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Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Likes Posting Pictures Of Random Guys On Social Media. by tobechi74: 5:19pm On Nov 22, 2020
You do the same. Post that of random girls
Romance › Re: So Being Näk3d No Longer Means Anythin? Lady Goes Näkëd To Prove Her A$$ Is Real by tobechi74: 5:18pm On Nov 22, 2020
You see all these girls that focus on physical assets, they have no brain.
It is so easy to convince them to do whatever you want them to do.

The other one I met in a bus, we got talking and I lamented on how girls use fake boobs everywhere. I teased her that I am sure her wonderful boobs is fake. She denied it and behold, she let me touch her boobs .

There was another one I was educating on the high rate of breast cancer in the country. I hinted that regular breast massage was required to prevent breast cancer. I even showed her a saved page online to proove my claim.then I asked her how often she got someone to massage her chest. I told her she was at high risk. To cut story short, I massages her in the bus. Mind you, she knows I am not a health worker.

You can use any excuse to get them to bed. Dem no get sence
Politics › Re: I am Igbos ,I do not Understands The Igbos ? by tobechi74(op): 4:47pm On Nov 22, 2020
AFvckingAlpha:
Niggarr!!

Well, you may be right. But Im sure the Igbos are not everywhere as y'all claim.

Some places will be devoid of the Igbos for one reason or the other.(war, harsh weather conditions) etc
As long as life thrives there. As long as a human being is proven to exist there, an Igbo man can exist there
Politics › Re: I am Igbos ,I do not Understands The Igbos ? by tobechi74(op): 4:45pm On Nov 22, 2020
Igbochief001:
Syria ? ...where do u think curtains and rugs are imported from ...lmao we have very large igbo community in syria iraq maybe cause of war but I'm sure there are igbo there
In war region, arms sell. An Igbo man will make guns and sell. Medics are needed to take care of injured. Health workers will go there. Where you see problem, an Igbo man sees opportunity
Family › Re: One childhood hurt your parent inflicted on you that you will never forget. by tobechi74(op): 4:34pm On Nov 22, 2020
ABOVEDELAW:
YOU SHOULD COMPARE WHAT THEY WENT THROUGH IN YOUR UPBRINGING AND THE SO CALLED HURT AND BALANCE THE EQUATION.
Imagine your partner cheats on you and tells you to compare all she has been through in life and what she has done for you in life. Does that justify her actions.
Or you tell God you have paid tithe all your life so you deserve heaven despite the fact that you steal . Does that balance the equation?

True, your parents may pass through a worse childhood. They might have had a hard time raising you. They might have hurt you in the process. It is not intentional but sit should be acknowledged they should understand that their action did hurt you. The wonderful things they did to you can not make up for their negative ones. Acknowledge both.
Family › Re: One childhood hurt your parent inflicted on you that you will never forget. by tobechi74(op): 4:22pm On Nov 22, 2020
jellybabee:
. I can relate with you ooo... It seems you are trying to describe my Mum's attitude towards people... But t affects me more cos am an introvert , that never gives her reply whenever she z busy shouting n disgracing me....Recently,she comes to my home shouting n reigning abusive words at me....then I opened up to her n told her I don't lyk wat she z doing... D reply she gave me was that she will beat d hell out of me n I told her to go ahead n do that. The funny thing z she z very aggressive with words n i av been trying to cope with that right from childhood days but now am an adult for goodness sake ...but I don't know wat to do since am an extreme introvert... She makes me cry daily whenever I think of her....T z cos of her I do wish n hope I can make friends just to av someone I can relate with apart from my husband.
Since she is violent, Non physical confrontation is ideal. I suggest you write a letter to her. The good thing about letter is that she will not interrupt you. writing gives you opportunity to organize your words .you may write,edit and correct them over a long time. Your letter should include

1) what she has done to you: e g when I was young ,you called me this cruel word..

