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biacan:
Yes I believe your writeup it seems she's into him more than the way he feel for her..... when karma befalls him that's when he'll run back to her


Good afternoon

Afternoon jawe

Is the display picture on your nairaland wall yours?
just curious

biacan:
Do you like sex in a relationship

That lady was probably circumcised...such rarely have urge for sex. She needs a man that will understand her.

Pele to her..life goes on and all I can say is that if the guy was truly hers,he won't leave and from what I can feel,the guy is coming back to beg her in 2years time.

That is prophetic.

ThisTrend:
“My Female Friend Stole My Abroad Boyfriend, Now They Are Getting Married” – Nigerian Woman Laments
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An aggrieved Nigerian woman has poured her heart out after her female friend snatched her boyfriend who is based abroad and they are about getting married.

According to a story shared by Nnamdi Victor on Facebook, a Nigerian woman said she is dying silently after her abroad boyfriend was stolen by her female friend, now they are about to marry.

Read the story below:

This is the mistake some ladies make. Please ladies, always keep your man away from your girlfriends. Stop this attitude of showing your man off to your fellow ladies. One of us is on the verge of suicide because of this costly mistake. We know this lady, she is very popular among us here. So unfortunate. Hear her :

“I never dated any guy until the day I met this my present guy. After some months, I agreed to date him. we have only made love 2 times before he traveled outside Nigeria. I am not the s*x type. I no dey even get urge. We talk everyday, he sends me money, I loved him and I believed so much in him. He made me realize men are not the same.
I’m not materialistic, the little I get from my family is ok for me.

I met this girl in camp when I went for Nysc. I let her speak with the guy on phone, I never knew she stole the number, telling this guy all sort of things about me. Honestly, I never knew he came back during Easter, both of them met, when I heard from his sister that he came back, I asked him and he said ‘baby I’m sorry I came to buy house in Lagos for us’. See my mumu, I let go.

Ben the communication dropped and reduced. I do the calling, I chat him, I do the loving and caring believing maybe something is bothering him.

He told me he is not coming back. That’s why I’m spending my Xmas in Lagos. If you can remember, I told you one time I needed a male friend who I can hang out with that I’m so lonely here.

Ben I can’t write again o, my so called boyfriend and my girlfriend are wedding tomorrow ooo. The friend and sister called me and was telling me, that they can’t hide it from me. My Delta girlfriend has killed me oo. Ben I’m dying. I want God to kill me tonight.”


SOURCE: https://primesng.com/female-friend-stole-abroad-boyfriend-now-getting-married-nigerian-woman-laments/

In my opinion there was no snatching cos he is not yet yours.

I talk am for this thread...
https://www.nairaland.com/4188153/why-women-own-worst-enemies/13

Women are their own worst enemy...

You will hardly see a man that will snatch and marry his friend's babe..maybe have a quick one with her but marry!

This is not my real face o

folakemigeh:
@ the Poster, i feel you don't love your wife enough.
While i was in school then, my BF said i normally sleep talk, and he would wake up at night and admire the way i curl my hair and talk jargons while i was asleep.
When one is in love, simple things like that do not bother you, instead you find a way around it if it's too disturbing... Remember she's your wife and not an "Olosho". I have pricked my Ex with my sharp nails before when he was deep asleep and started snoring like a pig and when he woke up we laughed about it and had a great midnight sexxx!!!!!


Gosh i missed school days

Slept,boyfriend,ex,great midnight sex..yet unmarried...and so bold to comment...this generation sef.

ebujany:
Nonsense.... Oga you too take an oath that since you married her you've not slept with another woman.

Slayman married slay woman

Soro niyen

If only DNA test is cheap, I will advise every man to carry out paternity test on all their children expecially those that bears no form of resemblance to them.

Trust no woman.

byna:
Hello guys ,

Married my wife about 5yrs ago.

Initially she sleeps without snooring

Suddenly after putting to bed, she started snooring to the extent that I hardly sleep at night.

I don't want her to feel ashamed of this if I openly confront her.

Please I love her and would love to know how best to approach this issue.

Does she sleep with her face up?

If yes let her try sleeping sideways or face down.

Almost everyone will snore when they sleep with their faces up.

But if snoring continues then Google a solution.

bayulll011:
trust me shes a hoe

Trust me,if she is a hoe,that baby won't make it to 9months in the womb.

Divay22:
This will only get real men to admire her and go for her and not those fu*ck boys..
Gabriella pls forgive mummy She loves you.

