₦airaland Forum

decatalyst:
This man just dey fall hand dey go.


After the old cargo wanting to rule this nation, it is an insult for him to say he wants to rule in this country.

Nah you dey fall your own hand. let people live their lives. Worry about yours.

Interesting times

Denko2721987:
The video looks staged sha

Very staged.

HomoSapiien:
Dangote refinery is already on the way.

SMH!

HomoSapiien:
It’d be unreasonable for anyone to protest again fuel subsidy now.

Fuel subsidy must go for the greater good to come.

What about making the refineries work?

MT:
So, you are saying it is normal to live like a slave in the country that you are living, while you live like a King whenever you are in Nigeria to impress people you have arrived; I don't share that mentality. I want to live like a King where I am living, and also live like a King whenever I travel anywhere. It is a choice.

How much do you think Chinese buffet costs?

What are you talking about?

Is going to Nandos a big deal?

Guy learn how to manage your resources. You can live like a king anywhere if you know what you are doing.

Cheers.

MT:
So, the govt wont charge for Tax, NI and pension. And with the expensive nature of UK, 200 GBP cant last you for a month. Well, I guess we look at different standard of living as individuals are different. I dont want to live on 200GBP in a month. Just a dash to Nandos with a family of 4 will cost minimum of 50GBP.

When you want to compare to UK to Nigeria, there are so many factors to be considered. It has to be like for like. The bill, the rent in UK can make someone goes crazy, whereas you pay almost negligible bills in Nigeria. It is not always greener at the other side of the divide.

Nah you wan go Nandos. Go do chinese once in a while and enjoy yourself or go do buffet. With 60 quid you can make soup that will last you,your wife and 2 kids for two weeks. With 150 you can make different soups that last a month.

Guy its about planning your life minimally. When you travel to Naija you can live like a King.

MT:
I will dispute with your statement. You can only compare likes to likes. You cannot say it is easier to make 500GBP to 50k. That's a blanket statement riddled with errors

Guy, in Naija the minimum wage is 30k a month but in UK the minimum is £9.50 PER HOUR(over 8k) and will increase to 10:50 by April next year.

So when I wrote what you quoted I was making reference to honest day paId jobs in Nigeria and UK.

So technically speaking, in just a week, those on 12 hours daily shift will make more than £500(over N450k) if the person collects the barest minimum wage cos many get more.

How long Can you work in Naija to make 50k?

Now coming to purchasing power, it can be argued that 50k can feed you in Naija considerably whereas in UK £200 if properly managed can feed you for a month but making £200 is easier than making N50k.

I hope you understand

SultanOfPuna:
Abroad na just hype

If you fix only electricity in Nigeria
Just onlyyyy electricity

You will see how many of them will rush back to Nigeria
Yes, food is way cheaper abroad.
But when they hammer you bills, your eye go clear.
Gas bill
Light bill
Water bill
microwave bill
air conditioner bill
Internet bill
Plus monthly house rent of about $500
During winter bills go double times 2

Abroad go deal with you wotoporiusly

Another ignorant post.

In most houses your rent is all inclusive bills.

And it's far cheaper than Naija... Let me explain..

Let's say you pay £500 it will be like paying 450k a month in Naija but please note that the way you make 500 in UK is easier than the way you make 50k in Naija.

Now included with your 500 rent are

Gas

Electricity without blinking for a sec

High speed 4G/5G internet 24/7 and you can video stream with it.

Water bill and so on.

Only if you decide to rent a flat on your own that you can start paying those bills aside your rent but that is also affordable outside London.

Now ask yourself...

How much will it cost you to have 24/7 electricity in Naija? And I mean good electricity that you can iron and use microwave...

How much will you pay to have super fast internet streaming service that can be used to watch endless videos and TV for a month.

Now you can see that it's cheaper..

englishmart:
You guys are always trying to paint the UK bad. Robberies don't happen in London or anywhere in the UK.

Who is this one.

Robbery is everywhere in the world.

My phone was snatched around East london. The guy latter dropped it when he realized it was palasa

Thank GOD I'm not a phone freak.

1Sharon:
Which one is faithful husband? Are men not polygamous again?

