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Man who wants her for what exactly? for keeps or for flings?

noetic5:
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I'm crushing on this lady seriously...

Great talent.

armyofone:
With all the ups and down female hormones, how can a man have two women? Or one man with many other side chics? African men dey try o...respect

When you marry one woman and have 5 other side chics and when you are married to 5 wives I wonder what the difference is.

The Grammer sef is confusing.

biggestbros:
My brother, women are something else.
There is a trend here in the east that will soon explode, many married women are living single in the name of my husband is in the abroad. Ask when since when has he left home, some as far back as ten years ago.
Am sure we all know what is happening to drug traffickers, many are dead, majority are in prison, thousands died in the desert. Now these women are fuxking anybody cos their hubby is nowhere to be found.
Easterners are the worst hit, we carry one man one wife for head in the name of Christianity. Majority of the priest and pastors have one wife but many baby mamas.
Women even prefer their husbands have side chicks than marry a second wife though they wouldn't admit openly.
We Igbo's need to see to cost of marriage, its driving men crazy and making our women become prostitutes. come to Owerri, Enugu, Umuahia and see all our single and youthful ladies now professional runs girls.
Am sure time will tell.

Hmmm!

neoapocalypse:
Will you accept it if your wife is having a sugar daddy/fuckboy/side boy outside your marriage ? If you can not accept it then you're the hypocrite here. It takes sacrifice to be faithful to one wife , something you seem to find hard to do. If all you do and think is about sex then you'll probably want to sleep around. Already you have given up on becoming faithful to your wife , I pity whoever she will be. Women also have the same sexual urge we have , while some can not control theirs some still do and it should be the same for men.
Do not give me that bullshit about women outnumbering men , there was never a time women outnumbered men significantly.
The only thing I see here is a man who is not willing to make sacrifices for his wife and his home but expects her to , a man who's life revolves around sex and only trying to make excuses for his adulterous ways


And to think the poster is a Christian who has been commanded by his religion to marry one wife , it doesn't take being an atheist to do bad/evil , you're bad if you're bad , atheist or not.

Have you ever heard the word "objectivity"?

Why not discuss the subject matter and leave the sentimental bashing...use your common sense to discuss objectively.

stephenmorris:
it's a forum,just search for it on Google and register

OK Done. Thanks.

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All the best bro...the Lord is your strength...remember that prayer and fasting can unlock any door.

stephenmorris:
my friend this topic should be on quora,you have more intelligent Nigerians there

Which one be quora?

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When I create a thread that concerns ladies and I see very few contributions from them then it's a way of them saying "I'm right"

Aiyekoto2017:
Polygamy is a personal choice and I dislike it when people that are in favor of it try to push it down other peoples throat, or try to demean Monogamy
Those that support Polygamy are :

-men that love to acquire wives like properties just because it is allowed, because I do not see how a man can love 3/4 women equally, they should stop using religion as an excuse. We have Muslim men who stick to one wife and we have Christians with 3 wives

- Women who feel that they can never get a single man to marry them will start preaching polygamy up and down

- Women that are already in polygamous relationship or marriages ,(their husband is sleeping around, another woman outside is pregnant for the man or they are already 2nd/4rd wife somewhere) abi ? what else can they do but to accept their fate.

Polygamy by force ni

bikerboy1:
Some women though, so what you want is to marry an ex-prisoner SMH

Do you know how difficult it is to stay without sex expecially when you are already used to it?

I once met a lady whose husband traveled out of the country and four 4 freaking years she has not had sex...

She was practically begging me to just massage her body after I vehemently turned her sexual overturns down and you won't believe that at a stage I was starting "to feel sorru" for her but I stood my ground anyways...

Now this is a lady that is still married to a guy that might have gotten married in another country ....now imagine that lovely young widow with a child or two keeping to her self for years and we expect a 35year old widow to hold body till she grows old and dies...habba let's be fair in our reasoning.

I have seen many ladies who have threatened to kill their husbands over second wife wahala just for them to end up as a cuncubine of a married man after the untimely death of their husbands.

galantjoe:
You have summarised everything u said this bible quote. Polygamy is a way out for african. Very soon there will be social problem caused by unmarried ladies. They need men no matter what
My take is let some one who has ways and means to take the lead. Action is louder.

With this mindset you will hardly have fidelity related issues in your marriage...I only pity the ladies with "me and my husband only" mentality.

emmasege:
One thing I know is that some open polygamists will make heaven while the secret ones (i.e. one wife at home but with girlfriend outside ) won't.

Gbam!

maasoap:
How many of this have you seen?

