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A man can love you deeeeply and still cheat on you because guys see sex as pleasure but when a woman makes out with another man then she does not love you anymore because ladies are emotional beings and sex is more sacred to them.

I am not talking about sluts here or sex workers.

aryzgreat: Stupid, senseless, id1otic, animalistic, hopeless arab cult called islam. God punish una and dat useless sallah u f00ls are celebrating!

I'm sure if it wia to be d oda way round, these animals would av started killing people. u savages have bn wasting christians lives without any retaliation, one day una cup go full.

VAMPIRES!

Dont get it twisted bro.

Boko haram has nothing to do with true islamic injunctions. These guys are demented fools.

Dont see them as muslims and stop cursing islam. Its a peaceful religion but extremists have made it look like a bad thing to b a muslim.

For the records,im a full blown holy ghost filled believer in christ yet i know that islam is a good religion pointing towards Jehovah called Allah in saudi language.

andromida: Love is about acceptance. Yes you can inspire a person to change but rather than get with someone with plans to change him or her it is better to accept the person as is. If you cannot accept the person walk away.

Lobatan!

And do the walking away before saying i do.

zeongeon: Every day girls go around sayin guyz cheat..The truth is that Gurlz cheat more than guyz and guyz are more faithful and love more in the relationship than gurls.

Considering the fact that a guy dates a gurl without conditions most times for example she doesn't have to be working, She mustnt have to be from a rich family, She mustnt have to dress all flashy and trendy, She mustnt have a car, She mustnt have a house of her own, she mustnt have to make us laugh or take us out to dinner.

Gurls are the problem not even the guyz..Gurlz go around keeping guyz for various purpose even a video on internet proves it eg assignment guy, money guy, shoulder to crying on, sex guy etc Gurls go around comparing there guyz to most guyz they come acroSs and even have a second thought of dating the guy.

Gurls always want to cheat but will want to make it look like its d guy either there bf or d new or ex that got them to cheat...They don't want to take d blame or responsibility for cheating that's why they tag there flings with various guyz with a stupid name or excuse eg I am confused, I didn't know, he isn't caring, he doesn't give me attention or money.

Most guyz set out to really love at first while most gurls set out to experiment at first..That's why some guyz end up having commitment issues because they set out to love and because of d funny attitude of d gurl the guy has his expectations rubbished for is either the gal takes him for granted, friendzones him, pretends to love him why she screws some other dude and all d dramas that come with gurlz.

If u have ever taken a good guy for granted before then u have no right to call guyz names, if all d guyz u meet are "playas" don't blame them thank the females that have made them realize how worthleSs it is trying to love.

Gurlz please free we Guyz we will continue to go for any gurl that catch our fancy just like the way u smile and open for any guy who has money or tells watever u think u wanna hear.

Gurlz probably when u have decided on what u want from a man and learn to appreciate the ones who are trying hard to love u then U may have ur man to only urself. But as long as u gals remain indecisive we guyz will continue to enjoy ourselves with any gurl we like and is available at least we are doing ourself a favour by avoiding unneceSsary excuses and disappointments

The bolded sums it up

arvinsloane: why won't he cheat ?

Lol! You no well but then thats the point. Be with a gal who has the type of endowment that wll give you a hardon once you look at it.

spyg1: If you are faithful to a girl she will be taking you for granted. She will not even respect you. Sometimes she may think that staying with her is a privilege is a privilege to you. @OP, I HOPE I am 100% right

Most ladies who have been heartbroken will appreciate a faithful guy but a lady who is naive or a first timer like my ex will always think there is something better out there nd wll always take a faithful guy for granted.

lilmax: How do you expect a tall handsome guy to be faithful? And the worst part is girls think they can change them....if you want a faithful guy then accept a faithful guy not a bad guy.....if you are not serious he too wont be serious its all about you,you are what you attract....shikena

I laugh in swahili. Omo forget,a drop dead gorgeous tall,dark and cute guy who is principled will be faithful to one lady.

I gave my life to christ at 13 when i hardly knew me then at 20 i started facing serious gbege and i will enter my room to see a naked chic in my bed just for me to drive her out. Chics will make up stories just to pass the night in my place yet i wll not go near them even ladies threatened me with rape nd i cnt continue to highlight different stories but the point is that the holy spirit has so much permeated my soul that i practical find it hard to philander even when i practically desire it.


So y these stories? The truth is that naturally all men are unfaithful but if you are principled,or filled with the spirit of GOD,you will find it hard to philander about even if you have no comitted affair and when you have a lady in your life,cheating on her will not even cross your mind. It has nothing to do with looks.

evea: Guys talk true n leave sentiment aside. If u owe up 2 d truth it will be fine. A lady will luv 2 give you all n all she ve bt ur eyes re outside. U ve dis mentality dt any girl dt comes to spend hr 1st 9t with u must ve sex wit her. though u re nt totally b blamed cos some girls want it. Wen girls says no pls respect dt. Guys no longer respect d ladies. bt dts my opinion

Lwkmd! See post. Werrin the gal go do for the man house in the first place?

elari: I don't see any reason to cheat on my girl. What am I looking for

Gbam! Thats the point but i pray you dont get tired of that okro soup as some randy men always say" you need to taste dff soup to know the best" rubbish.

Ladies are like brands,i love samsung electronics so y will i start looking for sony after acquiring a samsung.

If i get a chic that has the physical endowments i want physically walahi she will beg me to cheat on her. And even if her inner wualities is not wat i want,i will learn to tolerate.

