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HBB1:
I have lived around many of this men if God. Most of them misuse their offices- or better still people are just not responsible. If an adult has to run to another man for any decision he has to make (marriage, work...) he remains immature all his life. A good man of God would wean dependent people off himself- which is the essence of his office, abi his own holy spirit is different?
FYI, pastors are getting divorced aplenty, many of their wives are not 'really' Happy, some just put up an act.
Reminds me of a scene in Roots (kinta kintay). The father of Kinta goes to the medicine man on his name day to ask what name he should call him. The medicine man asks if his wife has been cheating on him, he replies, 'no,' the man then tells him if it's his son, it's his business.
Someone who's ready for marriage won't be jumping around with a list of names seeking peoples opinions. The same person will still run around in the marriage seeking 'help' when two adults (alone) could just mind their business and their marriage.
Atheists are having happy marriages if you don't know.
Marriage should be a union of two people who have agreeable mindsets- whether a Bonnie and Clyde or Enoch and Folu Adeboye.
Most marriages fail not because they didn't love each other but because they didn't know how to live together- Myles Munroe (paraphrased).
My sister got married without telling anybody because a madman told her she wouldn't conceive if she does so. Other siblings have had normal marriages without wahala- even the children of the so called 'God's mouthpiece'
A 'man' makes his decisions and lives with the consequences.
If a girl has to carry my name up and down, she isn't ready yet, bye bye.

akin101:
This is a very interesting topic. I fear that most contributors aren't doing it enough justice. I believe most of the contributions to this thread aren't married and haven't gone through the stage of seeking pastors spiritualist when they were ready to marry.

This are my humble contributions. Pls kindly note this are my opinions and my personal beliefs after passing through the subjective phenomena that we call life. If your beliefs differ or are opposing I clearly do not give a f&$k what you think or what u believe. I can only hold firm to my own life experiences and where they lead me to.
1. All of this so called pastors are liars. There is not one amongst them that sees a single thing. They can't see anything to save their own lives or save any other persons life

2. A large percentage of people have consulted pastors and spiritualist still end up divorced.

3. If you have a nagging feeling that you are making a wrong choice with respect marriage, you probably are. My advice to you would be to take some time out of the relationship, take some time away from all the pressure and clearly define the following.

A. Your assumptions
You may need to be clear on this. Wrong assumptions will set on a wrong road to a hell of a life. We all make decisions based on what we know or believe to be true. Be wise and test what you assume to be true about yourself your intended spouse and the generality of your situation

B. Ask yourself if you can live with this person in the same house under the worst of circumstances and still be happy. If your answer is yes. I believe you have solved at least 50% of the marriage puzzle.

C. Do not accept any pressure from external people about your choice of marriage. Make it clear to all parties inclusive of parents, friends and relative that they will not be the ones living with the choice of wife made. Most humans are useless with their good intentions. The road to hell is paved with good intentions. Nobody but you should know what's good for you. If you don't know what's good for you you are on a long thing and clearly not ready to get married.

That's all I have for now in my head. Hit like if you are thoughtful and learnt something from all that's said I just might add more lessons from my life experiences.

GraceBestowed:
[color=#CD3700] Although I agree with some of your logic, I find a few things in this post to somewhat misleading.

First of all, there are true prophets and men of God out there. The problem is that there are also fakes and one needs to ask God for the spirit of discernment to know the real from the fake.

Secondly, it is possible for a man of God to speak the mind of God towards an individual through the power of the Spirit - especially in marriage.

God knows who He wants us to get married to, His perfect will for us. We cannot just 'choose' but rely on God to bring that person to us and reveal His will to us. There is this misconception that we can 'marry any one we want' and that's wrong.

Marrying the wrong person can cripple a person's destiny!
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IAMTHEHERO:
Op,may the good LORD bless you a million times. That is exact situation, l find myself oooo. l know my GOD will not put me to shame.

Kennydoc:
You may be a prolific writer for real, but I think you're over blowing your trumpet. I sense pride in this assertion, cos it just can't be true.

