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ugreat: you said u imagined your ex,that is, looking from your mind and lusting with your mind. Not condemning bro, just analysing. Anyway if u think positively about stuffs,get busy and more especially occupy your mind with God, these things are work-overs. God bless you brotherMaybe i forgot to add that the ex in question was my wife and that is another twist to this ever complicated topic. If you are married and your spouse is not around and you masturbate thinking about her then no problem at all and you are not commiting any sin. The problem is that when single people self service, what do they think about? definitely not about a tractor or sports car but most likely about a lady or man they love to be with and this is another twist to the whole story. But as long as you are not lusting physically after a lady or man while self servicing , i think its perfectly ok. Thinking about a lady you love is different from seeing her stand. I am famn tired about all these hypochricy going on about self servicing. |
Sometimes i wonder why many people leave the main solution to issues and prefer hypochricy and self suffering. If you are not married and you have strong urge to mate,don't punish yourself praying and fasting against self servicing. What you must never do is to fornicate. Look here friends, lets face it, i keep maintaining that i don't know how to yank off or self-service off as they call it but when i feel so much intense pressure to mate and because i am a believer, i simply close my eyes and let the power of my strong imagination take its course. I think about the times i have had with my ex and i ease off even without touching my dick but you know what, this saves me the urge to go look for easy lay or to pay as little as 500 or 1000naira for a quick fix with a LovePeddler. Lets not over-blow this masturbating issue. If you are unmarried and you have strong urge please ease off the way you can and i can tell you there is no sin in that and i challenge anyone to prove otherwise.if you don't ease off consciously then be sure to have wet dreams. This issue of self servicing is too complicated and i keep saying that if you watch indecency while self servicing then you are committing fornication cos you are lusting over the lady in that movie but if you use your imaginative sense to self service, you have not sinned in any way. Just learn to understand that too much of everything is bad and masturbation is a big NO for the married but for the singles please i beg you to abstain from indiscriminate sex and yank off if you must. Lets stop fooling each other. If you start to fast and pray to subdue sexual urge then you can as well start fasting and praying to keep away the urge to urinate and defecate. My opinion though. |
No real man will settle there except the one that wants to explore and such may not live long enough to come out. If they are ready they will leave that cult and go out to live in a real world. |
philips70: You say men must cheat. You say men must be men. All men must cheat. Yet you say you never cheat once for your life. That means you be woman na..abi I lie or you dey eye one Nairaland girl?You really got it twisted. I never wrote rhat men must cheat but men do cheat and thats because of the polygamous nature whether man of GOd or not Nevertheless not all men cheat and so far im one of them because i got what i want in the lady otherwise i might possibly cheat too. |
B akatekpe: See as this thread attract attention like magnet..so many ppl r happy for d down fall of d MOG...Nigerians ennSee myopism in action. Downfall in what way? Its like some people see pastors as super human. It was only Jesus who lived above sexual temptations and even some crazy documented stories claim that Jesus had an affair with mary madgalene. When it comes to sexual sins,only Jesus was immuned and i guess its because he was not concieved by man's fluid. Any other person can fall but if this is ever true then he should try to reconcile wth his wife and continue in his ministery. He still remains a great teacher of the word of God,adultery or not. |
philips70: Safe to say you are a woman? Can't seem to relate with your paradoxical texts up there.This grammar too much. Abeg break it down.Paradono.... |
Toks2008: Even if he committed adultery, He is human. Gone are the days when ladies divorce based on this nonsense. Men are polygamous by nature whether pastor or not.
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Even if he committed adultery, He is human. Gone are the days when ladies divorce based on this nonsense. Men are polygamous by nature whether pastor or not. [Please dont get it twisted, i am never in support of adultery and i have never been enmeshed in one in my years of been with any lady i ever got involved with but lets face it.A man will always be a man whether man of GOD or not. |
Most times, a sexless affair may likely not leave any strong feeling Why we should not sleep around Sex is marriage,sex is the greatest blood covenant and when you sleep indiscriminately with anyone,you share the curses and not the blessings because it is an illicit sex even if you use a hundred condoms.. You must also understand that every person you have sexual intimacy with goes with a part of you and it can never be retrieved or recovered. The more people you date or sleep with,the more curses you bring upon yourself and the less of you will be left to give to your wife/husband when you settle. God wasn't trying to punish us when he said that we must wait for that only one person that will be your spouse. It is very difficult to wait till after marriage to have sexual intimacy i agree but lets try our utmost best to be sure that the person we ever choose to date is really interested in marrying us. Now you know why surveys have reported that married people are among the most unfaithful in the world and i guess they usually cheat with an ex because. most of them can't let go of the part of them in their past lover(s) Hope this helps. |
My case is a very funny one. My ex claims she still has feelings for me yet she walked away asking me to give her time. A case of wanting to have her cake and eat it and i consider her confused and totally disillusioned. I honestly understand her stand view though been totally inexperienced as i happen to be her very first man so she will naturally believe there is something better out there and this is why i still feel something for her but i attribute this to the fact that i have not seen another lady to move on with. So Yes lets face it, until we see a good option to move on with,we will always still feel something(may not be love) for our ex. |
Annette Kellerman posing in a swimsuit that got her arrested for indecency. [c. 1907] This is very funny because these days many people will laugh at her for been too conservatively dressed. This world don spoil I guess Tiwa will be hanged if she took this in that same year.
