₦airaland Forum

mmsen:
France and Spain are better than the UK. The cost of living is better if you exclude Paris and the weather and food are superior. Also public transit is better.

You have no idea how many citizens of france and UK are trooping to UK.

Sit down there and believe what you read on social media cos if you are living in UK, you will definitely not write the quoted.

snitchbitch:
UK? If na America or Canada now, those ones better pass UK

Even Europe like Spain, France better pass UK

You must be one big ignorant fellow.

UK is by far better than all the countries you listed.

LegendHero:
I saw someone (@Mario9jaa) on Twitter give snippet of why Bola Tinubu should be elected president and I want Nairalanders to see this too.

This is why we are supporting Tinubu.

1. Power: Tinubu’s government, in 2000, contracted AES to build an IPP that will generate 270MW of electricity to Lagos residents in order to exit the irrational power supply being provided by the FG. The 270MW is now part of our national grid. It is the first of it’s Kind. Tinubu electrification project covered over 100 communities. In his first term, 53 rural communities were targeted. The projects were completed in Egan, Atewolere, Ifesowapo, Aboru, Agbado Ayetoro, Akorede, Isheri Ikosi, Orile Aguntan, Rofo, Borokini, Omologbede, Araromi, Oke Agbo, Erekusu, Logberu, Okegelu and Ebute, Lekki. Others were Origanringan, Onigbolakowe, Oke odo Elemoro, Ipaja Isale odo, Agenuba, Ajelogo, Mutaku, Egansando, Ayanfe, topo and Ikola Agbenaje.

2. Decentralization: In order to bring governance closer to the people of Lagos state, Asiwaju created extra 36 LCDAs which led to the disagreement between Lagos and the OBJ led FG. They are still working till date. Nigeria needs someone who believes in this!
First of it’s kind

3. Economy: With an IGR of just over 600million naira when he took over, different initiatives which included the reorganization of the LIRS led to an unprecedented IGR of over 7billion monthly after 8 years, the sustainability of which has brought same to 57bn in 2022.

4. Health: Decentralization of the Health Management Board led to the creation of LASAMBUS, an ambulance management scheme, Hospital Services Commission and Lagos State Health Facility Monitoring and Accreditation Agency. In addition, policies such as “Roll Back Malaria”, “Jigi Bola, Free Health Policy for children below 16 year and adults above 65 years are verifiable ones that stood him out then. The First of its Kind.

5. Infrastructure: Roads, Railway Roadmaps, Port Roadmaps, Housing Roadmaps. Hospital Roadmaps.

https://thenationonlineng.net/tinubu-the-power-of-lagos-blueprint/amp/

8 years is more than enough to start and finish any meaningful project.

So please save us these rhetorics and list just 5 projects that were commisioned by Tinubu in his 8 years as Lagos state governor.

Just 5.

True

Tinubu only turned Lagos to his personal MMM(Money Making Machine)

It was JAKANDE of blessed memory that actually built Lagos, followed by Buba Marwa and Fashola.

Only delusional people will buy the lies Tinubu has been spreading about him building Lagos.

Reasonable people know the truth.

MALIGNANTGuest:
U didn't specify the doctors
We have Native doctors
We have Witch doctors
We have Medical Doctors
We have Ph. D doctors
We have Nigerian Pastors
We have mobile doctors who shuttle from by buses from point A to Point B
We have Self acclaimed doctors & dey are many

Which one, be specific, because all are on payrolls ?

Aufbauh:
Eventually all of them peddling falsehood against Asiwaju will make an open show of shame of their selves.

A Bob Dylan once said that "don't criticize or condemn what you can't understand".

What is the falsehood here?

Are you this delusional?

You went for a job interview and you were asked questions then you start asking other people to answer your questions for you...

Will you employ such a person?

I'm not asking you to stop supporting Tinubu but be reasonable enough to know when he is wrong and stop this zombiesm.

WibusJaga:
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Congrats Messi. Showed brilliant flashes of his old self in the Croatia match.

Ronaldo is good.
But Messi is gooder.

Messi is the real goat.

DameAnnah:
Correct man! Star Boy! The leader of all!

He is defining the meaning of being responsible. No VP has ever been this responsible as we daily see of VP Yemi Osinbajo, SAN.

Check out this man and daily pray for God to give you a leader and father like him, especially for those with irresponsible fathers!

Osinbajo is a great man!

Too bad the yeye corrupt money induced primaries presented a BAT when we have this swaggerlicious man.

nlfpmod:
DJ Cuppy announces her engagement to British Boxer, Ryan Taylor:



https://twitter.com/cuppymusic/status/1602391140996620288

This lady is one hopeless attention seeker. Gosh!

Can't she just keep her relationship off Social media?

Righteousness2:
Not everyone who looks normal is normal..
There are Principalities and Powers in High places that are Fully resident in many people today.

So many are Helpless to these Forces.

It is not what Doctor can cure. Only an Encounter with JESUS Christ will Break and SHATTER the Yoke.

