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Flickzvill:
Good morning nairalanders my name is mr job am a father of 2 and av been married to this beautiful woman for over 6 years. recently my wife doesn't last longer in bed, i can go 1 hr but she? just 2 mins we have gone to places but still no solution pls plp wat can we do to make her last longer thank you and happy sunday.

Your wife ejaculates fast and that is no big deal

Once she gets tired just go oral on her and in no time she should be horn then continue but if this does not work then she may use libido enhancing products....sex should be enjoyed in marriage.

Enuguboy4nsk:
i concur...your whole write-ups brings into fruition my current experience about a girl friend i visited and realised she uses stove to cook instead of gas,babe said i should buy gas for her of which i counted #10,000 and gave her to get a gas cylinder...within same week not month,babe said she needed a new fone to do her final year project,i told this babe to relax na say that one will be later .na em she come send one message say 'i am not what she thought i am'..i asked her if is about the fone and she said 'NO'..THen asked her to mention one thing i did wrong babe no mention but yet insisted i was selfish and continued arguing. all efforts to settle proved abortive in spite of me knowing nothing went wrong.i just had to tell her sorry...but then i know i will be taking a walk out

Hmmmm! some ladies tho...

The best way to be happy with any lady is to do your best to make her happy but also expect her to spit on you no matter how good you are to her.

HerexG:
Have ever wondered why most a group of Naija guys would prefer to marry a foreigner and a faction would prefer sticking with the Naija babe, it’s all about taste and preference? Taking aside those with the wrong motives like those seeking for visa and green card, I will discuss today five distinctive difference between a “Foreign babe and a Naija babe.

1. Foreign babe loyalty is higher: Foreign babes loyalty to their men tends to be higher than our Naija babes, once they are in love with you, irrespective of your background, financial status, attractive or not or handsome, height, color or race their loyalty is legendary and a top notch. On the other hand, most Naija babes loyalty comes most times comes with a clause, they don’t just fall in love like that. In fact their loving you come with something they can hold onto, they most times love because of good financial status, attractiveness or marriage. So therefore I would rate the foreign girl’s loyalty to be at 90% and our Naija babe loyalty 70%.


2. Naija babes endure and perseverance is top notch: You would find a Naija babe in an abusive relationship and still claims she loves her partner. You will find her husband or boyfriend will beat up and treat her like she worths nothing but yet she will still remain in such an abusive relationship or you will find very few of them enduring and managing with a broke or a cheating dude hoping for a better day. The moment you try this with a foreign babe most especially from the West, my brother,she breaks up with you asap and you will be very lucky if she didn’t press charges against you or shoot you. Please note lack of the foreign babe’s ability to endure in relationships and marriages is one of the major causes of single parenting.


3. Most Foreign babes love unconditionally: Like I said in my earlier statement irrespective of your background, financial status, attractive or not or handsome, height, color or race their love and loyalty is legendary. The new breeds of Naija babes we have these days are chronic materialistic beings, should it be blamed on the increased rate of poverty in our society or the degraded moral status in the country. Naija babes quantify love and money, forgetting that money can’t bring absolute happiness. This is one of the major reasons we have broken homes these days because they flow with the social tide, marrying for the wrong reasons. Irrespective of your background, financial status, attractive or not or handsome, height, color or race their loyalty is legendary irrespective of your background, financial status, attractive or not, height, color or race their loyalty is legendary irrespective of your background, financial status, ugly or handsome, height, color or race their loyalty is legendary

4. Naija Babes motherhood is next to nothing: Naija babes are better mothers compared to their foreign counterparts , they tend to instill better morals and up bringing into kids more. I could remember back then as a kid, I dare not eat outside as a kid because of the training my mom gave to me. When we have family outings I and my siblings dare not eat without decoding the facial sign of our mom, there’s a sign that says “eat” and there’s is this other sign that says “don’t eat”. If you there eat outside without permission , be expecting a legendary beat from her, she will beat the stupidity out of you with her slippers or cane “Pankere” as we call it.




