₦airaland Forum

Decker:
So if we are to bring it home, what Mark Zurkerberg is actually saying is that; Instead of women to dream about marrying financially successful men, they should strive towards being successful.

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Egbon lalasticlala,ishilove you can come and read this and decide if it is worth sharing on main page.

I taught this idea of mothers wanting their daughters to date potential successful men is endemic to Nigeria but this conversation between face-book founder Zuckerberg's and Facebook user Darlene Loretto is an eye opener and i really commend mark for this epic response.

Facebook user Darlene Loretto commented on one of Zuckerberg's post saying that she had told her granddaughters to date the Nerd in school because he might turn out to be an inventor and below is Facebook CEO's response. Good one!

https://juicylinksmag./2016/01/04/see-what-facebook-ceo-told-a-woman-who-advised-her-granddaughters-to-date-nerds-in-school/

beeserious:
Listen to Tok2008.He knows what he's talking about.lol. Hey Boo,remember me?

Your user ID sounds familiar buh cant recollevt .

Egbon lalasticlala you can come and see this thread.

Issokay

Nina4u:
This is a verry rubbish post ..very stuuupid immature post ..Sexual satisfaction is importand ofcause but that doesnt mean the size of your cooock ...do u ask a gal ..how big deep andtight is u pussy? I can tell u this ..it is not how big u manhood is that matters it is how u use it ... If u are too big at can also be a handicap since u cant get the whole thing in and it would hurt for the gal ...u can b avarage sized too and rock her world if u know how to fukk ..lol the size dont matter ..its the motion of the ocean baby ...lol

Orubebe weed in action...please try to calm down and make your input..ko faja

kay29000:
I like this. They speak the truth and not trying to paint our president as a perfect man, even though their boss is a close associate of the president. This is what we need in Nigeria...not blind followership.

Who eloquence don help in Nigeria for the past years of leadership..Even Jonathan was nowhere near eloquence.

isaacsegun:
the guy is heartless for rejecting the pregnancy

I won't be surprised if the guy is also a teenager or in his twenties..
They are usually careless,uncaring and insensitive....Only few are considerate.

Ages 6 to 10..please im lost here..what pleasure does a man derive from sleeping with girls of such ages..?

Any guy with such experience here?

wealthinfos:
From the developments on the Dasuki trial it seems Buhari has vowed to jail Dasuki as a payback for the pains he went through in the hands of Dusuki and his principal IBB.

You ought to be arrested to join dansuki for making this conclusion.

Infact i will blame Buhari if he ever allows this man go on bail cos he will surely jump bail.

The offense of this man is tantamount to genocide.

lalasticlala i no go give you my younger sister to marry again if you no let more ladies air their opinion on this.

RockMaxi:
Probably too much of Algae in the river

You really did justice to your parent effort in educating you.

AstuteJ:
7. Last Christmas dat, she gave me her phone to check something on her whatsapp and a chat came in from a guy I have been monitoring his number for a while. The excerpt of the chat is below (I took over the chat from the line he asked for her pix).

