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[quote author=Mrs, Eve link=topic=569257.msg7345886#msg7345886 date=1292485335]Hello People!

How do you "get rid" of an ex without legal repercussions? How can you tell an ex that is not OVER YOU that you are not interested and to be gone?

Do you change address, phone, and email address to be rid of the ex?

What did you do to "get rid" of an ex?
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thought u are married or am i wrong? why do u still have an "ex" hanging around u? it's confusing.[/quote]

dating does not guarantee successful marriage. it takes the grace of God for marriage to work and it also takes the grace of God for one to understand his/her partner cos some people are talented "pretenders" and would not show who they really are until the knots have been tied.

tpia1:
are you!!!

of course i am!!!

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=568572.msg7341381#msg7341381 date=1292427415]
Doofus, Sudan is in Africa [/quote]must have forgotten his geography lessons!!!

190:
[color=deeppink]Carribean's

definately carribean's[/color]

or sudanese or maybe iraqi's so our kids can be Jihadist[b]

then u must be a suicide-bomber!!!

tpia1:
actually, AA males in general do have a reputation for being very romantic.

many african women in relationships with AAs will tell you this.


they take their romances very seriously while the going is good.

speaking on average, and not including wayward ones, same as if we're talking of naija men.

really!!! aint sure abt the AA thing but i know some naija guys are damn romantic!!!

will confirm the AA thing from ma babe cos am AA!!!

nurabela:
How do you ask a girl for a second chance?

promising and ensuring you wont repeat wat made u lose the first chance!!!

Bukittes:
I personally will go for a Black American for the following reasons: 1. Colour disparity is not too much 2. I like them for their bluntness 3. They can be very romantic (@ least better than our Naija brothers) other reasons still dey sha, let me haer our views though

in bold letters, i disagree totally. prolly the kind of guys u've been dealing with. dont u see how briticos run after naija guys? please dont say it again.

personally, i will go for these kind of ladies:
1. Americans (strictly black) 2. carribeans 3. spanish.

real men says it the way it is no matter the circumstances. a lie is nothing buy a lie!!! forget embellishment. personally, i despise liars, cant even stand them.

abt who lie more in the dating game, i dont think that can be quantified cos there aint no instrument to measure. all we have to do is to mind the kind of people we roll with.

conclusively, i cant date a liar, cant even have them as friends.

[quote author=Dr_Cork link=topic=568608.msg7341021#msg7341021 date=1292424775]Bro iice is one of teh MOD's but I call her: iice iice baby (Vanilla ice), but still, she on my case everyday.

Pls help me beg her & I will buy u a beer! [/quote]i know who she is.

u wont have to buy me a beer cos i dont take alcohol. all u need do is to fulfill wateva promise u made to her cos i saw some of her posts and i think she takes promises seriously. aiight?

@iice, want to blv u are reading all these, once again i plead on his behalf, give him a break.

[quote author=Dr_Cork link=topic=568608.msg7340895#msg7340895 date=1292423667]Can someboby pls beg iice icce baby (MOD) to pls give me a break. The chick's been aon my case for the past 2 yrs.

iice. Can u pls give mio a break? Pls. I will buy u a beer, 4real [/quote]on ur case for 2 years? u dont mean it!!! prolly u've been making promises and not fulfiling them. op u meant it this time around that u will buy her a beer,

@iice, will u pls temper justice with mercy and give the poor guy a break?

[quote author=kay-money link=topic=568608.msg7339285#msg7339285 date=1292410169]@ OP It happens almost every time~~especially when you are abroad and trying to hook a non Nigerian** I just imagine for how long these ladies would refuse my proposal after telling them am a Nigeria~~ Immediately you tell them that you are a Nigerian they start to act funny and wear a new look** Sometime ago I met another lady and I tried to fake my nationality you wouldnt believe I won the ladies heart hands down and we rolled together like love birds*** I[b] dont know what is wrong in being a nigerian really[/b] [/quote]there's nothing wrong with being a nigerian. just that some people out there feel nigerians are untrustworthy fellows and u cannot blame cos some people potray us like that. we all have a lot to do if we are to correct that notion and denying we are nigerians will not help the situation but rather will prove them right that nigerians are bunch of liars and rogues!!!

ROSSIKE:
kay money said:

My brotha, honestly, like u said, I think it's best to just tell them you're from another place, then after you've finished what you wanted, then you release the truth to her.

that's a wrong way to go bro!!!!

ROSSIKE:
lol. The funny thing is the babe even looks like 9ja girl.

wat's wrong with that? or prolly u are obsessed wit jamo gals!!!

ROSSIKE:
ZIM DRILL said:

Some of you people just come on the internet and open your mouth gboa gboa without knowing anything. You've never met me in your life yet you just know I am ''a small fish''. Oloshi buruku.

that's quite harsh!!! u should take it easy.

