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Education › Re: Next Year Is 2026; Not 2021. And Thats A Fact You Can Take To The Bank! by tobechi74: 11:43pm On Dec 31, 2020
APC will blame Jonathan and PDP

Romance › Re: Before Marriage He Told Me He Was A Car Dealer Nigerian Lady Crys Out(video) by tobechi74: 10:41pm On Dec 31, 2020
A conductor deals in car na. If he told you the truth, would you have married him
Romance › Re: What's The Number One Thing You Want To Achieve In 2021... Make A Wish. by tobechi74: 10:40pm On Dec 31, 2020
No AASU strike
Education › Re: Facts About The New Year That You Don't Know by tobechi74: 5:36pm On Dec 31, 2020
Ethiopia use different calendar
Education › Re: 'IF You Take The COVID19 Vaccines, You Will Become Like This' - Video by tobechi74: 5:33pm On Dec 31, 2020
I usually do not believe in conspiracy theories untill a Nobel prize winner resigned amidst claim he was under pressure to inflate figure
Romance › Re: What Does Feminism Mean To You by tobechi74(op): 5:27pm On Dec 31, 2020
Women need men to rule over them

Like sheep with a dead brain

Logic used to strip her off power

In an effort to maintain male dominance

Public participation an embargo

Officiating in religion a sin against God

Tertiary education a financial waste

Rearing of children,her reason for been made

Trading her own punny is not right

Whereas men exchange money for physical might

Men make the rules .Men have the final say 

Abide by the unfair system, follow the way

Gets raped amidst struggle and cries

Her virginity taken ,her dignity her pride

Difficult to proof,justice to be denied

Threatened into silence she hides the crime

Atrocity committed by her dad she Trust most

Without pills, without raincoat

Seed begins to germinate. Stomach potrudes

She wants it terminated.but that is a taboo

Shamed for considering abortion

Men only concern is more population

Her body is a decision to be made by society

Her freewill taken,yet another cruelty

Forced to become a single mother

With all its shame and stigma

Social distanced like one with covid nineteen

“Do not be like her” mothers warn their kids

The men do not desire second hand property

She bears it all alone amidst poverty

Develops a passionate hatred for male

Seeks listening ear to tell her tale

Find solace among fellow victim

Under an umbrella of bitter feminist

Relieved to discover she is not lonely

Now she got a chance to tell the world her story

Whom do we blame

Male or female

Power abused yields anarchy

Power used in fairness improves loyalty

The hunted hunts the hunter

Grudge not! Enjoy the karma
Nairaland General › An Unpleasant Experience That Turned Out A Blessing by tobechi74(op): 5:24pm On Dec 31, 2020
Have you ever had an unpleasant experience that turned out a blessing? Share your testimony
Romance › Re: My Experience With A Boy Wearing a Skirt In A Hotel by tobechi74: 2:42pm On Dec 31, 2020
Congratulations
Romance › Re: Opinion: When Ladies Exposes Their body It's Because They Have by tobechi74: 10:56am On Dec 31, 2020
When men show their chest and muscle nko
Politics › Re: I'm Ready To Bear Arms Against Nigeria Government, Army__US Soldier Tells Trump by tobechi74: 10:54am On Dec 31, 2020
Is this not an old video during endsars protest
Romance › Re: Drama As Bride’s Wig Falls Off As Excited Groom Kisses Her Aggressively (WATCH) by tobechi74: 10:52am On Dec 31, 2020
He reduced d embarrassment
Phones › Re: Are They Not Selling Mobile Phones With Earphone Again? by tobechi74: 10:49am On Dec 31, 2020
Seller must make gain na
Romance › Re: Why Force Someone Into Sex? My Heart Is Bleeding (pictures) by tobechi74: 10:48am On Dec 31, 2020
Prostitution gone bad
Romance › What Does Feminism Mean To You by tobechi74(op): 10:42pm On Dec 30, 2020
Believe Feminism Is Choice
As a feminist, I do not advocate for specific outcomes. I advocate for women to have the right to determine their own preferences and live by them. For instance, I can cook, clean, wash and perform most of the other duties expected of women, but I am no homemaker. I have no intention of having children and a man has never paid my bills.

Do I think all women should live like this? No, I don’t. If a woman wants to be a stay-at-home wife and give birth to a football team, that’s her choice. Unfortunately, traditional homemakers are often at the head of the line to sacrifice the rest of us for being untamed hell-cats.

I Value Self-Governance
Since the beginning of modern civilisation, men have reserved an overwhelming amount of power for themselves. Modern society is primarily orchestrated by men, for men. One area penis-swingers seem to take particular interest in legislating, is women’s bodies. In fact, men grant themselves more rights to our bodies than they grant to us — the actual owners of those bodies.

I resent this. The only persons who should have any say in what happens to my body are myself and a medical doctor. Men should not have the privilege to determine when my consent or revocation of the same is valid, whether I should give birth to a child of rape, or whether I can take birth control.

I Recognise Different Brands of Strong Women
There are many stereotypes about what it means to be a strong woman, especially within the Black community. Strong women are independent, keep their emotions in check, pay their own bills, and have laser-focus on their goals. But, is that really true? I don’t think it always is. I believe strength shows itself in many forms.