Been faithful in relationships is really a woman thing in all honesty.

Men are polygamous in nature,a man is a strong visual being while most ladies are emotional beings.

A man can still cheat on you even if you are the most sexy lady in the galaxy. Having a one night stand cant be seen as been unfaithful for a man (i do not encourage this) or havig a quick fix with a lady that catches his fancy can not be seen as been unfaithful.

Men think about sex almost all the time and will not mind easing out on any available chic.

But been unfaithful in my opinion is going out to actually start an affairwith another chic that will see you sleeping wth her more than once.

Sound stupid i know but we must understand the difference betwn one night stand and actual affair.

bigemmmybig: yes most gals fall for playboys, why? cos dey r naturally attracted to dem badt guys

This is so true and i keep wondering why. The few faithful guys usually turn bad when the so called chic they are faithful turn out to be unfaithful.

bxcode: Yes guys can be faithful, its all about self discipline.....but to say the truth, its one of the most difficult thing to do as a man

Very true but as i wrote before,its very possible for me because first n formost,im a believer wth zero tolerance to fornication and adultery.

And getting a lady that has what i want physically is a plus and this is why i will never compromise what i want. I have been in an affair for 12yrs with a lady without even contemplating talking to another chic and that is because she has the type of endowments i crave for.

Guys should know wat they want. If you like a busty chic dont go for less,if you want a bootilicious babe,make sure you get what you want. And if you are the type who goes weak with prety chics,make sure you get a pretty babe.

Guys are visual and getting a lady that has the physical features you desire will go a long way in curbing unfaithfullness.

What a lady needs is a man that will gve her good affection,give her comfort the best way you can and give her good good sexual satisfaction and she will hardly cheat on you.

If i have a lady who has the endowments i desire then i can be faithful but if not,heaven help me.

Rubbish and nonsense.

This is where their power will come in but when the robbery was going on for several minutes where were they?

Clueless people. I wonder when we will start hearing the arrest of the top government officials stealing our billions in foreign currency.

Poor man wey still maggi na him dem go dey run after.Poo

Lets not fool each other. The question here should be rephrased to " can you woo a lady for the purpose of sex and not with any taught of commitment?"

99.9% of men know if there is a possibility of settling down with a lady even before wooing her.

Dating someone you can't marry is like entering a college without any plan of bagging a degree.

It is an irresponsible act and for me i will not even make love to a lady i dont see myself marrying and this is why i dont do casuals.or worse still one night stand.

Tayras: LWKMD; Child's play indeed

Abi nah, make person use am as comic relief.Naija wahala too much so we need threads like this to maintain Serotonin level.

Funny enough i never knew dimples are adorable but way back when i was younger, i somehow feel weired when i see these dents on my check.

To be frank,you dont have to force a dimple. If you really have it then it will show effortlessly.

I don mature for this but make i participate just for the fun of it.

"and said he was tired of the marriage because her parents did not support it in the first place" see excuse after she has bore children for him. Some guys should be thrown into crocodile river. Anoufia.

The song is not too impressive in my opinion but the video is wow!

Very simple. If he does not long for your company.

kilokeys: erhmmm. well. at first it was lack of oppurtunity. good family where sex wasnt a biggie.. my folks at home would always tell u its ur life , ur choice . but advise u to choose the right path.

then, i hav always loved to go the other direction . i no dey follow follow.

but now at 26, i just don't see the need. i am indifferent abt se.x .. who am i trying to impress. i flow well with females,.i am safe from stis .

but op,, being a v doesn't mean u r "pure" . its all n d mind. i know whats best for me. safety first,.standing out, going against all odds.
ill lose it when i see d need

Good.

Sex is addictive. And once you try it,you are hooked.

polis007: I am still a virgin @ 31, av survived Barrage of temptations by God's grace. It was deliberate, I decided this is how I wanted my life to go. I am shy though, I use dt as a shield to escape viable conversations dt could have probably resulted in an intimate relationship.

You are a true virgin to be one at your age. Kudos. I tried to maintain a status quo too but these girls kept coming and even molested me at the tender age of 19. Bad gals.

DrummaBoy: So you are virgins...

And then what?

What's the aim of the thread?

To promote chastity?

Good. On what basis?

Religion? HIV/AIDS?

What?

While I celebrate the fact that there are virgins who are still proud of being one in a world of decadence, this party/forum should have a purpose, other than just announcing you are virgins.

Wats all this hype about been virgins at 18,20.

Wait till you are 25 as a lady añd 30as a guy vefore you start feeling hypw about still maintaining your virginity.

slex: My younger bro is 25 and still a virgin i m still in shock. Like i was when bra71l lost

I have a 31 year old virgin younger bro and even a close pal still a virgin at 39 so this virginity thingy na wah.

Less i forget,these guys have made it known that they will also prefer virgin ladies so if you are ready for a serious affair n you are a virgin lady,tou can send me a mail so dat i can hook you guys up for real.

Toks2008: Let the ladies continue to bleach while we niggas continue to rock.

I am black and proud. Duduyemi for life.

Even my older sis is black n proud

Let the ladies continue to bleach while we niggas continue to rock.

I am black and proud. Duduyemi for life.

Many of us continue to fool ourselves with these dating and courtship facade while all we want is a sex mate.

A happy marriage is not hinged on courtship, If i see a chic i want today i will know if she is the type i can settle down with hence no need for baseless long courting.

My opinion.
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Doro trash

axortedbabe: Congwats..
Bt why dem dey giv dia women belle b4 dem go pay..

Just to be certain that...