₦airaland Forum

raumdeuter:
Quote part of the constitution that says age of consent was reduced from 18 because I know some Senators who openly married girls under 18

raumdeuter:
Pls provide evidence of this

seunfly:
Any Ilorin based person from 1998 to early 2000s know the pastor and Busola had a fling, if she had came up in that aspect to questions the pastors moral, it would have been understable and we will judge or question the pastor for that. You can't bring in criminality into moral stuff. Court can't condem pastor for having consensual affairs with another women, his congregations are supposed to do that. The pastor was the bubbling guy in Ilorin and every women and teenage girls want to have something with him. Infact till today, girls are always looking for ways to do things with him.
She lost credibility when she changed the story to rape, when their are many people that knows her story. she was just one of those girls who had things with him and only God knows why she chose to bring it up now and in this narrative, many said her husband got to know and she needed a solid story to cover her track just to save her marriage while others said it was a pay back. Which ever way, the truth is in the open, it does not favour either party and both had alot to loose from the truth and non wants people to know the real truth.

raumdeuter:
USA defined minor in their law as someone under 18, what is the definition of minor according to Nigerian and Kwara state laws

echibuogwu:
She has no concrete evidence, she’s even lucky she was told to pay 1m and not more.

seunfly:
But they got evidence and did it in a proper way, her actions from the begginging shown she was not interested in any justice but to create embarrassment to the man.

She really does not has any case and the little she might have has been distroyed by her own deed.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Yea if the op swallows bad vibe and eventually off himself, will that be better? His wellbeing should b safe guarded first. What kinda enemy of progress and pulling down is that? Kai! Imagine from 8 yrs old fa.

etiosa97:
Bro which kind of depression would make her keep acting like that. Deep down I do know she's depressed because sometimes she could stay in one position for a long time thinking.. And the cause of thinking is simply because she's broke sometimes or she don't make much profit from her business. But i have given her a lot. A whole lot. Since 2016 when i was just 17 till this year I could have given her 2-3 m.. This is not an exaggeration. I know the amount is quite much considering my age but I've been a hustler for a long time and I just want to change my mom situation but she seems adamant

AwkaetitiBabe:
Did you read what he wrote there? The earlier we stop tolerating nonsense, the better.

merahki:

You contradicted yourself a lot in your post Sir
Do you even care about the poster?

baby124:
Lmao. Don’t mind the OP. He has been given snake in a monkey shadow style, so he’s confused as usual. Men are so gullible though. Smh. Only a useless player will try to justify this mad behavior.

baby124:
She broke her celibacy for him, she would have had unprotected sex with him if her conscience was clear. She was already calling him fiancé, getting him opportunities and planning traditional marriage with him. She knew his ways were not pure, she had done her research. OP needs serious cane. Smh. What a yeye man.

At no point do I advocate unprotected sex. But they had come far enough that if she didn’t have reservations she would have asked for a test and gbensh him unprotected

baby124:
Is this a joke? She blame the wife when the wife does not even know she exists? What the wife does with her family and, how she chooses to expose her family on social media is solely the wife’s business. She is a lunatic to even bring the wife into this. She should have faced OP squarely and insulted him! Not his wife! She was trying to destroy the marriage! If OP’s wife was like her, the marriage would have ended and that is what she was counting on.

She definitely knew OP was married! Collecting his laptop to work with was to gather more evidence. She has been scheming all this since she knew. She purposely did not have unprotected sex with OP because she knew he was a questionable guy and probably most of his gist did not gel well.

I do t believe in all that revelation nonsense. FBI de play where I de. If you are married I will catch you and play you well when I was single.

FreemanTJ:
Thank you for pointing that out. The gf is now the bad person because she isnt the married one. As women they really dont know what they're capable of until they're in someone else's position. She could have forgiven me. Kept quiet about it and insisted I divorced my wife which I was planning to do anyway.
Instead she reached out to my wife, asked for forgiveness and asked her to fix her marriage. At that moment it may seem unreasonable but if I choose to stay in my marriage I think she triggered it.

baby124:
That she stole his wedding pictures, opened a profile on Instagram and started stalking the wife till OP put his child’s picture up? Even blaming the innocent woman who doesn’t know what this OP is up to for not putting up her family picture to warn *girls* that he is married? That girlfriend is completely crazy!!! She has known from the get go that OP was married. She was playing along and looking for proof. When girl say they dream about this and that, they have seen evidence and just want you to admit. Her dream was too exact and vivid to be a revelation! Trust me!

FreemanTJ:
To be honest I have no feelings for her. There's no guarantee we would both be happy in the marriage. The other lady may be dramatic but I dont blame her in any way.

baby124:
The idea not to live together to her own understanding and what you made your wife believe is because of distance! You never even gave that relationship a chance because you felt *trapped*. I know you did not want that pregnancy or to get married at this time which is the grudge you are carrying against your wife! I advise you to forgive yourself, forgive her and try to make it work. Stop fighting everyone because you are the one that did the gbenshing and put the baby there. So, obviously, you liked her a lot at some point.

One thing that struck me is your girlfriends statement that the child looked like you. Which you then noticed!!! Were you at any point disputing paternity and, was that one of the stories you told madam girlfriend to get in her pants? You are a funny guy. You can bond and fall in love over chess but can’t love your own wife because she tied you down.

Your wife must be an angel to even rate you after all your bullshit behavior. Just look at the lunatic behavior your so called girlfriend displayed after finding out you were married? Compare that with your wife after all you have done to her You sure your girlfriend is really an angel? LOL