PRINCE4CHRIST:
Am a guy of 20 and handsome in need of a girl 18 to 20 for serious relationship
email me: humphrey.christ@yahoo.com

guess this is ur own way of proclaiming the gospel as ur name denotes. na wa ooooo. are there no "serious" girls in the church u attend? why not give them a chance?

"prince4christ indeed!!!"

rokiatu:
Are you always this childish? I hope not. You shouldn't hide your nationality not for any reason. You did the right thing, you should be happy she left.
She's probably not worth it.

You can't tell me that she's the most beautiful girl in the world, or she's the most dynamic personality you've come across move on my friend, and look for a woman who will accept you for who you are and where you are from.

well said. @op, like the person speaking. why jamo girls? wateva happened to naija babes. some guys sha!!! hope she neva giv u ganja?

ROSSIKE:
I've never been discharged so quickly by a woman.  Just as the thing was shifting into higher gear, I now went and opened my blabber mouth to say I'm from Naija.  Next time I go form say I from SA or even Ghana, instead of carrying Naija people's trouble on my head!  

that's being childish and and irrational traitor!!! how can u deny the country of ur birth cos of a lady? real men dont do that. moreover, wat gives u the impression the lady "dumped" u cos u mentioned u are from nigeria? did u ever think that being busy or out of town could be the cause the break in communication? so many things could av caused it. so u need to look farther than ur nose bro!!

annawhite:
tot u were different from dem guys but right now reading this makes me tink u r just anoda not-so-smart person let loose on NL.
true talk! u got a blabber for a mouth,
sleaze bag

i think i agree with u.

holydante:
Nne, biko we are Igbo guys not igbu (no offeince   )

Your fears are basically out of line, you have agreed to marry him, you have taken in for him and now you went ahead to do a background check, it seems you have put the cart before the horse, assuming he had a not-so-good-past that he has let go and you dig it up nko?

NL here can tell you what your man has in mind, folks here are not psychic detectives, marital decision is always a risk and you simply have to be positive minded and believe in the best for yourself and your handsome Igbo man.

As an aside, I just wonder why ladies abroad always end up shouldering their man's responsibilities while the reverse is the case down here, haba when will i run into such hunie pies  


meanwhile dalu rinne for the above assertion, am beaming with smiles, .

You will surely deliver twins, happy married life with my umunna broda in disapora, iseee

well said!!!

@poster, it's baffling and shocking that u r just seeking for advice on someone u hav been dating for over six months, got u pregnant and proposed marriage. i want to blv u must hav trusted him to some extent before allowing the relationship to get to this level. why the sudden suspicions? is he acting strange lately? or is he no longer loving and trusting like he used to be? why are u doubting his love and why do u think he's into u just to get his papers?. i want u to know that not all nigerians (mostly guys) are dubious, cheats and untrustworthy, we still av some good ones and ur guys could simply be one of them.

Moreover, if he is not for real, i dont think any of us here have the power to know that. only u can know it. i will advise u calm down and give this guy a chance since u claimed u love him. things might really work out the way u want it.

all the best

evil666:
guy no be toast i wan toast this girl b4 oo, but she don turn am to a love affair,well i ready play the game with her,i know say she go like my style

dont be too confident cos u aint sure of wat u are getting yet. she could be more than a match u know.

anyway all da best.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=526601.msg6900583#msg6900583 date=1286534250]
Yes o, gotta encourage the small koko brothas . I understand what you're saying with evil666 but if he actually liked me which I doubt, he wouldn't have said to me "ok, f@ck-off, u still dey form, why are u now replying, i even tink u be better person sef, evil!". That's no way to speak to someone you like . After all, this all started when he noticed that I mentioned something about my "lady parts". I understand that he's a guy and all but if if he liked me then my body shouldn't be his main focus. I know I am very open about things and often times I can be a bit stubborn and abrasive but I still feel that he was in the wrong. Anyway tosyne007, I appreciate you pointing those things out to me. Thank you .[/quote]u are welcome.

evil666:
Inked_Nerd

now baby, i am back, forget your pride, can we strike a deal?

i hope u av learnt your lesson and u now know how to talk to a lady? be cool bro.

ZIM DRILL:
yes they do especially when they think they have found someone better than you

remember by nature we (men) it is in our genes to absorb rejection and women dont have the genes to absort rejection they go mental some how

same applies to guys too (not all guys)

kITA TITA:
Guys should be careful when putting ladies on reserve. You could end up paying PENSION. Pension is when an ex has need for cash and decides to ask an old flame who may not say no because the separation was mutual.

i guess ur own definition of PENSION is kinda different from the one i know  

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=526601.msg6900463#msg6900463 date=1286533345]
lol, well it is true about the size thing. Size no matta o. So to all the small koko men out there, keep your head up [hehehe no pun intended]. As for the guy, you really thought I was harsh on him? I'm sorry but I wasn't raised to sit back while someone makes verbal assaults on me. lol, how was it violent? The guy got what he deserved. [/quote]quite an encouragement fot the "small koko men". on the other guy, guess with ur kind of personality, u should know how to handle such unwanted attention cos replying the way u did will only put u on a bad spot.

btw, the guy kinda likes u, he wouldnt be asking 4 ur pic if he doesnt and wit ur responses, that aint a good way to treat an admirer.

kITA TITA:
Guys don't dump ladies, they simply two time till the lady drifts.

quite true but do ladies dump?

