Romance › Re: How Small Is Too Small? by Toks2008(op): 9:30pm On May 14, 2017*. Modified: 10:40pm On Jul 28, 2017 |
Many marriages are getting destroyed as a result of this but this piece is an eye opener. |
Romance › Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Toks2008(m): 7:09am On May 14, 2017 |
niyihawking: how did you know this?
how many dead atheist told you that they found themselves faced with a god.
lmao
there is a nature's god and it's definitely not the Christian god. You have a choice to pick from this two...
Accept the truth now or realize you are wrong after death. |
Romance › Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Toks2008(m): 6:53am On May 14, 2017 |
hahn: Better let her be since she is avoiding you. Find someone else who is more open minded
My wife was a theist initially. She worked in the church and even preached in buses.
But then when I finally dumped god in the trash bin, we had discussions and debate and today she has also dumped the idea.
Not everyone can handle the reality check that comes with non belief So both of you are now raising a GODLESS family...OK. .continue. |
Romance › Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Toks2008(m): 6:49am On May 14, 2017 |
frenzyduchess: i am an atheist Lady,its not easy discussing religious views outside ,infact the christans will see your as a demon possessed fellow fashioned against the church, while the Muslims will see you as a blasphemer ready to chop off your head Keep deceiving yourself... Many Atheist secretly fear the possible existence of GOD but they keep fighting it until they die and find themselves face to face with the truth while those who have the chance usually accept God's existence at the point of death. |
Romance › Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Toks2008(m): 6:44am On May 14, 2017 |
Japhet04: I met this girl recently everything has been going well until she found out I am an atheist, she started avoiding me and said she doesn't want anything to do with me because of that fact.
I really like her , is there anything I can do to ignite a change of mind on her part  Simple...Believe in GOD cos he truly exists anyways. I can cope with a Muslim or traditional believer but an Atheist will be a hard one and if I ever date such it will be with the hope of converting her. |
Fashion › Re: Miss Rivers Contestant Embarrasses Herself When Asked A Question (video) by Toks2008(m): 12:24am On May 14, 2017 |
Is this new? Many slay queens out there with no brains...
Beauty without brain = Collosal waste. |
Romance › Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Toks2008(op): 7:10am On May 13, 2017 |
Sparkles003: From Mrs Joyce Meyer USA TV Evangelist
A GOOD WOMAN, MAKES A GOOD WIFE AND A GOOD WIFE BECOMES A GOOD MOTHER. A GOOD MOTHER GIVES BIRTH TO A GOOD CHILD. IF YOU WANT TO BE ONE EMULATE THESE STEPS BELLOW:
1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.
2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you. You are each other's keeper.
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.
4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.
5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.
. Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.
9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband's right. You must give it to him how he wants it. It's very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over that duty. No man can withstand on starvation for too long (even the anointed ones)
11). Never compare your husband to your one time Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.
12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.
13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.
14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.
15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.
17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.
18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?
19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home.
20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always team work.
21). Don't be too judgmental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.
23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food? Try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food.
24). Never be too demanding to your husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.
25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty.
26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.
27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.
28) A confrontational wife, can never keep a good husband and her home, she will be grooming irresponsible daughters without manners.
29) A woman who cannot manage her children, home and husband is a complete failure in life no matter her achievements.
30) A wise woman honors her husband, and respect him, in turn the husband will cherish her and love her dearly - it will be natural. Husband is a beautiful gift from God, no woman can stay without a husband. No good man on earth can tolerate a confrontational and argumentative wife .#copied . Nice one..thanks |
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Romance › Re: 4 types of Ladies Who Are Only Relevant In The living room and The Other Room. by Toks2008(op): 8:42pm On May 11, 2017 |
Lalasticlala is this good enough? |
Romance › Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Toks2008(op): 7:20pm On May 11, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: 4 types of Ladies Who Are Only Relevant In The living room and The Other Room. by Toks2008(op): 1:53pm On May 11, 2017 |
sonofLuci: You nor see your life? Na Google translator you don they use give people your number make we nor code, as u dey form reach so, u be fool o Who are the we? you must really believe you are so important. If I really want to code I will just send her PM but I am a sucker for making friends AND I CHOOSE MY FRIENDS so I see no reason why I should code as you dumbly implied...odensin. If common sense is really common you will see that we have been communicating in french since she is from Cameroun regardless of her ability to write English |
Romance › Re: 4 types of Ladies Who Are Only Relevant In The living room and The Other Room. by Toks2008(op): 1:49pm On May 11, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Is He Being Harsh On Her? by Toks2008(m): 12:00pm On May 11, 2017 |
GodsLastBorn: Here my friend goes:
hi to the people on this forum, I'm a Civil Engineer by profession and I'm independent (Entrepreneur), i construct buildings and my work takes me out of Abuja to other states so recently I travelled to the east for a project meanwhile me and my girl haven't been able to spend quality time together for about 3-4 months now for a lot of reasons, schedule clashing, distance to name a few but we do communicate daily. I have been dating this girl for about 8 months now. we started dating last year August and I'm thinking of marrying her if everything works and checks out. The relationship have had its ups and downs like relationships do and we've worked things out it until last two weeks.
