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Lmao. zeta in wonderland.

Happy New year everyone, though we crossed 7hrs ago.

Happy new year to everyone, i wish you all a wonderful new year filled with all your good heart desires. Amen.

lol,i forgot she loves em boyz. lol. , the way her eyes sparks with the love signs whenever she sees a hot guy, is also funny. trust, her big time rival Mandy, is always there to spice things up with the fierce competition.

iice:
@Thonia,
I used to watch totally spies lol. . .(sometime ago)
Chloe is ma favorite. . .she just cracks me up
But they make a pretty good team together with Jerry? (forgot his name)

Thats cool, Clover is also my favorite of the group, she's so funny especially her over excitement whenever the word ''shopping'' is mentioned. lol.
Yea jerry is the name of their Head.

Once in a month.

hmmmmm

That video is tight, couldn't help downloading it. its so funny.

General Ringtone is Irreplaceable ( Spanish Version) by Beyonce.

Its still prison break for me, never taken too much interest in 24.

Lynette.

Friends,Seinfeld,Ugly Betty and thats so Raven. those are my all time favorite anytime any day.

Ok this is a tough one, i like most of the oldies, but my current would be Totally Spies on Disney channel Asia, i just love those three girls.

[quote author=top_kin link=topic=102676.msg1804686#msg1804686 date=1198962883]Which do u prefer? 24, Brison Break or Lost?[b] These movies [/b]av all taken over me. I don't sleep again, _{Abeg wetin I go do??}

But I'll stick with my 24 anyday, anytime. Jack Bauer is the man!!![/quote]Well if your referring to prison break then, Its Prison Break for me. And i never thought they were movies, or are they movies or series?

English1:
He left his wife because he dreamt she was a witch? Man, he needs medical help.

michelin89:
Your friend was looking for an excuse to quit.

The woman is lucky to have gotten rid of a man like that.

If we can call him man sef!

Exactly my thoughts.

4 children, by God's grace.

Because the sacred institution of marriage is taken for granted these days. we meet, ohhh we are in love, lets get married. some days,weeks,months or years later. i don't love you anymore and there are some problems, lets get divorced.

thats the way most people see marriages these days. they only look at the wedding, but don't see whats beyond the wedding. they don't seem to understand the vows you make at the altar, is like taking an oath. if you know you are not ready to take that oath of for better or worse till death do us part, then don't get married at all.

The western culture takes no blame at all, because its an individual perception of things. nothing was forced on anyone. its a matter of choice to either follow others or you stand by your values.

Its simple, if your not ready to handle the A,B,C and trouble that comes with marriage and you know your a quitter, then don't get married at all.

odiaseo:
I believe it also depends on the upbringing of the lady not only whether she's in Nigeria or stationed abroad. I can understand why guys perfer to go back to Nigeria to get a bride having lived in the UK for a while. Except the guy is really desperate to get papers by marrying a foreigner, his preference is always to get a decent Nigerian girl. Even those that marry for papers end up marrying a Nigerian after a while.

The culture and lifestyle abroad is totally different from home. When you think about how you want your children to be brought up, the obvious option is to give them an identity, morals, values and a sense of family life. The economic situation in Nigeria has made veryone desperate, not just the ladies alone, so we shouldn't blame any girl for being desperate. Who doesn't want a better life. We are partly responsible for their behaviours because we give people back home the wrong impression about life here. Except you're a yahoo boy, life is hard and the hard currency is hard to make.

My advice is to prayerfully seek a girl that is well brought up regardless of where she is naija or abroad. A desperate girl that is well brought up in Nigeria would realise the situation when she comes abroad and adjust accordingly. A selfish, unsupporting girl will pretend of course and ruin you when she comes here.

Having said that, you can find decent Nigerians abroad to marry, the only thing is that they may not be able to cook the egusi and ogbono the way you like it . You can find out 7 Reasons why I married my wife here http://www.peleodiase.com/blog/wife-marriage

Word, very reasonable.

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It doesn't matter where the girl is based, Nigeria or Abroad. its the upbringing, character and values she possesses that matters.

i really don't know. different strokes for different folks.

akeye:
God wuld not allow it happen

Amen, because that would be a really difficult one to decide.

Yep, being a first child comes with a lot of responsibilities, which one is bound to face and different times in life.

Never been and never would be, its just so, ewwwwwhhh. .
funny pic, though.

That can't be an option, instead i wouldn't get married to such a man, cus its obvious he has security and trust issues i would not want to deal with.

Then it wouldn't be a secret again.

i would get back with the answer.

It might be good sometimes but not always the best option. i heard of a woman who killed herself because her husband wouldn't talk for days to her, and she had serious problems, so she committed suicide. you just have to know who and the situation your dealing with before carrying out your silent treatment. some people can't handle it.

No, am not ready to handle the A, B, C and D trouble that comes with it.

Look, am not going to judge anyone. the catholic priest was involved in something very wrong, yes i know it. but the way the poster emphasized the ''Catholic Priest'' is very uncalled for, like he has some biasness towards the catholic priests or something. its clear the topic is full of hidden animosity. so you can go ahead and say whatever you wanna say, i don't care, as long as i have given my opinion.

angelq:
She is still acting like a baby.
its only a matter of time she will come to know that there issues one should not joke with.

I second that. but may i add, hope its not too late then.

So? don't pastors do it also. whats the fuss . the fact he's a priest doesn't make him perfect.

If the news is true, then am happy for them, they have come a long way together and deserve to be together.