Hi Sharon..

Ofcourse guys are polygamous in nature and will forever be but nevertheless, a virgin bride has all the right to demand sexual faithfullness from her husband but not a lady that has slept with other men even if it was in the past.

This is an unpleasant truth even if I'm only shaking tables for the fun of it.

noble2faith:
This shows how perverted, corrupt and degenerated this generation is! Though the pastor said something wrongly, which is demonizing sex. I believe it was a slip of tongue. But MouthAction is very demonic and unhygienic. That it is not mentioned in directly in the Bible does not make it right. Read the book of James 1vs 1 to the end. You will see where unnatural way of having sex is mentioned as a sign of a debased mind. Even animals do not engage in MouthAction! So MouthAction is very unnatural! Its origin must be from demonic realm!

You don't know Jack.

In Marriage no part of your spouse body is sacred.

It is when a guy eats snails indiscriminately that it becomes a problem.

Me I can't even marry a lady that refuses me to eat her snails.

Very hygienic and sweet.

TMSMedia:
A Nigerian pastor, Rev. Bernard Achiuior has warned his followers to refuse oral s*x, IGBERETV reports.

He said oral s*x is more "demonic" than other forms of sex.

He wrote on his Facebook page;



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid02g9f12Vo4UmWSReidMeykado4mrsjYT2MAe3ivGf7mt3W1SYN9cG4AjG5oVwycphcl&id=100075840068840

Mumu talk.

I go chop snail till I grow old.

FoolishBoy419:
The funny thing is that Messi didn't even need any international trophy to be better than Ronaldo. Any objective observer with more than basic knowledge of football wouldn't even compare the two. Ronaldo is a great finisher and that's where it ends. It's criminal that he's being compared to someone that creates magical chances, dribbles like an eel, consistently beats everyone in the assists department and still manages to score more goals than most strikers. And this has been going on for over a decade.


He's always been the best.

God bless you for this.
Messi has an amazing stamina and will. Hardly fall when tackled.

otherway:
Toks the table shaker.

But this is the truth tho.

Guy how you dey...I love catching cruise as you already know.

I love shaking the tables with some undiluted truth.

It is what it is.

Marriage is a complicated institution...

When couples divorce, they hardly say the. Main reason.

This is why i dont meddle.

DivinegiftofGod:
You have not experienced that kind of cold that is why you're talking this way.

Do you know what it feels like living inside the freezer? Someone said she wears nothing less than seven clothings everyday before she can go to work yet the cold is still biting.
Can you be doing that stress everyday? How many clothes do you even have to be changing with seven everyday.?

We always think its better on the other side..

She will get used to it.

Just Two years...

Where is Mynd44 or lalasticlala

Let's shake the table small with this undiluted truth.

MufasaLion:
A proud adulterer cum polygamist. Disgusting.

A role model to ignorant and lost sheeples.

Cry a river

MacDani:
When your television remote, phone or any of such misbehave, you go hammer on it for factory reset, soon ladies needs to hammer on them for their factory brain to reset.

When he was stupidly working day n night to help her have a bright future, taking alll sorts of rubbish from people just to help someone who will help him in future to get brighter future, what her so called father or family didn't do for her, and now she don see road and for her mind you are wise as serpent.

You now see him as a common illiterate, thinking you're untouchable, nne?!! nemesis will always come back to you, if not from him, then it will come from your kids but surely know this nemesis will surely come, na time e go take. No where is safe not even your grave yard.

Cuz you now make millions so easy and you think everything will be easy for you and you now forget yesterday because of social media, right? Well, I'm not a lawyer so why will I judge you. Social Media go deceive you, bite yourself hard and see how it pains.

I dont care about the long gist. No man should beat a lady for whatever reason.

Period

piecuntie:
HI NAIRALANDERS ;
I am about to seperate from husband who sponsored me in school because I am fed up.

I came from a very poor family. I met my husband when I was 19. He wasn't doing well either, he told me he was an engineer in a public hospital but as time went on I got to know he was a level 3 plumber in the civil service.