5/12/2015, 7:51 am - sy: May d joy of Xmas be for u and ur family IJN
25/12/2015, 7:52 am - sy: Enjoy ur day
25/12/2015, 11:08 am - Jimmyeatery: snap i wanna see yur Sexy look
25/12/2015, 11:09 am - Jimmyeatery: I hope youre alone
25/12/2015, 11:09 am - sy: Lol
25/12/2015, 11:09 am - sy: Yes
25/12/2015, 11:09 am - Jimmyeatery: Plsssssss
25/12/2015, 11:10 am - Jimmyeatery: IM alone here too
25/12/2015, 11:10 am - sy: That's good
25/12/2015, 11:10 am - Jimmyeatery: IM deleting it immediately
25/12/2015, 11:11 am - sy: Where is the one you have
25/12/2015, 11:11 am - Jimmyeatery: Lemme snap
25/12/2015, 11:11 am - sy: Ok
25/12/2015, 11:14 am - Jimmyeatery: IMG-20151225-WA0006.jpg (file attached)
25/12/2015, 11:15 am - Jimmyeatery: Pls delete it quickly
25/12/2015, 11:15 am - sy: Nice
25/12/2015, 11:15 am - sy: Why should I delete it
25/12/2015, 11:15 am - Jimmyeatery: Tnx
25/12/2015, 11:16 am - Jimmyeatery: Someone can misplaced phone
25/12/2015, 11:16 am - sy: That's true
25/12/2015, 11:16 am - Jimmyeatery: I dont want yur man to one across it as well
25/12/2015, 11:17 am - Jimmyeatery: To be on safe side
25/12/2015, 11:17 am - sy: Ok
25/12/2015, 11:17 am - Jimmyeatery: I wanna see u babe
25/12/2015, 11:18 am - sy: You have my pix already now
25/12/2015, 11:18 am - Jimmyeatery: Lemme see yur Sexy body babe
25/12/2015, 11:18 am - Jimmyeatery: Nope
25/12/2015, 11:18 am - Jimmyeatery: Very not seen it
25/12/2015, 11:18 am - sy: Is it even new to you
25/12/2015, 11:18 am - syt: OK o
25/12/2015, 11:18 am - sy: Till we see again
25/12/2015, 11:18 am - Jimmyeatery: Ive not
25/12/2015, 11:19 am - Jimmyeatery: Plsssssss
25/12/2015, 11:19 am - sy: Why are you in a hurry
25/12/2015, 11:19 am - Jimmyeatery: Dont be shy dear
25/12/2015, 11:19 am - Jimmyeatery: IM just lonely here
25/12/2015, 11:20 am - Jimmyeatery: Soo lonely
25/12/2015, 11:20 am - syt: What about your wife
25/12/2015, 11:20 am - Jimmyeatery: In London
25/12/2015, 11:20 am - Jimmyeatery: In London with my kids
25/12/2015, 11:21 am - sy: Good
25/12/2015, 11:21 am - Jimmyeatery: I av 1% left
25/12/2015, 11:21 am - sy: What?
25/12/2015, 11:21 am - Jimmyeatery: Snap lemme see you
25/12/2015, 11:22 am - syt: You will see me when I change my dp
25/12/2015, 11:23 am - syt: You there?
25/12/2015, 11:43 am - Jimmyeatery: IMG-20151225-WA0009.jpg (file attached)
25/12/2015, 11:45 am - Jimmyeatery: IMG-20151225-WA0008.jpg (file attached)
25/12/2015, 11:44 am - Jimmyeatery: My ba3 low N phone went off
25/12/2015, 11:44 am - Jimmyeatery: Im using my laptop to charge now
25/12/2015, 11:46 am - syt: OK Sir
25/12/2015, 11:47 am - sy: Was wondering why you kept quiet
25/12/2015, 11:51 am - sy: Can't talk please
25/12/2015, 11:51 am - Jimmyeatery: Ok
25/12/2015, 11:51 am - Jimmyeatery: I tot u said youre alone before
25/12/2015, 11:52 am - sy: My kids are here now
25/12/2015, 11:52 am - Jimmyeatery: Lemme know wen youre free to talk
25/12/2015, 11:52 am - Jimmyeatery: Oook
25/12/2015, 11:52 am - sy: Let's chat, say whatever you wanna say here
25/12/2015, 11:52 am - syt: My hubby is out
25/12/2015, 11:53 am - Jimmyeatery: Are u Sure?
25/12/2015, 11:53 am - syt: 😃
25/12/2015, 11:53 am - syt: Yeah
25/12/2015, 11:53 am - Jimmyeatery: Snap lemme be sure if youre d right person IM chatting with................

Please advise me in how to handle all these.......

Thank you.

All these don't matter dude..these are series of emotional affairs due to boredom and many married ladies do it and delete the messages.

However,just warn ger to stop or you wil divorce her but if she continues just let her be and dont bother wasting your money on divorcing her because it wil be foolish to spend your money to free an adulterous wife but you should rather let her face the parole by herself while you quietly search for another wife if you must.

That is my own formula for dealing with an adulterous wife.

rapmike:
A Nigerian "Christian" dance is simple: clap once, move an inch to the left, two inches to your right while moving your elbows up and down and then clap again! Lol.