Such a cutie she is.. Thank goodness you came back

I have written times without number..I will go for a single mum of ONE without hesitating as long as she is sweet looking and Godly.

Maybe it's because I'm more mature now.

I remember a thread I created for Nigerian single mums.

https://www.nairaland.com/2532999/8-words-advice-unmarried-single

Praizeupdates:
As shared by the comedian.

Any resemblance?


Gist from Praizeupdates


http://www.praizeupdates.com/comedian-stole-finally-find-his-look-alike-check-him-out/

I saw my look alike in Woolwich somewhere in London and I could not help but walk up to him.. same height same look same tribe and I began to wonder if my mum was played after given birth to twins.

If I ever see him again I will find out if we are same age. If Yes then I'm definitely a twin.

habsydiamond:
true talk bro even many people go don marry mad men and women if it's love with physical attractiveness ooo....

I'm just thinking about forgetting this "must be sexuality attractive" thing cos I realized that most sweet looking ladies have issues.

Show them you desire them and they let it get into their heads even without them knowing but those "not too fine" ladies are calmer and level headed and would treat you like you are their center of gravity.

Little wonder why you see these not too fine ladies getting married to sweet dudes and the so called hot ones hopping from one man to another.

NoLotty7:
From your own experience,coments with the dos and dont while living in the same building with such people.

I want to believe you are referring to them gossiping about you.

Should this be the case then It's not just neighbors but it happens in all spheres of life...in the work place,in your family,in church and even on social media...i.e nairaland.

The day I heard from a lady that it is believed that I am dating so many ladies on nairaland I almost puked.

On my street they say how can a dude like me be single cos most of them were just speculating.

In my compound they say I have ladies outside but refused to bring them home.
The bottom line is that you must learn to ignore and be cool with yourself because you must really be important for people to discuss you.

habsydiamond:
Yes, in my dreams......if one is not physically attracted to someone why should u marry such person......it will just up being a house without joy or laughter...there won't be communication not to talk of understanding...it can't be easy if there are sucg

You are right nut sometimes you go just commot face

Kingfanak:
What's your opinion?

Very very veeeery difficult for me but the way things are going with the attractive ones acting up,I just might go for the available.

lezz:
Non-compromising facts. But there’s just a little bias in that op makes females appear to be the only ones at the losing end of divorce.

Statistics show men’s lifespan and wellbeing are affected more in divorce than woman’s even though women are likely to face harsher financial reality.

There is no bias bro..it's all about statistics and please leave finance out of it.

In developed country,a lady gets more money from the Government as a separated single mum but what about emotional and biological needs?

DON:
there is enough point in what toks is saying above except if you don't want to accept the truth which is bitter, a man has either little or nothing to loss in a relationship compared to a woman.

Will they ever accept?

Until they have been thoroughly sampled and dumped by Randy men after divorce or separation, they won't learn.

Except a woman is just looking for excuse to test other waters,it is totally baseless to leave your marriage because of a hopeless side dish or chic as they call them.

I'm not sure of the Toke's story but if it is true then that is just one out of many ladies.

Lalasticlala I guess you need to read this and decide.

pocohantas:
A man goes fu<king around acting nonchalantly and his wife must doggedly and tenaciously protect his wandering prick, that might be laced with HIV. She must guard the marriage so she doesn't turn to the abominable divorcee...

The man on his part has nothing to lose, he can always get another wife. Nigerian marriage is so sweet .
So many unhappy married men and women. Who in his right mind would be enthusiastic about joining the bandwagon? Marriage that should be enjoyed is now something they encourage people to endure adultery and all sorts in? Instead of teaching people to love and treat their spouses as they'll treat themselves.

Leave all the comparison @Nigerian marriage is so sweet...and what if it's not Nigeria?

Is it not what I see everyday? single mums and divircees everywhere. ..they chase the man from their house and then what next? does the guy sleep out in the cold? HELL NO..but instead he is gladly sheltered by another lady possibly another single mum or divorcee and the crazy circle continues then s.x toys become the woman's companion.

And taking about STD,trust me,no one is totally safe from it except you don't ever make love to a human being without protection.

Cheating is bad and I won't encourage it but for ladies who find themselves with a cheating guy I will advise them to think twice before leaving that union. Yes it is very hard but it's not just worth it except the lady is ready to remain single and celibate.