Well I was young, naive, hungry and blindly in love. He went to trade school and I encouraged him to go back to school for HND or bsc but he said he was going to sponsor me first. I got pregnant for him in my first year in school when I was 20yrs old, my mom was against it. I got to know he was 13years older than me while pregnant. HE TOLD ME HE WAS 26yrs old.

My mom wanted me to abort it, instead i packed my things and stayed with him.
He abused my mom and I defended him. I gave birth while in school and he continued to support me both financially. We fought during those period, series of red flag but I decided to ignore it as long he wasn't beating me. He abused me emotionally. He knew my family was poor and there was no where i could go.

I finished school and my friends told me not to marry a plumber, I declined and told them he promised to go to school.

I finished school and i was scared of depending on him with my child, we were not doing fine at all.

I had no choice than to date a rich guy who helped me with a good job in the year 2017. HE got to know about the guy and i broke up with him. I apologized and we GOT MARRIED LEGALLY and got pregnant with my second child. We spent only 150k.

All the money i made from my salary, I made sure i supported him, i moved out of the family house in the year 2019, we have been there for 8yrs, he couldnt afford to rent a house, I spent 400k, both of us had no friends, we only had each other. I helped my brother and they did well in business. I asked my husband to go back to school, he was still adamant.

We went to a traditional person and they told him there is a curse on his head that i should bathe and do some sacrifice for him, which i did.

By year 2020 he was doing fine, we didn't even go hungry during the lockdown, I supported him with 2million naira and we did our traditional marriage.

IT was his business patners who were notorious cheat and neglected their wife that did his groom men, They introduced him to an association, i have asked him what is the aim of the association, he cant tell me, it is a secret.

3 months after the wedding, he started cheating and even beat me for the first time on our wedding anniversary becaus of the girl,
When he saw i withdrawed all financia assistant like paying half of the rent and paying one of the kids school fees. he called family members to beg me and we settled and i bought a family car for us to use.

Since then i have been walking on eggs around him, he tells me i should respect his age that we are not mate, he beat me again last 3 months saying i am as proud as my mother and i abused his mother back.

This monday i had to run after bus to go to work because i told im i was looking for mOney, and he said i just call him a thief. I had no money on me i had to call my brother to give me money. He wasnt even bothered. He doesn't call me again, WE DONT GO OUT AGAIN


I don't stress him for expensive outing our wigs or phone.
I bought my phone or trip myself out. He would rather hang out with his friends. He tells his friends and the kids i wear cheap outfits.

My mind is now strong. I don't cry again if he offends me nor complain.

I want to divorce him , sell the car and use it for this UK study route and take my children as dependent without him knowing. I am tired of the marriage already. He is 44 while I am 31. i want to move on with my life.

Sorry for the long write up

If a guy beats you, leave him.

Simple. No long story.

ibiyemi28:
Continue lying �Toks is comings for you soon

Ofcourse there are still many virgins out there so it's not impossible.

RedpillAnalyst:
Nice one.

What about the ones who use toys and never had intimate encounter with opposite sex?

The hymen is broken

Those ones are no longer virgins

jmoore:
Virginity is not hymen. Your technicality is so porous.

According to your definition, a woman that uses her mouth to suck the penis of 100 men and swallows the sperm is still a virgin if her hymen is intact.

According to your definition, a woman that allows men to have anal sex with her but her hymen is intact is still a virgin.

Unfortunately YES,the embolden can be classified as virgins but i call them sexually active virgins.

RedpillAnalyst:
@Toks2008

This type of truth is what they call hate speech. No one is ready for that.

It is already bad that there can't be a reversal. Infact, more men marry being a virgin/ having very low partners than women.

In the world of today, the excuse they give is men do it too when they know that removes accountability from them.

In a world where anything moral is seen as confrontational but some of us will always stand for the truth.

As i wrote, im not judging, i am not a saint and i am not exonerating men like myself who sleep with single ladies.

Nevertheless,what i wrote up there is the uncomfortable truth.

jmoore:
Virginity is the state of no sexual experience. It is not specific to any gender. Saying that a man can't be a virgin is implying all men had sex in their mother's womb.

