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enomakos:
are u sure you are not ope?

You don dey use style find trouble.

enomakos:
14 and 15 years old are sleeping with 5 or 7 guys per day these day

Please dont remind me of how perverted this generation has become

A generation where young ladies are ready to have unending s.x rump with you but not interested in commitment.

A generation where the clamour for sexual chastity will be seen as madness.

A generation where a virgin at 25 is seen as an alien.

A generation where peiople now prefer to remain engaged rather than marry,they celebrate engagement ceremony,raise children as engaged couple just to make breaking up easier.

A generation where...

God have mercy on this perverted generation.

Adaeze003:
Na wa oh...

ok Ada please be sincere and tell me if these set of ladies should remain celibate forever, continue hoping for an unmarried man to come their way or accept marriage proposal from a married man..

1. A feemale ddivorcee with children.

2. A widow in her 40s or even late 20s with children.

3.A single lady in her lates 30s or 40s


Many ladies who are quick to condemn polygamy should pray never to find theirselves in a sittuation that will make them pray to have a married man look her way.

This life is too complex to understand.

octopusfreaky:
u can imagine,,,,, mtschewwwww,useless comments

you are not communicating at all.

Please be more articulate.

Adaeze003:
They should date married men too

No one is asking them to date married men but if a married man decides to marry them i wont advice them against it.

Married men are the answer to the prayers of the widows,female divorcees,unmarried chronic overaged ladies as well as never married single mothers.

The mystery of man and woman affair is too deep to understand and polygamy is actually the answer to the prayers of many ladies.

Shebarh:
U do collapse each time ya excited u need a thorough checkup skibbi.. hope u don't collapse when ya on stage cos it will be a big blow to u...God is ya strength. .

Kai makawhy?

This skilibi guy just kill his own career with this utterance.

He would have said any other thing like i was overstressed and not this trash he nailed himself with.

papadee93:
If u r a gal and u have Manchester and Arsenal then u r Complete
And if as a gal plenty chewing gum boiz, one yahoo boy or alhaji have scatter your nyash........ u r finished nothing remain....I recommend u for MFM deliverance

Interesting angle.

2good:
I am not a child to take your above post serious. Men tend to have more self control and self worth as they grow older and most female manipulation stop working on them. The issue of sleeping with a woman is different from marrying them.

Isorite. After-all its your personal opinion so no leles.

Maintech:
If Don Jazzy is 32 then I am a semen.

Lol..

i think it was wiki that dubbed him 42 but he came out to refute it claiming he is only 32.

ChokolateBoss:
I like how u reason. U're liberal in thinking. PM me maybe?



Oh oh! U just stereotyped Nigerian men. Its NOT a 'Nigerian' mentality cos u're gonna find so much of that shhiiit elsewhere. Don't kw abt ur stats but that mentality is NOT subscribed to by most nigerians.



Trust me, they won't answer. They're gonna act like they didn't SEE this even though niggurs r 'supposed' 2 be moved by what they SEE

I enjoyed your analysis lol.

testimonyobaoyin:
There is this my friend that keep appreciating my man,each time she sees me and man all she does singing to my hear that my man is handsome and that am lucky.
A friend told me to be careful that each time they talk all she keep saying is she wish to have my man. Please what should I do?

Then your friend is as harmless and as open as you can imagine.

The bad ones wont talk but will do the dont.

Relax dear,you have nothing to fear.

It is psycological.

If i can make a lady moan with just two thin fingers then a 5inch dck will do even a 4inch as long as you know the sex position to take.

Even if you have 7inch the lady may not endure a penetration above 5inch cos when stmulated,the cervix extends in length to about 5inch deep and any further move in can cause pain.

my advice to the men,give your WIVES good good MouthAction and make sure you make her kini a goood lolly pop at least for 10mins bfre strtn d rl thing nd watch her climax heavily even if u hve just 4inches.

buygala:
What the Bible says..


1 Thessalonians 5:22.... 'flee from all appearances of evil



What I would do....

I will fvck the boss in the meantime, while I consider my next line of action

Satan pickin.

SUGARBEE:
Lol Don jazzy. Please go and marry . Time is going

At 32 he is still young nah. Marriage no easy o.

Though i have mot met him personally but he is very humble from the way i see him just like yaw,very humble guy.

