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APC is in a qaugmire and which big stick will they weild the big stick and see saraki move to PDP and that is final

APC have not started but they are done already

michaelobinna:
Please this story isn't about me ,a female shared it and I decided to share here..

I have been married to my hubby for 8 years and we are blessed with 4 boys which I had vaginally. After my last boy, my marriage went from bad to worse, as in, getting my hubby’s attention over the years has been very difficult. To have sex with him is even on ‘appointment’ basis. The rate at which my marriage was going, I knew that if I didn’t do something about it, it would move from worse to worst.

I sought the advice of one of my very close friends and she told me what to do. As funny as this sounds, it was working very well and I don’t want what I am doing to end.

I got a new phone and sim card, then opened new accounts on all the social media, putting all my best body parts as the display/profile picture, especially on facebook, whatsapp and bbm. I then sent a friend request to my husband. The silly man did not waste any time in accepting my requests. At first, he played hard to get but I still relented. Because my identity is not revealed to him, I went back to being the way I used to be with him that made him fall in love with me. I flirted with him badly, and he keeps falling more and more.

NHW, you won’t believe I send pictures of my p&%**y to him every morning and if you see how excited he gets. Can you imagine, he does not recognize ‘it’! The relationship has been going on strong for 6 months. In that 6 months, if you know how much he has sent to me. He has been begging to see my face, but I know that if I try that…the relationship will be over.

Back as his wife, his attention to me has greatly waned but he has been very polite and somewhat ‘nice’. He now locks his phone, as if…

NHW, I would rather have my hubby as a boyfriend than a husband. What do you think?

Should I continue or should I stop?

This is what I call the state of dilemma... Now book an appointment with him then show or at most enjoy the game but you are guilty coa he will turn the table around u

omojie:
1. why are igbo people so propagadish , they wont let the ika people be ? ika has rejected igbo long ago and i dont know why they are just bodering themselves , during the civil war , when igbos claimed ika was part of igbo , the ika people rejected them , and so if the chips are down ,majority of ika people know where they belong to and they know they are not igbo .
2. ika people have two languages that is ika -which is a hybrid of edo and igbo with some yoruba and indigenous words added to it , and ozara which is edoid.
3. ika language is dinstinct from igbo , and benin , its is not standard igbo nor is it standard benin , it is a language with 6 to seven dialects . that is why by next year the college of education in agbor will start a department called ika language department, the new testament has been concluded using ika language and the ika dictionary will soon be out .
4. ika ancestors came from several places including benin, ishan, ora, igbo, ndokwa, oshimili, and other areas .
5. ika people sometimes have both first and surnames being benin names such as -------
a. osabor idunorba
b. ikpanmiose igbedion
c. olaye- owabor
and we also have ika people with igbo names as first name and benin names as surnames such as ---------
a. nduka obaigbena
b. nduka irabor
c. ifeanyi eboigbe and others ,
and we also have ika people with english first names and edo surnames such ---
a. steve iwerebor
b. steve omojafor
c. tony omordia .
so that settles the name issue but i bet you that ika people have majority with edo surnames . so are they now edos or because some of them have igbo names , then they are now igbos ? the truth is that we are ika people , we are neither benin nor igbos .
4. in 1930 , bennis told the british that ika people are benins , but we rejected and told the british that ika is not part of any ethnic group in nigeria . and in 1967 , igbos claimed ika and we still rejected and set it right .so there is no way ika can be igbo ,
5. as for culture , ika culture is predominantly edoic , with little part that is from igbo land ,let me give you a list of some of our culture and then you can tell us whether it is igbo or edo culture?-------------------
a. our kingship is from father to son with edaiken as crown prince and we use the uselu style in crwoning our kings .
b. we have three levels of chiefs ,1. palace chiefs, 2. town chiefs and 3. hereditory chiefs.
c. our villages are divided into ebon, idumu and ogbe.
d. our ancestors believed in oselobue as supreme God and ehi as guardian spirit of man .
e. we believe that olokun is the son of God .
f. if a man dies he goes to orinmin -the heavenly world .
g. we believe there are many gods who asisst oselobue such as idigun-god of iron, ohunmweeden, ovia, aja, mkpitimen-god of thunder, araba-god of peace , ali, ikpai and others .
h. we believe that idinwina spirits assist in maintaining other amongst the women folks and forces of nature .
i. we believed in satan called ojuwu and ighionghai as evil spirit.
j. we beieved that our kings are semi-divine and descendants of olokun .
k. we as ika people believed that igue and ibiewere festival is done every year to signify the end of the year and the obi is greeted --- iselogbe .
l. we also perform the iwagi festival to celebrate new yam .

