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By next week it will sell below N400

tosyne2much:
It does happen sha and I agree with you.. Thanks

You are welcome bro...keep up the passion.

[quote author=tosyne2much post=54024733][/quote]For the first time I feel the thread title does not have any correlation with the write up...maybe another title would do.

wkkwl:
Introverts are often thought of as shy, aloof, disinterested and “stuck up” because they keep a low profile. But that assumption couldn’t be further from the truth. Think of James Bond for a moment.

Bond doesn’t always wear his emotions on his sleeve — or on his face. He is quiet, pensive, confident and driven. Do you think his demeanor makes him more or less attractive? His style makes him more attractive.

Similarly, introverts don’t center themselves as the life of the party, but they are among the most incredibly attractive and fascinating people you’ll ever meet. Here’s why:

1. They are mysterious.
Introverts have an mysterious aura about them. People want to know what they are thinking, but will never know all of it. This makes introverts incredibly fascinating and intimidating at the same time. It is no wonder that they are so extremely misunderstood by the more outgoing and vocal people in our society.

2. They are easy to be around.
It might surprise you, but introverts are some of the nicest and friendliest people you’ll ever meet. They are naturally chilled out, relaxed and loving. In a world that is always in a rush and that can’t stop talking and clamoring for the limelight, the introvert’s cool and laid-back nature is extremely appealing. It is true that introverts are drained by crowds, but they thrive in small groups and one-on-one interactions.

3. They are dreamers.
Despite what you may have heard, dreaming is anything but a waste of time. Psychologist Scott Barry Kaufman and colleagues explain that a mind that wonders aids in the process of “creative incubation.” You may already know from experience that our best ideas come seemingly out of the blue when our minds are elsewhere.

Introverted people get lost in their minds often and come out of them with refreshing and wonderful ideas. When you are with them you are fascinated and feel like a part of the magic because of the way they treat you and let you in on intriguing, new possibilities.

4. They are good listeners
It seems everyone in our extroverted world today is preoccupied with themselves and what’s on their own mind. Every day is like a shouting contest where everyone wants to speak and no one wants to listen. So, when someone shows an interest in another and is willing to listen, it’s a huge attractor. Introverts listen more than they speak. They listen with the view to understand and not merely to reply. And that is incredibly rare and special. It boosts stronger connections and healthier relationships.

5. They are intrinsically motivated.
As inwardly-oriented people, introverts tend to be intrinsically motivated. That means they are motivated to act by deeper, internal convictions rather than shallow, external motivations like reward and recognition.

They know who they are, what they want and what matters in their life. And that is why they are the ones most likely to pursue their true passions despite the risks and inconveniences involved. Anyone who is self-driven, motivated by higher values and passionate is undeniably attractive and inspiring.


6. They are observant.
Introverts see things others often miss or don’t see. The world is an introvert’s wonderland with possibilities everywhere. They are constantly taking in information in their quiet state and using it as fodder for creative expression. When you are with an introvert, nothing is lost. And it often seems like the introverted person always knows what you want even when you haven’t spelt it out, which is brilliant and endearing.

7. They are mindful of what they say.
Nothing makes you look stupid and unattractive faster than saying inappropriate things because you rushed to speak and did not take time to consider your words. Introverts don’t speak out of turn. In fact, they won’t speak at all unless they have something important to say. And when they do speak, they say just enough to pique your interest and leave you wanting more. The more they speak the more fascinated you become and the more you want to hear them speak.

8. They are creative, out-of-the box thinkers.
According to studies by the psychologists Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi and Gregory Feist, the most spectacularly creative people in many fields are often introverted. That’s largely because solitude is a key ingredient for creative success. Introverts have no fear of being alone. They actually cherish privacy and freedom from interruption. In the state of solitude, introverts get in touch with their inner monologue, ask the right questions and flex their creative muscles.

Author Susan Cain notes that, “Without introverts, the world would be devoid of: the theory of gravity; the theory of relativity; W. B. Yeats’s “The Second Coming”; Chopin’s nocturnes; Proust’s In Search of Lost Time; Peter Pan…” and so on.

That natural tendency to embrace solitude, focus deeply on a subject, think and act creatively makes introverts, past and present, gloriously remarkable and attractive people.


