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Simp is a stage guys go through in life. Like an apprentice serves a master to learn the tricks of the trade. At times, master subject him to all sort of hardships,he still mellow down to attempt to please the master. A stage comes when he feels he has learnt a lot, he seeks freedom. Many guys were simps to their first love.

Today Alpha makes and relationship experts were once simp. The greatest today served their master well for years.

Let us not he too harsh on them meanwhile the young shall grow

apasino01:
Confront Wetin ?

Me sef know say as a kid my ear wasn’t really working.

I no hear Word!

hope you don calm down else your children will confront you

Sad

Good

How.many username you get for nairaland..all comment by one person

Women need men to rule over them

Like sheep with a dead brain

Logic used to strip her off power

In an effort to maintain male dominance

Public participation an embargo

Officiating in religion a sin against God

Tertiary education a financial waste

Rearing of children,her reason for been made

Trading her own punny is not right

Whereas men exchange money for physical might

Men make the rules .Men have the final say 

Abide by the unfair system, follow the way

Gets raped amidst struggle and cries

Her virginity taken ,her dignity her pride

Difficult to proof,justice to be denied

Threatened into silence she hides the crime

Atrocity committed by her dad she Trust most

Without pills, without raincoat

Seed begins to germinate. Stomach potrudes

She wants it terminated.but that is a taboo

Shamed for considering abortion

Men only concern is more population

Her body is a decision to be made by society

Her freewill taken,yet another cruelty

Forced to become a single mother

With all its shame and stigma

Social distanced like one with covid nineteen

“Do not be like her” mothers warn their kids

The men do not desire second hand property

She bears it all alone amidst poverty

Develops a passionate hatred for male

Seeks listening ear to tell her tale

Find solace among fellow victim

Under an umbrella of bitter feminist

Relieved to discover she is not lonely

Now she got a chance to tell the world her story

Whom do we blame

Male or female

Power abused yields anarchy

Power used in fairness improves loyalty

The hunted hunts the hunter

Grudge not! Enjoy the karma

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/08/the-monster-we-feed/

Just as a child graduates from high school into college, his priorities shift. The courses he takes become more narrow. He drops some classmates behind and retain few classmates who share the same college preference and same course. We do not go remain in high school out of loyalty to our friends.


As we age, our values, hobbies job etc changes. This is a sign of growth.one whose priority remain constant is stagnant like a child who fails to learn . Our choice of life partner also change.


A partner is one who embark on a similar journey with us. As our priority changes, that of our partner may remain the same or change in a different direction. One partner is taking a leap in one direction and the other partner is watching while giving her full support . There are other relationship where the other partner discourage you from keeping up to your new ideal.you no longer feel connected. You become incompatible . Just because you are in a union does not mean you must follow our partner as he/ she changes her priorities

https://tobechispeaks./2020/11/16/relate-dont-marry/

Nothing wrong

Papa Segun , you have killed our son!” . Mama lamented . She knelt down and placed her ears against his chest  . He was not breathing but she could hear the beating of the heart.

Make we take am go hospital” Mama suggested.

Damilola who has been observant turned to Mama .

”  I can heal your son under one  condition. You will let us get married.”

“Over my dead body. “Papa cut in.

Damilola picked up her bag and began walking out of the door.

” I will rather watch him die than let him live and get married to someone else.”

Mama Chukwudi rushed to the door to prevent her from leaving.

“I will first report to SARS, ” Dami threatened.

“Say something. our only son”

“Ok. Both of you can get married “. Baba Chukwudi said reluctantly.. The fear of SARS is the avoidance of trouble.


Damilola went close to his fiancee body and dropped to her knees  . She made some incantation with her lips. She slowly ran her fingers from his lips to his  knee and gradually stroked him moving his fingers up  again. He unzipped him and brought out his 4 inches member to the glaring eye of mother and father.

“The children of these days do not have respect touching a man private part in the presence of an. Elder” . He said trying to stop the show but he was prevented by his wife.

Make sure your eyes are focused here. She instructed the couple in a rude manner while pointing his fingers at his Chukwudi’s weapon.

She  removed her blouse and  her bra she was putting on revealing the underside of her big tit for everyone to see.

Papa Segun mouth went wide open. This time it was Mama Segun turn to get irritated. But Papa Segun urged her to continue. He enjoyed feeding his eyes.

“What kind of man  stares at another man’s penis when a breast is  before him.”? He murmured to him self but audible enough for his wife to hear.

She placed her lips inches away from his ears Whispering how Hot she is . She took his earlobes  between her lips and kisses them deeply.she walks her way down the ridge through the neck pressing her tongue firmly into the nape of his neck. His  cock became hard and still. Mama noticed his boner and screamed for joy.

It is standing”

Chukwudi grabbed her melon with his hands and kisses them passionately. Papa Chukwudi tried to sapeerate the lovers. He stumbled against the stool and fell off.He needs her healing

https://tobechispeaks./2020/11/06/do-ladies-slut-shame-each-other-more/

You don't need to seduce s man. Guys just need a place to have sex.