2good:
Yes you are correct to say men will sleep with a lady with or without protection even if the woman is a maid . Her status in terms of education is generally irrelevant when it comes to mating. It is mostly broke men with little option that will accept a single mom as a wife when many single women cannot even find a husband. It is just the reality of life so your opinion doesn't matter because you are thinking like a woman and not a man.

See,guys are visualistic in nature. We get turned on by what we see.

If you see an after one babe with flat tummy,firn tits,confirmed rear view come add sweet skin and face join then you will come back to tell me you now understand my point.

The problem is that many chics dey too relax body after dropping one.

2good:
Yes you are correct to say men will sleep with a lady with or without protection even if the woman is a maid . Her status in terms of education is generally irrelevant when it comes to mating. It is mostly broke men with little option that will accept a single mom as a wife when many single women cannot even find a husband. It is just the reality of life so your opinion doesn't matter because you are thinking like a woman and not a man.

Sometimes when i write quoting my age,i do so because i dont want people to see my comment as one that came from a teenager or one very young dude.

My brother you are so very wrong.

Yes many single ladies are looking for guys but if you meet a single mum that knows her onions,you will side step other ladies to be with her.

Very funny to say broke guys go for single mum lol..its like you never jam better single mums wey go make you have rethink.

Princessderaa:
huh? but men will like to sleep with a lady with or without protection.

I still insist matured men prefer single mothers to single ladies.

Walahi if i see a hot single mum i will rush her with the speed of light..no kidding.

Gratia:
I don't understand something here E-money said he proposed to her with a car, how can someone who doesn't have money propose to a woman with a car?

Then after traditional marriage he doesn't have money to bring them back to lagos..I am confused bikonu!

You see wetin i talk?

i had not even read your post when i made that comment above.

But anyhowever,im happy for him.Its not easy to be a legitimate and clean millionaire in naija.

Lanceslot:
That's life. Mastercraft was once a bus conductor, Timaya was once a plantain seller, Patoranking sold rat killer @ a point in his life and GEJ was once shoeless houseboy.

And Somme naija babes no go ever learn.

Btw i just have a strange feeling about e money source of wealth. Yes hard work pays and we have legitimate billionaires but i cant put my finger on ir.

holysina:
lol, for their mind they want to confuse us, any how them like make them change am, we go help them polish am.

Gbam. End of story

holysina:
We used to have another option, at least for some social situations, but the ‘How do you do?’ greeting (to which the apparently ludicrous correct response is to repeat the question back ‘How do you do?’) is now regarded by many as somewhat archaic, and is no longer the universal standard greeting. The ‘Nice day, isn’t it?’ exchange must, however, be understood in the same light, and not taken literally: ‘How do you do?’ is not a real question about health or well-being, and ‘Nice day, isn’t it?’ is not a real question about the weather.
So in this usage, "How do you do?" wasn't an actual question about the person: it was just a meaningless greeting, and for instance what one might say when introduced to someone (in lieu of "Pleased to meet you", presumably while tipping one's hat. In reply, the other person, also wishing to make the same meaningless greeting, would say "How do you do". Note that "How do you do" in this usage was even spoken as a statement, not as a question (i.e., without a rising tone at the end).

These days "How do you do?" is more likely to be interpreted as an actual question. Interestingly, as n0nChun observes, one does sometimes hear a similar exchange these days, with "What's up" getting the reply "What's up".

Nice explanation but in yoruba language.how do you do means "bawoni" or "sowa" and we simple answer, mowapa meaning im good and then follow up by asking sewapa meaning "and you"

Honestly may GOD save us from all these slavish colloquial mentality.

All this slavish languages...Tarrr

You ask me how do you do i will answer cool,fine or whatever and follow up by asking "and you?"

I may not be a prof in English but i have common sense that tells me that's a question that needs answering.

kacglobal:
Wow my mind is blown.

You are fuunny

jnrbayano:
Igando Igando
The famous court for the marriage rascals

lol

Lovelynature:
Op while you make nice point there, I still think that the love life should be mutual and not one sided. At least the guy should develop some qualities that would strengthen the woman's attraction for him. Getting married to someone you don't have one bit of attraction for is really not advised, men and women inclusive.
It's good to know the one that truly loves you and try loving the person back and it has to work out before considering marriage.

