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Strangely enough...I can marry her cos I see a beautiful lady and not the disability.

oyb:
Why do you keep getting shocked that majority of Nigerians are sexist?

Majority of Nigerians are also tribalist, intolerant, homophobic.

Sexism is simply toks preferred poison

You and ishilove should continue to deceive yourselves...if being a realist is the same as being a sexist then I will gladly take the first spot.

Even the world we live in is unjust.

That i wrote that more sexual decency is required from the female in an unjust world of nen has now qualified me as a sexist makes me wonder if you guys are not aliens.

Ishilove:
That makes you a sexist. Guys are 'supposed to be spoilt'. You are making excuses for guys immorality. I am shocked!

Continue to write Grammer and not face reality.

I know what I'm implying but it's up to you to read your own meaning to it.

Apparently you are still one of the unrealistic ladies that juxtapose male and female sexual chastity on equal scale.

Ishilove:
Toks you avoided the crux of the matter. What of the single guys commenting? Why aren't their comments appalling you? 80% of the posts here are by guys but you singled out the ladies' comments. Why?

Guys are supposed to be spoilt but so much decency is expected from the women...simple logic.

Ishilove:
I don't eat snail

OK let me drop it...I'm talking about a woman's core...lobatan

Missali:
One of the qualities men look out out for in a woman is the ability for her to stay true by him during trying times and a woman who cannot do that is termed a non wife material and slay Queen at best and at worst, a gold digger.
It is believed that when a woman supports her man and he comes to, in turn he will respect her and share responsibilities as he should but often times, this is not the case.

Many at times we have heard experiences from family, friends, colleagues or even gone through it.
Here's mine: I had this boyfriend that was struggling in every sense of the word. We kept on despite his financial shortcomings and I would travel a long distance to see him knowing fully well that the trip expenses and all that came with it were on me. I did not hesitate to oblige favours that I could give and ensured I went out with him during his jobs just to give that moral support.

Things seemed to be going on well until the day I was sitting with some friends and one of them asked how I was enjoying with my boyfriend. I responded with a light laugh and he asked "now that your guy has made it, what is the way forward?"

Me: Made it how?
Guy: Your guy hit over one million in that online betting promo.
Me: Yes yes, it's not easy... Such an unexpected favour at a time like this.

I pretended to be aware and happy but I wasn't myself till the end of the day. Everybody knew the good news except me.
One week, two weeks, one month passed and I got no call from my estranged boyfriend to even tell me what had happened. I refused to call too.

I heard news about how he had become the man about town, declaring free drinks for people he met at our street bars, dashing money to those who came to celebrate with him etc. Whenever someone who knew us sighted me they asked, "are you not M's girlfriend?" and I mumbled any answer that came to mind.
Months later I got a call from him begging to see Me. After many refusals, I decided we meet. He went on his knees apologising, saying he knew I was aware of all that had happened but was too ashamed to contact me. He went on about how he rented an apartment for one girl, was giving out money with reckless abandon, purchased an expensive mobile phone which he ended up selling at an abysmally low price (due to hardship) and how he was popping bottles at bars et al.

The length and breadth of the story was that the money was all gone. The business idea we had brainstormed he made no use of the money to invest. All his friends and girlfriends had left him for good and he felt lonely, he remembered the one who stood by him sincerely.

At the moment he had not a penny, with an empty stomach and looking for a way to get a small job. I could tell he was miserable from his looks alone. If only he had the right company who would have advised him at such a critical time, he'd never have had to go hungry again. I took him to a restaurant and we had a nice meal. He called me a good girl, a loving friend, a confidant blah blah blah.

Ladies, they will come at you with twisted words tell you they want a good woman, a patient woman, a supportive woman etc. Some will even tell you that they can never respect a woman who does not struggle with them. Do not fall for it. Most times, what they want is someone to take their excesses while they move on to cast their net elsewhere. For tens of stories about men who stick by their women when the going got smooth, there are hundreds of untold stories about men who looked the other way.

Playing the supportive role is the case of it may work and it may not. It is not stated anywhere that after standing by him and he leaves for another woman, he will be mobbed. You will simply be remembered as 'the one who once was', that's all.

