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OgahBohz:
nice one ..

a simple ' NO ' wouldn't be too much of a reply would it ..?


the picture message wasn't necessary dr ..

Fazemood:
Bro, any lady who says such sh!t is still a child. Go and date an older lady and see how relationship is supposed to be

Toks2008:
I think this thread is frontpage worthy.

omooba969:
Which one be open marriage again?

OgahBohz:
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can we chat via WhatsApp?...

m sure you won't like to share your contact here ( to avoid disturbance) how about I drop mine and you say hi?..

by the way mine is...

07038840936(whatsApp only)

Salam..

Omotayor123:
Thanks

And yes I am

obiekunie1:
NICE QUESTION BRO!


Based on her write-up, she didn't accuse him of cheating

she didn't accuse him of domestic violence

she didn't accuse him of staying out late!


her only complain is that SOMETIMES THE HOUSE IS JUST NOT BIG ENOUGH TO CONTAIN BOTH OF THEM!



very sick woman!

passion247:
Everything she said actually makes a lot of sense.

A lot of married women would love to do this but are not brave enough.. You re 100% right. She's brave

EmagNig:
You remember Ese Walter? The lady that was allegedly involved with Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo of COZA church in a sex scandal. The new gist we have is that Ese Walter is separated from husband Benny Ark, whom she got married to less than a year after the scandal in 2013.

In a post she made on her Facebook profile, she wrote of the questions some of her fans asked her via inbox and some wanted to know if she was truly separated from her husband.

She responded in the affirmative and then went ahead to write a note on it.

Read:



https://lailasnews.com/ese-walter-is-separated-from-husband/

Missyford31:
Agree. It probably started out that way but maybe not. Is sorta how my igbo guy n i started two n half yrs ago n now we more in love than ever.

kygo:
In January this year,my school did a compulsory medical test on all 100 level students as part of their registration...you won't believe over 1000 of them had HIV...the epidemic is growing in Nigeria,yet everybody wants fork skin to skin... imagine one stupid girl was telling me "condom is boring"...oboy,na so I take use style lock up that girl..
there should be constant HIV and AIDS awareness programs everywhere,both TV, radio, internet, workshops and seminars...please be vigilant,go for tests,stick to one partner,if e hard you just Sha use condoms...... hope you had a good day

AGNESikpuNNU:
Only few women can tell you an honest truth ... i am a woman so i know. Only Eve really knows other things that transpired at the garden of eden apart from the kindergarten Apple story.

Mologi:
Who dressed, who is lucky?

Celebrities are not known to be one man one wife beings...

uchman48:
But Tinubu imposed his own candidate in Lagos state and they pretend and looked the other way. If Okorocha is wise, by now he should realize he was used and dumped. I don't support all this imposing of candidate but this is Nigeria where the results are ready before election.

yettymuse:
You couldn't have said it any better. Bunch of foolish people that thinks that a woman is only successful with a Mrs title and unsuccessful should the marriage crumble. No wonder thousands of women would rather be STUCK in an unhappy union than walk their way out to make the best of themselves. Yeye dey smell!

Colourich:
I've never seen someone die for marrying late but I've never seen people die for marrying the wrong person. Take your time before you jump into marriage, make sure what you feel is real and you can tolerate the person's excesses, don't let societal pressure lead you into a marriage you will live the rest of your short life to regret.

Colourich:
Lalasticl is married. He got married this year.

Laeroy:
Toks2008, oya come here and tell us the truth how old are you and why ain't you yet married.... Or is it what I'm thinking

ednut1:
sorry sir u are making no sense. So the two ex wives shud have stayed and continue to suffer emotional abuse from his bossy sisters and interference abi. Ooni of a man is a jerk no be person be 80 year old alafin wey dey handle small gals wella

ednut1:
life has no manual oga. There are many women married and miserable and their husbands no send them. Stop generalising . Lived in d uk for 3 years so cut that crap out. Ur not exposed bt myiopic. U wey be over 43 wey never marry are u not surviving Are there not widows surviving too. Mtcheeew

Hotfreezer:
Toks must have been really surrounded by terrible women in his life. Mother, sisters, etc. They detailed his mentality and he can't think straight.