Just shush! Hypocrite

Chee59:
Toks don't be stupid. I bet you've deleted my number. I still remember you. And the nonsense you said that year. I forgive you though.
This... Is all you are.

Oh I just checked your Dp and indeed I remember you.

Have you followed the advice I gave you?

I honestly think you need to take care of your mental health. I won't write more than this.

All the best.

SpatialKing:
Nigerians are bent on destroying this relationship

On the contrary, when a lady loves attention so much that she just loves showcasing her life on social media then she must be ready for unpleasant consequences...

How many times have you seen her other sisters seeking attention on social media the way she does?

Chee59:
Isn't it time to leave the street and settle down. Eh Toks?

You are one of the reasons some men believe Ladies have lesser IQ than men.

You left the subject to start typing crinkum crankum. I could make you a concubine if you don't mind.

Please grow up.

franchasng:
Same can be said for some women.


And please not all men, it is for some men and same for some women.


All romantic love or relationship are based on conditions. Even in your response to my comment you said a man will continue to love a woman so long as the woman remained loyal to him, meaning there is a condition attached for the man to continue loving the woman which is "loyalty" according to you

Sorry I forgot it's you.

franchasng:
Toks, all the things you said points to the fact that there is nothing like true love when it comes to romantic relationship between a man and a woman, all what we call love are based on our expectations from the other gender, once our expectations are met, we claim we have fallen in love or that we have found love.


Men are as guilty as the ladies on all your points.


Once a man sees a girl with fine breast, nice ass, killer shape, boom he is ready to fall in love. The same way, once a lady meets a guy that meets most of her expectations she falls in love. That's why you see ladies professing love for male celebrities and famous men they don't even know.


So in summary, both man and woman are deceiving themselves with what they call love cos its all conditional.


My prayer is that may I continue to have those qualities and conditions that will make me the desire of classy ladies

When a man loves you, he loves you and as long as you are loyal to him, he remains loyal to you.


Women tend to misconstrue cheating for loss of loyalty. That a man cheats on a lady does not mean he is disloyal.

Lalasticlala whats your take?

Ikennaford:
Maybe for nigerian woman,,,, when I first landed in America, few days, I met my baby mama, she took me in, she pays everything, she is a nurse, she made me what I am today, she never benifitted from me if not my dick.... She bought my first car same year, she's 27 now and am 29....when I told her, I want to start a big project in Nigeria, my (mansion) she gave me $100k with the $200k with me, my project is ongoing still swallowing money, is 8 flats mansion, with basketball ball court inside, lawn tenis court, and small football ball field inside,,, ladies and gentlemen, is that not unconditional love..... Op there are good women out there that needs good men,, here too in America, we have goldiggers, those bitches from poor carrebean countries, dem full here, those one deh do like some Nigerians girls, those one's will pretends, dupe you and run.... As we have bad men, naso we get bad women,,,, I'm a bad boy, but my baby mama submissiveness don make me calm down, imagine me as nwa igbo spending close to $50k just to watch football matches in Qatar, who does that, isjust because of this beautiful Kenyan American,

If this story is true please Stop deceiving yourself, Your dck is the benefit.

May GOD never let you stop giving her the Dck else...

And lastly please stop misquoting me. I clearly wrote that there is a minute few who are loyal.

I have dated many ladies, i have lived well above four decades on earth and i can boldly conclude without any fear of contradiction that WOMEN ARE ONLY LOYAL TO THEIR OWN FEELINGS WHEN IT COMES TO ROMANTIC UNION WITH MEN and only a very minute number of them have true loyalty.

-This is why a young lady will gladly be a mistress of a married man because she is gaining so much from the union without much to lose but will find it hard to marry same man because she does not want to be an official Co-wife.

-This is why a lady who has dated married men when she was single will never want her husband to have mistresses.

-This is why you will see Ladies clamouring to be Co-wives of a very wealthy and powerful man because of the security they will get, and same ladies will never want to be the only wife of a poor man.

-This is why a lady will gladly take the pregnancy of one man and give it to another man just because for one reason or the other, she does not want to be with the man that got her pregnant.

-This is why a lady will profess undying love for you when she still has strong feelings for you and same lady will tell you she is tired the moment she no longer feels the same way towards you.

-This is why a lady will remain with a broke guy with the hope that he will make it latter and if she waits too long, she will not hesitate to leave the guy for a made guy regardless of the number of years she has spent with him.

-This is why a lady will date or marry one man for money and go to another man for good S.x.

-This is why no matter how much you spend on a lady or the sacrifice you make for her, she can still turn around and tell you she did not force you to do the things you did if she no longer wants to be with you.

-Many ladies leave their relationship not because of any bad thing the man did but they leave because their expectation is not met by the man

-Even if you treat a lady like an angel or a queen, and you don't cheat on her, the moment she has feelings for another man, she will look for a reason to leave you.

