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Wisdom is the ability to make sound judgments and choices based on experience. It’s a virtue according to every great philosophical and religious tradition.. Wisdom is measured by steps towards practical issues, education,experience and attitude

I am in no way trying to cause conflicts or discriminate any gender but I think these kinds of discussion and arguments are good ways for all of us to relieve those tensions and those pent up emotions that we all feel when
we find ourselves at odds with the opposite sex at home, at work, and out-doing what ever it is we are doing nearly everyday.

I grew up wit the mentality that it is of no doubt that men are wiser than women due to occurrence, circumstance, or fact that is perceptible by their
senses and actions. Most ladies might pick offence and flare up in anger by this illustration.

I recently had an argument with my friends which nearly resulted in a physical combat so I decided to throw the question to Nairalanders.. The below points further buttressed my impression towards men with little or no sentiment in it

Firstly, have you ever wondered why Jesus Christ and Solomon who are the symbol of wisdom are made in the likeness of man and not in that of a woman.

Looking at it from the creation, have you ever wondered why men are the pilot and driver of the earth after God?

Considering d fact that we are in men's world and that women are the weaker sex. The word 'MAN' symbolizes leadership, wisdom, strength. Courage and so on and so forth..

The fact that men are mostly decision makers either in the country as a whole or in the family should have given us the insight that an atom is wisdom should be involved by default

In recent time, have you ever wondered why men who behave or take decisions just like ladies ar regarded as immature ? Oooooh immature? Yes !!; while on the contrary, we all know what it means when a lady is regarded as a man by her action or bonafide decisions

I could vividly remember a time I acted in an awkward manner, could you believe a lady herself told me 'why you dey do like woman, you are a man for crying out loud'

A lady once told me she wouldn't oblige with the illustration that men are wiser.. She tried to convince me that men are not wiser than ladies, they are just being cunning in their acts.. Don't you think it takes wisdom to be cunning if that's the impression she has towards men ?

Lastly, more often than not, ladies go to an expense of reading books that has to do with males just to measure up and increase their right sense of reasoning in dealing with wen.. Also, the rate at which ladies are being afraid, careful and tactful in dealing with men is another thing to consider

Though wisdom has nothing to do with gender but at least the aforementioned points should have given us the insight that men are wiser


So my dear Nairalanders, do you agree that men are the wiser gender? give a point(s) to make a stance

topelouis: About a year ago, I went to this Church for the first time. The Sunday school was about the Gifts of the Spirit. The Church was a youth Church,,,with all dem girls with micromini's claiming to be filled with the Spirit. The teacher eventually called me (imagine first timer oh) and asked how many gifts of the Spirit I had, me sef no wan lie, so I said NONE,,,,,,,,,,,,,it was as if I was a leper or smt, the guy gave me one disgusted look and used me to preach till the End of the Sunday school,,,,,that was my last day in the Church of course, I didn't go to any pentecostal church for the next 5months.


P.S @OP ur thread is in the wrong section

Bro am posting for d first time... Can it be moved to the appropriate session?

topelouis: About a year ago, I went to this Church for the first time. The Sunday school was about the Gifts of the Spirit. The Church was a youth Church,,,with all dem girls with micromini's claiming to be filled with the Spirit. The teacher eventually called me (imagine first timer oh) and asked how many gifts of the Spirit I had, me sef no wan lie, so I said NONE,,,,,,,,,,,,,it was as if I was a leper or smt, the guy gave me one disgusted look and used me to preach till the End of the Sunday school,,,,,that was my last day in the Church of course, I didn't go to any pentecostal church for the next 5months.


P.S @OP ur thread is in the wrong section

hahahahahahaha... Lwkmd.. Dat awkward moment wen a pastor use you as case study...So embarrassiing

It happened about a year ago.. I was in church for sunday sch and the topic for sunday sch that day was mouth-sealing ( The Virtue of Virginity ). As lively as my church was, dat day ehn,d church seemed to be so quiet and nobody was willing to contribute as one could tell dey were overwhelmed by guilt by their facial expression ( una knw say dat kind topic dey fall guys hand).. To make matters worse, my pastor ordered the sunday school teacher to start calling names so as to contribute..yeeeepaaaaa !!! #fast forward to few minutes later# I was told to rise to my feet and give my own contribution.. I reluctantly rose to my feet and didn't know what to say though I managed to say something but as at dat instance I became a stammerer wit so many ladies lookin towards my direction.. Chaiiiiii, it was as if d ground shuld open and swallow me up

