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I can imagine the cream odor that will be oozing out of her body.

There is a natural pheromone that makes lady smell so nice even without taking bath and this is why the fragrance of a lady on her cloths smells seductive to her man but when a lady has used cream to remove that natural fragrance then all that remain is body odor.

#teamnaturalcolor

Izonpikin:
Moses had once fought for the emancipation of the isrealites whilst they were in captivity...God saw a man who was fearless and ready to die for a wonderful course...has buhari ever fought for the emancipation of the oppressed A man who once ruled nigeria via a coup...who once came into power not by merit but by quota system..


Buhari right now and presenty is so unqualified to rule a dynamic nigeria...
God Is punishing us..let us endure the punishment..

Taking over power by coup is the military way of getting power.

However the similarity of Moses and Buhari is very glaring

postmann:


I would like to fault you on the grounds of sedimented build up of condensed hypocrisy.


Donald, like lezznjr whom you quoted refused to be politically correct in the face of an ever-increasing hypocritical world that is ready to sell its values for acceptance. In the face of deep, unfathomable insult to the over 170mil Nigeria on an open, wildly-spread internet forum with international outreach by comparing Nigeria to Kenya in a misleading manner, can produce an indignation as blazing as an angry volcano. And the young man simply responded with a matching, unyielding patriotic gusto.

I understand your grudge in feeling slighted with the dishonourable comparison; but you showed your core when you honoured your handle above the dignity of your fellow country men.

Like your last thread, you once again measure humanity by your narrow-mindedness and personal cognitive limitations.

WEhat on earth is going on here? why all these obayagbon grammar?

No be me create the thread so why bringing me to this? Please free me abeg.

lezznjr:
[b]Animated and heated discussion cannot be exempted from politics.

Your thread is a geopolitical sacrilege fraught with misleading information to hoodwink Nigerians and belittle our psyche in the midst of African global audience. You're a turncoat, a mindless traitor and politically amoral.

When you set out to pen this thread, your goal was to discredit the APC ( I don't care for either the PDP or APC) and you cared little about the means in satisfying your objective; discrediting Nigeria falsely is nothing to you as long as slaying APC or Buhari is your mission.

You're a little minded person and unthinking one. Go heal yourself from your personal generated APC-monomania.

Let me tell you about the country, Nigeria the country of my identity:

Nigeria alongside Egypt, Lybia, Algeria, South Africa are the principal donors of the AU. Yes. The AU survives on us and few charitable foreign donors. Kenya isn't there.

Nigeria is the highest UN peacekeeping donor to the AU just behind Ethiopia.

Nigeria is in the MINT counties alongside countries like Mexico, Indonesia and Turkey. That's our projection.

Nigeria is the only subsaharan country to launch her own satellite into space and it's used by several African countries.

Nigeria has one of the highest per capital income in Africa (5th) and Kenya didn't make the cut.

75% of the entire economy of West Africa is controlled by Nigeria.

Nigeria is home to Africa's biggest number of billionaires

Home to Africa's 2nd conglomeration of millionaires just behind south Africa! Kenya isn't there.

Nigeria has one of the highest internet users and penetration in all of Africa.

Kenya is synonymous with animals and wild life.

Nigeria is home to Africa's largest and biggest entertainment industries (3rd worldwide).

In the streets of Kenya, Zimbabwe and other eastern African countries Nigeria's model of entrepreneurship is being envied.

In Africa's diplomatic corridors, only 5 powerful and influential countries are known;

They are;
Nigeria
Egypt
South Africa
Ethiopia (which is East/central Africa's power house and not Kenya)
Algeria.

The other countries are geopolitical tagalongs.

Do you see ? When I call you an ignoramus and a fool, I wasn't trolling. I was addressing you by your name.

You're half-educated in these matters.

Once again stick to domestic politics. I really long to troll sense into your head.[/b]

You still dont get it.

I have nothing to do with this thread yet you quoted my name and i was wondering why?