9. They are studious and smart.
Introverts are naturally drawn to reading and study. They enjoy learning and figuring out new things for themselves. And while they might be dubbed book worms, they are smart. And a smart person is sexy and attractive. You are better off spending time with someone who’s knowledgeable and eagerly interested in learning more, than someone who is ignorant and disinterested.


10. They are intellectually stimulating.
Because introverts are studious and self-reflective, their conversations are intellectually stimulating. They know all kinds of things to share with others. And there is something magical and beautiful about someone who lights up and is energized by meaningful, intelligent conversations.

#Credit Lifehack.org


#ProudIntrovert

This guy just nailed it.....
in addition,introverts are mostly sincere and highly focussed people but will never spend their energy on unproductive issues or someone who does not want to be with them.

Hmmmm!

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Some ladies are very good as sacrificial tools because these ladies know their baes are into fraud yet they still stay in that affair cos of what they are getting from him.

MarieSucre:
You supported adultery here.

If you see this as well as other quotes of me that you gave as supporting adultery then you need to go back to kindergarten school.

Have a good night rest

MarieSucre:
Here is why I quoted you :-
"Thou shalt not commit adultery", one of the Ten Commandments found at Exodus 20:14
Which is it? Are you a Christian hypocrite or an Atheist? Shikena no too much talk.

And where on earth did I support Adultery?
Se o gbadun iwo omoyi?

MarieSucre:
Toks2008

Tocheagle

This is for both of you. How is being a hypocritical christian working out for you guys nah?

And for any other hypocritical mofo who say "men are naturally polygamous" and then come out say "thunder fire gay people".
God just dey look una like 3d film.

Please try to articulate your point cos you are not making sense and btw why quote me?

okeowo86:
you can be faithful if you are a real christian who love and fear God.

This is the only reason...

I only pray that I find a lady who is pleasing to my eyes sexually and also knows how to cook in order for me not to have any reason to fantasize about another lady's body or food.

HIV is no longer a threat.

Toro4u:
i think the yorubas can rule this country more better compared to any other tribe, i know wailers will come wailing but this is my fact.

Inasmuch as I see every tribe as special,we Yorubas remain the most educated and sophisticated tribe in Nigeria....Quote me anywhere.

Thisis2raw:
Honestly Osinbajo is far better than Buhari in all ramifications

Do you think it is easy to be a professor and a law professor at that?

Wait until we get to the elms of affairs in few years to come....

#teamJoshuageneration

rose54321:
3.Those who love God enough to keep their marital vow:

This is the most important.
The fear of God in a man is the best trait one can possibly look for, it will make him humble , caring and even when you annoy or offend him, it will soften his heart to make amends.

This is the only reason I have never and will never cheat on my woman....any other reason is secondary.

After going through this thread...
https://www.nairaland.com/3648271/teacher-divorces-husband-over-unattractive...,I strongly feel it is important to write a piece concerning this anomaly regarding the size of the male organ good enough for a lady to enjoy good intimacy.

While many people will be hypocritical when it comes to discussing this very very vital issue,I believe it is imperative for me to explain some facts about this because without good intimacy,most romantic union will collapse.

As they say "Size does matter" and this is the honest truth but it may shock many that a 4inch erect schlong can make a lady climax heavily....WHY?

1.Big schlong means good sex is a facade:

Yes you read right...a big schlong does not translate to good intimacy expecially when the man keeps hitting the wrong spot.

It is also true that women consider how you use it to be more important than how big it is. In most cases, guys with big schlongs feel that they're 'giant' so they don't have to put in any extra work and the sex ends up being horrible.

2.If a lady can enjoy a finger of less than 4inch then a schlong of 4inch can satisfy her:

Have you ever wondered how in the world a lady could enjoy the use of short fingers yet say she can only enjoy a longer schlong? The problem is the way the man uses that 4inch which means the s.x position of the woman is a major determinant of how she enjoys intimacy and not really the size of the schlong.

3.God in his wisdom has made it easy for any lady to enjoy a small schlong. :

Do you know that the 2 pleasure spots of a lady is so easy to get stimulated by a 4inch schlong?

