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Sensual:
confirm Yahoo boy.
na so them dey look

No be una dey cause am?

Hustling guy go woo una but una go sey e dey broke....no way for am but yahoo boy go woo una nah one hand....

Safiaa:
No. A leech is the wrong term. I find it so ironic that men will have so much standards and criterias for the women of their choice. From physical criterias that are so shallow to culinary criterias etc. The minute a woman decides she has 'standards' she's a gold digger. I agree that if a woman doesn't have shiiit and she wants a millionaire, she's reaching beyond her level. But for a woman to state that she doesn't date broke men or men below her financial status is completely her preference, especially if she's got money of her own. She's allowed to have her beliefs without being labelled a gold digger or a leech. Men get too emotional and soft when it comes to these topics, you forget to think rationally. Its due to low self esteem.

You ladies just use Grammer you don't even know the meaning ...what has low self esteem got to do with the subject matter.

A lady who believes in self reliance will never be put off by a broke guy cos she knows that being broke is relative and she has her money anyways and it's not as if the guy will leech on her.

Take the matter anyway you want and use whatever Grammer that catches your fancy...all I know. ..only a lady with a leech mentality will avoid dating broke guys....quote me anywhere on planet earth.

mekaboy:
10k should be enough. Anything more, she is a gold digger and does not see a future with you.

Highest the two of you share one fish 5k, drinks 2k her transport 2-3k.

Or una chop rice each 1800*2 = 3600, water or juice 1500 plus 3k transport = 8100

If you go drop her then 5 to 8k will do.

If you decide to drink only water and watch her eat, which most guys do, then u save 2 -3k extra.

10k for what?

3k is OK. ..go mama put and eat better swallow or rice with better goat meat and wash it down with malt or water...all these won't cost up to 2k and give her 1k to enter bus back to her house....

Before you start talking just note that the food you eat with 2k at a decent mama put may cost up to 8k in an ezcuisue eatery outlet....

Cinderella5:
you have a wrong mentlity.

On the contrary I think you should work on your own mentality...

Being broke is relative and the moment a lady starts sing something wrong in dating broke guys then she must be a leech...

iamadonis2:
Egbon Toks, I know there will be incentives. Wehdone, Sir!

Remain blessed bro.

iamadonis2:
Attempt to buy this land at your own peril.

#Booked

Lol! as if there are insentives for space booking.

LalaLushness:
My name is lala lalasticlala stole mi name he ain't the only lala here Ask him

Hmmm I see..

LalaLushness:
Driver stop here

Why use lala to start your moniker?

Lalasticlala I think this is insightful.

Aderola15:
Izz Unku Toks again, lemme get my jotter and pen..

lol! oya start jotting.

BoboYekini:
Egbon Toks2008, stop quoting me o.
Anytime I see this thread I just dey vex. Abi nor be naija women wey we know? Nothing changes.

I perfectly understand you buh just try to cope with the periodic mentions.

I have almost given up on our women but there are still many who stand out.

Dangerous Desire (Ife Gbona)

Many people are subconsciously enmeshed in this type of desire but they usually realize too late after they have allowed this dangerous feeling get the worst side of them.

*Do you see yourself flaring up or losing grip of yourself when you find your partner in an innocuous manner with the opposite sex?

*Are you the type who gets overly jealous when your partner receives calls or text messages from the opposite sex?

*Do you snoop on your partner's phone or social media handle for possible cheating signs or do you monitor your partner about?

*Are you the type who threatens your partner with fire and brimstone if he or she ever cheats on you?

I can continue to highlight different instances that points to dangerous love but if you find yourself showing any of the aforementioned signs then its time to pause nd caution yourself because you just might be enmeshed in dangerous desire or ife gbona as it is called in yoruba language.

But the big question is;IS IT REALLY WORTH IT?

Have you ever cared to ask yourself if that crazy feeling is more important than your life?

Before you met that person,he or she was probably with someone or have been with several partners that have had their fill so why kill yourself because that person is with you at the moment? If you die today,someone else will have that person and you wil hardly be remembered.

An adage in Yorba says "Eni ri nkan re to fe ku pe lu e owo eni to ti so nu n ko"(He who wants to die over a found item should think about the person who lost that same item)

Even if you are the first partner,there is absolutely nothing you can do about it if he or she decides to be with another person so why kill yourself because of what you have no control over...

No matter how you claim to be crazily in love,if you die today someone else will take over from where you stopped and really enjoy that person you can't imagine another person touching.And worst still,in most cases,those who engage in dangerous desire still ends up losing that person to another so why stress yourself?

Are there no better things in life than this crazy dangerous feeling?