I went ahead to give you a brotherly advice and its up to act on it

Izonpikin:
I concur with this comment...buhari is a punishment to a lot of Nigerians who have chosen to hide behind uneducated almajiris to vote in an old certificateless man in this modern dynamic age...let us suffer so that we can grow some sense as a people...

Toks2008 better start receiving that sense before the next election..

Lol!

Do you know that moses was the least qualified to lead isreal out of Egypt?

Infact he was a stammerer and very hot tempered..

lezznjr:
And here goes another unpatriotic fool who would sell his country at any price with misleading information just to discredit his political adversaries!!!

Tonyebacarnista, please stick to domestic politics, you're an exhibit A of ignorance when you venture into geopolitics.

[b]Kenya isn't even amongst Africa's top 10 countries. If you want to slight APC, fine. Do it domestically. Comparing Nigeria to Kenya means you're an ignoramus, a compound simpleton and a political turncoat. You're a disgrace in a single word.


Now to facts: Only 42% of Kenyans are connected to the national grid as against 50% in Nigeria despite our exploding population. So Kenyans are having huge power issues when not even faced with vandalism of pipelines carrying gas to plants.

Kenya rely on tourism to feed, dummy. How dey you compare tourism between Nigeria and Kenya? Are you a daft? It is like comparing holiday resorts between the Mediterranean countries and America, or between tourism between Egypt and Canada.

Boy, Kenya is so undeveloped their natural wood animals roam free, British tourists had to set up game reserves and tame those animals and in the process provide food for 45 million starving Kenya's whose social graces and living conditions were no better bonobo-chimpanzees. And get your facts right, Kenya is in East Africa not West.

Life expectancy? Boy, What's that got to do with geopolitics. Little counties always have higher life experiences, E.g Luxembourg, Switzerland, Finland and two other silly Asian countries, I can't even bring their names to the fore, but they aren't Japan or South Korea or China and those other small countries are higher life expectancies than US , Germany, UK, France. You're a glorified daft.
The toks2008 of political section.

Mr. Unpatriotic daft, have you compared Nigeria's PPP and GDP to Kenya's? Have you compared our per capatia incomee to Kenya's? Olodo.


Over half of Kenya is of virgin vegetation as it was from creation. Even Nairobi is half forest with unproductivity and primal existence.

Olodo, what is the size of Kenya's middle class in percentage compare to Nigeria's?


A fool like you is talking mobile money when NIGERIA is talking space technology, being the only 2 or 3 African countries to launch sattelite into the orbit.

Nigeria is ranked no3 in Africa in technology just behind Egypt and south Africa and i couldn't find Kenya in that list.

As we speak Nigeria's banks and firms are dominating Western and Eastern Africa and i can't seem to remember any Kenyan firm scattered across Africa .


We are undergoing economic recession at the moment as many other counties who depend on single commodity product for revenue generation, but don't ever compare NIGERIA with Kenya, you ignorant fool.

[/b]

Why bring me into this?

Young man let me advice you..it is a sign of low IQ to curse and abuse on an interactive forum. Infact I ignore people who act as you do cos they are a threat to themselves as the act wricks a lack of mental cohesion and good psychological well being.

When you read an opinion of another just learn to calm down and tender yours. Being educated goes beyond the ability to write grammar but it also involves the intellectual prowess to hold up arguments without vulgarity.

Donald Trump may never get close to the white house due to this appalling nature you just displayed ....cursing while you should be discussing issues intelligently is a low life attitude.

Please adjust and don't bother cursing me cos you will only be wasting your time..I am too intellectually mature to troll.

Have a great day

I888:
Actually, it DEPENDS on what attracted them. If it is personality and character, it could last

Provided that personality and character remains.

byvan03:
It always appears this simple and hitch free until you try it yourself. Honest drivers are not easy to come by at all. They all start with assurance but become story tellers on the long run.

As I wrote, higher purchase is better and the elderly men are more reliable.

yemmit90:
I guess you got too much free time?

Lots of it.