6. the chieftancy titles in ika mostly go by edo names but we also have few that are along the igbo lines and they are recent titles and they dont carry much significance , while the important titles are from the edo lines .

7. let me say that ika language is a distinct language in that , its a hybrid of both edo and igbo languages and as such it would be very absurd for igbos to claim ika is igbo language , even if it is listed as igboid language , it is still different from igbo , it is an ethnicity and language of its own , just like itsekiri can sometimes be said to be yoruboid , but itsekiiri is a seperate ethnic group and language , isoko, uhrobo are said to be edoid , but they are different tribes from benin and they are also distinct languages .but i wonder why igbos cannot exercise the same maturity yorubas and benins use , while not shouting that this is edo and this is this ?
8. ogen edei oku hun ri ari , oku hun le oselobue ri , oku ahun wu ukpe ihian ile ,ukpe ni bia da shia eri banyeni oselobue ,uwe ile , nu eri ukpe ni , ke wen utormin le ndun itebite. this is an example of the ika spoken in owa , we have many other ika dialect , I WILL LIKE AN IGBO PERSON TO INTERPRETE THIS INTO ENGLISH , LETS SEE HOW MUCH YOU KNOW OF IKA ?
finally ika has never in history been an appendage of any tribe whether igbo or benin , we are just ika ethnic group and we will like to be respected like that .and that is why up till date , there is no prominent ika person in ohaneze ndigbo but ika people belong to ogua/onu ika. we acknowledge the migrations of both edo and igbo and others into ika , but as of today we are ika people

Your correct ..you just mentioned the name of edo migrants the way Santos in Lagos is name of Brazilian migrants

But wait do ika speak benin or igboid dialect

baby124:
Why did Stephanie go and disgrace herself with that much hair. It looks so unnatural that she almost looks like a man in a wig. Pleas, black people hair rarely grow that long. You are too old for all this strange mami water looking weaves. It looks really bad

We are talking recognition your talking hairs .. Such a vane statement

missbehave247:
The Queen of England has honoured a young Nigerian girl.

The young Nigerian girl, Nkechi Azinge, who is sold out to catering for sickle cell patients was among the four Nigerians who were honored by the queen of England.

They were awarded yesterday, June 22, 2015 at the The Queen’s Young Leader Award which held at the Buckingham palace. Azinge who runs a Sickle Cell Foundation also got support for her work from David Beckham and the executive producer of 12 Years a Slave, Steve McQueen.

Just few days ago, ex-beauty queen and Nollywood actress Stephanie Okereke-Linus and her husband, Linus Idahosa were specially invited by the Queen of England to be honoured at the 2015 edition of Queen’s Young Leaders Award. Here are photos of
the actress at the event:


Source: http://www.naij.com/468340-queen-of-england-honours-nigerian-girl-photos.html

Cc:lalasticlala

Igbo again ..why them always

These people again always in the news

Hmmmm

There are things I don't argue and things like this ...it makes others feel important so meaning ignorance is bliss

When they said they are the most sophisticated and educated when stats from east started coming out they shut up

So I do not argue

aresa:
^^^^^^

In case you missed my initial response...

But you initiated it...

AfricanGod2:
When Igbo people where shouting no to Rochas Nigeria looked upon us like we're some tribalistic fools that have a phobia for APC. Well, it so happens Rochas won in Imo and now the state with the highest allocation in the S.E has continued on its path of decline. Imolites can never say we didn't warn them, and Nigerians that are hoping for a person like Rochas to become president should better shine their eyes; it's not about party, it's about the individual.

On a side note, Rochas has the biggest pot belly of all governors in the SS and SE. How can someone who can't manage himself with discipline manage a whole state. Think carefully about how many great world leaders have had a pot belly before you answer.

Lol

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aresa:
The above quotes means I shouldn't be having any conversation with you and your kind since only bigotry and hate shapes your mentality and utterances...

What is bigotry about opposition or what is bigotry about when statistics are churned out and its absolutely different from what is on ground

If you define them as bigotry so be it...to me buhari is not the best man for the job due to age and inability to present simple WAEC and to me its reality and to you is bigotry

Now when you say a region is paved with gold and I say I am on ground what is it..sweeping facts under carpets and present non tribalistic postulation so that all will seem well

My dear truth hurt ..stats hurts sometimes ..we should be realistic so be it

BUHARI AINT THE BEST MAN FOR THE JOB BRO..TAKE IT TO THE BANKS

aresa:
Dispute any of the points I highlighted with your own documented facts or peddle your meaningless and pedestrian rant elsewhere..