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RuudNisterooy: This is a parochial opinion i've to say.I honestly dont have issues with people debunking a stand made by another but where i have problem is when the person presents a dogmatic argument. Please lets have your reason why you believe she is not and that will be intellectual enough. |
fatdon2: Anytime i meet any calaber woman or girls, i think of DOGS. Omo calaber girls dey beep die.In my opinion, Ekiti/Ondo ladies are more active and the most fertile ladies in Nigeria. They have the highest number of twin births and this is attributed to their love for yams as it has been found out that wild yams contains some hormone boosting ingredients which is responsible for their fertility and sexual prowess. |
Vanities. As long as they have such in heaven then no leles. |
Benstino: No quarrel Sir.Me,quarrel ke! I am a lover not a fighter o. |
Benstino: That's how u fail simple exams.Please read your question again "intelligent fine man" And yes i am extremely ugly. |
Benstino: The thread is now all about competition.Lol! For me i see myself as fine but when i start making real big money to point to any chic i want and spoil her silly wth cash,i will see myself as handsome. A word of advice for my fellow Nigerian guys: 98% of Nigerian chics will dump your broke cute looks to leak the ass off a gorilla. If you wan form looks please go Benin rep,Ghana,Togo,South Africa or western countries where babes love u for you. And trust me,i dont blame naija babes. Its the economy because i have seen virgins and very decent ladies who will still prefer to be with a rich ugly cassanova than to be with a cute faithful broke guy. |
Benstino: Relax and wisen up.Simple answer; the richer guy gets the babe. |
I laugh in pidgin language when i read op's comments. In Nigeria most girls dont give a shit if you are the finest dude on earth but as long as you have the cash,you are the cutest. Maybe outside naija you can brag about your looks but in Nigeria abeg park one side. I am always quick to tell any lady i come across the fact that im still a real hustler and i am still hopeful of making it big so that they will know how far. My guy mr OP please go get some good money and you will realise ladies wll fall for you like packs of cards. What those chics meant to say was "Its not worth it fgtn over ur cuteness wtgh other chics when u dont even hav the cash" Abeg wise up |
Afam4eva: Maybe your pocket is not handsome enough. Go make some money and they will flock around you and compete against themselves before someone receives the anointing of acid to their face.I agree most Nigerian chics become point and kill for any rich guy even if he is a gorilla but please guys and ladies here should understand that this money thingy is endemic to 98% of Nigerian chics. Outside the border of Nigeria, you can be sure that 98% of ladies don't give a shit about your money. Secondly, when a lady is scared of a fine dude its probably she is scared of facing stiff competition from other ladies who can't resist cute guys. If you are very good in the kitchen and you have the physical sexual features that guy wants coupled with a decent character i think the guy should be the one to get scared no matter how cute he may be so our ladies should rather work on themselves and put themselves in a vantage position and stop having baseless inferiority complex. |
firstEVA: Women are not scared of handsome guys neither are they intimidated by them, if you are the most handsome man on earth and a broke arse nigga, sorry dude, girls will rather go for a gorrila looking money bag than you, so abeg park wellSee Nigerian lady mentality and this is why i have a phobia for Nigerian chics. |
On the spectrum wheel Green - Red Purple - Yellow Brown doesn't have an opposite, it's not a primary colour Red - Green Blue - Orange Grey - not a primary colour Orange - Blue Yellow - Blue Pink -not a primary colour |
I am convinced that this man is a socerer but i cant help loving him. At least while other so called businesssmen oh sorry,pastors are busy buying luxury he still has a philantropic gesture. |
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How time flies. Days of ekanna gowon,condense,bsba dudu. Funny enough i can only remember reading Ade our naughty little brother. Dont know if others were available way back in 85 when i left pry schl. |
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