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Warn the boy with a Stern voice and angry face not to dare treat your son that way again.
Report him to his father and let him check him.

If I see him do that again......I'mma smack him real bad(my opinion).

The prayers are done one-on-one.Men seek the prayers codedly.Call it the male ego if you like.

Zainab20198:
I recently found out my husband of 5 years has been cheating on me , he accidentally left his Facebook account open on my laptop and I read everything. He told this girl he loves her and want to spend the rest of his life with her, I confronted him and his side of things is I have been pushing him away to care for our very high needs 2 years old triplets sons and my sons needs constant attention , it’s very tiring working , caring for the kids and keeping the house clean with no house help. I know I have my faults , and all my energy goes into the kids and trying to keep the households running , so there isn’t much left at the end of day. I’m always tired and once the kids are sleeping I’m far to tired to do anything ... like sex. He knows all this yet I’m at fault. I feel heart broken , I try to talk to him and he just blames me , even if I’m in wrong , how is cheating justified by what I have done ? I don’t know what to do ?

You are not to blame for the cheating.
However,you indulged your husband too much by acting like a superwoman doing almost all chores.He has too little to do.
From the beginning,you push chores to him in the house.Let him take care of babies too,bathe them,bottle feed them...
Let him make you reserve some energy for the intimacy he wants(let him do henceforth).
He has no excuse for cheating.He should have spoken about the lack of attention so you could work something out.

It is left for you to decide to forgive him if he is indeed repentant and you both work towards improving the marriage.

When your heart is not fit and you still want to do more than yourself.

This police report issue sha.

crackhaus:
So according to the doctors, who is the problem from?

This information is conspicuously missing from your essay.

That should have been well elaborated.Deal with the issue first and if possible,let some key family members know.
Forget or turn deaf ears to all that she has taken her somewhere talk.
Keep your money well, don't just throw it away in the name of my hubby and I.
I wish you the best as you TTC.

^^^ What's the meaning of the biological son is the first son?

Please if you will not treat an adopted child who has taken your name and has been integrated into the family as a heir,you have no business with adoption.

If i ever get adopted and grow up to be treated like Esau who gave up his first born rights,i'll wait for an important family gathering,see that everyone is in and secretly strap myself with an IED and wipe the whole family.

^^The above statement is just a joke but questioning the rights of the adopted son is just so wrong.

Orisirisi.
This pastor title is simply being used for fraud.
Wonder wonder!

@gbingafa,you sound like a honest and sincere person.
Give the man a chance.Not for marriage in the first instance but to know him.
I hope there will be opportunities to meet 'in person'.This is SO IMPORTANT.If you can meet like thrice in a year,it would be cool.

It is going to be an inter-religious relationship.Well it has worked for some....Bola Tinubu,Fashola just to name a few.On your part,are you open to it?

If he says he wants to date you(and marry)give it a try.
It's a good thing you knew him before but people do change.You will need to KNOW him all over again.
First start by finding out why he doesn't (if indeed he doesn't) have a wife or some serious relationship.Is he divorced or a baby father?Really get to know why his status is the way it is.That will give you an insight into what he really desires......a wife, companion and a mother to his kids or just the papers.
As per you,why did you divorce?If you are going into another relationship,you need to know if you are marriageable and ready for marriage or you just need a companion.

Date and get to know him.Don't even conclude on marriage yet.How can you meet each other from time to time?Can he come to the UK or can you come like more than once a year?

Jewessgratitude:
I know how you know I know���

My own case,the screen of the phone also cracked when it hit the floor.

Jewessgratitude:
This sleep ehn...anyways its a beautiful call of nature but it can cause havoc if not obeyed when it calls.
People should be warned of the dangers of not having enough sleep before go behind the steering.

Even when operating your phone especially lying down (my best position when browsing) and sleep comes calling, if you try to prove headstrong na your mouth or fore head go hear am. The next thing you'll hear is, gboink on your face heheheeee...don't ask me how I know oo. ��.

I know how you know.

All these Twitter debates sef.
Anyway,it depends on the agenda for me.

SniperSmurf:
That snake skin could be worth some money though. Why is every one calling Lala?

Indeed,would make lovely snake skin shoes.

Was it a porn audition?
Crazy man.

mamatwiny:
It is from 4 weeks upwards. 5 weeks ...40 weeks .
Nothing like 2 weeks pregnant.

I don hear o.
One month pregnant the day she misses her period as you said is NEVER correct.

mamatwiny:
Have you been pregnant b4? I didn't know this when I was single. There is nothing like 2 weeks pregnant. The day you miss ur period, the lab wi tell you that you are 4 weeks gone.

Do you jump from 0 week to 4weeks?
Most pregnancies are detected from lab tests about 2 weeks after you miss your period and by that time,you will be four weeks gone.It doesn't mean that you were not two weeks pregnant.

mamatwiny:
There is nothing like 2 weeks pregnant.Learn this now. If you still doubt me, confirm from your doctor, nurse or any medical personnel.

Dont go and do like that man

Why do you hear statements like 20 week pregnancy,36weeks preganancy,40 weeks etc?
Why do you think pregnancy is read in weeks and not even months?
And you don't want to know what I do for a living too.

sonnie10:
Two for price of one.
Onye ji ya gbara abuo ya guru

But what kind of test would show two weeks pregnancy?

It is hard to detect pregnancy at 2 weeks but a scan can show signs of pregnancy.

mamatwiny:
I just hope it is not another illiterate hubby.
When a woman is pregnant , she is said to be one month pregnant the day she misses her period and not 2 weeks pregnant.

From what I see in this case, she wedding during her ovulation period and got pregnant. Two weeks later, she misses her period, they go for pregnancy test and it was confirmed she is 4 weeks pregnant. The mumu husband threatened the innocent girl and she agreed , he informed his hungry lawyer,lawyer must eat naa. They headed to court to disgrace the girls family not knowing they are disgracing themselves.

No,2 weeks pregnant is actually correct.

You're the real goat na.
You had a quarrel and the next thing you pick up a cutlass looking for a goat you didn't buy.Anuofia.
Now the kids will suffer when you go to prison.

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Is the apartment in heaven?

Lordave:
You say a couple of months for a ligament tear after surgery?

What do you think this guy do?
He works in an air conditioned office?

How long do you think it will take him to get back to football if he had anterior cruciate ligament tear for instance?You can check it out.

Doctors have rights too.
He should have ignored the mother and just treat the child for posterity sake.

This una doctor and nurse hating for dis country no go help anybody.

He will be fine.Probably a meniscal injury or collateral ligament tear.He will be back after surgery in a couple of months.

I wish it were possible he gets a long prison sentence with hard labour and a death sentence at the end.People like this don't deserve to be among humans.

yvelchstores:
Why don't I feel this way
About my mother. So puzzled
About this aspect of my life

It's the kind of relationship your mom built (or failed to build).

Why is it that it is your wife that does not understand herself?Do you understand yourself@ Op.

What family planning method did you use Op?
People need to get knowledge even if you are not in the medical line.Read up on pregnancy and contraception.Some women start seeing their periods less than 2 months after giving birth and that means they can get pregnant even with a baby at hand.

Well,I would say keep the baby.You won't be the first.I know brothers with 11months difference between them.If you decide on termination,use a good hospital.Your wife will undergo D&C..
Go to a family planning clinic and decide on a good family planning method for your family.Your wife may need to be on an IUCD or injectables or you decide to use condoms CORRECTLY.

Oga o.

This one pass beating o.una sure say no be make-up artist dey work on d guy?