That is timidity.

What im implying in that write up is that Christians should free themselves and create dance steps that the "world" can mimic.

What if shoki,azonto and the likes started from the church? i guess there wil be no qualms so why do Christians have to wait for the world whatever that means to start a dance step?

Tensionstar:
this is ma mnd...shoki azonto etc are al inspired by d devil or atleast wordly musiicans under d influence or inspiratn of week...d op is justiifyn what we are coping from d world whn it s supose to be d orda wayrnd

see yourself?

please read again.

daproflinks:
if your heart questions anything you do..please leave it

Gbam..

So as long as my heart supports it no issues.

GraceBestowed:
[color=#CD3700] THIS is what I thought of when I saw the previous post asking whether it is wrong to dance freely in the church.

Whenever I am in the presence of God, I have no inhibitions and I give Him my all, this includes my praise in the form of dancing. People can think whatever they want to think. David danced and his wife despised him in her heart because of his expression of praise to God. What did God do? He shut her womb!

With us being intelligent people, we should know HOW to dance in the presence of The Lord. Gyrating and dancing in a sexually provocative manner is a no no and should be saved for the bedroom with your husband/wife not your fellow church goers! [/color]

LOBATAN...

BTW the font you used is hard to read.

firstking01:
Op, away with dis ur mentality we have satanic and seductive dance too, which is sin

When we dance bata in yorruba,it comes with certain body movement and same way azonto,etigi and many more so when you say satanic i would like to know the type of dance that is satanic...

seductive dance remains wat it is..SEDUCTIVE which ofcourse is a Big No but most of these regular dance steps we see these days are just the regular dance steps but some religion fanatics call them worldly as if they know how they dance in heaven.

Kachisbarbie:
the summary is:
You are an evangelist that can't employ unbelievers that you will pay, but you can offer admission to unbelievers that would pay you.

That's cool mehn...
Congrats

Thanks for pointing that out..i sense so many twist and turns in his write up.

berepiki:
You know my story... Was employed in a big private school to work as a maths/Physics/further maths teacher after a successful interview... 70k salary... Was sacked after 3days for refusing to dance to a secular song...

Congrats dude but im sorry i'm not buying that story that you were sacked due to the embolden...

Toks2008:
2 Samuel 6:14: And David was dancing before the LORD with all his might, and David was wearing a linen ephod.

I was in a church last Friday and i gladly danced GODWIN dance moves as well as etigi and it will surprise you how they all looked at me with one funny eyes.

Sometimes i imagine what it feels like to dance with all your might because as a good dancer and one who loves dancing so much,i can't remember anytime in the past where i have danced with all my might.

But the truth is that as Christians, we have allowed timidity of expression before GOD to rob us the privilege of teaching the world great dance steps.

I have been dancing sekem since 1997 and that was my favorite step during praise section that the pastor even wanted to learn that step from me but today if i do that same step, the members will tag me worldly.

Dancing according to Wikipedia is a performance art form consisting of purposefully selected sequences of human movement.

[size=13pt]I do not understand why we should stereotype certain dance steps as worldly and probably some as heavenly because to me, dance is dance and it may even come as a surprise that most of these dance steps these circular artistes give names have always been there from time memorial and many of these dance steps are actually the native dance steps of some people like the etigi dance which is a calabar dance as well as the makossa which is the dance of the duala people in Cameroun.[/size]

David danced with all his might and for such to happen he must have thrown all caution to the wind and must have invented many dance steps like azonto,etigi,galala,shoki,sekem and many more.

Judging from the description of the way king David danced, i can say without any fear of contradiction that im yet to see anyone in any christian gathering danced half the way he did and even more annoying is the way Christians move their body whenever they sing the song "when the spirit of the lord....i will dance like David danced".

My admonition to my fellow Christians is to emancipate ourselves from self imposed perpetual bondage of timidity,lets free ourselves and lets invent new dance steps from the church and not be imitators of dance steps that were re-enacted and renamed by the circular world.

Lets learn to dance at least half the way King David danced.

