Romance / Re: Is There Anything Wrong In Keeping Male Friends As A Lady In A Relationship? by Thislifee: 10:47am On Feb 21 |
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Romance / Re: Is There Anything Wrong In Keeping Male Friends As A Lady In A Relationship? by Thislifee: 5:39pm On Feb 20 |
Gracelander: I just had to ask this question because it's been causing issues between me and my guy. He doesn't seem comfortable at all with me having male friends and he throws tantrums each time I visit my bestie. He even tells me to my face that he doesn't trust me, so he scrutinize every move I make.
Each time I answer calls from male friends with him around it leads to him nagging about how much I don't respect him and it's not as if I talk dirty or tell them that I love them, just friendly conversations. We had a slight issue last night cos I came over to see him and stay for a week before leaving, I didnt warm the food out of anger and it got spoilt this morning. When I told him about the food he told me that it was supposed to be our breakfast so that means no food this morning.
I had to chat one of my friends and he agreed to take me out, I dressed up and left the house and he sent me a message not to return to his house. Did I do something wrong? You guy is a simp for condoning you answering a male call in his presence and going to a bestie or even having a bestie at all! If it's me, I would Bleep your pussy to my satisfaction and dump you because you belong to the street! Street dog. We all know that besties are the main lover that you sex and just deceiving your guy. Girl like you required to be poured Concentrated H2S04 or HCL acid! When am with you and you answer a male call that's not business related,I would beat the hell out of you! 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Female Unizik Student Baths Colleague With Hot Water Over Hostel Cleaning Graphi by Thislifee: 11:35pm On Feb 19 |
Konquest:
As a medical doc, that should be easy for you because of your exposure to aspects of human psychology.
You can get a good book on Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman. That's one of the many books I have in my home library.
Emotional Intelligence would enable a person to emphathize with people, deal with anger situations, and understand why people react in certain ways due to external stimuli or influences. In the meantime, you can check online at PDFDRIVE for a free PDF copy of the book to read on your mobile device before buying the hardcopy version online or from a bookstore. Just type in the book title in the PDFDRIVE Website's search bar.
All the best.
Honestly the other day at work, I had a nagging patient and I angrily told her to go home and nag her husband not me! It was my colleague that signalled me to calm down. I would read this book if it would help me to work on my violent anger issues. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Female Unizik Student Baths Colleague With Hot Water Over Hostel Cleaning Graphi by Thislifee: 10:43pm On Feb 19 |
Konquest:
Acid and anger management. That's deep, really deep.
Honestly, I am really working hard on how to control my anger. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Gunmen Kidnap Corpse & Mourners In Enugu, Demand ₦50M Ransom by Thislifee: 9:53pm On Feb 19 |
OLAADEGBU:
SaharaReporters Enugu has always been safe oh. Peter mbah should ask former governor ugwuanyi how he handled security. As of 2022, I drove from Benin( I left Benin by 9pm to Enugu New Haven with my GlK Mercedes and I wasn't even scared when even passing 9th mile, after 9th mile, I drove with high speed all through the night till I reached my friend's residence at New haven Enugu by 3am. Everywhere was safe though I was in a very high speed because of upper iweka Onitsha. After giving my friend his packages I wanted to deliver, I took off by 4am to UNN Nsukka to see my younger brother because he wasn't feeling fine then and his department pharmacy was currently writing exam. I reached UNN first gate by about 6am and I waited for the security men to open gate and their wahala. Everywhere was safe in Enugu and I should have reached UNN by even 5:30am just that army check point kept on stopping me many from Enugu to Nsukka. |
Fashion / Re: Girl Who Stands At 6ft2inches Shares What Life Is Like For Her (pics/video) by Thislifee: 9:09pm On Feb 19 |
Mordson:
You go explain tire because no evidence. yeah |
Fashion / Re: Girl Who Stands At 6ft2inches Shares What Life Is Like For Her (pics/video) by Thislifee: 4:21pm On Feb 19 |
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Politics / Re: Abuja DISCO Issues Notice Of Disconnection To Presidential Villa, 85 MDAs by Thislifee: 4:20pm On Feb 19 |
Rejoice28: Friends Jesus Christ loves y'all and he want you to accept him as your personal lord and saviour by giving your life to Christ, believing in him and repenting of your sins.remember tomorrow might be too late. Shalom Rejoice tell God to give Tinubu and shettima a painful death! |
Politics / Re: Abuja DISCO Issues Notice Of Disconnection To Presidential Villa, 85 MDAs by Thislifee: 4:15pm On Feb 19 |
fergie001:
The Abuja Electricity Distribution PLC is constrained to do this publication with the details of Government, Ministries, Departments and Agencies with long outstanding unpaid bills for services rendered to them through the provision of electricity supply in that our previous attempts to make them honour their obligations have not achieved the desired results.