Harkynkunle:
As a young chap, I have been looking for a legit buisness platform to invest into.. then this thought of tricycle buis comes to mind... I believe or feel with d huge population in Lagos, this buisness should flourish (though not totally convinced).. Thus I need ideas from people who have got stream of ideas or those are still in d buisness to share their experiences with me.... I wouldn't wanna take a wrong step...
Thanks in anticipation

Indeed it is a good biz.

There is this man in my area who was riding an old okada but luckily he got a tricycle on higher purchase I think for 800k or therabout and I was so glad when he told me that he will pay off the remaining 24k in a months time and the tricycle will be his...I remember it was not up to a year that he got the tricycle so yes it pays if you give to elderly people as higher purchase .

In fact if you have money to buy like 5 at say 550k each with registration then you can make 250k profit on one on higher purchase basis making over 1m naira which is better than fixed deposit.

And if you want to drive it by yourself all good.

ogorwyne:
I just did an evaluation using myself and I concur. What we call love is an attraction. Something that might fade if that feature we got attracted to ceases to exist. I tried to imagine my partner without some of the features that got me attracted to him. Hmmm

An elderly man once told me that Love fades in almost every marriage at a particular point in time and that when couples get to that stage what keeps them together is the Friendship they built over the years, God, and the vows they exchanged.

This topic is a bit complicated though.

Complicated it is.

I am a very practical person and a realist. This is why I write disclaimers on some if my threads that what I write is not a reflection of who I am but I write facts and not my personal convictions.

I am a strictly one woman man and my ex of 14 years can attest to it.

Love without a reason is only found in God.

For me to be with a woman, you must have just 3 qualities.

1. Be sexually pleasing to my eyes.

2. Be a good cook

3. Have the fear of God.

As long as you have these 3 qualities, you will beg me to cheat on you

Before my ex left, I saw these 3 in her and I never cheated for a minute on her but due to her naivety she felt there was something better out there since I was her first so she left and came back but unfortunately I was no longer comfy with her moral stands as I still saw some unGodly dispositions in her and I called off the affair.

I'm writing this to explain better that love is hinged on conditions that need to be kept to keep the flame of love burning.

I can't imagine myself with a lady who does not have those 3 qualities but if true love exists I ought to have settled with many ladies who have shown interest towards me.

This is why a lady at 30 still keeps saying No to many men cos she is not OK with the qualities she sees in these guys asking her out and if she eventually says yes to a man she is not pleased with then there is a big possibility of her cheating after marriage if she eventually stumbles on the type of man she desires.And this is why some men cheat after marriage cos they married a lady they are not really OK with.

It is indeed very complicated.

firstking01:
Bro, our courts, roots and success in life are differend, so, if it didn't work for you in that area of your life doesn't mean it's not working for others...And btw i love that your last poin, now you are thinking, exactly what i was ranting altru last night...real love is when you love with no reason...thank you, i'm vindicated from your own mouth.

It's sunday morning, go to church, i'm on my way already.....

You are really sounding funny now cos you did not communicate at all

Tell me you love her for no reason and she does same and I will tell you both of you are living in made believe Eldorado.

firstking01:
And btw, you dnt expect me to start telling stuffs bout my relationship here, do ya??

First kings please do me a favour and remove the idea of real love from humans from your mind.

If there is real love then I can as well go out and marry a mad lady or a lady can marry Lucifer.

The bottom line is that even this babe you are gushing about if asked will tell you why she desires you so stop misconstruing my point.

Real love is when you love another even when there is no reason to.


Happy sunday

Recherche:
Of course, don't we all know that?. Yet it will interest you to know that those two characters you mentioned in the movie never really existed.

Mind you, jack Dawson and rose Dewitt bukater were merely fictional characters.

Jack saw a sweet lady and rose saw a dude and they clicked. Simple logic.

If people continue to se this from the materialistic point of view then they won't catch the drift.

Some ladies love humor, some love good sex, some love cuteness and so on while some guys go gaga seeing a nice ass or boobs but at the end "i love you" naa ni.

The reason why some people stay put in an affair they are tired of is because they feel they are too old to start allover but trust me 90% of matured men and women in marriage had at a time in their marriage wished they opt out to be with another.