I can't forget in a hurry Mrs Dlamini-Haanzele, 38yrs, in Lusaka who latter died in a hospital after she lost the lives of her two children in a ghastly car accident while trailing her unfaithful husband. ..The woman the children are dead and gone but does this stop the man from remarrying? ....so why the stress?
https://zambiareports.com/2013/06/30/woman-38-causes-death-of-her-two-children/

Be wise and get a hold of yourself before you destroy yourself over nothing because nobody and I repeat NOBODY is more important to you than your creator and you...

If you meet someone and you find yourself deeply "in love" with that person,just try to caution yourself and enjoy the union while it lasts and gently walk away if he or she opts out without crossing that thin line between normal desire and a dangerous one.

I don't know if this makes sense.

Happy new month friends.....hope you all are doing great.

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I dedicate this classic with lyrics by Micheal Bolton to you all..."To love somebody"

I love you all.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sH4YBFaZDuI

theodara001:
It's a pleasure. But am currently off whatsapp

No wahala. .add me anytime you get back.

okosodo:
If true, this is the first legitimate arrest EFCC has done without propaganda

We live in a country where people celebrate the rich not minding their source of wealth.

Skyfornia:
Lol....the only virgins in Nigeria as of today are girls below 10years

Don't even bank on that?

I would say only the unborn ones...with crazy pedophiles everywhere ....even one month's baby girl could have disflowered with fingers of a mad pedophile .

theodara001:
You're welcome

I'm glad to know that at least a female nairalander still likes me lol!
Here is my wattsup contact. I will be privileged to have you as a friend...08zerotwo31four6046.

Thanks

theodara001:
Say something nice to wish a fellow nairalander a happy new month.

Happy new month to all nairalanders but specially to Tosyne2much and Toks2008, may this month bring all the good things you yearn for and desire..

Cc: Lalasticlala

WOW! thanks sis,wishing you the best.

Equal2DeTask:
Ur view is so futile...


Dnt Quote me again U Faceless Coward...

Egbami! coward bawo? Am I Ojukwu that caused your problem or am I from the east? please find somewhere else to pour your frustrations and by the way I'm Proudly Yoruba.

When you go to console people like this please just sit quietly and say nothing except you have experienced same situation....


This one just weak me but one fact is that death to man is a loss but to GOD its simply home coming for the believers in Christ. ..Rest in peace son.

Equal2DeTask:
Any Igbo Man/Woman dat refuse to observe today's ''Sit at Home Order'' is a Complete Sissy

Such E-diot desrve to be thrown inside the Lagoon..

Lagos is part a country called Zoo..


Good Bless South Eastern Part...., God bless All Biafrans!

Call them any name you like it does not change the fact that Biafra agitation will never see the light of day as long as some Igbos still seek elective positions of any type under the federal government.

Equal2DeTask:
And the places u Just mentioned are not part of Biafra states..


Go and borrow Sense

See my point exactly. ...so The igbos in Alaba can not act in solidarity abi?
Lagos is not part of Nigeria I guess!

This is why I call the Biafra agitation dead on Arrival.

DayDreamPictures:
according to the Law of Contract NO amateur (17yrs and below) is permitted to enter into a contract or deal. It will be null and void

arrest the men and deal with the kid according to the laid down rules

But why is this not binding in the north?

weyabcom:
Aba locked down

What about Alaba market Ojo Lagos?
I can bet it will be busy as usual....Igbos and disunity since the days of Noah

june007:
June 4th

Hmmm! mine is 5th

Dimples182:
I hate that I can't cheat!

Stupid inner voice won't let me rest if I do! The need for security is the most important need and cheating will jeopardise that so if I stray, I ain't coming back.

#Team stubborn bull
#Taurus

Are you also endowed? cos most Taurus ladies are either endowed up there or down there and sometimes both.

Nice comic relief.

tosyne2much:
Try ask Lalasticlalaa his view on this matter

He is a lover boy so I already know his response....."I wouldn't mind having her name cone first"

adaksbullet:
Op his stat his relationship talks again


While we u be given us relationship adviseses and u are still remained single and still live whit ur dady and momy on the age off 47



Bus op, quit nl and face ur live men!

OK you got my attention....

Now come nearer and let me tell you something very important .....

glowryhaa:
His.. Mine.. None of that matters... As long as we are happy

Hmmmm! I wonder how many ladies will truly agree to this...all of you saying no wahala will be like "honey but that is not the way it is naw"

sukkot:
nobody here has a sense of humor lol. hunger done destroy una sense of humor. she is playing

Lol! so you think it's a joke....9 of of 10 naija girls will prefer to be a baby mama to the rich and famous rather than be the numero uno of a hustler. ...Quote me anywhere.

I believe in starting small but why do I think there is more we need to know.