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EmperorLee:
Try n free yourself a lil bit, feel the fun, be in the fun buh be careful

Trust me I don't even know what the thread is about

Op no vex ooh.

Its a free world dude..

Mr lalasticlala i dont know if this is fpage worthy.

iwatch:
Get you own blog bro. You are a born blogger for this niche!

Thanks bro, I am actually looking at the idea of a Romance vlog as i am crazily passionate about sharing ideas both orally and in written form.

obiorathesubtle:
NO..


That's how one very tall girl at 3tf, would make the entire makeable up in the world, and post the pics, in a bid to deceive the ones who don't go for the real thing..


Pictures deceive, online dating.. Online hook_up.. You're just wasting precious, God-given time..

Well I guess my idea of online hookup is to see someone who tend to catch your fancy and you schedule an. offline date to meet one on one and not continue to fool each other by allowing crazy fantasy to full your head,sending endless chats and making endless calls without swing each other.

obiorathesubtle:
Online hook_ups, online dating.. Same thing, different names..


No deceive us

How are they the same?

infact I see no diference between online and offline hookup in terms. of anonymousity.

Whether on or offline,a lady sees a guy she knows little or nothing about and she decides to date him.

We even have many couple who met offline but indulge in online dating cos I don't know how to describe a situation where you claim you are dating someone but sees that person once in 2months or worse still once in a year.

obiorathesubtle:
How you go know if she sabi cook online?

Na wa o for nairalanders ...online hook up is different from online dating.

I mist taste her food ofcourse.

If I meet you online and I like what I see the next step is to meet you physically and if I still like what I see then we can start from there and if I don't then we remain as good friends.

asuo27:
I get your message. But, don't trust the online guys at all.

Even the Bible says trust no one.Life is a risk and we only need to be careful.

officialEFCC:

lol I saw your insults o.

Honestly assuming ireneoni is 25 or above I will woo her big time and if she sabi cook well well or ready to learn na marriage straight so you go get better reason to hug transformer. lol!

asuo27:
And from HOOKUP to WHAT?.
You said "online hookup, then offline dating".
Most of these people online are not with genuine intentions.

And how sure are you about the intentions. of the offline guys?

Its about being careful. Hooking up is different from dating. Even in offline mode you must hook up one day first before dating.

officialEFCC:
na only girls you dey reply

Bad belle so you no see my response to guys comments shey?

ok I don reply you.

ireneony:
nice point.
But so many disadvantages

And this even buttressed my point the more.

Now even if we hook up, I already know that kolewerk except we remain as just friends.

asuo27:
I don't see how online dating is a good thing.
Some peeps are filled with bad intentions.

Oh my! please use the right words...ONLINE HOOKUP not dating.

firstking01:
Online dating is real but it never last.

I don't support online dating...its a charade.

You can meet online but date offline.

oluwalewis:
No offense taken boss,I'm only wondering whats gonna happen d day u comeby a sparkling,ravishing,gorgeous.jaw dropping sunshine and your right hand helper isn't available to help you get her details.

You are still getting it twisted.

I have no problem with wooing Queen Elizabeth daughter if she is pleasing to me and I have the opportunity to reach her but what I'm saying is that I'm too introverted and decent to start running after every sweet lady I see.

It is easier for play boys to woo as many ladies as they dim fit but a real decent guy won't do that.

oluwalewis:
Guys like u r afraid of approaching ladies. Step up man, approaching ladies is beta at hunting ladies than online dating.
U don too old for a thread like dis

Lol..I guess you are still very young so running offline after ladies still looks like fun to you.

Incase you don't know, approaching ladies is not the issue here.but approaching ladies who are responsible and not those small girls you still chase around...I have them plenty around me, ready to play and give you good s.x without commitment so boy I'm referring to something bigger than you ok

ireneony:
Hmmmm..no comment

Lol! take a look at you for instance..I'm resting right now and here you are with a face and figure pleasing to my eyes.

I could place my number here right now and cut the drama that would have come with me seeing you on the road and bracing up to walk up to you and probably getting any of those awkward responses or you just might allow me waste time ranting just to say sorry I'm engaged or even married or I may discover you are a teenager or less than 25 which is a no go area for me...and I can go on and on and on.

But with my number here or just sending you a mail, we can just get hooked for a purposeful affair...that's the point.

Responsible guys don't have time to woo ladies upandan.

Online hook up simply means meeting someone online while you do proper offline dating and talking about online platforms I'm referring to all forms and types of interactive media you can think of.

While many people consider it dangerous to connect to people of opposite sex online,I can say with all sincerity that I have met more fantastically decent. responsible ladies online than offline and after thorough evaluation I have come to realize that while it is more difficult to find responsible guys online.the reverse is the case when it comes to finding decent ladies and below are 6 reasons why I believe so.

1.Most decent and marriageable ladies usually stay indoors:

If they are not at work,in the mall or in church then you can bet they are at home with their family members watching TV or browsing the Internet as well as checking their watsup. facebook.Twitter. instagram...and this makes it easier to come across them online.