5. Naija babe’s stands in love: Naija babes love you with all their guard on, mental alertness so as not to fall prey to their futuristic miss-doing of their partner. You tell C they must ask you have it has to be C because they curious people. For example, you tell a Naija babe that you are at the mall with a friend her most likely question would be “with a female or male friend”, some might go the extent of requesting for you to take a picture of where you are with such friend. A foreign befalls head over heels in love with all their guards, mental alertness, being pocketed by their partner, they can go extra miles for the sake of love.


So what team are you ? As for me I’m team Foreign babe o, in this current recession, keeping a Naija babe would cost a fortune biko except there still those who can love unconditionally..winks….

https://herexg./2017/02/17/five-distinctive-difference-between-a-foreign-babe-and-a-naija-babe/

You try

Enuguboy4nsk:
but is kinda weird....is just like me saying i dont understand myself sometimes!
well we learn crazy things each day...still marvelled at that her comment

Lol! Do you know that women are the first wonder of the world?

They want a faithful man but would want a man other ladies want.

A woman will live with a man and bear all her children for same man but her heart will be with another for as long as she lives.

Remove your eyes for a lady and she could simply throw it into the river.

A woman can make you and destroy you so effortlessly.

Fear women.

Enuguboy4nsk:
@the emboldened...i think u need a psychologist!
how can a human being find it hard to understand herself just bc she's woman...nawa oo

She is being honest...many ladies don't understand themselves...strange but true.

LaylaAli:
Wow! You pay your staff less than £40 PM

That's harsh, I swear

2k= 615×2= 1230+615= 1845 so that's like £3 or I'll take a single JD and coke for that price

My sister this is Nigeria o.

20k is above minimum wage if you must know so paying 6 staff each that amount for a medium scale business is not easy.

LaylaAli:
That's the one I want
Because the bottle looks pretty

£40 × 615 = N24,600

If I pay my staff N20000 a month I believe a wine bottle of 24k is too much....

I fit buy fruit wine for you..that one is 2k

LaylaAli:
Can I have a bottle of Jack Daniels instead

Sorry I be bush man...how much does a bottle cost?

babyfaceafrica:
one of the reasons is what you are exhibiting, how can you say I sound chidish? Good day

I'm glad I'm seing real time application of what this thread is about.

Now assuming she did not use the C word I guess you wouldn't mind discussing further...

That is my point..

Some guys just believe ladies naturally dont make sense no matter how sensible they may sound....to me that is totally absurd.

LaylaAli:
I think you and I are looking at it from different positions. You seem to think ignoring a woman is somehow disrespectful but it depends on the verbal exchange we are having whether it is formal (in public or debates) or informal (at home as lovers )

Exactly my point..it is utterly disrespectful to ignore a lady except the lady uses awful words.

It becomes a healthy discussion as long as she maintains proper decorum which is absence of abusive words but the moment she starts using hateful words then that is when the man should back off.

Swizdoe:
You are playing with fire

No be today me and that Ijebu boy Don dey fight.

LaylaAli:
I believe that as long as there is no use of vulgar words, women have the right to voice out their minds and deserve response to a logical conclusion ...


This made me laugh! You're so cute

We are not logical we are emotional. Things have to feel a certain way for us. This is the amazing difference in men and women. It's celebrated and not discouraged.

The simple truth is that eact time a man ignores a lady without reaching a compromise,he leaves her guessing the answers and most times she guesses wrongly and at the end,she drifts farer and farer away from the man.

LaylaAli:
Depending on the month, day, or week you catch this lady...

I'd say at that moment when emotions are high ignore her and maybe settle things calmly later. Every woman is different some want you to calm them down some can't look at you so need you to leave them alone. I'm all those depending on the moon, the day we argue. I find it hard to understand myself sometimes so I don't expect a man to.

In the op you compare ignoring a woman to ignoring someone because they are less intelligent and I don't think that's why men should ignore us but that they can't win an argument because we won't let them. This is our playground and men who try come off effeminate or crazy.

