensity of love and kindness.