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she has a point there, the man knew about her job and kind of person she is before getting married to her, so why is he complaining. if she had started the job after she got married to him then it would be a different case.

I personally would learn how to balance the two. but i certainly would not want a job whereby i travel around a lot or work late hours and don't get to spend a lot of time around my family or my kids especially.

Of course the money, i need to have the money to take care of the children. ain't bringing any child to this world to suffer.

If that person is your fiance or fiancee and you already agreed to marry him/her, then trust should not be an issue. because agreeing to marry someone is almost the same thing as saying i trust you, accept you and am ready to be with you and by your side always.

thats why is always good to really get to know the real person your getting married, but sometimes this might not be the case because people pretend a lot, especially when they want something. thats when grace of God comes in, committing it into his Wonderful hands is also important.

go and commit suicide now, because of a girl who is there having her fun.

she doesn't want you, so what has the world ended, abeg move on with your life jare.

First of all, ask her what she was doing being a member of a group like that, if she did not want other options.

How's he too old. he's just 6 years your senior.

i don't see a problem with that, except your looking for a guy who is just a year older than you.

He should have been seriously beaten up and sent to the cell to spend some time with his friends. He goat.
but the wife shouldn't have gone to his office, i mean family matters are private issues and should be sorted at home.

Nautillus:
there's nothing like "BEST" help. If you can be of good use to her other than "rollin in the hay"

Then do it _{and stop with the silly questions}

I second that.

@msanda

Blah blah blah. whatever.

AM not against hooking up and dating. but the way these peeps go about it is so funny, they make it look like looking for wife or partner is such a big joke.

I came across these pictures online from this site http://lindaikeji..com/

Please what do you guys think of this couple, do we call this love again?

sometimes the posts i see on Nairaland, makes me laugh.

you guys seem to think Nairaland is a place, where they sell wives or you can come online and just say i need this and it just happens. what f*****up mentality.

I see nothing wrong in spending on your guy once in a while. but it should be a guy who is totally worth it, not some jerk.

14years RELATIONSHIP not marriage . you get time and strength ohhhh.
why won't your boyfriend womanize when he knows he's got a dummy who would bear every shit that is thrown her way. wakeup from your slumber and move on.

If the guy has not made up his mind about you for the last 13 years, trust me he is not gonna do so. so stop wasting your time on someone who is not worth it.

No hard feelings just the truth.

For her to ask you to help her ex shows that she still got feeling for the guy. just be careful.
but i suggest if you have the ability to help him financially, you can do so and forget that his your girlfriend's ex.
just see it as helping a fellow human being.

I would go with Pierce any day, he's so goodlooking and he beats the rest of the james bond guys  hands down.

Both are very wrong. so there is none like which is worst. if anyone knows they can't handle the responsibility of having a child and taking care of it. then they should close their bloody legs up.

Distraction from the daily hustle and bustle.

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I enjoy reading a few nice interesting threads and replies.
And also enjoy how a lot of peeps make a fool of themselves thinking they cool.

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I have not seen anyone dat deserves to carry the title, Nairaland is full of a bunch of fake asses.

I don't like any other form of piercing, except the one i got on my ears as a baby, and don't think i can get any other one.

As much as i want to be lenient and tell you to give her a chance, i would also tell you to weigh the other side of it.

she left you for no reason because of someone else. so whats the probability she won't do it again,if a new situation arises.

zheroes:
she isnt your girlfriend. she is a call girl

Exactly.

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She's a fake girl, and as a poster said above, thank God your alive, cus if she can run away with your certificate, then she can kill you. contact your university, i believe you can still retrieve another copy.

Pepper Spray and pocket knife.

Nice style, but i prefer the first style, really classy and sexy.

I heard someone saying there should be freedom of dress code. there is a difference between using freedom in the right way and using freedom wrongly.

some of those girls take it over board, i won't be surprised if they start wearing only bikinis to class.

i don't blame the university for taking such a drastic step. a university is a place where students are meant to come and learn, dress anyhow you want to, but please do not dress like your going to a nightclub.

you try wearing party wears to classes here, they would look at you like you have gone mad.

No, can't do it.

Love indeed.

aisha2:
Its not so good to give your man so much attention that he starts avioding you. Jealousy itself can kill a relationship, find other areas of interest that will take your mind off your many suspicons. Let him do more of the calling, if he decides to be with another woman, its his loss not yours, please remember that no man should see you as a desperado. Believe me, I have been through these and more, even if you loose your man don't loose your self esteem and self worth, but you wont loose him, you just need to give hime some space and you need space for yourself. Take care of yourself, Love yourself please, you are a specila person, don't loose your self cause of any man.

opokonwa:
Find another distraction.

Consider other proposals.

Take the courage to take charge of your life before pain teaches you to

No man (or woman) is worth killing oneself for.

And frankly, I think you were beginning to suffocate him with attention and suspicion.


If he is your man, he will come back and by then the shakara will be yours.

Right now, you need to find yourself other people or find me

Word with a capital W

I would never go through any diabolic means to get a child.

Too Numerous, but it would be songs by Celine Dion, Westlife, Backstreet Boyz, Kci and jojo, Savage Garden, Ne yo, The corrs, LIonel Richie, and some other artist i can't really remember.