This is a perfect case study...now this is about the second time I'm quoting you....judging from the principle of ignoring ladies...I'm not suppose to quote you again "because you are a lady" even if you are making sense.

I believe in having a compromise but I will hardly leave a lady hanging just because I need to ignore her....a lady wants answers and even when she argues..she needs answers so give her one calmly and if she insists then let her be. this is a different ball game.

You really need to see how bad this has become that a lady can't say anything reasonable again all in the name of being a woman.

To me..as long as my woman does not get abusive...I will make sure I calm her down and reach a logical conclusion.

I could let her be for a moment but i will never ignore my lady...

babyfaceafrica:
Most women don't know how to argue,instead of being realistic and pragmatic, they are sentimental and emotional.all they do is emotional blackmail and shout.I will rather argue with my TV than a woman.With women you won't win!!!!

There is a thin line between discussion and argument. ..

I will never have any discussion with an abusive woman and you won't see me ever having heated verbal arguement with any lady.

Sometimes on nairaland when I discuss at length with any lady it's because I sense such lady is desirous to know some things she is not clear about but the moment I see any vulgar words I back out.

My point is that every lady deserves to speak out her mind either angrily or calmly without being abusive and be given audience as well as a good calm explanation.

Some men have taken ladies for granted that they simply ignore her even if she is making sense all because "she is a woman"

LaylaAli:
It depends on what you are arguing. If it's a debate, fine, but if it's a heated exchange over something emotional then men should be the logical ones and know when to shut up. Women express themselves verbally a lot better than men in certain circumstances. When couples argue and it becomes obvious that nothing is being solved by arguing then society hopes that the man will ignore her and leave the argument. Our tongue is our weapon and for men it's their fists. We don't try to beat you up so don't argue with us for the sake of peace.

On the contrary...no man should have a heated "verbal" argument with a lady in the real sense...a man should calm a lady down to explain issues to her...

No lady shelves off an unsettled matter..she must still bring if up one way or the other so the best thing the man can do is to resolve it calmly rather than ignore the lady

Michellla:
Let me quote this

"If men are alws more or less deceived on the subject of women,it is because that they forget that they and women do not speak altogether the same language & that words have not the same weight or the same meaning for them, especially in questions of feeling.
Whether from shyness or precaution or artifice,a woman never speaks out her whole thought,and moreover what she herself knows of it is but a part of what it really is & complete self-knowledge seems to be forbidden her. If she is a sphinx to us,it is because she is a riddle of doubtful meaning even to herself.She has no need of perfidy, for she is mystery itself.
A woman is something irrational,indeterminable and contradictory.
A great deal of forbearance ought to be shown her, and a good deal of prudence exercised with regard to her, for she may bring about innumerable evils without knowing it,capable of all kinds of devotion & of all kinds of treason “monstre inc.she can be the delight and terror of men at the same time."

For Petes sake biko break it down..this grammatical conjunctions are confusing.

kingsilly:
Sey I should stop following you ni,

lol! you are not getting me...

The first to comment thing just cracks me up...but then lalasticlala and seun have conspired against me so I no longer look forward to my threads on front page..

Seun is angry with me cos I always tell him some home made truths.

I have a 10year membership status on nairaland so I'm in a good position to tell Seun some facts without second guessing ...he is a sturbborn bush man wey dey quick vex.

kingsilly:
FTC

This FTC thing cracks me up...why not try to have your thread on Frontpage?

It is no longer new that the more you put into an argument with a woman the more likely you are to lose with her because she will act most deviously in sabotaging your reputation whilst she layers hers.

To a woman, an argument is not usually an exchange of information between two people but a battleground and her aim is to win at all cost even if it means attacking your credibility as an individual rather than the subject of argument.

But regardless, i'm not the type that looks down on ladies or sees them as second class humans...I respect ladies in all ramifications and I see them as a formidable entity in all aspects of life.