The relevant MDAs are hereby given notice that the AEDC shall after the expiration of 10 days from the date of this publication, that is, after Wednesday, 28th February, 2024, embark on the disconnection of our services to them until they discharge their obligations to us by paying their debts
Nos 12 & 38 - The Presidential Villa and the Ministry of Power. Strategies to thwart our thinking so the money can be allocated and it would be approved so they can settle disco and embezzle the rest. Most of us are all learned, we are graduates of universities. Former minister of power, God would give Fashola a painful death! |
Politics / Re: ICT Centre Hon Dozie Nwankwo Of APGA Built In Anambra State(photos) by Thislifee: 3:50pm On Feb 19 |
Anambra1stSonTV: Anambra State governor, Prof. Charles Soludo on Commissioned the Dozie Nwankwo Centre for Development & ICT as well as the constituency office of Hon. Ferdinand Dozie Nwankwo, member representing Dunukofia/Njikoka/Anaocha Federal Constituency in Enugwu Ukwu, Njikoka Local government area. Tony nwoye is a crook nah, he just won mistakenly using labour party platform. He would be removed next election because am contesting too! |
Politics / Re: If Another Election Comes, I'll Still Vote Tinubu – Seyi Law by Thislifee: 6:33am On Feb 19 |
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Crime / Re: Female Unizik Student Baths Colleague With Hot Water Over Hostel Cleaning Graphi by Thislifee: 5:55am On Feb 19 |
UyaiIncomparabl:
You are a walking disaster and have a tendency to be very acrimonious. Have you grown to be forgiving now and less acrimonious? I suppose not, yes? Somehow, snippets of characters still stay in people even after they grow. All it takes is for someone to walk your path and you will strike. Very mean and cold-hearted. For you to have sat down to concoct such activities, your heart has long been doused with charcoal. You even contemplated giving her an overdose of drugs/injections. 😱
She slapped you and you thought the best retaliation was to douse her with acid? What happened to repaying her with a slap or just fighting it out with her physically? Do you know what it means to live with a malformation especially one from a corrosive substance like acid? Even though this incident happened a long time ago, it scares the hell out of me. I would avoid you by miles if I knew you away from the cover of this forum.
I am shivering.. Actually she is so pretty that I think she had the temerity to slap me because of her beauty so I bought a half gallon of acid to bath her face and entire body so as to wipe off that beauty. I didn't wanted to slap her back in public because it's somehow fighting with a woman. All these are all pasts and I am not exaggerating. I later fell in love with her after her apologies. I think she later fell in love too exactly the reason she came to my room one certain day and seduced me for sex, it was mutual too.When I became a doctor, I really wanted to marry her just that she was forced into marriage by her mum to marry her an older man because of money. We are still communicating till now but I have nothing to do with a married woman but I wished I married her. I am few years to clock 30 years and as a medical doctor I have found out that wife materials are obsolete and have gone extinct. Am not sure I would eventually marry any woman again but I would have been a happy man if I married her. I wished I married her because I later fell deeply in love with her, I love it when a lady apologizes when she is wrong. She still loves me up till now because she frequently calls me to tell me everything and the way she gists me, it's obvious she is still in love with me. The husband is so wealthy and old but am the one she loves. Am a very hardened person who believes in revenge alot but apology melts my heart so much, apology with restitution not just apology. If one doesn't apologize or we both reconcile then know that I must surely revenge. |
Crime / Re: Female Unizik Student Baths Colleague With Hot Water Over Hostel Cleaning Graphi by Thislifee: 7:41pm On Feb 18 |
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Because Na Where Blogger Dey Work, Na Only That Area, Him Dey See Him Food Take Chop. Naso my guy..If not that this is a faceless forum and I don't want my name revealed I would have sent you money now just for drinks. You can drop your account number, I would use POS to send it tomorrow so as to hide my identity. |
Crime / Re: Female Unizik Student Baths Colleague With Hot Water Over Hostel Cleaning Graphi by Thislifee: 7:35pm On Feb 18 |
CharleyBright:
Then the writer of the story should call it school hostel. Thats where the confusion lies. If they writer says it is school hostel, it isn't wrong if anyone ask what is a male doing being female hostel president? The writer was contradictory but you should use your cognitive ability to discern it. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Female Unizik Student Baths Colleague With Hot Water Over Hostel Cleaning Graphi by Thislifee: 7:23pm On Feb 18 |
Kajaard:
You are plain dumb. The person who wrote the story likely made a mistake and said school hostel but your dull brain could not pick it.
