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RomanceRe: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Toks2008(m): 11:43am On Dec 27, 2013
flying dutchman: In that case, you're no better than the lady. "Him who is without sin should cast the first stone"...Jesus was right

RomanceRe: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Toks2008(m): 11:14am On Dec 27, 2013
chux4liv: Toks2008 has said it all, ladies if u want to date, date guys that're not in ur age bracket.. Date guys that are 7/8 yrs older than u becos all they are planing is how to settle. I'm not a kid and I had my first GF at age of 28. Mind u I cater for my siblings who are in University/ Poly, so taking care of children aint my problem. Ladies these days are always opting for abortion as alternative, why not keep the baby, I'm sure when the father come back to his senses he will come for his baby and apologise big time.
in most cases if not all, they usually come back to marry the lady, or ask for the child with so so much apologies.
RomanceRe: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Toks2008(m): 10:42am On Dec 27, 2013
This is an advice for ladies.

This does not apply in all cases but it does to a great extent.

If you must date a man, try to avoid close age gap. At least let there be a minimum gap of 7/8 years. WHY?

If a 19 year old lady starts an affair with a guy of 21, you are most like;ly to face same situation as the op because this guy is definitely a baby and getting pregnant for him will be a huge mistake,

This guy in question is probably still in school and not even sure of what he wants in a lady and even from life so you are likely to have aborted several pregnancies by the time you guys spend like 5 years together. And at the end he is most likely to dump you for a younger lady when he is ready for marriage.

A 21 year old lady dating a 28year old guy makes sense in most cases because that guy is probably thinking of settling down and would have a more serious approach to life. by the time yu spend just 3 years with him you are most certain to be his for keeps..

Avoid kindergarten affair and date a man with at least 7.8 years gap. My opinion though.

This applies to ladies in their early/mid twenties as well as late teens.
RomanceRe: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Toks2008(m): 9:39am On Dec 27, 2013
Stegomiah: So you married her becos of guilt, moreover because you are afraid she'll hurt you.

Ivf is a good idea, likewise surrogate mothers.

May God answer your prayers and bless her womb to make it fruitful; 12 years! I really feel for you.
LWKMD! Chai! you are a comedian o. See conclusion. No be only guilt. I married her because i loved and still love her. I don't go about touching what i can't eat. Any lady i open my mouth to tell i love then it must be true.

Let me blow your mind. Ever since i met her 12 years back, i have been bleeping only her because she has everything i want in a woman. And i married her because i want her not because of any guilt.
RomanceRe: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Toks2008(m): 9:37am On Dec 27, 2013
[quote author=Stegomiah]So you married her becos of guilt, moreover because you are afraid she'll hurt you.

Ivf is a good idea, likewise surrogate mothers.

May God answer your prayers and bless her womb to make it fruitful; 12 years! I really feel for you. [/quote

LWKMD! Chai! you are a comedian o. See conclusion. No be only guilt. I married her because i loved and still love her. I don't go about touching what i can't eat. Any lady i open my mouth to tell i love then it must be true.

Let me blow your mind. Ever since i met her 12 years back, i have been bleeping only her because she has everything i want in a woman. And i married her because i want her not because of any guilt.
RomanceRe: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Toks2008(m): 8:56am On Dec 27, 2013
Blackgold09: Not all relationships dat ends into marriage so if u kill him police will kill u 2, or if u kill him and kill urself u will go 2 hell fire. Just embrassed Jesus Chirst and let him be d judge
Nice advice.
RomanceRe: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Toks2008(m): 8:53am On Dec 27, 2013
Stegomiah: I dont support your view either, yes we are the weaker vessels, but even the men have their own weakness, no matter how strong you are there is still a weak link, the good thing is that you can turn your weakness to your strong point, based on your assessment then we wont have virgin ladies or more still high number of cases like that of the OP.

Secondly, you have also been guilty in the past, glad you married the lady, but both of ya are reaping the reward of the murder you committed.
That apart, dont know how her abortion went, did she use pills? Or was an object inserted into her? If it is the latter, mayb the doctor or whoever did it is not experienced damaging her womb such that implantation wont occur hence no pregancy, she may be ovulating well, have no hormonal imbalance... If thats the case her chances of being preggo is low, except via a miracle, if you desperately need a child, i'll sugest surrogacy, if you have the money
I quite agree that we are been punished for the deeds but its a good thing we are in it together and that's my point. Believe it or not, this guy will suffer for his deeds and worse still, may affect the innocent new girl he will be marrying and the lady will also probably suffer the consequence with another man thereby having a multiplier effect.

I am still very optimistic that in due course,we will have our child in the natural way or through IVF if needs be. But im glad we are in this together and that is the point im making.