Alexis'Chateau
Romance › Re: What's The One Thing You Are Not Supposed To Beg For In A Relationship by tobechi74: 6:13pm On Dec 30, 2020
Time
Romance › Re: "Why's It That Sex Is The Major Problem Of Some Majority Of Our Men Today" by tobechi74: 6:11pm On Dec 30, 2020
Why bring a personal conversation online.? This is illegal disclosing his identity
Romance › Re: Why Do Women Still Clamour For Honeymoon? by tobechi74: 6:09pm On Dec 30, 2020
Is it your honeymoon.

Na d guy wey do d honey moon I pity pass
Romance › Re: What Simps Do (pics Included) by tobechi74: 6:07pm On Dec 30, 2020
So sad
Phones › Re: Apple Loses Copyright Claims Against ‘virtual Iphone’ Maker by tobechi74: 5:58pm On Dec 30, 2020
Buisness and greed are brothers
Romance › Re: Nigerians Girls Are The Worst In Love Making by tobechi74:
They have to pretend they are naive so you will not go about calling anyone slut.

Make her tipsy small and you will see her act in bed
Romance › Re: New Trendy For Girls ? Using Underwear To Replace Blouse by tobechi74: 5:52pm On Dec 30, 2020
I see creative girls. Who can turn available items into use. At least☜ (↼_↼)better than those demanding and nagging money for boutique and shoppings. This girls will give husband peace of monf
Education › Re: I Regret Going To The University by tobechi74:
True talk

Many years ago, people gathered to share their ugly academic experience. In the midst of their discussion, some said

” All thermodynamics lecturers are wicked”

So many people nodded in aggrement. I mean people from various tertiary institution studying chemistry,physics, and all form of engineering. My own thermodynamics lecturer was given an alliance of a popular terrorist. It was as if all the thermodynamics teachers had a meeting and took an oath of wickedness. This got me thinking .

” does subject create terrible teachers ?” That is

Will a good teacher suddenly turn terrible simple because he is assigned to teach a particular course ?”

I examined the course in question and realized the subject itself are difficult to understand. Mathematics for example is dreaded by student. These students manage to learn enough to graduate and forget a large amount of what Is learnt immediately after graduation. Because of the unemployment problem in the country, these students find themselves as teachers and lecturers and are asked to teach the subject they once hated. The hatred for the subject resurfaces coupled with the fact that they do not know much. As a teacher,they have to maintain the illusion that they know. They do this by putting up a wicked looking face to scare students from asking much question so as not to expose their incompetence.

Secondly, some subjects are difficult to teach. Some phenomenon can be explained best using computer stimulated teaching aids which are unavailable in most academic institution. It takes a genius teacher to use an a better concept to relate the subject to the student interest for better comprehension.

But terrible teaching is not just a function of subject. Teachers personality. have a role to play. Highly Temperamental teachers make terrible teachers.impatient teachers do not give students enough opportunity to make mistake. They expect students to get it right at first attempt and would rush the scheme of work despite student slow comprehension ability. People who do not enjoy being around children make terrible teachers.

Becoming a better teacher requires a great deal of effort to know and understand the subject more,and be willing to change bones behavior in the classroom.

CHILDREN are forced to go to school against their wish. whereas no one reminds them to play . What makes children dread the classroom while anticipating to go to the field. The answer lies in the emotion evoked. The child is happy playing and sad studying. When he is not sad, he is bored of sitting in class repeatedly, angry at receiving punnishnent for making noise.

The duty of the teacher is to impact knowledge in the classroom. Children love to play. Effective teachers can make the student learn while playing. One way to do this is to spice humor to teaching process.

Humor strengthen teacher student relationship.A teacher who laughs at his own mistake teaches student not to dread making mistake and learns not to be ashamed of been laughed at in class.Child learns that no one is above mistake.

Teacher can begin the class with a joke or amusing thought. whenever he sences boredom among student,he may take a commercial break ,divert to a non related issue such as riddle and jokes and come back to teaching.

Teacher should be cautious not to spend more time on humor at the expense of the actual topic as this could transform class into a chaos.

Sensitive topics like sex and tribe should be avoided as it might be misinterpreted . Humor should be directed at teacher or external party and not at student as It may damage student esteem

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Politics › Re: First Robot To Be Granted Citizenship Of A Country by tobechi74: 10:08am On Dec 30, 2020
Over there, robots have right
Over here cows have right
Romance › Re: Marriage Is Fraud by tobechi74: 12:30am On Dec 30, 2020
Report to EFCC
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Addictions You Want To Stop In This 2020? by tobechi74: 12:29am On Dec 30, 2020
Reading
Romance › Re: Why Women Date And Marry Men by tobechi74: 12:27am On Dec 30, 2020
This is true of ancient marriage
Romance › Re: What’s D Most Ridiculous Lie Your Bf Has Ever Told You When Cheating by tobechi74: 12:21am On Dec 30, 2020
Watching
Romance › Re: A Short Thread, Ladies& Gentlemen. Sit Back And Fear Women- (Copied) by tobechi74: 12:20am On Dec 30, 2020
Sad
Romance › Re: What Is That Evil Thing You Always Imagined In Your Head To Do by tobechi74: 4:36am On Dec 29, 2020
Deathstroke00:
Bro u need to check a mental hospital, if u can think of such a disgusting act, I see no reason you will have sense even in real life
Some posts here are for fun. He is joking
Romance › Re: What Is That Evil Thing You Always Imagined In Your Head To Do by tobechi74: 4:35am On Dec 29, 2020
I imagine nigeria breaking up. It is evil because most northerners will suffer more

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