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Op,the ladies here are giving you serious knocks.What you've got is a phobia and it's psychological.It's a disorder but not like you set out to hate pregnant women.
You can work on your mind though.Get counselling and re-orientate yourself.

As in can't cook money?

Cutehector:
Dats not boobs.. dats foam..

You don check am out.

The deadline was yesterday but I hope they still give some grace.

I just made a deposit some minutes ago.

You have a phobia.You case is rare but not uncommon.There are people who actually start sweating and get irritated when they see pregnant women.

blesoh:
My aunt who is a certified NURSE lost her baby because they prophesied in her church that if she goes through CS she will die hence before the labour started she was already sleeping in the church everything happened in the church she lost the baby. I was disappointed in her, she waved me that I don't believe in prophecy that its better for the child to go. Hmmmm churches

Can you imagine?A certified nurse for that matter.

Evina:
By God's Grace I am. I'm quite excited by it.
One night, I woke up suddenly and started telling my husband, "don't hold him like that" then I started to take a pillow. thinking I was taking the baby from him. He just said, that's a pillow, go to sleep. Where's the baby I asked? He's in his court he replied.

That was how I went to sleep.

The latest now is that, once I hear any sound from baby, I wake up suddenly blurting out the name of Jesus.

Lol.....
It's interesting and challenging at the same time.

Evina:
Uncle Thorpido!

So good to read from you.

Hmm. I lost my mum to a careless doctor when I was 5.
My mum in law is a busy woman oh. She spent two weeks with us before going back.

Awww sorry about that.Seems the only option you have is to get a creche.Just get one close to you and do a background check of the place.Let them be well staffed.

How's the nursing vigil going?Trust you're doing fine.

Only the ignorant see cesarean section as abnormal.What do they mean by it is not God's way?
There are reasons why a child has to be born through cesarean section;the baby could be in breech position,there could be cord around the neck or the size of the baby is disproportionate to the birth canal.If you try to force normal birth with these,you could lose the baby(and the mother),have the baby suffer birth injury or birth asphyxia and end up brain damaged.
Is it not better to have a healthy baby and the mother alive?
I overheard my neighbour's sister saying it's abnormal and not Godly to give birth by CS while she was still pregnant.Fastforward and i saw her one day without the pregnancy and no baby.She had lost the baby.I didn't need anyone to tell me what must have happened.

Evina:
Space, we've got lots of it but it just hasn't been the culture to bring infants to the job. ;DD

I believe God will make a way.
Thanks alot for your input.

You didn't say anything about mother/mother-in-law?Are they no options?
3mths is not too early for a creche if that's the only option you have.Just look for one close to where you work and if your work allows you to close early,that's a plus.

Great we have a positive result.We need to publicise this more.

Lovemaking for couples is meant to be consensual and pleasurable.When one person is forced to do what is inconvenient or hurtful,then it is abuse.
You should take a stand on what you desire and let your hubby know.if he wants to keep malice,let him.

Your hubby must be a porn addict by the way.

Pure evil.
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.Some men have turned their women to vampires.

Insanity everywhere.

Your son is 5yrs,old enough to start getting independent.Are you still breast.feeding him?
Go ahead and get the job,just look for one that doesn't take your whole day.You could learn fashion designing.

Abuse of government.The guy who succeeded him(Gov.Ahmed) is also culpable just because he put him in office.
Politicians care less about the citizens.

Gbenga Daniel.Started well in Ogun state but ended badly.

Wish him a happy birthday.

Positive.Yes the lady whose sample was tested is pregnant.

Make una no abort o.

mysticgal:
Any show

I met with the Op about an hour ago.I was able to verify that indeed he is married.He has a 2yr old son.
He is a graduate of economics.I verified the wedding certificate,birth certificate and his school certificates.
I saw receipts of payments of school fees for his son.
I also saw the caretaker's notice of rent due which is N30,000 as at end of march.

I encourage anyone willing to help to please do especially towards securing a job.He is a graduate of economics,8yrs post-graduate who has worked in a few companies but lost jobs due to downsizing.

endehT:
Ok,30-45mins(6:30pm - 6:45pm) would be fine sir. Will get those Documents ready and where would you want me to bring them to sir?