At 43, he's still running after secondary school girls in romance section.

ednut1:
u are mean . D guy dey mess up.according to him women need men cos they would feel lonely forgeting many women are married and are miserable /lonely in the marriage too. Just like joro forming boss they know all about marriage and women but are unmarried. Nonsense

Intrepid01:
I wonder if all men were like Toks2008; the typical African man with wharped mentality of women, if Meghan Markle would be a princess in England today...

Prince Harry; a royal blood married a divorcee and no one gives a heck about it in the royal family. Imagine that happening where you have Toks2008 and his likes...

Carinaflo:
Please do not say "The world", rather say Africans especially Nigerians. It is because of the so much importance Nigerians attach to marriage that makes most Nigerian ladies behave as if their sole purpose of being on Earth is to get married.
You see a very young girl, in stead of her to be thinking of how to build a career and be productive like her male counterparts, all she thinks about is how to package herself to look like a wife material so she can get married. She ends up seeing marriage as a do or die affair, when she eventually gets married, she feels she has arrived, she stops relating with her single female friends, she starts seeing the other single ladies as irresponsible ladies not minding that some of the single ladies are very hard working and can pay their own bills without looking for the help of any guy.
Then few years into the marriage, the husband starts seeing the married lady as a"liability" because she has nothing to offer, all she knows how to do is to spend money and incur expenses, the husband out of frustration starts maltreating the wife, he starts beating her up, cheating on her and then the wife could not do anything because the only skills she had equipped herself with all her life are the skills that would help her get married. She can't even fend for herself and again how can she face her family and friends after she has been making mockery of single ladies?, So she is forced to stay back and endure, if she is lucky, she ends up so miserable and unhappy if she is unlucky, she ends up dead in the hands of the husband. Few years later, the husband marries a prettier, younger lady who had also been preparing herself to be a "married woman" and the cycle continues....

NB: The earlier our society stop making ladies believe that their sole purpose on Earth is marriage, the saner our society would be. Let us teach our girl child how to be a good person, how to be a productive adult, how to be a responsible adult, how to be a hard working adult, how to Carter for her needs as an adult.
Let us stop making our girl child believe that her greatest achievement in life would be to bear "Mrs" as a tittle.

Herrmes:
Who puts this guy's stuff up on the front page?
What does he stand for?

Chi59:
Sermon's over. Say the grace.
You're 42. I'm 23.
By far you are older.
Don't tell me that you haven't found an older, submissive, lady to settle down with.
Oh I forgot, no one really wants old school anymore.

Chi59:
Still a bucket load of baloney.
Why don't you just go and get married?
Uncle know-it-all, practice what you preach.

okeyfineboy:
Your write up is so biased. Why should it be only the lady that will guard her marriage? So the men should misbehave while the lady should forgive all in the name of remain Mrs.? You have an archaic way of thinking. It takes two to tango. Stop making men feel too important and misbehave just because they feel they have more advantage if the marriage leads to divorce.

I have seen women who are exceedingly successful and very much okay after divorce. I even know some that are still very selective of men coming from their hand in marriage even after having kids in their previous marriage. I know some who refused to get married because they feel they are better off without a man. A woman's life does not revolve around man, stop making it look so.

Chi59:
Toks2008's posts on relationships and marriage has never failed to reveal His warped, traditionalist, subtle sexist mindset.
I'm not surprised. Most of his posts on relationship are mostly directed to the feminine gender, subtly telling them to be submissive and willing to take anything they see in other to get married and stay married. He makes a lot of mention of age, he opines that women under 25 should not be considered for marriage and a lot of baloney.
Forget him