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RomanceRe: by tobechi74: 5:15am On Jan 14, 2021
Very funny
CrimeRe: Woman Claims She Was Once Raped By The Man Hacked To Death By Youth Corps Member by tobechi74: 5:07am On Jan 14, 2021
She defends her own.
EducationRe: Results Of The National Examinations Council 2020 Is Out by tobechi74: 5:05am On Jan 14, 2021
Did buhari pass
Foreign AffairsRe: This Video Proves That Democrats Are Guity Of Everything They Accused Trump Of by tobechi74: 5:05am On Jan 14, 2021
Trump had wattery mouth
Foreign AffairsRe: Trump Speak Publicly After His Second Impeachment(video) by tobechi74: 4:36am On Jan 14, 2021
E don humble
Nairaland GeneralRe: Meet A Guy That Get Paid 5 Bitcoin For Writing Articles On A Website by tobechi74: 4:36am On Jan 14, 2021
So
PoliticsRe: NIMC Workers Cry For Help As Gang Members Rob Applicants In Rivers State by tobechi74: 4:35am On Jan 14, 2021
Hi in strike again
EducationRe: 9 controversual terms You Accepted When Joining Facebook by tobechi74: 4:05am On Jan 14, 2021
Time to develop our own made in Africa application and stop depending on westerners
PoliticsRe: Is There No Local Herbs That Can Cure Coronavirus? by tobechi74: 1:30am On Jan 13, 2021
Young people are cures without any herb.
PoliticsRe: Kano Sharia Law Against Sale, Consumption Of Alcohol by tobechi74: 1:27am On Jan 13, 2021
He said the Kano state law is against distribution,and sale of alchohou not Sharia law.

Is this true
Christianity EtcRe: Funny Church Banners That Will Make You Laugh by tobechi74: 1:22am On Jan 13, 2021
Marketing strategy
RomanceRe: Lawyers In The House Come And See. OPINIONS NEEDED by tobechi74: 1:15am On Jan 13, 2021
Abeg, which one is O P MESA
RomanceRe: I Can Help You To Monitor Your Babe/guy Whatsapp Chat. by tobechi74: 1:12am On Jan 13, 2021
This one pass DNA TEST. TRUST IS MISSING IN THE LAND
FamilyRe: I Almost Had A Fight With My Mom by tobechi74: 1:11am On Jan 13, 2021
Marriage is not for everyone, especially not going your mum.
She needs to grow up before considering getting marriage. Her refusal to do so has forced you to mature too early.
Now you will become the mother,and father of the house. Her children will be looking up to you. Who will you look up to?

Whatever you do, you cannot change her.

Figure out your own life. Fend for yourself. She is resting after work because she is sure you will cook for the siblings.

Some days, go out and hustle, learn a trade, a skill anything but do not stay at home. Come back home and sleep. Do this consistently for a year.Stop covering up her mess by doing her duties. she will continue. She will be either forced to do them or the neighbours will know the kids are starving by their malnourished looked .either way, she will be held responsible since you are physically absent and busy
CrimeTo Sue A Woman For Murder For Rejecting Caesarian Operation by tobechi74(op): 12:03pm On Jan 11, 2021
looking at the possibility of charging a patient to court for neglecting his medical counsel which led to the demise of her unborn child.
During antenatal scan, It was discovered she had a narrow pelvic region and her foetus was wider and larger. She was warned that her refusal to adhere to medical advice would cause serious harm to herself and the unborn child. She rejected medical counsel on Religious ground. She signed s document acknowledging medical warning and her preference to go into labour naturally.

During antenatal, she admitted to taking tramadol twice and Alcoholic drink on few occasion. This endangered the life of the fetus.

How can the doctor force the family to get an autopsy on the dead child so that the cause of death could be legally linked.

Since abortion is an offense in Nigeria,the fetus has the same legal right allocated to a born child. We can say that her negligence to heed to medical warning led to the death of the child. In other words, she murdered her own child.