Its easy to preach and tell the girl not to act silly but remember that hell has no fury like a woman scorned. Imagine me marrying another lady we now have children and my ex has none with her hubby because of an abortion i was part of. Lets face it, it will take the grace of GOD for her to desist from harming me if she has the chance. Ladies kill guys because of heart break how much more after series of abortions.
RomanceRe: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Toks2008(m):
flying dutchman: I CAN MARRY A LADY WITH 4 ABORTIONS. IT IS ONLY EVIL MEN WHO CAPITALIZE ON A LADY'S SITUATION. WHAT I MEAN IS THAT, THERE COULD HAVE BEEN A MILLION AND ONE THINGS RUNNING THROUGH HER MIND AT THE TIME. WHEN YOU LOVE, YOU LOVE THE HEART INTOTO. A WOMAN'S LOVE AT TIMES, CAN MAKE HER DO STUPID THINGS FOR US. IT IS PEOPLE LIKE YOU WHO PUT WOMEN IN THE FAMILY WAY, AND SHY AWAY FROM YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES
My guy na fight?

Why you dey attack me? The only lady who ever aborted once for me is presently my wife so give me a break abeg. I also understand that guys who have been responsible for several abortions will not mind marrying a lady who have had a million abortions so i quite understand you.
Nevertheless lets be sincere guys, will anyone of us go ahead and woo a lady that we know have had 3 abortions?

it is a known fact that we end up marrying ladies with different abortion numbers but what we dont know dont hurt.
RomanceRe: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Toks2008(m): 7:38am On Dec 27, 2013
Rejoice5000: Pele, u beta leave d guy alone cos u are a killer the whole blame was on u.as am writting am a single mum ad the father of my baby is married who did i kill?? Ad am getting married this dec,so forget d past ad move 4ward.cos u are to blame ad nt the guy.wen i had my baby i blame myself ad not d guy cos am the 1 that open my leg for him not on gun point.but that teach me a lesson,i hav neva took in again after that incident am being more careful.so move on wit ur life.
I dont support this view.

Yes i agree ladies are to be blamed for any consequence of their sexual decisions but as we know, women are weaker vessels. Its not their fault, its just their make up.

I also met my wife when she was 19. I dis-flowered her and she got pregnant for me and for one reason or the other, the pregnancy was aborted.

We eventually got married but do you know that after that abortion, she is yet to conceive and this is 12 years after. Medical checkups have been done and she is said to be ok but i also refused to try any other lady out because i cant imagine myself in her shoes and that same man who got me pregnant and somehow supported the abortion now decides to get another woman pregnant.

Some men are just too callous. What do you expect a lady in love to do? open her legs of-course considering the present situation where sex before marriage has become a norm. That guy is callous.
RomanceRe: Letter To A Nairalander I Have A Huge Crush On by Toks2008(m): 7:30am On Dec 27, 2013
maureen5: I just want to get this out. It's about time I do. I like you. Like. A lot. I know we are just friends, but. I do. I can't help it. But I want you to do me a favor. Think. Just, think. Think about what it would be like to give me a chance. Think about what it would be like to be with me. Just for a moment, and if the idea is terrible to you, well, I hope it's not.

I've tried flirting, to maybe hint at you. But I don't think it has worked. But then sometimes I think you maybe flirt back, but it's hard to tell. I know you're a people person. You are a really nice guy. You can't help it. But sometimes you come off as a bit of a really serious minded. And it breaks my heart, because i think you don't even notice you like me.

We met on nairaland, you helped me when i had some issues with my phone. you are quite a tech guru, intelligent and smart. ever since then you always help me out whenever i have questions. i have a huge crush on you.

DANG I SAID IT.embarassed embarassed . i just hope you read this and don't hate me deejay_harry1.
To think that one guy who is truly in love with this lady will be trying all he can to have her yet she is busy crushing on another guy.

I have told ladies,we men can afford to be with any lady whether she has feelings for us or not since we are the captain of the ship but if a lady ends up with a man she loves so much but the guy has no feelings for her, she is in a deep poo.