She was about taking some taking some medical checkups for some official stuff and it got to her scans its a young guy. She told me about how the guy asked her to strip so that he can scan her breast which she was shy about and how embarrassing it was for her and we laughed about it, she said the guy gave her his umbrella to go with ( and that negatively tingled my N.S) and started being nice to her and I didn't bother to ask her how she's going to give it back.
Few days, i came back tired and walking towards my room like a soldier back from the war front and everything in me is trying to drag me to the bed with no bathe but Im trying to head to the bathroom i decided to chill in the sitting room and watch a little news on Trump finally trashing obamacare and about to doze off when suddenly my phone rang. A guy called me on the phone and was asking me if I know Sylvia ThisThat and I said yes, is there any problem? he went on to ask if I'm in a relationship with her and I asked him who is he? after much of his beating around the bush he told me his name and how he has been dating Sylvia for about a year, that she's his fiance and have been spending on her but he won't anymore and will not marry her that she's a cheat that i should go on dating her that he has left her for me. i asked him how he got my number and he said he got it from a text message I sent to her and asked her who i am and she said that I'm her uncle but the content of the text can't be from an uncle and a lot more and this pissed me off but I chilled because I don't react until I discover the facts and truth about things after all its only one side of the story.
The next morning was Sunday and I feel better so I called my girl Sylvia to know how she's doing and ask her about the guy ( this is a girl I believed is an angel and wouldn't do such). After she picked, we exchanged pleasantries, by the way I fked up. I was supposed to call her yesterday and congratulate her on her convocation which I forgot. Its terrible and unlikely of me and I quickly went on with apologies, I'll be damned she went on full rage about how could I forget and more ?! people she least expected called her but not me and that I've been fking around with many girls, cheating and doing nasty things behind her and that if I contact HIV that that's when I'll know myself and kept going in with different insults and more which left me dumbfounded but I kept my cool and said maybe the convocation meant this much to her that mine is to try and make her feel better and I'm kept trying to pet and calm her down.
The next day I called her again and she continued where she stopped, I've been flogged and my butt kicked by my conscience on how could I forget her convocation?! barely slept well and still trying to find a way to compensate for my f up.
she kept going at it, how men are all the same. I'm the kind that barely and hardly get mad or angry but when I do flip upside down, well after I calmed her down and apologised about my fuckdup she chilled then I finally got a chance to ask her "are you dating anyone else?" like three times and she said No, that how can I ask her such question (is that question horrible?). I told her everything about the call i got and she said she knows her suspect, that it must be Tunde the doctor that scanned her. That he had been disturbing her and one day sent her 10k and she told her cousin about it and the cousin advised her to chop the guy money since she no ask ( this is what I despise most in any female, what happened to self respect?!) that she decided to "play along" and they went shopping at shop right and gave her 3k for transport one time she visited him at his office. On Friday he asked her to come over to his place so that they can sleep over and go to the convocation together but she refused but he attended her convocation and drove her and her friends home. that "if I had been there that all these wouldn't have happened".
That sentence got me bleeped up... This crazy friend of mine is saying I should just forget the girl but what would you guys do if you were in my shoes?! I need your opinions. This is a girl I planned to marry but I don't want her to know my intentions until the right time. I know how I feel about the situation now but I want to see what you guys think before I do me. Now I know she got a price, are there no more women that don't have a price in this world anymore? have they gone extinct? All ladies have peculiar issues so that is no big deal..and that phone call is baldadash for all i care...cos in most cases we are all someone ex. If you like date a million ladies and you will realize that there is a perculiar weakness and character default in every lady and infact...everyone.. no one is perfect. Last shot .if you truly want her...PROPOSE TO HER...if she says yes...go on and be with your woman but if she hesitates ....BIKO MOVE ON... My 50cents This piece I wrote should come in handy....all the best dude. https://www.nairaland.com/3441125/search-decent-partner-marry |
Romance › Re: Is He Being Harsh On Her? by Toks2008(m): 11:53am On May 11, 2017 |
fernandobush: Dump that mother fucker!!
and na Toks2008 dey cause all this thing!
With him mumu threads up and down!! 
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Celebrities › Re: Benita Ikeji Is Engaged, Set To Wed (Photos) by Toks2008(m): 9:10am On May 11, 2017 |
deb303: congrat o... Aunty Linda wetin dey happen na... better go wash ur head for river Benue or Niger o Wettin concern you?
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Romance › Re: 4 types of Ladies Who Are Only Relevant In The living room and The Other Room. by Toks2008(op): 8:51am On May 11, 2017 |
Jman06: Seems the op struck a nerve right here!