It is a case of driving into a place with the words "cars parked at owner's risk." Nobody will tell you not to park your car but you hold yourself liable should anything happen to it. Hence, stand by your man at owner's risk.

Staying with a poor or broke guy with the mindset that he should not forget you when he makes it is greatly flawed.

Stay with a guy because you want him and you want to stay with him...if you don't want him please leave him but never stay with a broke guy because you hope he will make it one day and never think you are doing a broke guy a favor by staying with him.

The hardship in Nigeria has made many ladies see dating a broke guy as an investment that should yield profits if he eventually makes it.

Ishilove:
Snail? What's snail?

So you don't know that every lady has a snail like structure between her legs...na wah o...

When next you want to prepare a snail...after removing it from the shell,turn it over and you will see the resemblance...

lefulefu:
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she"s a beautiful lady so its normal we eyeing her .ok i see u dont want to admit her ukwu got ur attention

It was actually her full MANCHESTER then her lovely friendly nature.

ollyboy009:
Oga Toks, hahaa this english is too much now, on top shinarlaura alone. Nobody dares playing pinky panky on you loverbird.

Anyone wey trespass go face the music...She is taken.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Toks2008 this fuel scarcity reach your side so?

Where I am,they don't know what fuel scarcity means.

lalasticlala I hope you are not too choosy.

lefulefu:
Toks Toks the cowboy.i dey gbadu ur underground movements. So u also like beautiful ukwucious babes ba?

You think I don't observe all the moves of nairaland guys on shinarlaura ...better don't waste your time cos she is mine so just give up before it's too late.

And it's not about ukwu or beautiful boobs though she has both just as I want them but she is a very friendly lady and calm too.

Trust me..a friendly lady can win the heart of many men.

In Yorba we call such ladies "afi oyaya gba oko" meaning a cheerful lady can snatch a man from his wife which simply means friendliness is a great virtue for a lady.

shinarlaura:
Hahahahaha. Is this how funny u re?

With you I can be all shades in one.

Bibidear:
so what if a lady says she wants a tall guy who has six packs and all that,what will u call her

Please read the write up again cos I addressed the issue.

stupidity:
Mhen!!!! If only God didn’t create woman specially, I mean why give them assx that disturbs the peice in my boxer? If to say we all get flat yansh, believe you me, cheating for not be like this. Coz majority of we guys Dey follow big assx signals.

But how come I prefer the front rather than the back? though I love a round backside but not the usual big ones guys love

Bibidear:
those who dont have a banging body,who will marry them

No don't get it twisted...every lady is one man's dream....so there are always guys out there who will like a lady as she is.

shinarlaura:
Hahahahaha. U re so funny. What's up na. U ve been missing.

It's either i get married to u or no one else


Happy new year in advance

I'm dancing etigi right now but meanwhile some naira land guys right now...

Bibidear:
God bless u

We know all that but let no man deceive you ...everyman has a spec..AND EVERY LADY FITS INTO THE SPEC OF A GUY OUT THERE

So no matter the good brain or good manners,guys have a spec and if they marry a lady who is not their desired spec,they usually live in fantasy.

RadicallyBlunt:
I go come dey think am say "na just one man like me dey in charge of all these assets oh. What a lucky man"

I went to visit a sister and I saw her maid ....I was like O.M.G yet I just commot face.It's just funny.

shinarlaura:
Lol. My eyes are closed

My sweetest heart... long time...please don't get married yet o. just wait small for me you hear...no mind lefulefu et al

RadicallyBlunt:
O boy God go help us o. You fit get educated queens-english speaking girl as gf and she no go get booobs and butts. You fit come see d one weh get weh no dey enlightened at all...

I see busty and yanshy pepper sellers on d market of my street but how person go come go propose to such a person?

Honestly the thing tire me...

Shayneward1:
Sometimes the bootilicious lady that you desire or lust for is an asshole in other aspects of life.

So you marry the decent but no so outwardly gifted individual and continue to knack the bootilicious lady

Win-win.