A prostitute can have many sex tapes and still go ahead for Hymenoplasty. Virginity is not hymen.

Bro. Your definition is hypothetical and i am very much aware of that. That was why i wrote. TECHNICALLY . and im talking about natural hymen,not factory made one

virginprincess:
Same way only virgin men deserve faithful wives,all better still only virgin men deserves virgin women ,you Nigeria men think you can eat your cake and have it back,it not possible.

Well I find this comment interesting and I was actually expecting this response so let me school you if you are willing to learn.

1. Men should never be put on equal with women when it comes to sexual chastity even when GOD encourages everyone to be chaste, men are allowed to have many wives if they so desire which totally nullifies your assertion cos if a man is allowed both in the Bible and Quran to have many wives, does that not make it senseless to argue that a man must be sexually faithful to his wife?

2. Technically speaking, a man can't be a virgin cos what makes a lady a virgin is because of an unbroken hymen and men do not have hymen.

3. What I wrote is an uncomfortable truth and any lady who disagrees should intelligently counter it.

Please note that I no longer respond to trolls or unintelligent comments especially the ones that digress from the topic. Many people are intellectually dumb and I have no energy to engage such people.

So if you still have a counter notion, state it without any form of derogatory comments and I will respond.

I wrote that insults are welcomed cos I need to give room for trolls and unintelligent people but I don't respond to trolls.

Enjoy your weekend

Bible... Leviticus 21:14

"A widow, or a divorced woman, or one who is profaned by harlotry, these he may not take; but rather he is to marry a virgin of his own people,"

Quran... Surah An-Nur - 24:31

"And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and guard their chastity, and not to reveal their adornments except what normally appears. Let them draw their veils over their chests, and not reveal their ˹hidden˺ adornments except to their husbands..."

We all can see how important it is for a woman to maintain sexual chastity and only her husband is allowed to see her unclothedness...

Today we have many ladies who have been married to several men in the name of dating, hook up, runs or whatever name they call it... And it will blow one's mind to even begin to imagine how far many ladies have gone in sexual recklessness.

Infact,according to the Bible, a bride who is not a virgin does not deserve to remain in marriage but should be publicly disgraced but ironically, in this present day, such women even dare to demand sexual faithfulness from their husbands

This is not about mysogyny and I'm not trying to preach chastity, judge or condemn any lady for what she does with herself neither do I exonerate the men who sleep with the unmarried ladies but this is the undiluted unsavory truth.

Insults are welcomed.

But wait o, is lalasticlala still a Mod on nairaland?

Diza46:
sorry sir but this is not truth are you serious by saying as long as the lady remain loyal the guy will remain loyal as well no that's not true a man can never remain loyal nomatter how loyal a lady is to him,sir it is been long now that I have been following your post and use to enjoy reading it especially your advice on relationship part but sir for the first time I am disagree with you on this one a man can never be loyal to their wife's or fiancee nomatter how loyal their wife or fiancee is to them

What is your definition of disloyalty? Wait let me guess...when he sleeps with another lady right!

This is where many naive ladies get it wrong.

A man can be a loyal polygamist and sexual Fathfullness is never a yardstick to measure loyalty in men.

I dont want to argue over this fact. You have the right to your opinion.

mmsen:
Please show me the numbers. I find that very hard to believe.

French Exodus from London.
https://clickmoves.com/french-exodus-from-london/

Many of the people that I know in the UK have left or are looking to leave because they now realize that the cost of living is unfavorable and that they can earn significantly more in north America or at least endure lower living costs on continental Europe. The UK is in very bad fiscal shape and has been for a while.

Why would any sane person move to post Brexit UK? They are the worst performing advanced economy in the world and are due to enter a prolonged recession.

They are on the verge of rolling back the banking protections that were designed to stop another great recession out of economic desperation.
https://todayuknews.com/politics/jeremy-hunts-rollback-of-post-crash-banking-protections-could-rebound-badly/

The Paris stock exchange overtook London to become Europe's biggest.
https://uk.finance.yahoo.com/news/paris-london-stock-market-largest-europe-120718587.html?guccounter=1

Those people are either confused or have no right to live and work in UK.