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Is that what you call this? "LOW SELF-ESTEEM??" My oh my, some people really still suffer from lack of self control. {sighs and looks down to the next post}You asked for an opinion and this person gave theirs!!!!!!!!! If you don't like what they think don't put yourself in the position of being judged!!!!!!!!! |
Another case of sum1 suffering frm ACUTE LOW SELF-ESTEEM!!*Agreed! What difference does it make what people you will probably never meet in your lifetime think of your appearance ![]() ![]() ?But you'd be considered Ok, at best. I'd maybe rate you higher depending on how drunk and sex starved I am! By African standards you might be ok, by African American standards you'd have a lot of long, lonely nights! Don't be upset with me, You asked!!! |
Question, Are hospitals and nursing homes exempt from the blackout? How is it handled if someone requires life-saving medical equipment in their home? |
Clearly the woman is emotionally unstable. Is this the kind of woman you want in your life? I don't think so. She'd make your life miserable. The best thing for you to do for yourself and for her is to disappear from her life. No calling, no texting, no visiting. And thank God you aren't married to her. This is a little off topic but I was reading about the suicide rate in Nigeria. See the link below. http://odili.net/news/source/2011/jul/24/826.html |
I already spoke to my attorney and he told me all that need to be done. So I just suggest he don't screw up.The man admitted to being married. That should have been the end of it for your 'friend.' He's looking for a way to get his wife and child into the U.S. via a green card. No offense to anyone but I would tell my friend to stay the he.ll away from Nigerian men! Their reputation is far too tarnished, even by their fellow Nigerians. |
what is the fastest way to rise in rank in the Nigerian Armed Forces?Kill everyone ahead of you! |
please how do I go about it.I think it's safe to say no one on this website is a billionaire, so I'd suggest you try asking someone who's actually achieved billionaire status. Go to Dangote's web page or Bill Gates', etc. to see how it's done. |
There are loads of bitter people in the world and they thrive on other people's misery. Instead of offering you constructive advice, they''ll snide and divert the purpose of your post. Such is the nature of retrogressive minds So very true! |
I think you may be a little overly sensitive. 1) He called you the children's 'mum' because that's who you are. Why make a big deal out of it. 2) If he lied about his age, really, at this point, so what. Would you divorce him because he lied about his age? I'm sure you wouldn't so why worry about it. 3) Perhaps the non-communicative sisters are not happy he's married to someone of another race. I can't say for certain because I don't know them. But there is that possibility. A lot of people are uncomfortable with interracial marriages. Fortunately they're not being abusive to you because of the marriage. What you should be asking yourself is why you're uncomforable with posing questions to your own husband about his life. But if he's a good husband and father, let go of your anxieties and enjoy your life together. |
Nice post but look at it this way:Well thought-out post! The fact that we're even discussing comparing an area that doesn't have non-stop electricity IN THE 21ST. CENTURY to the U.S. tells me all I need to know about Nigerian leadership. Keep dreaming dreamers. |
Just as I turned to leave, my 'spidey-sense' started tingling like crazy. I looked at the funny contraption that sat over the card slot with a more critical eye. It blended with the general colour scheme of the machine, I prodded and pulled it, and to my astonishment the thing fell off! I scrutinized it carefully, with no small measure of suspicion, The thing had some funny-looking chips embedded in it, and a port that appeared to connect it to a computer or some other device.This scam was reported in the U.S. about a year ago, maybe longer. |
Not supporting her being beaten but she may be aware that she was driving him up the wall leading to the beatings.How was she driving him up the wall? By working and paying the bills? Raising his child? The only thing wrong this poor woman did was give him a second chance by going back to him. |
do they know how much we will loose economically, socially, psychologically and even politically.Psychologically? Because the parks and night clubs closed early? |
Think I'd be more concerned about being 16 and looking 24. ![]() Get some rest! |
Grace (which she lacks) Ndam sounds like a willful, spoiled child. I'm sure every woman in the pageant felt they should have won. Hopes of winning were the reason for them entering in the first place. but do you know that her remarks are enough to make people start watching the judgments more closely in the future?Or her remarks may also jeopardize her in pageants she may enter in the future. |
Black award shows and Black beauty pageants only exist because Black people were not fairly represented on shows sponsored by Whites. If we had only award shows such as MTV Awards and the Grammys rarely would a Black person even win. That's why Black people branched out and created their own award shows. Anyone who thinks the Grammys or the MTV Awards would fairly recognize talented Black artists is completely missing the point! |