Hannysmilez:
Ps:I was talking on general love and No,I think its quite impossible to love without reason. Some reasons can be silly tho

This is my point.

Recherche:
Exactly, I asked the fellow too, because I couldn't decipher the reason why he refused to leave me be, only for him to say, "you are so beautiful you need to see the colour of your skin, you are so classy and whatnot" and besides they are other reasons he gave which i won't be mentioning but were utterly selfish.

Well since you now know that there is no real love perse so let him into your life rather than continue to wait for one liar that will come and tell you bull crap.

People say I'm too picky and I agree cos for me the things I want in my lady counts. I'm the type of guy that can be with one lady till I die provided she maintains a status quo and there are some qualities my lady must have physically before I go for her and its left for her to want me or not.

jonaifame22:
so when my gf tells Me she loves,wat am I suppose to reply her wth?

Tell her you love her too...its just an adjective we can't stop using

ellacute45:
Why did you changed the title

I know the psyche of lalasticlala and nairaland mods in general.

That fool word won't go down well but dummies sound mild...though if I have my way I would have left it as it was but may likely not get to the fpage.lol!

kamalcole3000:
Buhari & Osinbajo are not the Moses and Aaron of our Time.

Buhari is more like King Saul that God made King as a punishment to the Jews for asking for a king as a result of of misbehaviour of the sons of Samuel.

Just the way the Jews wanted a king without telling God what King (they wanted change) and God out of his anger gave them Saul to enslave them .

This government is here to punish Nigerian (act of God) for asking for change without asking what kind of change.

He who has ears let him hear what the spirit is saying.

If you wrote this prior to independence then I may agree with you.

Lalasticlala do you believe in love?

Recherche:
@OP,

Thanks a lot for this beautiful piece, "personally" I think this is your best so far, and why do I say so?,

Well because it brings to light what most people are oblivious of, because I say the same thing always but most people don't seem to get me, there's no such thing as true ,unconditional love between a man and a woman. People only love you as long as it's convenient for them.

The love from a mother to his/her child is understandable and also the pure love of God.

A guy was once after me for good two and a half years, my friend called it love, but I called it self-centeredness, they said I was mean, but they just couldn't see through my mind's eye. Everything single thing he did reeked of selfishness, he was after me for himself, for his own happiness, not mine because i told him severally, I wasn't intetested but it felt as though I was talking to a wall . They claimed he loved me but I knew that wasn't true he loved himself not me.

Nobody loves you, even regular people only get close to you because they feel you have something that could be useful to them, so at the end of the day it's not about you but their own personal interest.

That's all.

I tell people, marry for any reason that suits you..sex, money, power, fame..whatever and stop talking about love

The only one I witnessed which was close to real love was from a lady I met few years back and she kept saying she just loves me but she does not know why just for her to tell me one day that she loves me because I'm so cute and I was like..lobatan!

So if I was not cute there is no way she will look my way.

Any lady that wants wahala with me should use those crazy scam phrase "I love you" ...tell me you like me want me desire me but don't use those words.

falconey:
Tok love is provisional and conditional in nature even God's love. practically God want us to worship and follow him and who doesn't do these won't enjoy his eternal blessings. now that's a condition but not in all cases some enjoy grace.however it doesn't mean it is not love because there are conditions to it.

frankly, love is overly used to make someone believe or do something for you. example men use love to get sex while girls use it to get money and favour, same as son and daughters to their parents.


in a nutshell, it is what we use to get something irrespective of what we really feel. it is a powerful word. in terms of feelings we define it according to what we see and fancy at the time of expression.

Why we say Gods love is unconditional is because of his loving grace.

If my wife commits adultery I could forgive her for the first time but if she dies it again there is no way I can be with her again even if she is forgiven

But with God he is so loving that he will keep forgiving you even if you keep fooling yourself by sinning against him again and again....that is the unconditionality of Gods love.

xendra:
OK M trying to say its true that ppl have one thing or another that they desire in that spouse they claim they love, while some people can marry anyone as long as he or she posses any of their material or sexual needs, there is this group of people (hopeless romantics) who still believe in that feeling called love, and they don't just marry for material or sexual needs

for example
. some can decide to marry any man as long as he has money, even if he doesn't stay home, care about them or even flirts with other women. as long as he has and gives them good money.
but there are some who will still prefer that man who can provide though not as rich as the first but will care more.
that care some people describe as love.