2. Most responsible and marriageable ladies are always busy:

As expected,most responsible ladies of marriageable ages are usually very busy as you are likely going to find them at their work or business centers which hardly give room for guys to have easy access to them due to their tight itinerary but when they get home, you are most certain to find them in a more relaxed mood to socialize and ofcourse the online platform is the best option.

3.There is a better chance of hitting the spot:

While the offline chase usually comes with the restraints and frustrations of seemingly mature ladies who deeply want a man yet will put up an indifferent disposition and act like they don't care, the online chase is a different ball game as it gives a no holds Barr opportunity to communicate sternly and purposefully which usually yields a purposeful result as you will know if you still have a chance or if you need to look elsewhere.

4.You tend to get your most preferred choice in one spot:

In a week it may be very difficult for a guy to meet a lady offline who has The face or body type that endears him and if he eventually meets one. she may be too young.unserious, or even marrried.

But the online platform eliminates these hiccups to the barest minimum.Yes pictures do lie these days but at least you will get to have a better clue of the person in terms of Age,facial looks, body structure,relationship status and a bit of interaction good enough for you to know if you need to get closer.
The other good side to online hook up is that you can approach any lady regardless of her status and you just might win her heart if you fit into the picture of what she wants.

5.It gives you more integrity:

I don't know about anyone else but the act of wooing a lady is pissing to me especially when you consider the possible outcome of the move as regards the immature dispositions expressed by some ladies..

The sad twist to it is the way many ladies see a guy who is still single and searching because they will be quick to call you irresponsible just because you wooed them today and they see you talking to another lady tomorrow as if you are not entitled to keep trying until you get.

6.A better choice for responsible guys and introverts:

I want every lady to understand that introverts are the best guys any lady can pray for.

This set of guys don't indulge in vague things of life but are deeply responsible with no time to start chasing skirts around and if they ever show interest in you then don't bother proving hard to get because they may never give you a second look.

Hooking up online might just be the perfect choice for this set of guys as they will have the oportunity of getting their prefered choice while eliminating the stress of offline 50/50 chase.

While it is quite easier to see teenagers and fun seeking ladies all over the place,I strongly believe that hooking up with responsible, responsive and marriageable ladies seem easier online than offline.

I don't know if this makes sense.

WindUpMerchant:
I don't care if you been married for 50years. you're supposedly giving an advice for the unmarried.A destructive advice at that. your definition of a happy marriage is dreadful. it is a marriage of permissive unfaithfulness, endurance and sexist. What if the woman decides to cheat? or worse of the both cheat simultaneously? I can't take you serious.your heresy is a laughable one. I spare a thought for those who will believe these lies you keep spewing.

You se what i mean?

You are getting it totally and absolutely wrong and i am so certain that you refused to read before making comments.

If you like preach from now till Jesus comes guys who will cheat will cheat big time so what happens when a lady is faced with that type of man? I guess you will ask her to leave the marriage i guess...in your world i guess that is the perfect solution.

I just gave a recipe for marital longevity and that same secret was implemented by most of our parents at least those of us in late 30s and 40s which is why our mothers grow old with our dad.

Bro abeg tell your sister to leave her husband because he cheats on her and ask her to start looking for a man who won't cheat on her.

I have given my candid advice and its left for any lady to accept or reject.

Good night.

WindUpMerchant:
It's just summarizing my thoughts on your beliefs relating to pertinent issues. You really have a long way to go man, sadly you haven't realised it yet.

Are you married or ever been married?

Sometimes you should just learn how to read without making comments and if you must comment please make sense because you keep making baseless comments which is a sign of lack of intellect.

Sometimes when i respond to comments people tend to see it as harsh but my greatest turnoff is intellectual stuntedness.

I am willing to learn stuffs and i need intelligent people to help me out and not people who just make senseless comments.

Please dont bother responding to my comment if you have nothing meaningful to write,

WindUpMerchant:
always on the defensive.What are you afraid of? that you may be wrong in all your postulations?



You don't know if I fornicate.Don't conclude.

LOL!

Defending what really? I honestly wished i had something worthwhile in your comment to defend.

Your comment lacked substance and was a mere rhetoric. I only answered you based on the vagueness of your post.

WindUpMerchant:
You still have a long way to go.

If that was directed to me then I need a short cut. Please help out.

One thing i have seen online that amazes me is the gullibility of ladies and the hypocrisy of the guys.


I am definitely a symbol of a bad guy on nairaland because of my dogged stands as regards facts and not fiction but most ladies love lies,they love fictions and they prefer fantasy to reality and this is the greatest bane of many ladies.

Even many guys who keep string of girlfriends will come to nairaland to start forming saint and those who fornicate day and night will come here to condemn self servicing.


Hypocrites every where.

rose54321:
Don't be offended o, but I've been following most of your topics and posts and it's seems you misunderstand or worst still don't understand entirely what marriage is.

You might have had a terrible marriage, an ill experience, try not to let it becloud your views, see a psychologist for advice and try to be happy.