Pleases help me ask o...because they see one case out of many,they just conclude....

Even me at 41,if given the chance to pick between a sweet unmarried lady and a sweet baby mama,I will most likely want to settle for the first one but as I wrote before...a sweet baby mama making her own money would appeal to me more than a financially dependent sweet single lady with no child...

DatesAndMeals:
I like the way one commenter said, mingling well is the key, I will say mingling correctly, positioning your self well as a lady or even man in such shoes and making urself an asset will make u get married not just to single men but to enviable single men. Which single man wants to marry a woman who is not bringing enough income for she and the children she already is responsible for?
We see artresses everyday and in every country marrying their third or fourth husbands, you think its because they are artists? Don't we see single old artists who never get married. Too many taboos is also our problem in Nigeria. We will not patronize paid and credible dating sites, will not patronize match makers. We will stay in our room and be sad praying and fasting.
I am not just yarning, before I started match making as a business, I had previously patronized one and done online dating, as I once under went a divorce and know what I am talking about. Now I am not only married to a single, handsome young man who has never been married nor has kids, but I am truely happy. So like I said, if you want something, go and get it, prayer is good, but if that's the only thing u do about your marital desire, you must be waiting for the angels to marry you.

You make a lot of sense...

I was advicing a young lady yesterday and I told her....work hard,be very financially independent and you will be the one to choose men and she was so amazed but that is the truth. .

If you are a lady who makes good money on your own,whether you are a widow with 5 children,you are most likely to still see a fresh guy to marry you because guys love independent ladies...

Nevertheless somewhere down the line,the guy may end up having another lady in his life but would still hold his wife in high esteem.

NNAMDIII:
The most handsome guy on nairaland is lefulefu! tosyne2much and Toks2008 sev fine.

Thanks but wait o..you be guy nah!

FreeSpirited:
Boss....Most of your posts are always objective. By your previous posts I know you are a Christian and married to one wife but I do appreciate the sincerity and objectivity of your posts. Its very rare for a Christian.
No matter how flawed my stance on Christianity, I still strongly believe that if Jesus was alive now, he can never condemn polygamy when a lot of women are suffering and dying for lack of husband. Jesus never condemned polygamists of his time because it was the norm.

As I wrote...it's all about choice...for me I can't cope with two ladies....even one nah wahala but for men who can abeg let them carry go...

Solomon,David,Abraham were polygamists and they are good friends of Jehovah..

knxpin:
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He studied Electronic Engineering not Electrical.
Was in same Dept. He made a first class honours in his class.He was quite a brilliant chap.

And we are celebrating him as a staff of Facebook when we should be making more CEOs ..

Nigeria and mediocrity are like bread and butter.

So we should fry beans because he works for face book...No be person own Facebook. ..

Lalasticlala I honestly think this piece is really a fp material.

FreeSpirited:
Religious folk won't see the logic in this write up cos they are blinded by the sentiments, selfishness and hypocrisy of monogamy. When people don't understand that monogamy is considerably a new concept in the age of things then there will always be problem. Every society in the whole world started with polygamy. Every thing was balanced until Christianity came to distort fact as truth. Even in the Old testament polygamy was well sanctioned. Many halfbaked and hypocritic Christian will say we are in a new era of New testament. Make Una continue una hypocrisy. I dislike Christianity attimes cos of its apparent hypocrisy, though its good trumps its bad.
Since Jesus never mentioned monogamy as being the only marriage sanctioned by Him, coupled with the fact that polygamy was the order of the day during the lifetime of Christ, among the Jews, I dare say polygamy is not a sin nor a crime. Monogomy was enshrined during European civilization using Christianity as a cover. Attendant problem that usually follow polygamy is also the reason why polygamy was socially forbidden using Christianity as its premise.
Little history will tell you that until 16th century polygamy was still the norm in Europe and America. Nothing will forever be wrong with polygamy only for the problems usually caused by the wicked and jealous wives. Anyman who is willing and up to the task in wisdom and finance should go ahead and marry women that won't mind polygamy.

Why you too get sense like this? if you be woman I for woo you die. ..Chai!

Lalas247:
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I see

I guess this one is too controversial but it does make great sense.

Let me remind lalasticlala of this too...these threads are very insightful.

Lalasticlala this one nko?

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Lunagirl:
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It mustn't be big big. Anything from 6" is good enough.

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NNAMDIII:
I'm sorry you're 100% wrong bro!

Lol! you are funny .. what if you are the one in a mismatch...
Have a great week ahead.

NNAMDIII:
March 17

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