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Malaria is still a major killer.

Funny(not funny) how people say ordinary malaria.

Kwamecron:
The thing about it is that he did not actually throw his waist on it...

Whether him throw waist o or na suck them suck am out,at least babies don show.

She likes weird hairstyles.

Last born?
Well with the kind of structure you have,you could stay with them.You have your own flat and you can have privacy.

BUT it comes with a caveat.......if you ever find yourself uncomfortable (especially your wife),you have to move out.

He love you.You na never see love don come like that.

Don't be pressured into just bringing a girl to live with you because others in your compound have partners.If you feel lonely,take up a hobby and let it occupy your lonely periods.

However,you say you are in your mid-thirties,you wan build house finish before you marry?We all dream of having good things on ground before marriage but you honestly can't have all you want or else you'll just keep pushing it foward.
From experience I'll tell you,the younger you are when your kids come,the better.

chinwezdasilva:
Make you follow am smoke abi?

Smoke wetin?
Na your broda?

Mutemenot:
As if u need cheated

I don't need cheated.

Stupid guy.He should be deported.

Have you had sex with her?

Nigerian men marry from everywhere,it's not just an Irish thing.
Irish people are very warm and receptive though so they are easier to get along with.

Op,you guys should try implant.It is 99% effective.

juwoonn:
27 years old, underage?

Where did you see the 27yrs age in the write-up?

Mummymahdi:
at least she is not an underage but the hatred to northerners doesn't allow u ppl to differentiate the growth , we don't use to have big body , she is 23yrs u ppl busy calling 10yrs some 15yrs. go to camp and see similar faces and sizes already graduates

I have nothing against northerners.
There is nowhere in the report that says she is 23yrs.She clearly looks underage.
If you know her and says she is 23yrs,then so be it.
A 23yr old can marry but a 16yr old is NOT matured enough for marriage.

Mummymahdi:
u are blinded with hatred she is 23 .[b] is better to marry at even 16 than keep prostitution[/b]and date for 6 to 16yrs and marry after 1 to 4kids.

Please stop using prostitution as an excuse for teenage marriage.It is untenable.
Not every full grown lady gets into immorality.

Most teenage girls don't have the physical capacity for childbirth yet.It leaves many of them with health issues.VVF is very common.

Mummymahdi:
what's the full meaning of underage to u?
this is a 23yrs old lady her secondary school mates are final year or year 3 undergraduates.

Nowhere in the report says she is 23yrs.

Were they attempting to navigate through that kind of water with that Napep? Unnecessary risk.
The girl is underage sef.Child bride.

Nonsense test.........but him go wan touch Bobby.

Are you married?

It depends on the kind of partner you have,the trust between you and his maturity.If you have spent enough time to know what he doesn't like,better keep it to yourself.
My wife tells me all the time,the men hitting on her.She still told me about a man on our street who made a comment about her figure today.
No big deal to me.I like the fact many still see her as adorable.I trust her enough that she isn't giving them that attention and like the fact that she tells me.
I'm cool with it.

He 'Dagrinned'.
You go to a night club,drink and start driving a car with poor visibility in the early hours of the day?Odikwa risky.

Condolences to those you left behind.

Tapout:
not sure..there's different belt on his corpse .

Oh, that's true.

GoodnessB:
Shed off bitch

I'm always perplexed when women use such foul language on other women especially when unprovoked.smh

He took that pic just before his death.What a life!
Young people take am easy when on the wheels o and don't drink and drive.

Buy the camera and start the business.
Your parents think you are lazy,I think so too.
Focus guy and get a grip.

Warn the boy with a Stern voice and angry face not to dare treat your son that way again.
Report him to his father and let him check him.

If I see him do that again......I'mma smack him real bad(my opinion).

The prayers are done one-on-one.Men seek the prayers codedly.Call it the male ego if you like.

Zainab20198:
I recently found out my husband of 5 years has been cheating on me , he accidentally left his Facebook account open on my laptop and I read everything. He told this girl he loves her and want to spend the rest of his life with her, I confronted him and his side of things is I have been pushing him away to care for our very high needs 2 years old triplets sons and my sons needs constant attention , it’s very tiring working , caring for the kids and keeping the house clean with no house help. I know I have my faults , and all my energy goes into the kids and trying to keep the households running , so there isn’t much left at the end of day. I’m always tired and once the kids are sleeping I’m far to tired to do anything ... like sex. He knows all this yet I’m at fault. I feel heart broken , I try to talk to him and he just blames me , even if I’m in wrong , how is cheating justified by what I have done ? I don’t know what to do ?

You are not to blame for the cheating.
However,you indulged your husband too much by acting like a superwoman doing almost all chores.He has too little to do.
From the beginning,you push chores to him in the house.Let him take care of babies too,bathe them,bottle feed them...
Let him make you reserve some energy for the intimacy he wants(let him do henceforth).
He has no excuse for cheating.He should have spoken about the lack of attention so you could work something out.

It is left for you to decide to forgive him if he is indeed repentant and you both work towards improving the marriage.

When your heart is not fit and you still want to do more than yourself.

This police report issue sha.

crackhaus:
So according to the doctors, who is the problem from?

This information is conspicuously missing from your essay.

That should have been well elaborated.Deal with the issue first and if possible,let some key family members know.
Forget or turn deaf ears to all that she has taken her somewhere talk.
Keep your money well, don't just throw it away in the name of my hubby and I.
I wish you the best as you TTC.