The bottom line isn that as a woman, pray to be with a man that loves you and have strong feelings for you rather than you loving him and not loved in return, My 50cents though
RomanceRe: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Toks2008(m): 7:24am On Dec 27, 2013
donedy: I don't think this sermon work for a normal human being. I might consider if the girl only had one abortion, but 2, 3 and then thinking of killing the guy, something must be wrong with her. Is like she has taste for blood.
I am not an advocate of violence but if there is any way she can kill him neatly then i support her. That guy does not deserve to live.
RomanceRe: After 3 Abortions, He Will Marry Another Lady This Month by Toks2008(m): 7:14am On Dec 27, 2013
And one unfortunate man will marry this loser. Not because of the failed affair but i can only imaging marrying a lady that have had three abortions for another man. I wrote before that we guys are in deep poo as regards the choice lady we will eventually settle down with. 1.....2....3 abortions for crying out loud.
CelebritiesRe: Is Tiwa Savage's Beauty Overrated? (photos) by Toks2008(m): 7:54pm On Dec 24, 2013
Sincerely speaken, she is just there. Not that fine at all, infact she is getting old if you look closely at her face.
CelebritiesRe: Is Tiwa Savage's Beauty Overrated? (photos) by Toks2008(m): 7:07pm On Dec 24, 2013
Who is Tiwa salvage?
CelebritiesRe: Is Tiwa Savage's Beauty Overrated? (photos) by Toks2008(m): 7:04pm On Dec 24, 2013
Who is Tiwa sussage?
RomanceRe: Famous People Who Waited Until Marriage To Lose Their Virginity by Toks2008(m): 12:40pm On Dec 24, 2013
[quote author=sweet-tease]I only wish its a guarantee for a good husband *sighs*[/quote]It is not a guarantee for a "good" husband but it is 99% guaranteed that your husband will respect you as a woman and will not joke with you.
RomanceRe: Do Girls Date Married Men Because Its Risky? by Toks2008(m): 12:23pm On Dec 23, 2013
We guys are in deep shit.
RomanceRe: Do Girls Date Married Men Because Its Risky? by Toks2008(m): 12:14pm On Dec 23, 2013
latestsunny: i will like to view ds from d spiritual aspect. Has d lady claimed dt she Is nt benefittin anytin frm d relationshp. She mit b benefitin frm d man spiritually by tappin from d man's glory. U cn neva undarate all ds ladies, most of dem r spiritually superior to man. i believe she knws wat she Is doin. B4 u realise wat Is goin on, d man ll b feelin d impact in his entire life.
Many dont even know that sex is a covenant.

When you make love to someone with any form of evil spirit, you automatically share the number of the spirits.

When you make love to someone with nymphomaniac spirit, you suddenly get it in you and whatever it is that the person has, whether it is good-luck, bad-luck, curses and so on, you share it.

This is why many success stories take a nose dive after illicit affairs takes place.
RomanceRe: Do Girls Date Married Men Because Its Risky? by Toks2008(m): 12:10pm On Dec 23, 2013
Sex is marriage

Ephesians 5:31: As the Scriptures say, "A man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife and the two are united into one"

Many ladies have become ONE with so many men(When sexual inercourse takes place) before ever getting joined together to one(When the marital knot is tied whether you chose the traditional marriage,Church/mosque marriage or legal marriage)

But the Devil has manipulated our sense of reasoning and you see a lady parading herself as unmarried even after been laid by several men and we now spend so much organising wedding ceremonies with ladies who have been thouroughly used and dumped by many men.

Must a lady open her legs for a man simply because they are having an affair?

I believe parents should start telling their daughters from younf age that before they marry any man, virginity test will be carried out on them and if they are found out not to be one, no marriage ceremony of any kind will be conducted for her.

Maybe this will make our daughters keep their legs closed against all odds until their wedding night. hence reduce the arrant Nonsense seen today.
RomanceRe: Do Girls Date Married Men Because Its Risky? by Toks2008(m): 11:47am On Dec 23, 2013
claireshan: Well its not ryt at all to dste married men,u are bringing course upon urself,,reasons cos one day u will defnitely get married nd sumone else will do day to u,nd dnt dnt get jealous abt it cos dats wats u asked for,,,,though sum single guys of dis day dnt take up dis responsibilities as d bf,,bt its gud to be independent cos if u are u wunt give a Bleep abt dat
Nice one. And to add to this, i will advice ladies in my opinion to allow a considerable age gap between them and the guy they go out with.

I recommend a minimum of 8 years gap so that the guy will have lots of time to get established and be ready for marriage.

In Nigeria, the economy situation does not allow a twenty something guy to get his bearing as most guys in this category are either still in school, jobless or not yet established in life hence they still see ladies as second priorities and portray this UN-seriousness towards you.

If you date a guy that is just about 3 years older and when you are 18 he is 21, you are sure to get frustrated later because at 26, he will still likely be struggling to establish and this may get you frustrated. And most times, when this guy will be ready to settle down, he may likely dump you and go for a much younger lady.

But at 18, if you date a guy that is say 25/26, by the time you are 25 i believe that the guys should be fairly or well established and you are moist likely to get married to him.

My 50cents though
RomanceRe: Do Girls Date Married Men Because Its Risky? by Toks2008(m): 11:33am On Dec 23, 2013
Lakeshizu: ......why will u say they are hopeless, this ladies we talk abt arent the one doing the chasing. if a married man cannot discipline himself, ladies shd not be blamed as well.
i want to agree with the fun part of dating a married man.
OH MT GOD! Are you for real?

See friend, men are DOGs by nature even a priest has that Dog instinct in him. A man will sleep with as many free givers as possible.