I love that bold lettering..:"one bit" and i totally agree but as i wrote above, that bit of love might still not be enough for some people until they feel that surge which most times is a facade.

Adaeze003:
I prefer the two way street and can't settle for less.

It's marriage for crying out low, how can one go into it with such uncertainty as "with time I'll love him"? What if you don't? Then you end up "managing" after all, you're married yea?
If I don't love you, it's a no and if you don't love me, it's a no.

You really can't bottle up people and say what will work for them just because of their genitals...

I know we've(Mr op and I) had this convo before so I won't say much more.

Acceptability may be a two way street but life is never designed for the feelings of love to be a two way thing.

This is a mystery too deep to decipher. Yes it will seem on the surface that both of you love each other and i guess thats where many are getting me wrong. I am not saying marry a man you hate but there is this deep desire that wells up inside us towards someone and often times this is what many people look out for before they can say they love a particular person.

As i wrote, the feelings of love between 2 people is rarely balanced and it will do a lady a great deal to have it tilted more to her side.I can't just explain this further.

Btw, you really can't decipher if a man loves you when you are also in love. In-fact the odd things and the red flags he shows will seem to be an innocent action and you keep telling yourself he loves you.

Toks2008:
I appreciate your epistle but this is typical for the Nigerian society.

I expect an article to teach ladies to be financially independent but here you are encouraging materialism as a norm in the subliminal nature of ladies.

One question i will never stop asking is this..What if you eventually bait a lady so to speak with the financial comfort and then it stops? what happens afterwards? i guess the girl dumps your ass for the next happening guy right?


I know guys who have been in situations where steady income of good dough was coming in for years and when they faced temporary setbacks,the ladies in their lives left so what do you say to this? that these guys aren't hard working?

People lose jobs,business fails,nothing is certain in life except death.My advice is that our NIGERIAN ladies should try to be financially independent which is not hinged on getting a job alone as there are other means of making a livelihood.

Yes we know that ladies are attracted to wealth but if every Nigerian lady becomes independent financially, we will have more purposeful relationships because they will start loving a man for the right reason and then and only then, even a very poooor struggling guy will focus on a lady rather than having erratic and irrational made belief love for many ladies as you just opined as a prerequisite to cushion a possible heartbreak from a supposed materialistic money monger.

sonofananimal:
YOU KNOW WHAT?

THIS YOUR POST ONLY APPLY TO NAIJA WOMAN!
TRY GO OUT SIDE NIGERIA AND SEE THINGS FOR YOURSELF, I HAVE MEET ALOT OF NON-MATERIALISTIC WOMAN WHO JUST WANT NOTHING BUT TO BE LOVE.

NATURALLY NAIJA WOMEN ARE USELESS, THERE FIND LOVE THROUGH MATERIAL THINGS, AND THAT MAKE WE MEN TRY TO DO ANYTHING TO GET MONEY JUST TO CATCH THOSE EEEDIOT (NAIJA WOMEN)

SHALL I HAVE SEEN THE TRUTH!!
NAIJA WOMEN ARE WORTHLES PIECE OF SHITTE!! DON'T STRESS YOURSELF WITH THEM AND SEE THEM COMING YOUR WAY LIKE FLIES

Thats all.

Omotayor123:
True talk...... But it would be best if the partners loves each other. *winks*

ofcourse but the bottomline is that its better if the man is more crazy about u

Rapmoney:
Ignore this post if you are too lazy to read, please!!!

In life, there are two types of people as regards human reasoning; the idealist and the realist. People who hold idealist view of life see events that happen around them as 'how things ought to be but are not' while people who hold realist view of life see events that happen around them as 'real facts or occurences' and should be accepted without pretending as if we didn't know that this is how things truly are!!!

With deep thoughts, I write this post. I am not afraid to face criticism; neither am I afraid to express my thoughts. I am a realist. I believe that events that happen around us as humans are real!!! Often times, things 'ought to be' in a particular way but in reality, they are not; so it becomes necessary to accept bitter and painful facts! Especially, when they are real!!!