So let's hear from Nairalanders

Andyblaze: Go to a section, like this is romance section. Before u start seeing topics created by others, you'll see 'Create New thread' follow' etc it is beside the numbers (1,2,3,4,5, etc....) Click on Create New thread..

may God bless you broda.... I got it.... Its so awkward seeing threads here and there without being able to create one... Thanks once again

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Nielbaba: After reading almost all d 30 somtin pages of lafta. I decided to drop mine , jan 6 ,2012, der was no lite in our street for like 2days ,n im bored alone at ome (we stay around akoka) so i went to visit my bro in his hostel,unilag.imediatley i put on my fone. I saw a friend request on 2go, i accepted,saw dis angelic pic i was so earger to chat her. I asked where she skool, she said she just gained admission into my skool den,AAUA den i was in final year, so i just winder how she take get my number, we started chatting day in day out, calls, text messages, etc, as per say me be final year student, i gave her d catch dem young............. you know ;Di asked her out later, she agree, she even introduce me to her cousin (ghost i! Think) cos everytin about dat 1 never exist. But she eill call me 100 times a day to take care of her little cousin oo. February 15 we agree to meet, she. Said i sukd com n pik her up at iyana ipaja,hmmm i i imagine d distance n d t fair of both of us, from der bak to akoka and she goin bak again,i scoped her n told her how she will come alone she said she's never been to my arear before, so i have no option than to go pik her, her ghost cousin akso calld me that i should com pik her sis o make she no lost (dem b dey for dis kin rich pikin) she tokd me den dat her dad in uk and her mum in abuja dat shes alone with her bro in der ous, (all na wash) cos all d time wey her dad call her wey i see, na naija mtn number .bak to d story,i left for iyana ipaja, h said shes in d traffic dat i sukd chill small, n me no get much for hand, i for enta one bar sip somtin, na so i start to dey waka up n down for iyana oo tik she called and asked me to com down to one filling station,(i don forget d name sha. Close to one brt bus stoop) she say she dey d entrance, i was at d oda entrance, she said shes on d oda side, see ghen ghen moment i saw a fat. XXL size lady like she droping a call, she no see me sha, i wan run before,i just make up my mind say notin dey happen(just imagening my skinny size can be removed from hers 4 good time ) she was buyin sandal. So she was bending down, i touched her from behind, she looked up and smile . see beard. For her face, na den i know say i don enta am, are u daniel, i said yes,i no fit say anytin again, she paid for what she bought, we left for park, droped at yaba, enta campus shuttle droped at gate, treckin from unilag gat to pako bus stop, i let her walk a bit faster dan me. Make pple no tink sy we dey waka togeda, i com dey form long fone call whill pointin to her to just go strait, we got to pako,we enta keke to community road, got ome only me n her, all i can offer her was cold water, cos i don dey boul inside sef she sef no even ask for anytin, d story lng sha, cos she no wan go again,i sha scope her., she left, we still talk sha, dat mont end she left for sckoll as a fressher, me got to skool march ending n till i graduated i aelays dodge her, she always adk of my ous i told her im living wit friends. Ps i close eye bleep her dat day ooo, but she dey form holy virg** wen we be dey talk on fone

so u stil manage bleep her abi ? Lwkmd

Emessy: Go out immeiately after sunrise in an open place , Get naked and swear for him on your body that nigga will never find peace

hahahahahahahahahahahahaha... My belle ooooo

Kelvin if u no quick finish dis ur story, na me go high-jack am ooo

Its funny some ladies ar being motived by perishable parameters towards selectin a man of their dream... Wen u expects too much of a man, u myt end up not gettin ur desired man... Ahn ahn, u want jst ordinary one man to possess d qualities of 20 men... He must be tall, slim, handsome, dark, funny, six-packs, pointed nose, gud job, brilliant, eloquent... E.t.c.. I no fit laff

Y not.... It depends on d quality of friends u keep.... If u can't allow ur best friend date ur sister, den check urself, its either u ar both living a wayward life or ur lifestyle is not worth emulation.. Show me ur friend and I'll tell u who you are

dmcdad: Like I stated earlier on, people look for cheap and sometimes useless excuses to justify their misdemeanours. If a vast majority of men blame it on nature, how about those of us that don't cheat? What do we call ourselves? That we are not men?

