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Tallesty1:
A tradition here could be a taboo somewhere. Your minor is somebody's major.

Well,we only have the Op's words in this case.

...the family don't like him because he isn't igbo and they are not sure he is financially capable.

Very stupid and myopic reasons.
Does he have a job,his own apartment and can he raise money to fund a wedding?
He must deal in drugs before he can be seen to be financially capable.smh

Tallesty1:
Day 1: Real men don't hit women, they walk away.



Man walks away


Day 2:






Maturity is obviously one of the most abused/misused word in Nigeria.

It is but definitely not in this case.
The Op said,'misunderstanding for a minor reason'. You didn't see that part.

Op,I'm concerned about your health.Have you tried to investigate the reason for your miscarriage?Have you run tests and seen specialists?Have you been making efforts to conceive again?

Don't let your hubby continue to treat you this way.You're not the first or only one to be having challenges conceiving.

Get a support system.I don't know what your foundation is but if you both had a marriage with a spiritual foundation,now is the time to build it up.

Immature man.
If he doesn't come back call his parents.

Mindfulness:
This is a man's belly. Are you kidding?

I hope Op is not trolling.When I saw the picture,that was the first thing I said ........a man's belly.

@Op,this looks like a man's beer belly.Anyway if you claim your story is true,it doesn't look like a protrusion from pregnancy,it just looks bloated, probably from a big bowl of eba.

Pregnancy of less than 2 weeks of missing the period won't show like this.You were right about the test strips giving you negative result.It mostly won't show until about 6 weeks old.It is a blood test that picks it up faster.

harrikoko:
Like seriously I can't think straight again, anytime we are together all I think of is, how the man was striping my wife and she must have been reacting and if the Bleep was more explosive than we use to have

Try to get it off your mind.Think about how you also goofed and how it could have hurt her more if she contracted a disease from you or another woman came with a baby.
You're really surprised your woman could cheat.Women have the same blood in them like men. .By virtue of my profession I get to hear intimate things.I've heard from married women say they see a guy and wish they could get intimate with him.Not that they put it into action but it's how they feel.

Married men listen,WORDS are the most powerful things to a woman(ok maybe after money).Be careful how you say things that may start to affect self-esteem or security.Get wisdom!.Be careful how you say things about her body especially post baby bodies.You can see the length they go and the money a lot of women are spending on cosmetics and body augmentation nowadays.
It may not be the main reason your wife cheated but it played a big role.She needed that self-assurance.

You both have confessed to each other and forgiven.Start to revive your marriage again.Go on dates...spend quality time together.You say your wife is a good woman.Make your marriage work.

It's bulls#it.Just ask her and whatever she says,you take her word for it or choose not to believe.

PIPnator10:
How about respecting peoples decision? Wife says she is retired!
Man, your options are divorce or live with it but wait oh, she tells you to find other means to satisfy yourself and you are still asking questions!
You know what that means? Many men will die to be given that opportunity. Take it and stop whining!

There are no people in a couple.
When two people get married,they sign off their bodies for each other and should only withhold it in cases of sicknesses or fasting.You can't just say you will not sleep with you partner again.

When she said find a means to satisfy yourself,she probably said it out of frustration.Will she be happy if he impregnates another woman and comes home with a second wife?

Must politicians tell lies? Can't they keep shut rather than spill what is in their mouth and pollute the atmosphere?

I suspect it was an accidental death.They probably wanted to hide the baby or some kinda play like that but out of ignorance suffocated the baby.

FRSC sef don spoil.

Op,you don't sound like a serious person to me.Do you just jump around when there is an issue or you try to deal with it?
If you go on like this,you will end up with a scattered family.Your children will never appreciate you and your women will be bitter towards you

Why is he holding her?He sha wan tap current!

How do these people stand at the altar shouting Alleluia and yet they are into such evil as to run a prostitution ring?smh

It's good for the kids.Let them watch TVs where adults can see what they watch.

Heck, what's a six year old doing with make up?

daddytime:
Her eyes go don clear muyennnn...

She go dey full of regrets now.She let herself be consumed by stupid rage.

The car is only covered by artificial turf.Some people are already thinking it has a grass body.

The children don dey crawl sef.....they don old like that?

Harrykaey:
Why don't I believe Ayefele owns the kids

Medical technology has made life easier.He doesn't need to wind his waist

IamPatriotic:
The Referee acted unprofessionally, he shouldn't have given Sun a red card in that circumstances, especially after seeing his reaction to Gomez injury.

Do you know what unprofessionally is?
He got a red for his tackle,not his cries.

Very unnecessary photoshoot.
Na dis generation sha.All for the gram.smh

This your English worry.

Abasiakan.
Clear bushes around you.

It's a male name.You can find feminine names that also mean beauty for your daughter.
Why do you want controversy for her in the future?

Will your daughter get quality education where she is?
I don't know what they mean by blocking your chances of getting married except you plan to hide her from your would-be suitors.
In my opinion,bring your child and raise her yourself.It will make you monitor her progress yourself and also keep the bond between you.

You won many awards but you can't be compared with George Weah.
I have seen only three players in my lifetime who will have defenders standing with them and still tell their fellow players to pass to them.
George Weah
Diego Maradona
Lionel Messi.

judedave181:
I like this guy, he's vocal

It's better to say things that make sense than just be vocal.
You know what it's like when you try to sleep and a goat keeps bleating repeatedly?

His words are a nuisance to cyberspace.