I debate facts and not unintelligent assertions.

Oga I am in south west and I am seeing a different thing in those places I mentioned and I am not in any position to argue pls

starlingslimnet:
What is important here is you have to complete your primary education

How

Jenny1010:
A friend of mind send this to me, I told me to post it on nairaland. So it's not me oooo

This might sound strange, but after seeing chichi igbo's pix posted here on nairaland this morning, I was forced to ask myself some questions . Am i tomboy?

I use to think tomboy are girls who have male body structure and posture, like chichi igbo. But recently , I had an argument with a friend of mine who stipulated that any girl who love boyish things is a tomboy whether she has masculine physical stature or not .

Physically, am not like chichi igbo, neither do I look or walk like a boy, but I hate female shoes (heels) , I prefer to wear snickers .

I hate skirt, I don't have any either. I prefer to wear trousers . I feel uncomfortable on skirt or gown.

I hate to plait my hair, I prefer to cut it low. So I can freely apply water on it anytime I want. Last 2yrs I cut my hair, the reaction I got from my mum was pretty bad, I only plait hair now because of her.

Yes, I often apply little makeup, but sometimes I forget to apply it before leaving the house. When someone say to me, "you look beautiful even without makeup", that's when I remember I didn't make up. I feel comfortable with or without makeup.

I love hip-hop music, I have a lot of it at home. I love tupac songs. And I can act pretty much like a boy if I want to (maybe bcus I spent most time with with boys than girls while growing up). Those days in school (I want to girls school), during school drama, i'm often chosen to act like boy bcus I act it so well.

I prefer being in company of guys more than with girls. Guys are more real than girls, and it's much more fun hanging out with guys, it's joke all day. They love to bash girls, and I love to bash them too.

Football is my favourite game when I was younger.. We use to play girls vs boys in school those days, although girls always lose to the game but I still like the game. Even now, I still like it , but no mates to play with, that's why I let it go. But, I still love to play soccer on my PC when am alone.


Now does this make me a tomboy?

I have advice for you ...save up money go to California get a reconstruction surgery and do a transgender operation ...you are a man in woman clothing as Kate Jenner

I know you are a bit broke and you feel that God made a mistake ..you might or are a gay ..a lesbian and you will be enjoying the male role with didloos ..keep it on

Finally you have a psychological problem known as Oedipus complex try Yaba the left side or psychological evaluation

If all these don't work then try gene therapy place your self in oestrogen pills not androgen

If it still doesn't work ..pray to God to save your soul
If it still doesn't work then know its your cross so you carry it



Lord have mercy on your soul

aresa:
Your analysis and the fact that some states in the SW are having budgetary difficulties has no bearing per the OP's conclusion about the SW. The GDP is what it is and it plays no part when it comes to budgets, states don't spend GDP, they spend taxes and allocations in Nigeria at least.

United State's GDP is the largest in the world, but the same US is trillions of dollars in debt and they even finance their yearly budgets with deficits.

So, the fact that the US bares the largest debt in the world and they finance their budgets with deficits doesn't mean the US is not the largest economy in the world.

It's really not too hard to differentiate between apples and oranges..

Now to GDP itself...


1. The SW is Nigeria's industrial hub and nearly all the factories and industries responsible for our industrial and manufacturing output

2. Goods and services and financial services are located in the SW.

3. The SW is the largest entertainment hub in Africa

4. The SW hosts nearly all the corporate and multinational HQ in Nigeria

5. The SW is the Economic trading center for the whole of West Africa

6. 60 per cent of non-oil exports from Nigeria consisted of cocoa and rubber and last time I checked, both are sourced in the SW and cocoa remains the second largest foreign exchange earner.

7. The SW hosts of millions of economic migrants from other states for 1 simple reason which is the economic attraction and availability of opportunities to survive and make it financially and if such opportunities doesn't exist in the SW, Nigerians won't migrate to the SW. It's simple economics and laws of supply and demand.



It's ok to dispute other people's facts and assertions, but you must do it intelligently with credible facts and broad knowledge about your own country's economic realities...

When these paper things are peddled and hawked in name of GDP I laugh ...I am in Lagos and being around most of the south west region but what I don't know is it the ore or okitipupa or ife or oshogbo or ilesan pls if I may ask which of the south west are we talking about ? Is it the one in Nigeria or the one in Luxembourg

SirShymexx:
STFU - no one asked you to talk.

Better go ask ya leaders in Igboland to develop that cesspit and stop sending forced economic migrants to snarl-up the SW. Fix ya region!