Martin0:
that why as a lady if u want ur husband to be faithful there are somethings as a lady u should let go(Quit the porn. Bringing porn into a
relationship is not healthy. It’s like bringing
another woman into your marriage, except
she’s glossy and airbrushed. Porn will only
create an unrealistic expectation in your mind
about your spouse’s libido, body, and comfort
level with weird sex positions. Pretty soon
you’ll find that your wife isn’t satisfying you
and your eyes will start to wander. Dump the
porn.)Not all ladies do this but majority start bringing it into their marriage likwise men

Talking about porn I totally agree with you on this.

Many ladies tend to measure the manliness of the porn actors to that of their hubby and they begin to fantasize thereby deriving lesser pleasure from their husbands.

Originalsly:
Let me first quote from where many will dare not disagree...."He who findeth a wife findeth a good thing.... that's from the Bible. ... so isn't the man the lucky one to find a wife? After marriage many men realize the woman of the house is simply the woman of the house and not a wife..... and out of the marriage he steps to search all over again for a wife. Unlucky man ... lucky woman.

I totally agree but I also understand that it is the woman that loses more if there is any disollution.

nonjebose:
Wow. I remember that, and also when Ogbein Fawole's backhead pass to out-rushing Raymond King beat the goalkeeper, with the ball landing coolly at the back of the net, in the presence of over 80,000 spectators. The occasion; Final of the CAF Champions cup match against Zamalek. It was a defeat that sent the famous Odegbami into retirement

Grandpa spotted.

edgeP:
RIP

Nigeria hospitals killing Nigerians...smh!

ubunja:
that age difference is too small to matter as long as you dont want something very long lasting.
you must keep your age to yourself in the near future.
and NO. she just cant be older. coz gals mature faster than boys. your maturity level at 22 is roughly equal to that of a 17 yr old gal. and if she is 23, then her maturity match is a man of about 28. girls are about 5 yrs ahead of men in terms of maturity (physical,mental,sexual) .

Maybe physical and sexual but rarely mental.

OyinO:
And they said they are worshipping a Living God. Now they are dead. There was NO LIVING GOD to save them from the hands of untimely death. How dumb and sad!

It is not our bodies that matters but our souls.

This is a joke I guess.

I see some sense in this.

kay29000:
Hmm! This Nobodys girl's beauty is really affecting you o, you have given her number like 3 times. Lol!

loveslife,nobodys,omotayor123,dolly and all the rest are amazing beauty.

I once created a thread that Nigerian girls are the most beautiful set of ladies in the world ...from The north to the east to the west,they are the best.

https://www.nairaland.com/3089812/why-nigerian-ladies-worlds-finest
Even those in diaspora are not left out with unique skin and sweet curves.

ngwababe:
Bro good morning. Do you stay in Lagos?? Are you a banker??

I'm an E-commerce consultant but I stay in Lagos.

cruchenutii:
But the husband is also at fault ma! How can you leave a woman with hormones & keep traveling back & forth? Body no be firewood na. She needs to get wet every now & then.

Besides, I'm pretty sure the wife just needs someone to always talk to, Relate with, Gist etc. If the husband was engaging her enough She wouldn't have time for that.

It's not by force to look for Opportunities in Greener pastures & loose your wife, children etc. That's why its said that the best time to hustle in when you are Single.

Soro niyen.

morgan844:
Heart Broken I Feel Cheated Despite Showing Her So Much Love

My wife still communicate and send picture to her former boy friend. even after i have warned her


This year March, I traveled outside Nigeria to look for greener pastures and I came back home by December I and my family was happy until when I saw I love message she has always sent to a certain man and i was angry. I questioned her. she said she was joking with the man and I told her that I am not happy about it. She promised not to do it again, I was able to read her message because we exchanged our phone and her messenger was in my phone.

Some days after, when I was ready to go back to my base, we prepared and she accompanied me to the park where i boarded a vehicle to Lagos and she went back home, while I was in the vehicle I notice a message from the messenger it was I love message from the guy and my wife responded the she love her to and they communicated and exchanged pictures.

I am heart broken I never knew that she could continue cheating on me. I asked her who was the guy she is charting with she told me that he is a colleague that he is making some inquiry. My wife lied to me. Before I could take the screenshot she has deleted the messages. I want to divorce her for this but we have 3 kids they are very young 6, 4 and 2 years how will this kids cope?

After 3kids you want to divorce your wife cos of text messages.

Please wait to catch her first then we will know what to do...but for now just relax and use your energy to do something more productive.