Last response to you. Dunderhead. Exactly what I was telling him that I know that lodge, I know the place. |
Crime / Re: Female Unizik Student Baths Colleague With Hot Water Over Hostel Cleaning Graphi by Thislifee: 7:22pm On Feb 18 |
CharleyBright:
Calm down. Go and read it again. The story says:
The disagreement between both students was said to have started over sanitation on school hostel where both of them habited, where Mark was said to be the hostel president.
How can the story say school campus? Do male and female live together in school campus such that a Male is president of the hostel![](/faces/huh.png)
I know that lodge at unizik ifite off campus after you leave that small gate after destiny pot. It's an off-campus lodge, people call off-campus lodge student hostel. |
Crime / Re: Female Unizik Student Baths Colleague With Hot Water Over Hostel Cleaning Graphi by Thislifee: 7:21pm On Feb 18 |
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Do You Know Why, We Deal More On Terrible Bad News Publication why? |
Crime / Re: Female Unizik Student Baths Colleague With Hot Water Over Hostel Cleaning Graphi by Thislifee: 6:54pm On Feb 18 |
vickydevoka:
Woman naturally no send man. If na me I must revenge. Person been break bottle for my head that year. After 2 years I break 3 bottles as revenge.
That's the spirit! Learn to revenge! |
Crime / Re: Female Unizik Student Baths Colleague With Hot Water Over Hostel Cleaning Graphi by Thislifee: 6:53pm On Feb 18 |
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Do You Know About Me Before Now? I know you from Nairaland here, I do see your bad news posts. |
Crime / Re: Female Unizik Student Baths Colleague With Hot Water Over Hostel Cleaning Graphi by Thislifee: 6:48pm On Feb 18 |
Rejoice28: She is in my department. People should always learn how to subdue their anger.
Friends Jesus Christ loves y'all and he want you to accept him as your personal lord and saviour by giving your life to Christ, believing in him and repenting of your sins.remember tomorrow might be too late. Shalom Tell her that if I was the guy I would pour her acid, I nearly poured a girl acid in my lodge then at 500 level for slapping me on the heat of a discussion. I bought the acid and was ready to pour her that at night but suddenly she came around 4pm or so to apologize to me then for insulting me last few months because I kept malice with her. The apology just weaked me because I took my hard earned money to buy this acid and I wanted to do it in a way that nobody would notice. We medical students are the deadliest if we want to deal with someone, I wanted to earlier give her overdose injections or medicine but since we were keeping malice then it wasn't possible. She apologized that evening. I forgave her and poured the acid away later she started giving me sex on a steady. After my graduation and becoming a medical doctor, she already got married, if not I wanted to marry her. See how I fell in love with her, the person I once hated. People should learn to control their anger. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Female Unizik Student Baths Colleague With Hot Water Over Hostel Cleaning Graphi by Thislifee: 6:36pm On Feb 18 |
Namaster: Why is a man the President of a female hostel? Didn't you went to school ![](/faces/huh.png) ? In the university there are off-campus lodges which can be called hostel too. There is always a lodge president. I was my lodge president at my own time. I was nearly stabbed one day due to light fee. Since then, I am always ready to fight anytime I want to collect light fee, security and sanitation fee. I do carry my own cutlass so you can see it too! 2 Likes |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Submit Your Phone Everyday Before Resuming To Work by Thislifee: 12:06pm On Feb 17 |
dontrulee: My phone, you can't take away from me. For I trade even in the presence and the front of my consultants when I was a junior doctor. My phone is my life and I press it however and whenever I want. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) please how old are you? |
Properties / Re: Cement Price Surges To N15,000 In Abuja by Thislifee: 7:32pm On Feb 16 |
Watianoengineer: Those shouting Peter Obi up and down as if he has magic wand what would Obi had done differently? Peter Obi that failed in Anambra is who they are comparing with a man that set the template for modern Lagos. Even if the price of cement is 50k, we will continue to pray for and support the renewed hope agenda of President Tinubu Your mother is a fool! Agbadorian! Talking like 2 piles of pussies ! 1 Like |
Health / Re: How To Survive The Current Hot Weather In Nigeria by Thislifee: 4:49pm On Feb 16 |
Wendyzara: More often than not, we think heat has to be extreme (100°) before it can cause sickness, but all it needs is a temperature as high as 40°C. To stay safe in times like this, it is advisable to do the following:
1. STAY HYDRATED: Staying hydrated in hot weather is paramount to staying healthy. Drink at least three litres of water daily to hydrate yourself, as fluid leaves your body in the form of sweat and must be replaced to keep yourself healthy. An oral rehydration solution (ORS) can also be taken. To achieve this, dissolve six level teaspoons of sugar and 1/2 level teaspoon of salt in 1 litre of clean water if no premade ORS is available.