Yes sir

But igbo are not claiming the biggest economy ..anambra is doing their thing quietly so is rochas but I think the best form of sophistication lies in other part of simplicity

But I admire your post and I won't curse

SirShymexx:
STFU, I'm Yoruba.

Yoruba leaders are just as useless as other Nigerian leaders, yet you lot are celebrating useless GDP, when these circus clowns cum leaders can't even pay salaries and everyone has to keep donating food to workers. Then you have got thugs ruling a couple of Yoruba states.

Also, where are the infrastructures, institutions, programmes et al to ensure development? Shove the amala GDP where the sun don't shine.

If your trully a Yoruba ...your type is rare. You refused to play ostrich and that to me is noble and manly

SirShymexx:
It seems you want to get e-slapped by the hand of god, no?

Oh GDP - Osun can't pay workers' salary and the whole state still looks like it was when Oyo reigned supreme.

Oh GDP - Ekiti just sent Yoruba youths to go learn trade on how to produce substandard products and traffic drugs to Indonesia and China in Abia and Onitsha.

Oh GDP - Ibadan still looks like how Awolowo left it in the 60s.

Oh GDP - Ondo still looks like development eluded it.

Oh GDP - Lagos is still overcrowded as fvck and nothing works there.

Oh GDP - Ogun is still a shiithole and nothing is going on there.

Keep celebrating utter failure and useless GDP.

Now that is what they call in boxing ....killer punch

OkutaNla:
Where are your own FACTS to dispute the OP's assertion? It's easy to talk shyt and criticize, SHOW US YOUR OWN COUNTER FIGURES TO REFUTE THE OP's ASSERTION, OR FOREVER HOLD YOUR PIECE!

Read the news ..check educational record then check MDG goals

Have a blessed day bro

fulanimafia:
You should learn manners (and punctuation) and stop lying through your teeth. Face your biafran struggle and leave the North out of your propaganda.

If you could read this thread ...nobody talks about north because they are seen as economic and psychological burden. In a nutshell they are never do wells so north will be seen as good riddance to .....whatever

North has been lugard nemesis and karma to Nigeria so dont worry we pray you just believe that .

jaymichael:
This isn't about "communication" and "comprehension" It is about what is "expressed" vs what is "implied" your posts isn't about building bridges and living in unity with each other. You were trying to castigate the other tribe for being the reason for all these divisions while justifying the actions of your kinsmen. Like I said earlier, if you are interested in peaceful coexistence, you start your preaching with your tribesmen. If your people don't like being dictated to, Yorubas have and cherish our laid down laws, norms and values which must be respected and Obeyed by both "onile" and "alejo"
Your people are free minded etc, we cherish and value RESPECT especially for elders.
Your people are hard working, industrious and successful, so are the Yorubas and other ethnic tribes. Lagos was already a thriving port city before the White men came. Igbos are "republicans", Yorubas have a rich monarchial history.
When your brothers are in the ancestral land of other ethnic groups, they should know that their wills and whims which they are wont to super imposed on their hosts, will always be resisted. Rather, it is the laws, statutes and rules laid down by their hosts (as long as it is not in conflict with the constitution of the Federal Republic) that they must obey, respect and abide by.
Yorubas are not the problem of your people. Yorubas have no problems with the Efik ibibio, Ijaws Hausas, kakabari, Edo Isoko, Urhobo, Tiv, Idoma Igbira, kanuri, and other ethnic groups that make up Nigeria, hence they are not the problem of the Igbos, rather, it is your people that need the "ABOSI" sermon of yours.

With all due respect what and how are the igbo super imposing their way to others and if I may ask do you want the igbo to be sitting duck ...who made the lagoon statement , who carried the placards what about the Dr that made a statement

Ask yourself how many igbo kings or elder statemen made such ..yes I am not exonerating igbo nor Yoruba

One thing you should know is that both tribes are educated and have diasporan contacts it is pointless to attack each other ...we can't afford the middle East or northern mentality here down south

We are too civilized for that

jaymichael:
[b]Just carry your perverted gospel to those that need it. So Yorubas are not accommodating? yet you couldn't cite a single case where ethnic related violence were perpetrated against Igbos anywhere in the whole of Yoruba land in the history of Nigeria. Nigerian Oil money was used to build Lagos? which money was used to build Imo, Ph, Abia, Enugu, Anambra, Kano, Cross River, Kogi et al? Zimbabwean money? Lagos ceased being the capital 24 years ago. your write up smirks of hypocrisy and your likes are not fit to preach to Yorubas about being accommodating and peaceful because Yourubas have always being known to be accommodating and peaceful. Both the Igbos and Yorubas do often make disparaging remarks against each other no doubt about that, and it's not a conduct that should be accepted or encouraged but if you have any atom of sincerity to salvage the situation, you should carry your advice and charity home first. because you are not fit or worth to give the Yoruba nation any "ALABOSI" advice. Your brothers need it more. The xenophobic venom being spewed by your "hero" Director Kalu is a million times worse than Oba Akiolu's outburst.[/b]