I can't believe the sort of childish, nursery school arguments the muslims on this thread are using to defend their religion. Like "but, but, Richard the Lionheart was a christian and he killed people" or "see the violence in the US, and they're christians". Its really pathetic.I salute you Evil Brain! Very factual post! It's annoying to hear people compare their problems with someone elses as though that makes it okay! Suicide bombings are almost always attributed to those individuals of the Islamic faith. And they proudly proclaim this fact It's not like Islamics are being singled out unfairly. Every lunatic terrorist or jihadist who's ever committed a violent act will state he is representing Islam, so there! |
I'm beginning to think this BET awards is nonsense. . .And why should the MTV and Grammy Awards carry so much weight? Because they're presented by Whites?? You sound like a well-trained House Negress. Anyway, BET award is not a true representation of talent. Oscar, Grammy, MTV are the best.Another ridiculous remark! Why not a true representation? PRACTICALLY EVERYONE ON THE BET AWARDS WAS BLACK! Do we need a White award show to tell us who's good in the Black community?? |
How does one have 5 kids by age 35? crazyThere are many ways. Perhaps there were multiple births involved, twins, triplets; maybe even adoption; he may have married a woman who already had children; he could have inherited children from a deceased relative, etc. Only guessing since we don't know the specifics. |
A lot of parents are of the mindset, they don't want their children to have to struggle or work hard as the parents themselves had to. I believe working builds character in an individual and makes them appreciative of what they've gained. When we give our children everything their hearts desire they come to not appreciate those things because they acquired them so easily. Another poster mentioned Umar Farouk Abdulmuttallab and he's an excellent example. Parents do want to share their achievements with their children, but it leaves nothing for the child to strive for. |
Because Nigeria is living in the shadows of another country (the United States 90% of the time) in almost all areas of life.This is a first! I've never heard of one country blaming another for their building designs. ![]() They're certainly better designs in other countries which could have been copied, so clearly many Nigerians just have bad taste. |
YES!I am getting married to one and he is God sent to moi, i call him MY KING!!!Your statement made me smile. Love, Peace and Happiness throughout your lives!! God Bless!! |
Wouldn't her best friend have seen her husband before? Why go to an event to ogle the man? This story sounds weird! |
Guy I will go back to naija to get a wife but I must look here first.Interesting choice of words; "I MUST look here first." Sounds as though you're anticipating something. A Green Card, perhaps? So you want a virtuous woman who'll allow you to perform your 419 scam. Good luck with that, Guy. ![]() |
Since Mercy is marrying a Prince you'd think he would have flown someone to his country to dress his lady love. He, I assume, can afford to have dressmakers from all over the world cater to his fiance's every whim, so why the trip to the U.S? I'd expected Vera Wang, designer to the Stars, but this dress store looks like any I've seen in the U.S., nothing special about it. I'll bet, being foreigners, they paid a ridiculous price for a sub-par dress just so she can have the prestige of saying she bought her wedding dress in the United States. Probably could have fedhis whole country for what he spent on a dress! She went through alot of trouble to look like a HO so the least you guys could do is applaud her. I agree. |
To the Military men and other uniform personnel that see their position as an opportunity to go against civil order, they should know they are part and parcel of the society at large. The best of discipline is expected of them at this period.Very well stated! Kudos! |
You can hold your chin up and get the respect you deserve as a human being in your own country.You have to be joking!! Clearly you haven't picked up a Nigerian newspaper in the last 30 years. |
i am a military officerYou're a military officer and you're appealing to people on an internet blog for advice? I'd suggest you speak to your superiors, people you trust, for sound advice. |
Do you possess the "High Standard" that you want your future spouse to have. A relationship without a compromise is an utopian relationship.Exactly. He never explained why it is mandatory for him to marry someone from another country. And how is it he of marrying age, yet knows no one compatible from his own country? Does he feel no one from his country is his equal now that he's in the West? |
Alas! now I'm in yankee and I hardly meet a girl who does not drink goes to wild party and sex is just a normal way of life.I know more people in the U.S. who DON'T go to wild parties than people who do, so I don't know where you're finding your women. The key to finding a quality woman is to go to places OF quality. Some people will go to bars or clubs, maybe even meet someone standing on the bus stop and get involved with them, then complain because they don't meet his so called standards. No one said you had to marry someone from the Western part of the world! Did they? So go back to your country and find a wife! Problem solved! |
Are the two women the same age? Might not be fair to make a comparison, but Omotola looks like she could be Genevieve's Mother. |