Lalasticlala,ishilove,happy first sunday.Hope you danced so well today?

biz2get:
I don't think any girl in Nigeria would believe a Guy above 18yrs would likely be a virgin...

Sounds very stup*d tho

My best friend is still a virgin at 40..believe it or not..

Toks2008:
When i look at the way some babes flaunt their hot bodies,pretty faces and curves i tend to yinmu to them because many of them are ignorant of the fact that no matter the cream,no matter the surgery or cosmetics they use to enhance their beauty,there is always a gradual yet hardly noticeable depreciation of their beauty and bit by bit that sweet looking face,that super firm tits and that hot body will begin to experience law of diminishing returns and nobody can ever stop that from happening.

This write up is directed to the supposed "hot chics" who believe they are too sweet to settle with a man.This is not about throwing shades on them but a known fact many pretend they don't know about. A woman has no luxury of gallivanting about when she ought to calm down and put herself at a vantage point to settle down in a timely manner.

So i dey beg all the ladies wey believe say they are too hot to be with one man to relax,cool down very well and pick one man to settle with before they become an object of consideration by men and If you believe you are too hot to be with one man then be ready to be sampled by many men.

In 7 out of 10 ladies,all their gragra is from the ripe age of 18 to 35 and once you don dey pass 35years GOD help you so baby Juliana, kwachara anya gi.

Just digging out my threads lol!

Oliviaarims:

Baby your black is beautiful.

ronald4lif:
I've always maintained that we guys are responsible for how we're being treated by women. They would continue to lacerate you like the bellyaches that you are.

You see a woman and perhaps someone you've become friends with and ask her out. Then say a woman shouldn't do same citing culture as reason? Can you please define culture for a start and if it's constant or static?

A woman who ask a guy out is confident, and strong, sui generis and one with true character. It shows she knows what she wants and not afraid to go for it. It depicts one who's not afraid to defy her societal inhibitions and dogmas that aimed at restricting her potentials. And a real man will appreciate her boldness and examplary character.

A relationship is a two way street. Who ever made the "rules" of who always has to text first or do the asking is an idiot.

I ordinarily didn't set out to join the discuss after observing it was a luxuriant ground for some hoity-toity display of self-importance for those who falsely think they're some deity.

Are you by chance related to prof wole shoyinka or senator patrick? Abeg take am easy o..lol

But seriously i want to be wooed by a sweet confident chic right now cos i don hang boot for wooing matter...

Interesting read i must say[quote author= post=37629837]I sincerely wish many unmarried single mums can see this great thread.
Its not an encouragement to have children out of wedlock but for them to understand that they are not second class.[/quote]

Emmagenius:
Brus you no TRY.So a LADY asking a guy for anything now is a GREEN LIGHT ABI?. Your stupidity stinks to the High Heavens

I will excuse your illmannered response and blame it on either your parents who lacked the desterity to instill discipline in you or your recalcitrant and hopeless nature.

When i use the word can anyone with a sound IQ will know it is relative and subjective to the situation at that point in ttme.

If you quote me again with abusive words...

naijafella:
See starved,yet you are not longing for it? LIE

Yes its possible..funny but true

ronald4lif:
Speak for yourself and the class of women you have in your circle. What do you people think or assume culture to be? Culture is metamorphosic and evolves with time. If you think a woman shouldn't woo you just like you can woo them you're tacitly admitting you're not endearing and lovable even as its a confession of low self esteem.

This is referring to Toks2008 submission as well.

My submission is simple...dont woo a man head on..show subtle signals i tagg green light.

even on nairaland a lady can show a green light by just quoting a guy and she could lash out at u and that can be a green light.

see ladies should wake up..real men no longer have time for this shit called wooing and these guys will just easily fall for any smart chic.

So ladies should continue forming levels,i trust the wobey guys to be on your neck and while you are feeling cool that a guy is persistently chasing you,the guy is simply doing wat he naturally knows how to do best and that is hunting you down no matter how long and how hard and once he gets u,he marks his register n move on...

Real responsible men will harly persist on winning a lady cos na even by Gods grace for them to woo you in the first place..quote me anywhere.