To make money now

entire economic system.we live in a world that priorities loosing a dear friend to loosing a penny. Competition is favored over cooperation in this masculine led society. To get up, one must step on the toes of others .To win, others must loose . To retain the job of a marketer, one must make a certain number of sales before a given deadline . It does not matter how you do it .- manipulate clients, sleep with them etc The end justifies the mean. The system promote cheating . Those who can break their values climb faster. The compassionate ones loose out.


The society encourages us to value money over our honor. The trader who cheats,misleads and overcharges and then seek to square himself with conscience by saying” lying is absolutely necessary for buisness is worshipped. The man who makes promises he cannot keep to get position is elevated .Many buisness- minded individuals ventured into sanitizer production during this covid 19 period. Some sold adulterated  version to increase profit.


The pressure mountain can turn a saint into a crook.Can we have a society where money is not considered as priority. A society that values human virtues of honestly, kindness, fairness, forgiveness? A society where buisness is not done primarily for reward or money. Service is rendered because one enjoys the service first and money is a representative of the economic value of the service rendered. I have seen people advertise and sell goods they do not use. The motivation is to sell anything to make money without concern for the process of production or the effectiveness of product. . It begins with you and I.
https://tobechispeaks./2020/11/14/dog-eat-dog-world/

By 2022, massive Rd dis from APC

We will sell zamfara gold to them

So student should enjoy AASU strike

Will Muslims allow Christian judge do the same

Chairman of Nigeria-Broadcasting body sure stations for playing report from a DJ.

CNN also played a video from an ordinary DJ

techmo:





It was my aunt that I confronted had no issues with my parents... Funny enough she can never change I just wasted my confrontation on her, ever insultive and mean but deep down very good at heart


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it is not wastage. Now you do not hold any grudge against her. You have emptied your feeling. That is the good news

peacenow:
I confronted my dad.
He apologised for his wrong doings and we moved on. I love him even if he did not apologise. He raised me miraculously. It was when I became a man that I found out that my father was poor and did his best to raise me withing his worth.

Parenting is not taught. Most parent did what their parents did to them. Inquiring about your parent upbringing gives you an idea of what they went through. Parents who grow up fearing their dad end up raising children who fear them. When you hear their tales,you feel sorry for them and forgive them more

Let the dead bury themselves

Things are hard economy is tough. This is the reason

Her body. Her right. You may suggest but she has the final say

Buhari has ear problem. Donate some to him

She values beauty more than brain

I tag girls all the time.normal

Good

If you do not wear make up, it is assumed you cannot afford one. You are perceived to be in a lower social class

I cover her private part with blood of Jesu

What role do you play in her life?
If financial, withdraw from it. Tell her you need money to service Ashewo.
Come back late, tell her you are coming from a prostitute place

Flirt with girls in her presence,

Do not ask her for sex again.

If she dresses with some part of her body exposed, tell her she is too far or black etc.
You do not find her attractive again.

Intentionally,buy a packet of condom and remove one and place it where she will see it

Place a bigger bra in your bedroom.


https://tobechispeaks./2020/11/04/a-little-fragrance-of-divorce/

The bishop did nothing

If he were a pastor??


If he were an Imam..?

Not body trust army again

The ability to get along with those with different mindset is essential to build a brand new country. It involves patience, understanding and acceptance of those of different ethnic group, language, religion and political views.


We ought to understand that when everyone thinks and behave in the same manner,the nation would be boring. Variety is the spice of life .diversity is central to humanity. A tolerant person recognises that his enemy has the right to think his own thought and live his own life as long as he doesn’t interfere in that of others. It gives to others the same freedom we crave.


A tolerant Muslim ignores hurtful remark from a thirteen years old. A tolerant Christian does not loose his cool when handling difficult situation. Both understand that even though everyone believe in the same religion, their understanding of that Religion would differ.A tolerant APC leader forgives the errors of PDP leaders and not constantly picking on them. A tolerant prison warder respects the right of prisoners. A tolerant spouse do not pick quarrel constantly with each other.


When we force the minority tribe into doing our bidding, hatred and contempt is not avoidable. By making certain allowance,we transform a harsh house into a sweet one

One way to increase our religious tolerance level is to study more about the other person Religion. Do this without the intention to convert to their religion but to understand why they believe in what they believe.l remember harbouring a slight contempt for Muslims who do not partake in eating a cow killed by a Muslim.I saw this as segregation.It was not until I inquired from a Muslim that I understand it had more to do with the love for cows that they do not want to watch it suffer while dying . They believe cows should die a quick death so they kill cows in a specialway using sharp knife while offering a special prayer. My contempt was based on ignorance. My newly acquired knowledge errased my false assumption
https://tobechispeaks./2020/10/30/a-missing-ingredient/

I feel so ashamed that he is an Igbo guy

HungryLion231:
Is this what human right activist is supposed to do in this subject matter? Well, he’s a self acclaimed Human Rights Activist sha

All he’s saying is Trash n nonsensical. What CNN did was what our lazy ass media houses here could have done. But I guess they r still over fed with pounded yam n fufu mixed together. Kudos to AriseTV BTW.

IMO, I don’t think even the Panel Of inquiry set up by the govt in all state can really do much to pin these culprits of the #LekkiMassacre.

Our media are not lazy. The small they did, they are already getting fined. AIT has been threaten to have it'sll licence withdrawn in the past. Journalist are harrassed.probablyy, they sent some information to CNN They cannot touch USA journalist.