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The burden of a marriage should not be taken by the man only...
Both the man and the wife should bear the burden full time...
The both parties should plan based on their financial capability...
Using today's and past financial capability to plan will make them be able to foresee the future...
If with past Nd present financial capability, you can't provide for more than 1 child, then no need having more... Besides as time goes by,bills increases...
So planning matters...
If you ar poor don't even get married at all...

Wahala.. newly married man can't ask his wife how much will be enough... Na so Una marriage go take begin..?

Mrsoft3:
when you watch football you easily blame and see mistakes, but if you are in that field same or even worse will be done by you.


you can give your quota no doubt but truly experience is a school of its own.

marriage or marital issues requires serious wisdom. many perspectives to this thing I tell you.


lastly Goan marry oga

🤣🤣.. no be fight na... Bachelor life sweet

But this advice matter sef tire me especially for this Nigeria..... Person wey the wife dey keep malice with am go dey advice another person for their marriage...
So now where's the best source to seek for advice..

spencekat:
As simple as that. Rev Fathers are not married but they conduct wedding ceremonies and also give counseling.

Yeah that's true...

TemplarLandry:
Why not?
The single person could be a God sent.

Some no go gree o... To them u can't advice them unless you are married and they see... Infact those who are divorced sef are worse... Coz they believe because you are divorced, meaning say you can't hold your marriage so no need to collect advice from you...

dawnomike:
You can give your advice but truly, there are somethings you can't really get spot on except you're married.

But to me I feel marital problems are actually psychological and behavioural problems that can be given pointers by someone who understands human behaviour...

I am single... I have a friend who is married. We always hangout at least every weekend... But last weekend, he didn't come around I called but he didn't give me a tangible reason...
So yesterday, he came around my place, I noticed his mood isn't as cheerful as it used to be... I asked, what was wrong?. He said "You Neva marry you no go understand".
He wanted to say more, but I said no need, he shouldn't say anything.. till he left I kept quiet.. I didn't say anything...
So I want to ask o, if na only married person fit give advice to who don marry...

The people western part of Nigeria so strongly believe in the Powers of human part that they feel you can't progress in life without a sacrificed human organ....

It's demeaning...
Too shameful....

None is better... None is worse... Hindsight is 20/20...
After dem don go we go begin praise them, but while in power things was difficult for the common man...
Na so Obasanjo was president, shey simcard was 10k plus, fuel 65 naira...
Now Tinubu be president, simcard 5h, while fuel na 700 naira....
So none is good, none was also bad

Na the 60yrs old man picture be dat??

I don't view all status....on WhatsApp
I don't post personal details. I only repost comedy I like...on WhatsApp
Facebook is for viewing and being abreast of what's happening... I don't post myself...
Only those two apps I am on...

Many women out there are good and many of them want marriage.... But men don't know what they need in marriage.... Some men don't know what the concept of marriage entails sef...
Everybody's expectations in marriage are different...
Know what you need..
Be ready to understand....
Be ready to forgive...
Be financially balanced or have a goal...
You'll get married... Even if you divorce, you'll still marry again...

So they should use the cow meat for the burial na

Na wa ooo.. All these boys very desperate for money... As na sleep wan kill am, you chairman kill am use him body parts make money na... Abi him dey owe you, wey u no want am to sleep fo night again?? This is highly ridiculous

Misplaced priorities....
This happens when governor embarks on project to get "Public Praise" instead of developing the people and enhancing, maintaining and improving on the current infrastructure in the state...

They might get from different suppliers... The only constant price is NNPC.... Even that sef, I'm sure not all NNPC round the country sells equal price

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spyroet:
she's very beautiful and caring

Nothing like beautiful and caring o...
Beauty will fade away oo...
How can she handle pressure?..
Is she the complaining type??
Check well o...

Why so young?? What do you both have in common?
25 Nd above is fine...
But mental capacity matters.. remember who you marries irrespective of her age, will be the one to handle you, your family, and also your household... So no use your hand carry tictoc customer put for house

OGHENAOGIE:
u de mind the guy just de Bobo us... The girl Sha want the thing too

Dem don enjoy finish, oga carry genotype matter come online... After dem drink action bitters 🤣

Serendipity2023:
I don't know o

Wahala.. okay

Lol... Firstly the story get as e be....

But, the Fact is, your cousin is into Yahoo....
Now, there's nothing u can do about that... A 22yr old guy has "Boys", still bought phone for one of "His boys"...
That's okay.. It's his money so he can spend as he sees fit...
For the fact that you are aware of the 3m that he amassed, and he said he does hav NGN1500, that shows he is "Wicked".... not stingy o, I mean pure wickedness....
So if I were you, just cut everything off with him... Don't give him a reason... Just block his number, stop picking his calls, stop talking to him totally...
He didn't tell you that he got millions, so u also don't tell him your reasons...
Nothing will happen... Life will still go on...
"I like you" no be for mouth, e go show for your actions...
Out of nothing, you still remembered him in his time of need...
But obviously, you don't matter to him, that's why he didn't reason your existence...
Be wise....

Serendipity2023:
Yes naa

So where do u guys stand in the relationship... As genotype no work again... Will you still be calming her down

Serendipity2023:
Lol, i had to make love to het to calm her down.

Really? So na making love dey calm people down....

Lol... So after all the emotional talk, you still went ahead and bleeped the girl...
And worse, you liked the Bleep too much to say "it grips your manhood and drives you crazy"...

Oya enjoy dey go...

By the way, when you get married for companionship and love, then genotype won't be an issue..
But if you get married for kids, then look for what matches your type

Happy Birthday... Enjoy