Na wa ooooo. I sometimes find it very difficult to comprehend some people's logic.

wisely said... Now i get u

ijekul: U know we've focussed so much on relationships...I can condone cheating in relationships to an extent but cheating in marriage is very bad.y marry someone u can't stick to?its for better for worse and every issue can always be sorted out

ooooh yeah bro

ijekul: Are u serious?cheating comes by nature?I choose to disagree.tnx

me sef no agree ooooo... If a married man runs after a single lady as a prey for sex, does dat come by nature ?

kapiljanet: it is physical and natural, no one intend to do, it comes by nature, applicable for both men and women.

. It comes by nature ke ? Could u pls elucidate ?

wofaiwillis: People like you never learn...

You seem so consumed with the idea of working as an hyped slave...

The young man was simply trying to point out the need to focus more on self-development than putting all hopes in your certificate...

Even my gateman could read and grasp the message of his post. Yet the highly-acclaimed BSC holder of an OP can't seem to decipher this...

#Mediocre

God bless you my broda

dmcdad: The list is endless. I think it would be redundant to start listing them because the reasons why people cheat remains uncountable, as it varies from one individual, entity, geographical location, tribe, environment, etcetera to another.

gbaaaaaam !!! Wisely said broda

Magicdon: [quote autho
wetin be dis? You dont date young boys living with their parents but you date married men living with their wives.

hahahahahahaha... Guy u too funny abeg... I don laff so tay water dey comot 4my eyes

If am to arrange the reasons why ppl cheat by hierarchy, I guess d first on d list shld be Covetousness , den evry oda tin can be added unto it

slyk2: Thats a big deal for we younger Nigerians.
You and i are aware that entrepreneurial courses are not taught in our school.
When they are taught it is by a textbook professor.

We can make it up via aprenticeship backed by independent practice.
Government - don't bank on them. I call them vultures - once you start a business, they will come for fees.

oooooh wisely said bro.... Our institutions will only teach u and it is ur duty to go farther and develop urslf and show to d world wat u ar capable of doing

Against all odds, I av neva hit a lady b4 cos am not temperamental and am slow to anger... I dnt pray for such but I think I can if my tolerance has been stretched to d end point.. If a lady's action could warrant me to hit her, den am pretty sure an average temperamental dude wld kill her

roman001: i love 2b as solid as a rock while she is as fragile as an egg.one man's banana is another man's plantain chip.

u aint getting me right.. Am pretty sure u wrongly misinterpreted me.

Savigne: I hate it when guys can't accept "No" as "No". I hate it when I give guys my pin and the first message they send is "Hey sweets"..."Sup honey"..... I hate it when cute guys start feeling funky liek they are God's gift to Women folk....Puhleaz

hahahahahahaha... This is funny.. Laff wan tear my belle

I hate it wen ladies feel dey ar to b handled lik an egg and believe men are to be handled lik a bag Dangote Cement.... I hate it wen ladies can't do without Brazilian hair wen their CGP falls bellow 1.0.... On which head dem dey put d Brazilian hair sef ?

I hate wen ladies join d choir after their wayward life and start goin to church more often jst because dey want to get married.. I hate wen u take ladies out and dey begin to feed as is if there's famine in d land.... I hate wen I post msgs to ladies and dey reply as if dey ar being charged per letter.. E.g, yap u? Kul u ?, xup ?, k u? 5n u? E.t.c

slyk2: This is exactly where i am pointing at since.
The government made it so.
So, for him/her whose plan is to seek employment on graduation, kindly opt for the certification that gives you an edge.

u ar making sense buh r u implying dat Bsc increase ur chances of winning d race of life? I guess wat we shld be more concerned abt is, if u can't eventually get a job after obtaining HND or Bsc, wat wil u be doin wit ur life aside ur certificate?

debicy: Good evening my fellow nairalanders. Happy Ramadan Kareem.
I need an advise from you. Am a graduate and I have been searching for job for over a year now. Not that I have not seen but you know naija situation. Marketing, marketing, marketing. The worst part of it is that, you wont be paid until you give them what they want. And one can not continue this way, so I thought of some thing to learn pending when good job will show up and Aluminium work came to my mind.
I've started it last month but it has not been easy for me. My hands now have different cuts from glass, screw drivers, aluminium etc.
But my question is this, haven't I made a wrong decision?
Your response is vital.

Ride on jawe my bro.... I evn want to go into Shoe-making and fashion designing