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I love the seriousness on the girls' faces.

She should have dated you and if you show traits of behaviours that does not go well with her she can quit the relationship.She didn't even give you a chance which is wrong.Don't worry about her,she not the best for you.

Polygamy does have its negative effects but you can't judge everyone who grew up in a polygamous family as an outcast.

Blessedtwins,doxycycline is basically an antibiotic used to treat infections.
I had to go back to check on your statement about use in mental instability.There is a research linking the use of tetracycline and bipolar disorders.For documentation purpose you will need to research more.

crackhaus:
You keep telling these women this and they think it's because you're stingy with your money, not knowing it's for their own good.

The other day it was a young married friend from Borno state (Christian though) going on and on about how she has no intention of getting a steady job because her husband, a big shot in the Nigerian army pays her monthly and is responsible for all her foreign trips...she's a graduate o.

I just dey look her dey laff, told her that it seems she doesn't realize that most men would think twice before cheating on a woman they know can sustain themselves comfortably without their financial input...not like she should expect her husband to cheat or that it completely eliminates the possibility of him cheating, but should infidelity become an issue in that marriage, she will have enough clout and courage to give the man an ultimatum or she walks away and continues living comfortably.

A lot of young women these days no just get sense, honestly... most of us with educated mothers know how hard they worked, earned their respect, and were still able to combine all that with taking care of the home-front and then still go out looking sharp and all tushed up.

People really need some mental restructuring, everything is all wrong these days.

Na so my brother.Quite a lot of young girls just think having a man who's working and earning a good income is all they need to 'settle' down.

Well I'll say the woman already had a bias before the young doctor attended to her so anything he did could have been misinterpreted.
Examination of the breast includes checking different areas which could be misinterpreted as caressing and the tip has to be gently squeezed to check if there is fluid/pus/blood.All that can be misinterpreted.Nevertheless,the doctor should have had a chaperon/nurse with him.If you need to be examined by a male doctor,ask for a female nurse to be present.
That's not to say some doctors don't act unprofessional.

But doctors sef,you smile they say you are not serious,you keep a straight face,they say you are not friendly.

No true born again Christian can leave as long as he/she keeps a relationship with God.A man who has truly encountered God cannot turn back.
Jesus had an encounter with some people who had followed Him because they saw miracles and some other things Jesus did.However when He started revealing deep revelations,they left and said His words were blasphemous.When He turned to His disciples to ask if they wanted to leave too,Simon Peter said,to whom shall we go,Thou hast the words of eternal life.

In Jesus' parable of the sower,He spoke about the seeds falling on different types of soil(hearts). He said the seed that fell on good ground brought forth a harvest!The good ground is that man/woman who has encountered God.The individual does not end up as a barren land.He brings forth a harvest.............He doesn't turn back from God.

Will you prefer they look like your neighbour @Op?

Try to get a job first.Get some financial independence.
The way things are now,I don't think any lady should get married without having a source of income first.

Begin to think of where you can move to in the next few weeks..........your parents' or siblings' place.

Well leave them alone.Any man wey no do him homework well make e enjoy wetin him get.

Onegai:
Bros, e no easy. Who will carry baby when madam wants to jog

Jokes apart, I spoke to a fitness trainer and she said it's an mainland thing to not be so much into fitness, on the island people are more health conscious.

(though it sounded a tad snobbish when she said it but she admitted that everyone who had approached her that day for fitness tips or to schedule a class stayed on the island).

The man should help out with the baby afteral,it's for his own pleasure too.
She's right about people on the Island.I stay on the mainland but a few times I go to the island,I see a lot of women keeping fit.

dominique:
Those countries are predominantly Catholic, they will never agree to abortion. Not getting pregnant us not an option either.

They will resist abortion and use of contraceptives definitely.Unfortuntely,they will keep recording high cases of children born mentally retardded.

Kangol99:
What does Zika Virus has to do with pregnancy. I think I need more explanation.

The virus in the system of a pregnant woman results in a condition called microencephaly.The child's growth is compromised in the womb and the head comes with an abnormal shape.
The end result is that the child will have retardded growth and probably mental retarddation.

They should encourage more women to jog.So many fat women around.

Health is wealth.

Is it your neighbour's name you will call?
Well it's yoruba culture and you should adopt an alias.

The woman should lock up permanently.

Some people leave their armpit hair to grow like say na God put am there so why bother.

overdrive:
Even if diddy didn't kill tupac he surely knows who did!

He would know just like others would know.It was a gangster war.I doubt he initiated it but someone in his hood could have done it or even an obsessed fan.

The man na old man.He carry wetin pass am.
Heart attack during sex.

How authentic is this?

CindyeMerAld:
must u sound rude in other to make point??pple sha..

Sorry.
You insinuating that they belong to a cult is 'rude' too.

CindyeMerAld:
wats wit d chain ova d shirt.?..More lyk a cult of some sort

achinaboy:
and the over the shirt chain?

Una no dey read.They are cast in a role.Their dressing depicts that.

She was indeed very reckless.She was drunk and was driving a car that was not her own.Wasted the life of Dr Giwa.

You say your man is not cheating but you're ranting?
You also say maybe because your marriage is still young.
Young lady,get rid of the wrong mindset you have which might eventually get your man to cheat.

Remember the law of attraction.

E plenty now.
1)him dey craze
2)Uncontrolled anger
3)Need to dominate
4)Etc

Apologize to him and keep seeking his forgiveness.
However,stay away from both of them.Just live your life like they don't exist.

Tonia500:
must i be one?anyway my mother in law raised four kids by herself and many others i know

I never said you were one,I asked if you were one.
Well the simplest advise to give is to look before you leap.Unfortunately,many look..........but at the wrong things!

Aitee1:
I doubt it she's bleaching, blame it on the camera phones of these days, some phones come with over 20mp making one look brighter than his/her future.

okay,let's assume it's the phone.So many body creams women use these days tone the skin.

Oh she 'stepped out' leaving her husband behind cos I can't see any husband here in the pic.


But why girls dey like bleach?

U na single mother?Your man dey beat you?

Excuzeme:

That is a very BRAVE PASTOR!

He did wrong (if he did) by dipping his hands into church funds but he accepted responsibility and paid the price (even though it was the ultimate price) for his error. That is how honourable people behave.
YOU PAY THE PRICE!.... and only very few "brave and men of dignity" can do that.
He also speared his family the agony of embarrassment of an arrest, trial, e.t.c

Unlike our Politicians who are always trying to escape Justice by lying and bribing.

I wish his family the fortitude to bear the loss but God is more welcoming of this Pastor, than any known Politician alive in Nigeria.

Any society where citizens take responsibility for the criminal misbehaviour (especially stealing) is usually a great society.
Ask the Germans and the Japanese about this.

What kind of bravery are you talking about?The type found in suicide bombers?

Picture of the slashed throat?
He was selfish and inconsiderate of his family.If you are accused falsely,you prove your innocence.
Even if they condemn you,the Lord will acquit you.
If indeed you diverted the funds,you can seek forgiveness and accept the punishment.