Since you are at Egbeda,we could meet there.I will be at Egbeda bus stop in the next 30mins.

endehT:
I have outlined the most pressing needs sir. Also,will you still be coming over,so I can PM you my address and direction sir?

Thank you very much sir.

I was thinking of meeting you at the construction site where you say you work on a working day.If you are available,i could also meet you in the next 30-60mins.
Is it possible I see your certificate,loan documents,payment receipts and rent receipt if we meet?
Let me know.

endehT:
Yes sir,I work(menial) at a construction site,somewhere around Seliat Bus/stop. I resume around 8am,and I leave 4/5pm sir. I lift Mixed cement and fetch water with the other construction workers. Even tho',the Site Engineer feels really awkward anytime he sees me on the site,with the pan on my head.

What I get there is not enough to get food items,toiletries,utility bills etc(saving becomes a luxury),but it is way better than being at home all day,with bills mounting.

My siblings are the 'don't worry,I will assist' kind.
Same with my Pastor. But I really can't hasten or blame anybody for my woes or predicament!

If you are doing the bolded above,then you are not lazy but indeed you need help from what you have written.
You are a family man and I understand how tough it can be.Nevertheless,suicide is not the solution.You will be passing the burden on your wife which will not be fair on her and your son.

Siena has offered to help and i'm willing to contribute too and I'm sure there are others that will be willing to chip in something when your case is verified.
You say you stay at Egbeda,that's along my path so I could check you out if you're ready.

When I saw the headline,I thought she had aborted her own pregnancies 320 times.

I for say impossicant.

Airforce1:
who made that law?

Fashion police.

repogirl:
I thought shoes and belt were supposed to be the same colour, not shoes and bag.

He must have been watching and listening to women a lot.
You know how women say shoes and bag 'to match'.

RIP young lady.
May we nairalanders never have to go through this.

The only can i want to hear is ......... i can.

Formidable1:
My wife has taken my April Fool joke very seriously. I decided to pull a prank on her today, and it's almost going out of hand.

It was in the morning, and I knew she wasnt yet aware that it was April Fool's Day. So I told her that I had a confession to make to her and it has been eating me up. I told her that I have a child outside our marriage. That I have a son who's around 12yrs now. That I had the child before I met her, but I couldn't tell her because I didn't want to lose her.

She was speechless but I could tell she was shaken. She searched my eyes to know if I was joking, but I maintained my seriousness. She calmy started asking me questions to know whether I was being real, but I was already prepared for any question. By the time she was through interrogating me, she has already broken down in tears.

I continued with the joke, and I told her to please forgive me for not telling her all this while. She believed everything I said and by the time I told her it was April Fool's joke, it was too late. She was inconsolable, and she told me it wasn't a joke, cos she knew I was telling her the truth. She said she had always had the feeling that I had a child cos she saw it in her dream before we got married.

To cut it short, right now she's mad at me...and she has threatened to leave with my 6 months old daughter and abandon our 3 yr-old marriage. She has already called her mum and sister and narrated the whole thing.

So, guys plz I need una help right now. My own April Fool prank has gone all wrong. What can I do?

Oturugbeke@bolded.She actually had that kind of dream?
She'll calm down when the 'April foolishness' is over.
Buy recharge card well make credit full your phone.You have a lot of people to call to explain things.

I don't know how you people sleep at night with so much hate in your systems.

skydude:
How about a situation where by she was pregnant before you slept with her like 2 months pregnant for another dude but while she gave birth the child looks virtually like you,no difference what is the cause for such

That is not possible.She must have lied she was pregnant(or think she was).If she has a child that looks like you,then it has to be yours.You should also know the gestation age of the pregnancy even if the child is premature.

She's obviously a kleptomaniac.The husband shouldn't have left her.He should have helped her.He was supposed to have seen the signs while dating so why is he quitting now.

She needs to get over her confusion first.

True you have been healed.
Use the experience to teach young girls not to waka waka like you.