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PoliticsRe: As Nigeria Ever Borrowed Any Contry Loan by tobechi74: 11:58pm On Dec 28, 2020
We donate army to African countries
PoliticsRe: We Stand By Bishop Kukah’s Christmas Message — Catholic Secretariat by tobechi74:
The number of Catholic priest s that have died as a result of security insurgency in the last few years is high

forgive the region whose people are like working robot

I forgive the region that would happily praise foreigners who invade her land to rule her.

I forgive the region that hands over her thinking ability to its foreign leaders

I forgive the region whose foreign leaders control them easily like a remote.


I forgive the elite who readily swallow the lies propagated by her leaders

I forgive the people who allow himself to be cajoled into submitting to the will of its Invaders in exchange for eternal reward

I forgive the region whose community leaders are threatened into silence by the powerful elite

I forgive the region whose Religion leaders refuse to speak against the atrocity of her political leaders


I forgive the region whose Religion leaders with the political oppressors against the mass

I forgive the region that knows no other language and culture besides its own and that of its oppressor

I forgive the region that allows it’s people to be used to give more power to its leaders

I forgive the region that surrenders its right and freedom to its oppressor in the name of religion

I forgive myself for being connected to this region
https://tobechispeaks./2020/12/20/educated-to-unite/
PoliticsRe: BISHOP KUKAH SPEAKS AGAIN by tobechi74: 11:56pm On Dec 28, 2020
Na waooo
RomanceRe: Have You Ever Been Hated Or Discriminated On ? by tobechi74: 10:12pm On Dec 28, 2020
thrillionaire:
Eminem has.. and that's why he cleaned out his closet that year �
Yes oo, he was protested and demonstrated against. .....
EventsRe: Couple Broke Up At Their Wedding Reception Because Of Food by tobechi74: 10:05pm On Dec 28, 2020
And what happened next
RomanceRe: Her Choice To Do Chores For You, Not A Mandate by tobechi74: 9:58pm On Dec 28, 2020
His choice to spend money on her,not s mandate
RomanceRe: What Was Your Greatest Love Opportunity You Missed And How Did You Miss It? by tobechi74:
When did love become an opportunity to be missed?
When we learn to extend universal love to all creature, there would be no regrets
PoliticsRe: Does These Statistics Proves That Buhari Is Not A NEPOTIC PRESIDENT by tobechi74: 9:52pm On Dec 28, 2020
It shows he is not balanced.
Southwest, northwest , and northeastern are favored over the rest.
The way north Central worship buhari while he sideline them baffles me
PoliticsRe: Reverend Father Kukah And The Northern Political Industry by tobechi74: 9:45pm On Dec 28, 2020
Now I understand why no one condemns a northern leader.
Sanusi tried it and he was exiled.

They will rather die than condemn their head.
PoliticsRe: Many Police, Army Checkpoints In The South-East? Why Is This So? by tobechi74: 9:42pm On Dec 28, 2020
They are scared that Igbo will start planning another cessation
PoliticsRe: Yoruba Clamour For Independence Is Mere Threat - Shettima by tobechi74: 9:39pm On Dec 28, 2020
Except Yoruba combines with hausa
RomanceMen, Can You Handle An Independent,alpha Woman by tobechi74(op): 12:44pm On Dec 28, 2020
ASAWANA
I have come to learn from experience that even a lot men who claim to love and want independent women really can’t handle them, leemao. And then of course, there are the ones who vehemently and openly abhor us, leemao. In whichever form they come however, they are one and the same. Shine your eyes sis!

A lot of men would argue that they don’t want “liabilities” as wives, and they want women who can hold their shit down, issokay (I’m trying desperately to not loose my home training in this post��). Howeverrrr, these men really do not want you to blossom and shine. There are the ones who do not want you to have any type of independence – in your finances, in your choices, not even with your body!

And then there are the ones who are okay with you having your own money, as long as you do not earn more than they do, so long as you transfer ownership of your life (in whatever degree) to them. These men love their egos greased so love it when you reduce yourself to accommodate all that unhealthy amount of ego they carry around.

So even if you can sort yourself out, collect upkeep money from them, fuss about needing to get a new wig or dress, make it seem like you’re dependent on them, make them feel good.

A lot of men, because of the way unhealthy masculinity has been touted, would want you to shrink yourself to accommodate them – shrink your earning your accomplishments, your personality.

What do you think about this though?

As a guy, what’s your honest thought on independent women and dating/marrying them?

As a lady, what’s the biggest issue you have with independent women?

Or if you consider yourself independent,what’s the biggest issue you face?

Where do you draw the line with being independent in a relationship?
RomanceRe: Is Polygamy Really Against Christain Laws? by tobechi74: 12:04pm On Dec 28, 2020
Freedom.marry as you wish
But double wife na extra wahala
RomanceRe: Should A Lady As Virgin Voluntary Tell Her Man To Find Sex Outside.. by tobechi74: 12:02pm On Dec 28, 2020
Kriss216:
A girl in love will never be comfortable sharing her man with another woman. The virgin girl is not into your friend, she's only interested in what your guy is offering which is Money!
He should not give her money either
RomanceRe: Introduce Yourself With What Almost Killed You (photo) by tobechi74: 12:01pm On Dec 28, 2020
Knowledge kills
RomanceRe: “women Always Remain Second Class Creatures In The Midst Of Men Man Says by tobechi74: 12:00pm On Dec 28, 2020
Good
RomanceRe: My Observation: Most Guys Dat Keep Long Beards! by tobechi74: 12:00pm On Dec 28, 2020
And ladies that keep long hair are
RomanceRe: If Your Girlfriend Got Raped , Would You Leave Or Stay ? by tobechi74: 11:58am On Dec 28, 2020
If I got raped, will she stay.
If I got broke,will she stay
If I got deformed, will she stay.


Her action determine my action
RomanceRe: My Fear Of Marrying A Short Girl! by tobechi74: 11:57am On Dec 28, 2020
Are you short
PoliticsRe: Some Names That Have Always Confused Me About Their Origin by tobechi74: 9:14am On Dec 28, 2020
ahnie:
absolutely....BABAJIDE.
I hear Igbo bear jlde
RomanceRe: Davido Doesn’t Mention Too Much About Chioma Since The Baby Came by tobechi74: 9:05am On Dec 28, 2020
Mission accomplished,
Next baby mam
PoliticsRe: The 17 Countries With The Worst Quality Of Life In The World. by tobechi74: 9:01am On Dec 28, 2020
We represent
PoliticsRe: Some Names That Have Always Confused Me About Their Origin by tobechi74: 9:00am On Dec 28, 2020
Is JIDE YORUBA
PoliticsRe: Buhari Vs Nigerians (his Many Enemies) pictures by tobechi74: 8:59am On Dec 28, 2020
Buhari wife was sentenced to the other room
PoliticsRe: What Do You Think A Young Nigerian Must Have To Endure The Nigeria Of Today by tobechi74: 8:58am On Dec 28, 2020
Forget Marriage until money
RomanceRe: What Happen To Man After Marriage by tobechi74: 6:21pm On Dec 27, 2020
When you want to achieve a goal, you do everything to get it.
Once it is now yours,you keep it aside and Chase the next goal.

This is what happens.
RomanceRe: Reasons Why Men Rape by tobechi74: 6:13pm On Dec 27, 2020
False
RomanceRe: Restitution: If I Don't Confess My Adultery To My Spouse, Can I Make Heaven The by tobechi74: 6:12pm On Dec 27, 2020
Your spouse might have done worse without saying a word

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