We live in a material world and whether you like it or not, material things play a lot of important roles in our everyday life. As a struggling guy, loving only one girl whole-heartedly might end up leaving you with numerous emotional scars! . This is due to the high level of emotional pressure you would put in the relationship and the possible outcome of getting dumped, especially, when you don't have the resources to spice up the relationship. A struggling guy with low funds would find it difficult to spice up his relationship even when he has the intention to do that . In order not to lose the girl, he might start being too protective/desparate and pester the girl with phone calls, texts messages and numerous 'I love you's' in order to be assured that he is still loved! Common!!! That's trash! Are you begging to be loved? After displaying all these, she would dispise you and might even dump you because the truth remains the same...relationships without trips, surprises and outings are as boring as hell!!! Pretend at your own risk!!! . If truth be told, all young ladies want the good things in life, even those that put up what I call 'social media good face'. You cannot obtain total loyalty from a girl when you are lacking! Don't make the mistake of trying to force her to be loyal; you cannot!!!

Women, sometimes need to feel jealous that their man could be taken anytime by another woman. This can put them back on track when they 'backslide' romantically...but this can only be made easy when you have the resources. She knows fully well that ladies will not flock around you if she leaves you today or tomorrow. Don't love just one lady if you are still on 'struggling mode' . The love pressure you would mount on the relationship might make her get fed up quickly with you and eventually get your ass dumped painfully! Again, I am a realist and I am telling you that sooner than later, your ass will be dumped if you don't have the resources to 'oil' the machines of relationships!

As a struggling guy, you should buckle or lace your shoes and tighten your belt very well. You must set your priorities right. There is what economists call 'scale of preference'. What is on top of your scale of preference? Is it your education or career? Or is it trying to please a girl with your meagre earnings all in the name of seeing her pleased with you? Do you want to waste your youthful years trying to please a girl that might end up being married by another dude, who was probably hussling seriously, while you were doing your usual lovey-lovey? Book of Ecclesiastes says 'Money answereth all things'. Take note, 'all things' and not 'some things' . Take the pains now and strive to be comfortable and you will avoid the painful experience of trying to please a girl!!! The love between a man and a woman is not AGAPE LOVE, let us stop deceiving ourselves!!! It is not the type of love described in the Synoptic Gospels and in the Epistles of Apostle Paul...it is called EROS and it costs something!!! Yes, the eros love goes for something; it doesn't come with nothing and that's the bitter truth we all need to accept

Good morning everyone!

I appreciate your epistle but this is typical for the Nigerian society.

I expect an article to teach ladies to be financially independent but here you are encouraging materialism as a norm in the subliminal nature of ladies.

One question i will never stop asking is this..What if you eventually bait a lady so to speak with the financial comfort and then it stops? what happens afterwards? i guess the girl dumps your ass for the next happening guy right?


I know guys who have been in situations where steady income of good dough was coming in for years and when they faced temporary setbacks,the ladies in their lives left so what do you say to this? that these guys aren't hard working?

People lose jobs,business fails,nothing is certain in life except death.My advice is that our NIGERIAN ladies should try to be financially independent which is not hinged on getting a job alone as there are other means of making a livelihood.

Yes we know that ladies are attracted to wealth but if every Nigerian lady becomes independent financially, we will have more purposeful relationships because they will start loving a man for the right reason and then and only then, even a very poooor struggling guy will focus on a lady rather than having erratic and irrational made belief love for many ladies as you just opined as a prerequisite to cushion a possible heartbreak from a supposed materialistic money monger.

Omotayor123:
Sure! But women would still prefer marrying the person they love.. The thought of living with someone you don't like is
She will just be pissed at everything he did no matter how nice.
God help us!

Now let me blow your mind.

This is how women are wired.


If a woman marries a man she does not love as in no single love at all but this guy starts to show her real love and i mean treats her like a queen,i bet you that in no time, she will begin to fall in love with him. This is the mystery that women don't even understand just like the act of sharing a man. The beauty and the beast movie is not just fiction.


If you marry the man you love and who does not love or want you even if he lied to you,in no time when he starts cheating on you and treating you worse than shits, you will pray that GOD should turn back the hands of time.

The most important mystery of love is that though we do not choose who to love as you can see yourself loving someone who is totally odd from your choice but most times,loving someone is not about feelings but a conscious decision we make and stand by it.

Omotayor123:
Hmm

Revealing shey?

favoured234:
Let my pastor not catch hear that you call me Hajjia..
Relationship is just too big that one size does not fit 2 talk more of all.... I am More on the indifferent side than the concerned side

OOps sorry taught that is an hijjab