Breastfeed infants to rehydrate them. Breastfeeding mothers are encouraged to also drink water frequently to stay hydrated. Ensure you carry along a water bottle and a small towel, so you can hydrate and cool down by placing a wet towel on your neck.
2. Wear light clothing
Overdressing in the heat can make you hot faster; choose light or loose cotton clothes to help reduce heat rashes and absorb sweating. Cotton bed sheets are also recommended over non-breathable materials.
Taking immediate steps to cool the body of your infant is critical to avert heat-related illnesses. Infants cannot express themselves when they are hot; they resort to crying. It would be best if you understood when to reduce their clothing and give them water to hydrate them.
It is advisable not to place the fan directly in the face of the infant or immerse them in cold water; rather, wear lighter clothes during hot weather. Choosing appropriate clothing is essential to reducing heat. A dark cloth would increase the heat; hence, white, coloured and light clothing are advisable to reduce the heat.
3. Take cold baths
For adults, a cold bath in hot weather would help reduce blood flow to the skin and, in turn, simmer down body temperature. Do not keep track of how many times you shower during extremely hot days, especially when you are sweating more than normal. Not only does a cold bath keep the body cool, but it also keeps you fresh and reduces the smell.
In conclusion, with about 200 million people in Nigeria, we are highly dependent on fossil fuels, one of the major drivers of climate change. Coping with hot weather requires proactive measures to stay cool and healthy. I sleep naked. 2 Likes |
Health / Re: Help! My Life Is Being Ruined At The Moment by Thislifee: 3:45pm On Feb 16 |
Thinktwiceb4: Good evening all, pls someone should me because I can't think straight again since morning. I met a girl month ago, she has been on neck to have s*x with her for the past month but I always declined, at times I do reach the point but I always stop, but today's own was different cus I couldn't hold it any longer. Though it was not upto 2 minutes sex before I realized that the economy is not smiling but everything was inside already. After the s*x I contacted some people on what she can take, they recommended beecham and teem solar including the said girl, now she is feeling lizzy. Pls I don't know what to do, I can't think straight at the moment.
This is my first time having sex and it will be the last for now I never wanted to blow my cover here. Well, I am a medical doctor. See Since you both had sex today, give her postinor 2 medicine and she won't get pregnant at all even if you had released your sperm inside her. During my university days, I did this a lot because Nursing girls love quicky. since it hasn't exceeded 48 hours aftermaths sex, give her postinor2. Sex is a beautiful thing stop feeling remorseful just that next time use a condom because of STDS. Go for test because of STDS but do H.I V test by next 3-6 months so if the virus can leave the windows period and show if you truly have it. I can't risk having sex without condom, that's why condom is always in my wallet! I had sex this morning but I used condom too. Kiss condom is just #300. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Education / Re: I Am Too Old To Still Be In The University by Thislifee: 11:27am On Feb 16 |
Greatlee54: Life is not a competition, I graduated at 31 as an engineer with a first class but couldn't get employment because of age, connection,and. the discrimination you suffer when you have a first class in Nigerian companies. Medicine was my dream course but life isn't fair, today iam very successful even without working for any organization. Believe in yourself. please tell us your stories, I have a magazine section I publish inspirational stuffs like this. |
Crime / Re: Man Knocked Down While Escaping With Woman’s Foodstuffs In FCT by Thislifee: 10:48am On Feb 16 |
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Politics / Re: Fubara: Why Obedients Support Fubara by Thislifee: 5:53am On Feb 16 |
dettolgel:
Those agbadorians are psychiatric cases you can't redeem them. I don't want to traumatised myself by engaging them. I really love insulting this agbadorians, it gives me blood. If I tell you my other 9 monikers, you would understand that I have been giving it to them bumper to bumper. Hunger would finish this agbadorians. |
Forum Games / Re: UK, Japan Economies Slip Into Recession by Thislifee: 6:30pm On Feb 15 |
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Crime / Re: Keke Operator Dies In Fight Over ₦400 Levy by Thislifee: 6:13pm On Feb 15 |
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Crime / Re: Keke Operator Dies In Fight Over ₦400 Levy by Thislifee: 6:12pm On Feb 15 |
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Politics / Re: Sowore: The Revolution They Are Running From Is About To Happen by Thislifee: 6:10pm On Feb 15 |
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