2) how you felt about it ,e g I felt worthless. Like I would never amount to anything in life

3) how it affected your life e g . I never volunteered for any activity among my peers. It made me shy I was denied promotion twice because of this

4) what you want from her : e g I need you to acknowledge the harm you caused me. I need you to stop insulting me publicly as that reignite previous wounds. I want to re-establish a cordial relationship with you but I need to do that without fear of you hurting me.

You get the drift. Let her understand you are trying to establish a stained relationship. You still love her regardless of what she has done in the past and you have forgiven her but you need this before you may communicate freely with her.
Romance › Re: Greatest Secret Of Nigerian Girls Revealed by tobechi74: 7:46pm On Nov 21, 2020
How is this greatest? Not even a great secret.
Family › Re: Dating A White Girl Pros And Cons by tobechi74: 7:45pm On Nov 21, 2020
They are human beings like black say no to rascism
Family › Re: I Feed Him Grass Like Animal:mother Of 21 Yr Old. by tobechi74: 7:44pm On Nov 21, 2020
Evidence that man evolved from aoes- homo erectus
Romance › Re: Is There Any Consequence With Marrying A Person With Same Surname As One's? by tobechi74: 7:41pm On Nov 21, 2020
She is too superstitious
Romance › Re: Can You Act Porn To Earn Money? by tobechi74: 7:39pm On Nov 21, 2020
Provided one ask for forgiveness and pays bribe, sorry, Tithe , .
Romance › Re: Why You Must Add Value To Your Husband || Adams Today by tobechi74: 7:37pm On Nov 21, 2020
How much
Romance › Re: Nigerian Lady Prays As She Flies In An Aircraft First Time(see Reactions) by tobechi74: 7:37pm On Nov 21, 2020
Congratulations to her
Romance › Re: Guys, Can You Sex Your Sister In Law? by tobechi74: 7:35pm On Nov 21, 2020
Question for the gods
Romance › Re: . by tobechi74: 7:34pm On Nov 21, 2020
Tales by moon light
Romance › Re: My Father Is Being Overly Jealous!!!! by tobechi74: 7:32pm On Nov 21, 2020
How did he know her size
Romance › Re: 4 Red Flags That She Is A Liability - Reno Omokri by tobechi74: 7:31pm On Nov 21, 2020
Reno get wife abi
Romance › Re: Pus*y Slave: How To Uncommit? by tobechi74: 7:30pm On Nov 21, 2020
Na waoooo
Romance › Re: How Does A White Girl Pussy Taste Like by tobechi74: 7:28pm On Nov 21, 2020
As white as chalk
Romance › Re: Bet9ja And Weed, Which Is More Addictive? by tobechi74: 1:21pm On Nov 21, 2020
None
Romance › Re: How Do I Resist Her Without Hurting Her by tobechi74: 1:21pm On Nov 21, 2020
How do girls reject you without hurting you
Romance › Re: Practical Ways To Attract A Nigerian Guy by tobechi74: 1:19pm On Nov 21, 2020
Make sure you take him out and spend on him , he will play hard to get.
Romance › Re: Can A Prostitute Become A Better Wife In The Future? by tobechi74: 1:14pm On Nov 21, 2020
Prostitute who are in the trade for financial reasons only are no different from the regular girl on the street, all na hustle.


Yes they can
Romance › Re: D Way Some Women Look Like When Pregnant. by tobechi74: 1:09pm On Nov 21, 2020
I used to pity them until they began converting husband into slave
Romance › Re: . by tobechi74: 1:06pm On Nov 21, 2020
I have noticed that girls when are brave enough to ask a guy out are those confident and controlling girls who need a submissive guy to give instructions.

They mistake my humility for one . Me wey don dey study their character since.

No way
Romance › Re: Nigerian Man Sends Lady He Has Never Met Lady N300k After She Tweeted “abuja” by tobechi74: 2:41am On Nov 21, 2020
Will he do the same thing for a guy
Science/Technology › Re: Scientists Successfully Reverse Human Ageing Process (Pics) by tobechi74: 9:27pm On Nov 20, 2020
Buhari needs this to live forever.
Vote buhari for 2027

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