But when it comes to discussing with ladies,due to the factors explained above, I have observed the attitude of men towards women in general. They are quick to condemn a fellow man for indulging in any form of argument with a lady and they are always quick to use that annoying line..."Don't you know she is a woman" and I tend to wonder if there is something wrong about being a woman when it comes to discussing issues.

More surprising is the fact that even women castigate men who indulge in any form of argument with their fellow women which makes it more worrisome for me.

In conclusion i believe that there is a very thin line between discussion and arguement which makes it difficult to diffrenciate as both can melt into one with a little tilt in the emotional balance.

Once a woman starts to use abusive words during any discussion or arguement,the man should back out but as long as there is no use of vulgar words, a woman has the right to voice out her mind and deserves response from a man to a logical conclusion ...

Enough of this achaic mindset that women in general are of low intellect hence the need to ignore them when it comes to discussing issues of any type.

My opinion.

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Hi all, when a man wants a woman to keep him company.

Does he love her?[/color]

Two things are involved...it's either he loves your friendship which is stronger than being a lover to you but if he demands for sex then it's about sex.

Pritypussi:
The day you stop making money is when your world ends. Their love comes with very high price

Exactly.....but if you meet one that is not money freak then count yourself fortunate.

solasolasola:
I am Yoruba and I am very fascinated by Igbo girls. My fascination with them is so huge that I am beginning to think it's a sickness. Each time I see an Igbo girl, I instantly realize she is an Igbo girl. Is it so obvious; blatant or is it just that I easily realize because of my admiration of them? There was a day a girl was approaching my friend and I, my friend said she must be a Yoruba girl but I said she is Igbo. When she was close enough, we asked her and she said she is Igbo. I really have this inexplicable penchant to recognize them. I think this fascination is as a result of how I see them: I feel they are the cutest in the whole of Nigeria. Point of correction, I know they are the cutest in Nigeria. I mean their kind of beauty is the cutest in Nigeria. My present girlfriend is an Igbo girl and I'm beginning to be head over heels...even though I've got my reservation(albeit it's a reservation borne out of other standards one of which is level of education). I may just get married to an Igbo girl when it's time despite the culture difference and the apparent animosity that exist between some members of the two tribes who are nothing but pathetic bigots. In short, I strongly love, admire, adore Igbo girls and I can do anything to marry one as I know they are the cutest in Nigeria. This is despite the fact that I'm Yoruba.

I thought I was the only one in this boat.

All tribes are sweet but there is this thing with Igbo ladies but the show spoiler is the excessive materialistic behaviour some of them have

ToriBlue:
It takes a lot of sacrifice to lose this kind of weight.

The sad twist is that it is extremely difficult to maintain the slim figure....

repogirl:
Kemi the psycho blabbermouth at it again. Concocting rubbish with the aim of tarnishing reputations and calling it journalism.

The woman is worse than a silly joke. Why doesn't someone sue her for a billion Naira so she can take a permanent break from the rubbish she keeps alleging.

There was this professor who suddenly noticed that his car was wobbling.

He parked and realized that 4 tyre bolts are lost in one of the back tyres and he was confused because he knew he had to get a lift to a far place to buy the 4 tire knots.

After trying for more than 3 hours to get a cab,he became frustrated and just at that time,a mad man passed by and said to him..."see mumu..he dey find motto to go buy 4 knot for one tyre wen he fit comot one one bolt for the remaining 3 tyres"

The professor was puzzled and marveled at the words of the mad man and wondered why he never had that thought...

Moral of the story..no matter how mad someone could be...some times we need to take their words seriously.

correctguy0900:
I think u saying the wrong thing and yet with confidence. You see those schemes as normal because of the kind of country. U can't just go to any country and open these kind of idiot webs and say that u didn't break into account. Do yahoo boys break into account.