Gbam! so we can conveniently say there is always a reason attached to that facade called love and as long as that reason is still there they remain together.

Nevertheless if the reason vanishes and you still see some together, its either they are no longer at a vantage position to leave each other for one reason or the other.

Lovelynature:
Sure! Love only exists from God to man. The shit called love between a man and woman is nothing but empty feeling, built conditions around. And the feeling is open to fade as soon as its requirements aren't met anymore. I stopped believing in it long ago, hence not surprised when I see it fade.

But, egbon sure say one babe never break your heart, wey make you come write this

lol!

That is one mystery to creative writing...its like saying every script written by a film producer is a reflection of his life..lol!

I'm very creative and I have never really been heartbroken cos the two ladies that tried it came back and I ended up doing the breaking

[quote author=Berbierklaus post=49041736][/quote]Hard to believe I know.

CaraJewel:
Love love love...jxt centering on boy and girl love and arguing over it but yet stil come on nl to cry over it....y isnt anyone tlkin about love from A father to his daughter.a mother to her son.a brother to his sister..a mother to her new born child...those love stil come under test..some fail some win....most tyms dose dat win will say cuz ur are family..see datz a reason xo if dey werent family it will fail..xame tin with boy and girl love most do..you cant tell mi u xaw a girl n love her instanta..you get attracted den like and den love..only Gods love is genuine and unconditional...i cant jxt love like dat...i may want d pson to be honest and av a good heart..if i start catching feelings and den i see datz hu d pson is.den love blossoms fully..nut d sad tin is pple change or get tired den dats whr u go meet d one who loves u unconditionally and pray for d pson u love....love is empty widawt God watch war room..

Insightful

xendra:
I think we humans interpreted love wrongly, like its some kinda magical feeling, well its not. there's always a desire that goes before the feeling. but there is a feeling we call love. that's why if you were a hopeless romantic, you most likely will not be settling for the cutest or richest person you get.

I don't get you.

Berbierklaus:
I told you my age sometime last year,can't repeat it on the pages of nairaland.

Aburo does not necessarily connote age,he called me egbon first.


But I like to pride myself as having the maturity older than my age

Fair enough.

xendra:
haha, I will like to comment on this....but then again maybe I'll just wait until the day a man complains that women only come for money and leave when they don't have.

interesting thread by the way

My sister its not about money all the time.

Some ladies have told me that Ithey cherish a caring guy over a rich guy and some said they will do anything for a man that can please them sexually but none of them have used that scam word "love" so I keep saying that what matters is what you have to offer and what the other person wants...like a buy and sell trade or trade by batter .

I love your curves you like my money

I do you well in bed and that is good enough

You love a fine guy and I'm a TDH then we strike a deal called marriage if I like you too...simple..forget love.

Berbierklaus:
Dayummmm

exactly what I have been waiting for you to say,so I can point out the folly in your accession

Can you please highlight what made you conclude that what you had was "unconditional love"
Why did it end btw,was the "unconditional love" not enough to stand the test of time?


I am bored,be my guest aburo

?
That word aburo got me wondering...What is your age bracket?

24 or below?
25 and above?

For real?

Berbierklaus:
Nobody has really opposed you,the one person doing that is my friend
Please put up something controversial jawe
Babzilla I caught you peeping

Ok I will consider that.
I guess it is so true that most people agree.

firstking01:
Egbon, stop being a pesimist...it's something i 've personally experienced...funny enough it's on nairaland i found it...the least expected place abi??

Real love on nairaland? chai! How, when, who as in how e take happin?

I have never dated any nairaland babe o but this one you are advertising real love on nairaland na Im be sey...I reserve my comment.

But if the lady na teenager just don't fool yourselfo cos she go soon mature and see things differently.