I can go on and on to state endless reasons why i believe a lady is only loyal to her feelings and no man should start boasting about the love a lady has for him because in most cases, a woman will only remain with a man if she is benefitting in one way or the other and the moment she sees no reason to remain in that relationship, she is done. She may decide to leave, or she may remain with you, but her spirit and soul have left you...This is just the way they are and there is nothing anyone can do about it.

My advice for men is this...Love genuinely, do whatever is within your power to make your woman happy but don't ever get carried away thinking that woman in your life has unconditional love for you.

I hope this makes sense.

Reporting34:
When some men are strong and have some little money they treat their wives just like a pieces of garbage but when they are sick or have nothing, they fall back to the garbage they discard, anyway Learn your lesson and know the importance of the nuclear family, no one will take care of you more than your nuclear family, know this and know peace

In your Next life, always treat your WIFE as a Soulmate, and put your wife first before your side chick...

Many of y'all don't know what dis Man did to his wife... So don't call d woman names

Let me guess.. He cheated on her or is there more?

Blessedmercy8:
With only one year left to live and spend the 8 billion he made from rituals, this Yahoo boy is becoming more apprehensive and restless.


Watch him pacing up and down his mansion and feeling restless.

Young boys and girls, please run away from ritualism, it doesn't pay. Making the money and cutting your life short is not worth it.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ndyQmWT-PC0

The guy is just catching cruise and chasing clout

ccjoe:
So u lost ur dad mean she won't eat? She shouldn't maintain herself or what...I don't get

But why are some men like this?



How can u still be placing ur parent above your girl..

Really!

Did you write this to get noticed or you actually mean this?

LaSenior:
Mod please I want this piece to be pushed to front-page this is happening to me though I have prepared my Mind to do what is in my mind but I want this honourable house to look into this

I was supposed to go and do marital introduction but because of my dad's health which was going bad everyday I couldn't. I thought maybe when we stabilise him a little then I can quickly arrange for introduction but sadly my beloved Dad passed away 4days later

I have been crying endlessly and been so weak and saddened just this morning this girl I was planning on spending the rest of my life with chatted me up saying that she has looking at me since that I don't want to say anything concerning her Christmas things that she needs 50k to buy Christmas things. I was shocked to the bone haaaa why are you this heartless towards me? Does it mean you are not concerned about what I have been passing through, infact I don't want to speak more because God already saved me from a heartless lazy woman.

To the women in this forum is it right to ask your fiancee Christmas Money in the midst of seeing him mourning of his late Dad just few days his dad died this attitude of this girl is it right?

This is a red flag.

Think well before you marry her.

Akharmony:
Every has freedom to vote candidate of thre choice.

So in your mind they support Tinubu? You must believe elephants can fly if you believe that.

Guys need money.. Times are hard.

Abeg chop Emilokan money.

Babaken:
King maker is begging people to make him king.

That is the height of ridicule he has subjected himself to.

A king maker is greater than kings.

So adorable.

AlphaTaikun:
To be honest, a significant number of the advice given by the males and females on this thread are clearly intended to break this young marriage. No solutions offered except from a few of us here.

When you bring your marital issues to a place like nairaland when over 90% of the members are teenagers and below 30...

Persephone1:
Men will only be Men if they start engaging or dating fellow Men.
Women get hurt when they are cheated on, that should matter!

If you really love someone you really won't want to hurt that person. Perhaps if you guys can take off the selfish veils you cover your face with you will see why women argue this.

If you love someone, you won't deliberately hurt them. Very simple!

Believe whatever you want if it will make you sleep well at night.

Cheers

Persephone1:
He loves her truly by stabbing her where it hurts most and not respecting their vows. Love kwa

You don't know Jack.

Men will be men... It does not mean they don't love their wives. know this and know Peace

Salewabeau:
I hope I get the right � reasons here than other channel here since this is the dating thread

My husband and I got married in 2021. He got a job in the UK middle of last year as a skilled worker. He was into tech before he left. Since then I've been the only one in the motherland while he consistently sent something home to cater for myself and rent. Plans are underway to join him as soon as I'm done with NYSC.

Last week, one of my friends in the UK hinted me about something that keeps giving me sleepless nights and terrible unrest. She's a student there and we went to secondary school together. She happened to see my hubby on a dating website. She sent me screenshot of his profile and my husband pictures are all there. Everything. She's on the dating app too.

I confronted my husband after several investigation of the geniuty of what I know. He only yield in after I sent him all evidence that I have. Now he tells me dating app is a norm in the UK and everyone is there. He said he's only there to socialize and meet people, especially Nigerian, but not for dating.

This has caused some issues between us as I wasn't really satisfied with this excuse. I'm tired of constantly thinking my husband is cheating on me.

I love my husband and he's the only man I've ever known.

Commot face. Focus on yourself and being a woman of value.

Your husband loves you and will never stop loving you... Look away from distractions and warn that your aproko friend to mind her business.

Nothing will come out of this if what I'm thinking is what it is.

Even if dbang is involved, as long as top govt officials are also involved, the case will be swept under the carpet.

Interesting, let's see how it plays out