And this is exactly why cheating can never stop in anyway cos everyone wants to have their cake after eating it

All over the world,we have billions of ladies who are beautiful,single and ready to mingle yet it is quite baffling how difficult it is for a guy to easily find that lady that has what he desires in terms of physical beauty which is a paramount factor for men considering the fact that we are visual in nature meaning "whatever pleases our eyes will inadvertently please our minds"

In my school of thought,I believe a man has no excuse for settling with a lady that does not match his desire in terms of outward beauty.

Regardless of the fact that men with beautiful wives still cheat,i have seen guys cheat on their wives because according to them,their wives don't have the type of exterior dimension that matches their sexual desire so the question is "why marry a lady you are not physically or sexually attracted to

If you want a boorilicious lady or a busty lady,slim,big,fair,dark then why go for the opposite just to start living your matrimonial sexual life in perpetual fantasy of being with another lady?

Inasmuch as ladies have the right to be choosy too,in most part of the world it's saddening that cultural restraints do not afford them the freedom to walk up to a guy they want to ask him out.


But as a man I believe it is OK to be picky so that you can be with a lady you truly desire because there is nothing as sexually gratifying than getting turned on when you look at your wife.

Yes we know we can't always have all we want but at least we should be able to get something very close and we also know that b**bs sag and curves usually fade but I believe it still makes sense spending our early marital life with a woman that has the sexual features we desire.

I don't know if this makes sense.

sisisioge:
All na mouth . We know your kind. Just stick with the plenty pre-intimacy and do your 3mins jeje. If the pre-play was done right, she would defo cum shortly after you slot in your Sim and possibly arrive with you as well...everybody is left happy.

Hmmm, I'm a bona fide Christian leme go and prepare for chior practice o

Let me just keep quiet..believe whatever you want but If you want to find out just marry me and come back here to share the wonderful testimony.

sisisioge:
3 minutes is OK nau...the rest can be spent on foreeeplay

The last time I checked...me I don't do 3minutes but I will do until the lady squurts or c*m multiple times yet I will still make sure I spend minutes eating her snail cos I love doing that like no tomorrow....then when I eventually sail,she will just start gushing like a loosed pipe...

I hope no underage is viewing this thread cos isokuso too much.

Shinarlaura and lalas247 close your eyes cos you 2 are too young to see this.

Frenchfriez:
There you go, the female bashing crew would never fail to turn up. Can't we have an open minded conversation as adults without slut-shaming?
Its ok for the men to have sexperience while the ladies are expected to be puritanical. So who then are the men fvcking? Goats? Later if the Lady is passive at sex, its men like you who would describe her as boring.
Welcome to Africa, you are the typical 21st century African man with a 19th century ideology. Such a unique mentality

Though I was joking but you are so on point with the last words.

As a fairly good looking guy,I'm very sexually decent and I was even molested by ladies when I was young cos I just hate sexual recklessness.

At my age,I could sleep with as many ladies as I want but I chose to remain decent though not perfect...

So yes I'm appalled by the fact that unmarried ladies are commenting more because of my high moral standard and if you or ishilove has issues with that...ko Kan MI. .I Don talk my own so if you are angry you can come and beat me.

Spoilt pickins of the 21st century.

This world is finished.

99% of ladies making comments on this thread are unmarried yet they write with so much exoeriance and confidence.

Ishilove:
3 minutes ke?? Lailai! It has to be 15 minutes minimum

I am suspecting this doctor

Uncle Oyb, kingreign, uboma and co, let's have your thoughts.

If you meet a guy who is great in bed,you will c*m even without penetration . Quote me in Paris.

Ghnaija:
Is he a Ghanaian or Liberian

He is a Sudanese.

xendra:
and they now forced him to make love with the goat? they are all insane and guilty of the same crime, they should all be shot!

My thought exactly.

I admire her courage.

Single ladies every where acting as if they don't need a man and building unecessary walls around themselves.

In most cases,A friendly lady can never remain single for a long time..Quote me anywhere.

Btw has lalasticlala seen this thread?
https://www.nairaland.com/4224018/when-build-wall-around-yourself/1

jagugu88li:
....that was a long time. Thanks anyway. Merry Christmas

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