I think we are having a communication and comprehension issues here..... Communication on my side and comprehension on your side... place where did I say that the Yoruba are not accommodating, this thread is about the ability to live as one irrespective of tribe, but know that we are human and African this pulling him down won't work in Africa


The earlier we know this the better

Stop this, please

But they said igbo love money yet this is a governor doing this
They said igbo are thieves yet a lady returned huge amount of money
They said igbo are greedy yet he cut this by 50%

Too igbotic ..let them lie we live to disprove

scholes0:
Keep on ranting this way.... And watch your kinsmen move farther away from you.
Edos are Yorubas, Ikwerres are Yorubas, Itsekiris are definitely Yorubas, Igboid speaking groups in SS are Yorubas.... Who are the next Yorubas? .... maybe Urhobos.

They said urhobo are Yoruba also..they claim igala they claim nupe they claim ijaw ilaje they said awori are Yoruba

In short everybody seems to be oduduwa (whoever he is) is Yoruba

APC are so pained and their western counterpart so disillusioned

He is going nowhere ..ekweremadu stays

HopeAtHand:
Tonychristopher...i just dey observe.

My brother from another mother my friend in enemy clothing ...lol


I think that the issue of hate and phobia are drawing people back so let us respect that ...


How far ...now what is the latest in rivers ..has amaechi the Judas of ubima been arrested as they say ... What is your take on that

Well we talk about it later

Have a great day my man

Lol .. You don't have to be an observer that is not good for your status be a participant bro

They claim the most educated yet facts and stats from said its a lie
They claim the most sophisticated yet culture and fetish tradition made us know these are lies
They are now claiming the biggest economy yet ekiti and osun are finding it very hard to pay workers and even ekiti wants to send their docile kids to east

OK ..ignorance is bliss...pride comes before failure

Another igbo man again .....these guys are blessed

fulanimafia:
Imagine a tree worshipping bastard that cannot punctuate a sentence correctly talking about illiteracy, when did heebo boys start going to school?

Show me any eastern state that can compare with Kaduna or Kano. See how you're shamelessly begging to squat in Lagos and being blasted to pieces in your migrant buses in Kano yet you dare malign the lands you rush to to survive.

You're so dumb you didn't even realize you started the thread by saying it wasn't a tribal attack, bloody damaged product of an owerri baby factory.

This is not a tribal competitive act Mr. Punctuation... Grow up

johnydon22:
Lmao, he sides them in wars, slays a whole race so they can occupy their land and etc. . even call them his own people, what are others?. .lol . . jesus even referred to a non-jewish woman as a dog. .the gate of heaven has 12gates and 12foundations for each of the tribes of isreal. . 144,000 from isreal will rule with him in heaven, 70% of the bible contains jewish mythological history, remaining 30% still on set with the jews. .
and you say thats not impartiality . . why choose one race over another since you created all. . . i think you need to tell us your own definition of impartiality. . . Lol deal with it, its just a jewish concept of god like we have el to be canaanite concept, chukwu to be igbo concept, zeus greek concept. . am sure if it was zeus that was brought here by the missionaries you would still defend him like this

Your smart I keep wondering this .. I am trying my be objective here ...maybe our great grand fathers were right

Do you know that we in igbo do not believe the concept of hell and heaven

How can somebody tell me that God is loving and forgiving yet He will decide to torture His creation in eternal fury ..just because somebody did what is human maybe lied etc

I do not believe it n that theology


I think I go with igbo concept of God ...it is better not this oyibo

Luukasz:
Yes the people of Benin & Edo are 1000% Yorubas.as for ODUDUWA now i know av been talking with a dunce.Benin is one of the 7 children of ODUDUWA store it in your brain..Ask anybody from Benin or Edo they will tell you it is.I dont have the time to lecture Dullards.

Is that so...nawa ..revisionism has been perfected

Luukasz:
You av the internet at your disposal,google it.Why is Oba of Benin "Oba" & not "King" of Benin

No you are the one that said benin are Yoruba ...pls tell the world how

This is how you lie ....oduduwa was a benin man...