ZIM DRILL:
you can say that again if you dump you wont hit the p$$$y again

better let her drift and when you are on drought then give her a holla hit it again if you can sweet take her

not in all cases. there are some u won't want to go back to. better watch it.

evil666:
@rosely

is this u?

looks could be deceiving (mr virgin searcher). moreover, it could be her sis or someone else.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=526601.msg6899373#msg6899373 date=1286523842]lmfao, remember its not about size. its how you use it. what's the point in getting it bigger if you still don't know how to use it? [/quote]u are always sounding as if u've got vast experience on this matter. is that so?

by the way, u sounded too harsh on the guy. though the guy is a j.e.r.k but i never blvd u could be this violent. quite suprising.

googles:
Simples !!!

I ignore dem and if they refused to be ignored I give them serious attitude

could u be more elaborate?

slap1:
Most guys and babes often find themselves in this situation; getting attention from people we have little or no affection for. It can be fun, it can also be annoying. I was previously passive about having many female friends till word went round that I was banging them, which isn't true. I resolved to be on my own but it's proving impossible. How do I make them lose interest?

by not showing interest in them i think.

Omolola1:
That's a lie o, its a very big lie. I dnt av a bf on NL~

is this true? are u saying u and 190 never dated? that it's all a charade?

that's serious ooooooooo

Omolola1:
@tkb, i loff dobodobo too

are u serious?

jay bee:
U don kolo pata pata

seconded.

are u sure omolola and 190 are playing pranks on us all? seems like a conspiracy to me.

are u seriuos? u r annoyingly unbelievable!!! u've got a lot of issues to answer with omolola and creamish almost at eachother throat over name-clearing and here u are starting another thread abt a girl u just met.

or am i missing somtin? is creamish the babe u are talking abt?

u've got a lotta issues bro.

i know how u are feeling but confronting her could be a wrong move cos things might blow out of proportion and end badly. since ur guy deemed it fit to tell (though a bit late), just trust him and blv nothing happened and like u said if something actually happened, there's no d.a.m.n thing u can do abt it. let bygones be bygones and be extremely careful such a thing doesn not repeat itself and the only way u can do that is to reduce the number of times u visit them and allow them do the visiting.

bamboke:
@ Tosinville, I would rather you take back your words.

If you are chauvinistic, then hold your tongue. I don't chase rich guys around. We both are hard working, so don't think because you have gals around for your money, that means everyone does it.

Being single isn't been ground and please widen your mentality. Bush man!

u need to take things easy woman!!! u are here to seek for advice and u shouldn't be abusive. some people will say things that will annoy u and some will give u candid advice, all u need do is to pick the ones u like and ignore the rest. we understand how u feel and we are only trying to help but if u continue this way, u are gonna drive people away from ur thread.

justwise:
. . . and you think that your English is great, right?

i wonder oooooooo. can't allow him to teach my nieces and nephews english language.

justwise:
If you really love that guy and he does love you as well then go ahead and marry, even your dady disapproved. I can't stand parents who can not see beyond tribal lines.

that wont be good. who will give her out in marriage to the man? definatley not u. she needs her parents consent to marry this man whether she likes it or not.

@poster, since u r sure ur dad is okay with the idea, u can use him to persuade ur mum to change her decision/opinion. both of u ca work it out and make her understand that love is all that matters and it does not matter wateva tribe u are marrying from. I'm sure she will come around and allow u follow ur hrt.

all the best.

Vindy:
They only insult you when you look like somebody that's not having it, if you look made with a good and expensive ride, men speaking from experience no Nigerian girl will do that even if she is not interested.

i disagree with this notion. are u saying ladies (nigerian) hav different characters like sheep-skins and can put on whichever they like based on the kind of guy they are dealing with? i don't think so. some ladies are just d.a.m.n snubs and unnecessarily proud attimes

Moreover, dating a well-to-do guy does not guarantee happiness as most of them think cos some guys are just out to hav fun as long as it last. but our ladies fail to see this and give the serious ones a cold-shoulder which they live to regret on the long run.

i will agree that some guys can be over-ambitous and keeps pestering the sisters but that does not give the sisters the right to insult them.

bottomline is ladies pray that they should be approached and they can only be approached by guys not ANIMALS. so why the insult, ?