Any hope of success? What is the first stage to force family to conduct autopsy
RomanceRe: My Experience Dating A High-value Woman. by tobechi74: 12:50pm On Jan 10, 2021
Congratulations
Christianity EtcRe: Former Pastor Mary Embraces Islam, Converts Church To Mosque In Ibadan by tobechi74: 8:39am On Jan 10, 2021
Hallucinating
Christianity EtcRe: Prayer Changes Things by tobechi74: 8:37am On Jan 10, 2021
Sad
Christianity EtcRe: How Fasting Helps To Unlock Your Spiritual Potential by tobechi74: 8:37am On Jan 10, 2021
Sad
Christianity EtcRe: When Things Seem Not To Go According To Your Plan, Consider This by tobechi74: 8:36am On Jan 10, 2021
Ok
Christianity EtcRe: If You've Not Prayed To The Point You Can't Stop, You've Not Started Praying by tobechi74: 8:33am On Jan 10, 2021
Aad
Christianity EtcRe: COVID-19: Yinka Akinbami Is Dead. House On The Rock Pastor Dies by tobechi74: 8:33am On Jan 10, 2021
Sad
Christianity EtcRe: Touch Not My Anointed by tobechi74: 8:32am On Jan 10, 2021
Ok
Christianity EtcRe: Do Homosexuals Have A Place In God's Kingdom? by tobechi74:
Yes
Son: what does the Bible teach about homosexuality and masturbation.

Dad: I do not know and I do not care to know

Son: But you are a Christian

Dad: yes, A Christian who follows the teaching of Jesus. Christ alone and not the Bible.

Son; But Bible contains Jesus teaching

Dad: true. It also contains the teaching of Paul,the teaching of Moses , the teaching of Elijah and many other teaching. As a Christian, I accept the teaching of Jesus Christ.

Son: Ok, Now what did Jesus teach about masturbation and homosexuality.

Dad: Jesus never mentioned any of them literally but he showed us with illaustration how to treat those whose views are different from ours.

Child: How?

Dad: He never condemned the adultrous woman, he visited tax collectors, he dined with sinners. He showered them with love.

Son : does that mean they won’t go to hell?

Dad: would you derive Joy in Watching your loved one in hell?

Son: No I won’t

Dad: good.

Dad: sex is a way of expressing Love. There are different stages of love. The first is love directed to oneself. A child grows up loving himself.Using sexual analogy, the child derives Joy playing with his body, his genital. Jesus said Love thyself.



Son : hmm

Dad: The second is Love of similar specie.The child begins to extend the love to those of closest to him+ family, friend,tribe etc. A boy plays with a boy.A girl plays with a girl. Using sexual analogy, this is homosexual. Christ preached Love your neighbor.



Son : I see

Dad: The third stage of love is where one loves those different from oneself .Jesus said Love your enemy.your enemy is your opponent, opposite,one with a different view. Sexually, one is attracted to the gender different from him.A boy is attracted to a girl and vice-versa.

Son :

Dad: One who hates masturbators and homosexuals and love heterosexual is no different from one who loves others over himself and his peers.Such person is in a third stage of love.



Son : which is the best.

Dad: All of the above.The fourth type. The pansexual. The attraction to all . Self, male, and female. It is universal love. Agape love. Love without condition.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/20/a-christian-dad-and-son-conversation-on-homosexuality/amp/
Christianity EtcRe: Was The Apostle Paul Ever Married by tobechi74: 8:30am On Jan 10, 2021
No
Christianity EtcRe: The Main Thing In Life by tobechi74: 2:13am On Jan 10, 2021
O.k
Christianity EtcRe: Trump - We Cannot Have Justice Without The Grace Of God by tobechi74: 2:12am On Jan 10, 2021
Sad
Christianity EtcRe: Pope Francis' Doctor Dies Of COVID-19 by tobechi74: 2:12am On Jan 10, 2021
Sad
Christianity EtcWhy Do Christians Reject Cesarian Method Of Delivery by tobechi74(op): 1:58am On Jan 10, 2021
Women with small pelvis and heavy foetus find it difficult to give birth freely like the isrealite women do . In normal childbirth, the head is the widest part of the baby . When the head passes through the birth carnal successfully, the body will descend fully .

. In the case of this woman, the widest part of the body of the baby is the shoulder. The head passes through the canal but the shoulder is unable to pass through the pelvis . This leads to a medical condition called shoulder drystocia.

During the first antinatal scan, the doctor observes the shape of the pelvis of the woman and recommend caesarian section as doctors are aware of the challenge this women face during vaginal birth delivery . Expecting mothers reject doctors caesarian section like it is an abomination . Sometimes doctors do not reveal this detail to the patient as patients may lack ability to understand . Morever, this may cause anxiety and frighten pregnant mother.