It is pleasing to know that the clit of a lady can be stimulated so easily by virtue of the position but it is more pleasing to know that the other pleasure spot known as the g.spot is just 3inches from the opening of a woman's core and this makes it so easy for a lady to enjoy intimacy with a 4inch man...Interesting innit?

4.Big schlong satisfaction is more of a psychological thing than fact:
Many ladies are used to watching porn where a normal size schlong is magnified with the camera to make it look so big thereby creating that mindset that big schlong is the real deal but you are so wrong....

AVERAGE erect size (worldwide) is about 5.5 inches. Its also a myth that black men are supposed to have giant dicks too(very wrong cos most black guys have average of 6inches).

Watching porn also conditions your mind and tells you what size should be 'normal'. A lot of pornstars are actually 'freaks of nature', they are far larger than the average guy and must never be used as a yardstick for measurement.

5.The longer the schlong the more inconvinient it will be for the lady:

Have you ever observed that longer schlong causes discomfort? Little wonder why guys with longer schlong hardly go in fully and what profit a woman who is with a man she can not manipulate his P as she wants but will always spoil the fun with funny words like "Easy" "gently"....

6.Some ladies are insatiable as a result of multiple sex partners:


Some ladies who find it hard to cope with a seemingly average schlong have probably been with several men and some of these men were probably bigger than average and these ladies have gotten used to that but might find themselves married to a guy with an average size and this becomes an issue for them....this is why even a guy with 8inch schlong can be too long for some ladies and might just be average for some which makes the subject of "big schlong" very relative with respect to different ladies so when a lady says you are small,you really don't have to worry your head cos you just might be big or very OK for another lady.


7.Most ladies in reality can not cope with a big schlong:
I know this may surprise many but the truth is that 8 out of 10 ladies can not cope with a schlong above normal size but they only think about it but in reality...they will prefer a moderate schlong.

I could continue to enumerate on why a small P size of not less than 4inches can satisfy a lady and will get her sexually satisfied....

Size does matter but only a P size of less than 4inches when erect can be considered as small...and when you talk about bigger P, it is better to have a bigger girth rather than a P size longer than 6 inches.

*To measure your P length simply measure from the base with the tape touching your body skin above your penile shaft and you can not truly ascertain the length of the P in the flaccid state no matter how small it looks.

mapet:
......and do you succeed in "escaping" them?

So far so good.

enshi:
Hi nairalanders ,

Pls i need advice from everyone. Pls if you have 800k at hand would you travel abroad to hustle (legally) or would you stay here in nigeria to start up somthing.??

If you are to travel pls which country can you vouch and if its business please which business can you suggest.

Thanks in anticipation for your credible, valuable and unabashed ideas/suggestions

With 800k you may not go far in business except you are extremely fortunate.

If you must also travel avoid spending u necessarily for visa agents cos it's never a guaranty.

Choose wisely.

I try so much to run far from married ladies..they are more promiscuous than their unmarried counterpart.

Ishilove:
The sheer wickedness is mindboggling. I am yet to find the justification for this commando style thievery.

The custom service needs serious restructuring.

You may find it hard to believe that these bags of Tice came in through idiroko border while this same custom allowed it after being bribed by the smugglers.

So why go into people's stores to carry the same bags same custom service allowed in?

They Also need to go into people's homes to start seizing bags of rice or better still carry the ones in our pots.

Foolish and clueless customs.

Nice info....
Nigeria killing Nigerians more than death.

greatnaija01:
he could make a swift deal with his 5 years girl... HOOK UP WITH THE RICH BABE, USE HER MONEY TO SET UP HIS 5 YEARS FAITHFUL CHICK AND THEN BREAK UP WITH THE RICH GIRL.... The break up can be arranged too.. some guys can be paid to set it up.

AND EVERYONE IS HAPPY. the rich girl will never respect him if she marries him.... so he should follow my advice and play smart... ITS A BLESSING IN DISGUISE

Haaaa!...You must be a yahoo boy.

Nma27:
LOL.... Its in d past dear, old things have passed away, abi e no dey bible again? ...lolzzz Its best not to concern yoursrlf with past happenings as long as the person stays true to you.

Past my foot...when she dey do am she knew it was bad but still did it anyway...let her go back to the past or look for a guy who has had an equal reckless past.