When i read lame comments attacking my personal life rather than address the subject matter i tend to really feel so sorry for the reasoning faculty of that poster.

For petes sake what trash are you talking about having a bad marriage or seeing a psychologist.

Look here lady, i am no longer a kid and Yes i might have been in and out of marriage which is the more reason you should take my threads seriously and the last time i checked i am not writing about MY LIFE but about my dogged view on the subject so please stop trolling and focus on the matter of discuss.

At my age you don't expect me to come to nairaland to start messing myself up but the best i can do is offer my advice and leave anyone to accept or reject it which is why since 2007 that i joined, i have conducted myself with dignity and no lady on nairaland can say i have ever wooed her or comported myself in a stupid manner.

Apparently you will notice how i ignored hate2u but i chose to respond to you because you are milder in your baseless attacks.Some ladies would give anything to read no hold barr write-ups about relationship as i do while some ladies are still dreamers.

Most ladies who read my threads on relationships and start cursing or abusing are still Alicea in wonder land who are still either teenagers or ladies in their early twenties who still see marriage as a walk in the park but the time will certainly come when they will remember every thread i created on nairaland that is aimed at making ladies happier in their love relationships..

Please be reasonable and stick to the topic cos whatever i write on nairaland has no corroboration whatsoever with my life. Nuff said.

HungerBAD:
Ishilove I will not cheat on you.

But I am a man. What man don't cheat?i nearly cheated on you this afternoon with a white woman,who kept telling me she loves my accent.

But if you cheat on me ishilove,the juju of my village will make you run mad.

And if that cheating is with Naptu2, two of una go Gum.

Just saying.

LOL! Eleyi gidigan.

Lalasticlala abeg see if this makes sense.

chizidgreat:
Stop wailing biko. See the way you are taking it too personal as if my comments are out of place and as if I have noise more than other FTCs

You are the wailer here boy, i made an innocuous comment and i guess that does not warrant any form of insolence from you except you just want to be nasty so go ahead and make a mockery of your transient educational status.

Have a nice day.

chizidgreat:
It has gone there several times dude and I wonder if I did anything close to your expectation. You can check my signature

Oh I c...so why the hullabaloo of first to comment. You are more than that biko.

chizidgreat:
I don't know what came over me that made me to suddenly start looking for FTC but let me share what my mother told when I was small as a way of dedicating the space
Let me now officially dedicate my FTC to Nigeria Christian Corpers Fellowship, Oyo State, University of Nigeria Nsukka, St Teresa's College, Nsukka and Mr and Mrs Bernard Ezugwu

Anytime I see this FTC I just can't hold back my laughter lwkmd!

I wonder what you will do if your thread gets to front page lol!

queencalipso:
Are they nlders? If yes, did they meet here? If no

Happy married life to them.




I wish for nothing here than to see two nlders that met and got married. Just like we see on twitter and Facebook.


Alas, hmmm!!! Its just a wishful thinking.

That will only happen if nland ladies of marriageable ages stop forming.

BTW im no longer interested in seeing pre-wedding pics but I will be glad to see 5 or 10 years post wedding pics.

Toks2008:
Most of the guys forming king Kong here are hypocrites...most of them will even prostrate for a lady in their rooms.

I can go down on one kneel for a lady I really desire anywhere to say I'm sorry if I really offended her and that will not make me less a man that I am.

Enough of all these hypocritical bragadoo from guys abeg.

All we see is a guy kneeling down but until I really know why I will not judge him.

What if a guy treats a lady like pooh not knowing she is a confirmed ogbanje and the guy starts encountering serious brick-walls in life afterwards and a prophet tells him to go and apologize to her if he really wants his life to be straight abeg if na you shey you no go prostrate for public?

Abeg let's leave matta for matheus..until we really know why he dey beg make nobody judge.

helovesme:
Awww. Love is such a beautiful thing !

Love can make the sanest guy go crazy, do the craziest things and go to any length for his woman.

I hope she forgave him though.

Most of the guys forming king Kong here are hypocrites...most of them will even prostrate for a lady in their rooms.

I can go down on one kneel for a lady I really desire anywhere to say I'm sorry if I really offended her and that will not make me less a man that I am.

Enough of all these hypocritical bragadoo from guys abeg.

All we see is a guy kneeling down but until I really know why I will not judge him.

That moment when your igbo bae asks you to buy her iPhone 7..…..just do as she wishes and tell her parents that you have given their daughter her bride price.

Oliviaarims:
I have a problem with number one. It's one thing to expect that your husband may cheat on you someday in the long run (which should never be) , but it's a different matter altogether to tell your husband straight out that you expect he'll cheat on you.

That has a lot of implications. First, it means you're telling him you don't trust him even if he may not have done anything in the past to warrant that sort of distrust. Just by virtue of him being a man, you're saying you can't trust him.

Also, it will seem as though you're giving him free reins...to cheat on you as long as you don't find out. That way, even if he does cheat, he'll be very comfy with himself.

Thirdly, it just doesn't make sense at all. Be prepared for the worst, but don't concede to the worst.

Insightful.