Pregnant mothers with counsel from the pastor who is a novice inthese issues Insist on vaginal delivery. Doctors respect her right to choose her own mode of delivery. In few cases, the foetus is not that large and the vaginal birth goes smoothly after the doctor makes a fist with the hands while pressi h the pelvis. In other cases, the baby head retards back Into cavity like a turtle. The doctor,with the aid of two midwives,take hold of mothers leg and force her knees upward towards her shoulder so as to widen pelvic inlet by means of hyper flexion. This could lead to postpartum haemorrhage (After birth bleeding) or perineal tears of the mother. It could also cause broken shoulder or other spinacord injury to the child.

This is just one of the numerous reason a doctor could opt for caesarian Birth. It is not demonic. Stop overstressing our already stressed health workers

They rumors that women who have the procedure are taking the "lazy" way out and that women who give birth naturally are "superiot" is completely false.
Christianity EtcHow Christian Health Workers Should Allocate Scarce Resources During Covidpandem by tobechi74(op): 1:38am On Jan 10, 2021
Health workers face lots of dilemma in allocating resources during a pandemic. The resources could include beds, ventilators, vaccines and medicines. During a disease outbreak, these resources are scarce. There is an insufficient supply to meet every patient’s needs. Health workers make decisions between saving ones life and allowing others to die.Major ethical consideration include:

1) Equality : Each patient. Should be treated without any discrimination. Tribe, gender, Creed,etc should not be used as a basics for allocating scarce resources

A) FIFO: First come, first served. Priority is given in order in which they are diagnosed until no ventilator remain.

B) Lottery: patients are assigned a number. Health workers select a random number and ventilator is issued to the patient with that number.

2)Best Outcome; resources are allocated based on patient capacity to do the most good. Volunteer Researchers who risk their lives to develop a vaccine deserve to be attended to should they get infected in the process. Doctors and health workers deserve special consideration.

3) Worst off ; Resources are allocated based on those in greater medical need.

4) Short term survival: persons with the best chance of survival are given priority. Those with fewer underlying illness are favored because it is predicted that they w should be discharged quickly and ventilator made available to the next patient.

Withdrawal of resources from one recovered patient could have lots of legal implication. Wealthy Individuals and organization can manufacture mechanical ventilator and donate to hospital to reduce this moral dillema.
HealthRe: Using Left-hand To Write, Eat, Give Or Take Is Not Wrong/Disrespectful by tobechi74: 1:01am On Jan 10, 2021
Some tradition and cult should be scrapped
HealthHow Do You Think The Covid 19 Vaccine Should Be Shared by tobechi74(op): 1:00am On Jan 10, 2021
The recent arrangements whereby states with highest number received the most vaccine is not ideal for the following reason

1) some states will begin inflating their numbers to justify more intake
2) some states do not have the cooling system needed for it's preservation.

3) admission into university is not based on state performance in JAMB AND WAEC

4) States with highest unemployed graduate are not priotised in job allocation.


Rather, scarce medical resources should be allocated based on

Health workers face lots of dilemma in allocating resources during a pandemic. The resources could include beds, ventilators, vaccines and medicines. During a disease outbreak, these resources are scarce. There is an insufficient supply to meet every patient’s needs. Health workers make decisions between saving ones life and allowing others to die.Major ethical consideration include:

1) Equality : Each patient. Should be treated without any discrimination. Tribe, gender, Creed,etc should not be used as a basics for allocating scarce resources

A) FIFO: First come, first served. Priority is given in order in which they are diagnosed until no ventilator remain.

B) Lottery: patients are assigned a number. Health workers select a random number and ventilator is issued to the patient with that number.

2)Best Outcome; resources are allocated based on patient capacity to do the most good. Volunteer Researchers who risk their lives to develop a vaccine deserve to be attended to should they get infected in the process. Doctors and health workers deserve special consideration.

3) Worst off ; Resources are allocated based on those in greater medical need.

4) Short term survival: persons with the best chance of survival are given priority. Those with fewer underlying illness are favored because it is predicted that they w should be discharged quickly and ventilator made available to the next patient.

Withdrawal of resources from one recovered patient could have lots of legal implication. Wealthy Individuals and organization can manufacture mechanical ventilator and donate to hospital to reduce this moral dillema.

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