You mean you can create 36,500 threads over a space of 10 years without ANY FORM OF similarities of contents? Come on bro, come on!

obowunmi:
When 6 pastors who don't know each other say the same thing on the same person, something must be right.... yes or no?

EggovinMma:


Toks2008, don't mind this our new generation pastors!
Many a marriage failed because of these so called men of God
gods! !!

Pastor wey say make I no marry my boo, na who I go come marry? Him?

Pastor:My dear sister in Christ, the Lord revealed to me that this young man you're about to marry isn't your husband.

Lynn:But pastor, this is the third suitor now, and the lord keep rejecting them? If the lord continue to reject them, who then will I marry?

Pastor:Sister Lynn, do not despair, for God's time is the best.The right man will soon come...
Lynn:But pastor, didn't the lord tell you why I shouldn't marry this man?
Pastor:We shouldn't question God.I see the spirit of death hovering around him.He will never be a successful man, his life will be filled with disappointments...

Lynncarries her big bible and handbag in haste) For say no be because I carry bible for hand, I for use this my handbag flog you for head . Oloshi! ! Iranu!
























Abasha! !!

wrongnumber:
So so so spot on..WOW!

Vikky014:
YES. BC U NEED TO BRING FORTH MORE INTELLIGENT KIDS TO THE WORLD

Vikky014:
Always on point. no be small initial gra gra. most guys r always guilty of this

dt is y i take my time to study people by being frnds wt dem atleast u will get to know whether the person is lusting after u or not

missingrib:
this is really the gospel truth.many have fall victims of these gragra syndrome calling it LOVE...me personally I am a victim of it,all my four relationships actually start as a result of these during d middle of the relationship always found out we aren't meant to be...we ladies especially have to be careful and cautious of these. when you lose it in marriage you have lost everything..

misspicy:
ha

so what happens to your babe of 12 years

misspicy:
yes you must


since you made it a compulsory for ladies,you must marry them o

Hearme:
Blogger trying to make money. Posted trash and is diverting people to his or her blog.

babafirst:
I know God hates divorce but when the pain of being together is worse than the pain of being apart it's better to pick the lesser pain my darling sister.

Oghenekohwo1402:
wow! You are right but trust God because HE is able to the impossible and solve the unsolvable! I'm lucky because I married my first boyfriend!!

Oghenekohwo1402:
why?? God hates divorce. What happened

Oghenekohwo1402:
lol!! it's worth flaunting

Oghenekohwo1402:
lol!! it's worth flaunting

Oghenekohwo1402:
worwor ke? Here is a pic of my husband and i. My husband is finer than me

Oghenekohwo1402:
we both look older because of our traditional attire for our wedding but all the same he is a handsome man. Thanks once again. U still single??

Sincere4u:
On a serious note I really do wish to get to know you.
If you don't mind, text me your number to 07050677777. If you are on WhatsApp that will be preferable.
Nairanders hope I've not offended anybody.

mrphysics:
you obviously have nothing to say.

the op saw the verse, He has no objection towards it. All he needed what a reconciliation of it with Heb:10:12.

Oga, get deep into the Bible, you are at the elementary level. I like the fact the op didn't object it, it was crystal clear.

you still don't understand what the law really is and what grace actually do. let me give you one.

" Titus 2:11 For the grace of God that bringeth salvation hath appeared to all men…, that is grace, what does it do. first observe it is the Grace that comes FROM GOD. secondly, observe that IT BRINGS SOMETHING, what is that SALVATION. so any grace that does not come from God, or that does not bring something into your life and/or result to SALVATION isn't grace. that verse continued, do don't quote it independently.

" Titus 2:12 Teaching us that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteously, and godly, in this present world;.....",

observe carefully again that this grace which comes from God, which BRINGS something, TEACHES.

so we have a teaching GRACE. Read for yourself what the grace teach us. take note of " in this present world ".

they are a lot to say. join me on whatsapp

odinese:
.you right bruv


Was it a car or a cat I saw

For those that don't understand..

Y'all Gon start from the last word 'saw' and last letter 'w'

Is Gon be like this

Was 'I t'a'c a r'o r'a'c a t'i 'saw'..

Study carefully

freshvine:
Please elaborate on this cos it's confusing to my comprehension