I hate it when my woman have been scrwd by every Dike Stephen Adamu Kunle..... habba! dem dey collect medal?

Sexual indecency...

As a guy I'm extremely sexually decent so I expect same from my woman....many other things can be tolerated but if the number of guys in your life past or present goes beyond a certain limit....na wahala...and I hate to hear that phrase "it's in the past"

HateU2:
See ya mouth

I know that line...

PapiNigga:
In case you missed the previous post, read HERE: https://www.nairaland.com/3634396/how-much-bean-cake-buy

www.nairaland.com/attachments/4895747_akara_jpege7e4b152d5c64a630a074eac0d55acc4

Her name is Chizzy Alichi, she is a Nollywood actress and she is the one in the viral photo that trended over the weekend of an hot akara seller in sexy dress.

The photo was actually taken from the set of the movie, titled: “Akaraoku” and not a trade she picked up like we all thought...

See more photos of her below...




http://www.thisisnaija.com/2017/02/see-more-hot-photos-of-sexy-akara.html?m=1

She will be a learner in South Africa where girls set die.

HateU2:
You mean to type big yansh and boobs .
Whatever that means, guys can never be faithful

I'm not a fan of big yansh and boobs. ..just have nice tits and booty.

HateU2:
No, the can never be faithful


The search for hole can never make them to be faithful



Toks, are you faithful

I'm an embodiment of the second point and if I have a lady with the sexual endowments I want then bye to every other lady.

love and faithfulness are interlocked yet so different. A man can love one woman forever even if the lady marries another man but faithfulness on the other hand I think should be gauged individually because it is premised on one's nature.

So the answer is ABSOLUTELY YES...but the types of guys who can love and remain faithful to their woman are..

1.Those who marry ladies with the type of sexual endowments they desire:

A lady can have all the good inner attributes and that will certainly make a man love her but she needs more than inner beauty to make a man sexually faithful to her.

Men are visual in nature and tend to get carried away by what they see...and whatever is pleasing to their eyes will inadvertently be pleasing to their soul.

Why marry a lady that does not turn you on physically just to get carried away by another lady who does?...in 8 out of 10 instances...men cheat with a lady who has some sort of sexual feature they want but lacking in their woman..FACT!


2.Men who are married to ladies who know how to sexually please them:

Some men are fortunate to marry a lady who can make them day dream about intimacy because these ladies will keep them sexually satisfied but guys who are married to sexually timid ladies stand the risk of going out to seek the fun they lack.

3.Those who love God enough to keep their marital vow:

The question is; How many men have these 3 as highlighted above?

Such men are very rare which makes it difficult to see a man who will be sexually faithful to one woman...nevertheless,any man who truly loves GOD and has self control can overlook the first two points and remain faithful to his woman against all odds.

joebeckz:
Recall our pre-wedding photos from the trail thread if u missed it
www.nairaland.com/3547646/two-nairalanders-getting-married

My wife wasn't up to 30 but stubbornly sneaked into the thread, that's how destiny works

This was why I tried to convince siamia to bring down the ladies age group so that there will be more influx of ladies as most of the 30plus ladies tend to be too timid to join that wonderful thread.

I'm happy you were smart enough and congrats to Siamia...at least a married couple has emerged from the thread.

joebeckz:
Recall our pre-wedding photos from the trail thread if u missed it
www.nairaland.com/3547646/two-nairalanders-getting-married

We wish to thank God for a successful wedding.
We are very grateful to Seun for creating a forum like this, our story is really interesting, we met on Nairaland courtesy of a thread created by siamia meant for 30 and above sometime last 2 years, engineereed by toks2008, Queencalipso and others. My wife wasn't up to 30 but stubbornly sneaked into the thread, that's how destiny works, I liked her quotes and immediately asked for her Facebook name, added her and we continued there and on several other apps. Internet love! Lol
Today we are married. Thanks to Nairaland family. I saw a few of you at the wedding. God bless Nairaland.
Hopealive14
Cc seun
Farano
Lalasticlala
Omoashy

More pictures coming...

Congrats bro...wishing you a happy married life.

ritababe:
I love men with beards.

A bearded broke guy or a rich clean shaved guy?