So the fact that a married man chases a single girl automatically means the girl will say yes i guess. Forget discipline please.

If a married man is disciplined then that is a plus but i believe ladies should learn how to say no. And Nigerian ladies should change their mindset of being with a man because of money. Who says they cant make money too? GOD help our ladies
RomanceRe: Do Girls Date Married Men Because Its Risky? by Toks2008(m): 11:27am On Dec 23, 2013
nolia66: I feel ur frend is just scared of commitment,wit a married man she doesn't have 2 commit herself,neither does he,its just 4 d fun of it n d sex,she doesn't have 2 answer 2 him about who is calling,where she has been n all dat..she just wnts an intimate relationship witout commitment.
And this low life lady will marry one guy tomorrow. CHAI! If only i can do without a woman.
RomanceRe: Do Girls Date Married Men Because Its Risky? by Toks2008(m): 11:18am On Dec 23, 2013
sexybaby22: to me, some girls want maturity, intelligence and experience and most single guys lack all these but the married ones due to age factor mostly have this. and the comfort (cash) too
I think its because they are Hopeless, have low self esteem and are definitely possessed by a demon of lust and madness.

I think its sickening to imagine a lady leaving billions of single men to be with a man who will just use them and if they say its because of money then i understand the leech mentality of many Nigerian ladies.

Believe me friends, women are definitely the first wonder of the world. How i wish i can do without a woman. 99.9999% of ladies are indecent and clueless. I advice guys to just close their eyes and choose one, Teat her like a queen and try to be faithful to her or keep your unfaithfulness a mystery to her but even if you treat like an angel, still expect the worst surprise from her. GOD HELP US.

99% of ladies these days deserve no bride price because bride price is for virgins and not for wayward bitches that have been screwed by countless number of guys and i pity us most times when i see the way we spend so much on wedding ceremony to a thouroughly used and dumped lady.
PoliticsRe: Iyabo Obasanjo's Letter To Her Father by Toks2008(m): 4:03pm On Dec 18, 2013
Do you think The Vanguard news will jettison their operation and not confirm this before publishing? HELL NO

I don't think they have millions off naira to pay as damages.
PoliticsRe: Iyabo Obasanjo's Letter To Her Father by Toks2008(m): 3:24pm On Dec 18, 2013
Since na season of open letters we dey so its time to start writing mine. First to my estranged wife then my family members
*Opens Microsoft word*
PoliticsRe: Iyabo Obasanjo's Letter To Her Father by Toks2008(m): 12:51pm On Dec 18, 2013
Seriously the story as regards the maltreatment her mum and her sibblings including herself got from Obj got into me and i have heard about it before but was not sure its true until now.
PoliticsRe: Iyabo Obasanjo's Letter To Her Father by Toks2008(m): 12:47pm On Dec 18, 2013
softy: In my own opinion, this 'letter' is FAKE and lack 'content premises'.

It is pretentious and lacks 'flow'

This type of letter was an act!

I don't believe that this letter is from IYABO, but from people that knows a little about OBASANJO's family in a very close-knitted manner.

This letter is not valid,consistent and baseless. And it is a result of 'digging up' and cunning excerpts!

- Softy, Ph.D
Well, Iyabo is still alive to let us know its not from her.
PoliticsRe: Iyabo Obasanjo's Letter To Her Father by Toks2008(m): 12:45pm On Dec 18, 2013
*Weeping right now* for real after reading this line;

"This is the end of my communication with you for life. I pray Nigeria survives your continual intervention in its affairs"

Sincerely,

Iyabo Obasanjo, DVM, PhD
Massachusetts,
USA.
RomanceRe: Finest Guy On Nairaland, Upload Pic, Girls Rate. by Toks2008(m): 8:44pm On Dec 17, 2013
[quote author=Nadia_SA1]funny sha[/quote]I mean it.
RomanceRe: Finest Guy On Nairaland, Upload Pic, Girls Rate. by Toks2008(m):
[quote author=Nadia_SA1]but u don old ..

U must marry oo[/quote]Will you marry me?
RomanceRe: Finest Guy On Nairaland, Upload Pic, Girls Rate. by Toks2008(m): 8:13pm On Dec 17, 2013
nolia66: U guys shld post ur bank acct statements n ild tell u hw handsome u are grin
Thats what im talking about. All these picture uploads are ere omode.

If you want a lady to trip for you even if u are as ugly as baba.. just ask her to send you her account number because these words make naija babes very emotional and makes you look so handsome to them.
RomanceRe: Finest Guy On Nairaland, Upload Pic, Girls Rate. by Toks2008(m): 8:08pm On Dec 17, 2013
Monstertrucks: [size=30pt] any body that upload their pic is pathetic [/size] angry angry angry angry
Noted. Thanks.

Next post please.

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