Don't worry, let me marry you and take you down to my village, there i will farm and feed you from my yam barn like my fore fathers did, but you may have to put up in a mud and thatched house. ok? I'm not happy you responded to her...cos her type ought to be ignored.. In the real world I walk away from people of shallow intellectual capacity who lack the cognitive mental ability to hold up discussions without resorting to attacks and use of strife prone words on the discussant(s). |
Celebrities › Re: Adesua Etomi Reacts To Her Crush, Jidenna & Banky W Photo by Toks2008(m): 8:27am On May 11, 2017 |
adorablepepple: We won't hear word again this is how social media follow and torment their lives till it destroys it. The title is even not right cos they are not married yet... And e be like sey thus Adesua sef go spoil. |
Politics › Re: Osinbajo’s Security Team Changed, Guarded By Only Northerners - FFK by Toks2008(m): 8:19am On May 11, 2017 |
As long as God remains God and the Ebora owu of Nigeria is still alife . ..No harm shall befall Osinbanjo. |
Family › Re: My Husband joystick Is Too Small To Satisfy Me by Toks2008(m): 8:05am On May 11, 2017 |
kwinzara: she was a virgin ooo, didn't u see it there that they did not have sexual contact before the marriage And does that make her a virgin? |
Family › Re: My Husband joystick Is Too Small To Satisfy Me by Toks2008(m): 8:04am On May 11, 2017 |
MysteriousAnn: More reason why we need to sample our opposite sex in the other room before marriage.  And how many you go sample before you settle with one?
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Romance › Re: 4 types of Ladies Who Are Only Relevant In The living room and The Other Room. by Toks2008(op): 6:39am On May 11, 2017 |
shinarlaura: Non pas marié Mais vous venez d'écrire que vous n'êtes pas célibataire, ce qui signifie que vous êtes marié ... de toute façon, ajoutez mon numéro de Wattsup zéro, huit, zéro, deux, trois, quatre six, zéro quatre six afin que nous puissions communiquer en privé. Bonne journée à venir. |
Romance › Re: 4 types of Ladies Who Are Only Relevant In The living room and The Other Room. by Toks2008(op): 5:12am On May 11, 2017 |
shinarlaura: Lol.
Je ne suis pas célibataire Oh you are married! that's great, I wish you a happy married life sis...remain blessed. |
Romance › Re: 4 types of Ladies Who Are Only Relevant In The living room and The Other Room. by Toks2008(op): 5:11am On May 11, 2017 |
optional1: maka she is not célibataire Lobatan! I give up....case closed. |
Romance › Re: 4 types of Ladies Who Are Only Relevant In The living room and The Other Room. by Toks2008(op): 11:01pm On May 10, 2017 |
optional1: lolz so u just they view her today.. Oboi the road to her kingdom na boko bois full their oh....
@shinarlaura Ça ne te dérange pas Maka why
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Romance › Re: How Small Is Too Small? by Toks2008(op): 10:55pm On May 10, 2017 |
lalasticlala I guess this is educative....remember that sex is a vital aspect of life. |
Family › Re: My Husband joystick Is Too Small To Satisfy Me by Toks2008(m): 10:49pm On May 10, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: 4 types of Ladies Who Are Only Relevant In The living room and The Other Room. by Toks2008(op): 10:44pm On May 10, 2017 |
1bkaye: So she should work and not focus on these things? Whatever happens,let her not be a full time house wife...shikenah |
Romance › Re: 4 types of Ladies Who Are Only Relevant In The living room and The Other Room. by Toks2008(op): 10:44pm On May 10, 2017 |
1bkaye: So she should work and not focus on these things? Whatever happens,let her not be a full time house wife...shikenah |
Romance › Re: 4 types of Ladies Who Are Only Relevant In The living room and The Other Room. by Toks2008(op): 10:28pm On May 10, 2017 |
1bkaye: Lol what's the husband contributing besides money since she's supposed to be financially stable as well as taking care of home/housewifing which can also be another job in itself, especially if she's working too At least she should not relegate herself to the kitchen and the other room. |
Romance › Re: 4 types of Ladies Who Are Only Relevant In The living room and The Other Room. by Toks2008(op): 10:24pm On May 10, 2017 |
shinarlaura: In English please  Parlez-nous sur whatsapp sur Zéro, huit, zéro, deux, trois, quatre, six, zéro, quatre, six. J'espère que vous êtes une femme célibataire. |
Romance › Re: 4 types of Ladies Who Are Only Relevant In The living room and The Other Room. by Toks2008(op): 10:20pm On May 10, 2017 |
optional1: nice one grand father
They won't hear...
God knows my brother dare not bring any of those home... You dey call young man like me grand father....biko no spoil show for me abeg....e get one camerounian hottie we I just see today...jo ma ko igbo simi lapo. |
Romance › Re: 4 types of Ladies Who Are Only Relevant In The living room and The Other Room. by Toks2008(op): 10:18pm On May 10, 2017 |
shinarlaura: In English please  Let's chat on wattsup jare omo to dun would. ..I will teach you all you need to know about the language.... |