Go to ur constitution and check the meaning of fraud in section 419. Talking about mmm, what stupid spare money, who never chop belle full go spare. He simply use some words to suck u off like mosquitoes. And u could see the pain so far on people. In d end d burden is on d govt such as crime increase, poverty increase, health suicide etc. D reason why some saner societies don't even allow it to thrive. But in naija, if u like bet ur generations, oyo

If u think until u break into someone's account before u could term it as fraud, please stop to reply my comment abeg. I didn't refer to u. Can't allow u dash me headache here

I guess you are getting it twisted...Ponzi scheme in itself ìs not the issue but the people involved.

If baba ijebu,bet9ja and lotto sites can be created by a Web designer why not Ponzi site?

Stop mixing legitimate professionalism with sentiments...nuff said

MasterJayJay:
I choose types of website I want to create.

If I am against homosexuality, why should I accept to create a gay website? Reason am.

Haaaa my brother you go hungry small o.Btw you can't juxtapose gay site to a ponzi site abi e dey bible

correctguy0900:
Quite rare to find. I used to see my bros like that in his patience beginning days. Until after 10 years when all hope was lost.

Last year, he gained back all his lost years. At the moment, he's worth not less than 300 milla to put it approximately. He refused to bow to financial pressure to engage in ponzi hustle. When God marks ur time, no baga can change it.
I pray for u today, as u refused to yield to these crook methods in d face of financial troubles and rather commit yrself to doing what is good in d sight of d Lord and humanity, may ur story be bettter than my big bros.

I tell u, ur knowledge base is needed everywhere in the world. I can say that evidently because i have also travelled quite alot . I could help u with any information incase u need one for a better refocus. Thank you and may d heavens observe ur matta

I'm sorry but this comment lacks substance.

How is it a criminal act to create baba ijebu website,bet9ja,lotto site and so on?

As long as the site does not break into people's account I see nothing bad.

Even MMM warned people to use spare money they can afford to lose...abeg say something else.

MasterJayJay:
It seems the newest online stuff in Nigeria is ponzi websites. Everyday a new ponzi scheme website is lanched in Nigeria with the aim of scamming gullible Nigerians.


Recently, a secondary schoolmate of mine told me about some guys that want me to create such website for them. They are ready to pay me heavily. Though I am very broke, I rejected the offer and bluntly to him I can't take the offer.

I haven't made it as webdesigner. I did not even get any webdesign job throughout last year till this moment. Some people that want me to design a website for their school, business will collect my contact and I will never hear from them again. I am not a pro(can't code from scratch),but with paid softwares that are available online I am up to the task.


Just this morning, I signed in to my facebook account and saw another person making an inquiry on ponzi scheme. I uploaded the screenshot of my chat with him.

Though hunger is beating me here seriously, I refused to be tempted to help criminals scam Nigerians.

While many people are hailing you,I will tell you in all honesty that you may remain poor with this your mindset.

Creating a website that does not automatically scam people is not a criminal act dude...it's not the same as creating a software that hacks people account.

It is people' choice to get involved in Ponzi so when next you are approached please be reasonable and earn a honest living by doing your professional legitimate job...WEBSITE CREATION.

Impressive

DAVE5:
Guess u know when u eat, the smell comes to ur face/nose before the food enters ur mouth, that's wia the problem wld be, if my nose doesn't accept, watz the point in putting it in my mouth, it's not abt it being sweet or not, it's abt the smell

I'm the kinda person that gets irritated by simple things u might overlook e.g if I buy a bottle of water and someone takes a gulp of that water, truth I won't bother visiting that bottle again, id rather buy another...then ud understand wia am coming from, the smell is the koko

I have been eating delicious ofada rice every morning from monday to friday since October last year...infact I'm addicted to it....it's actually one of my best 3 delicacies.

Na WA o!
What is the fuss about? must she know him? what if she is not Nigeria based?
It might surprise you that some Nigerians don't know PMB.

LuvU2:
She is pretty kool tho. Will kill to hv those curves

This reminds me of a thread I created way back

https://www.nairaland.com/2516219/guys-which-prefera-pretty-face