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sosa993:
temporary or not I won't.

Saintmary:
circa 2014. Threads and counter threads. Your posts have grown cynical though.

sosa993:
on a norms I can, if he's infertile. But the typical Nigerian man cannot stay with his woman through hard times, so why should I do that for a man. The man who would make me marry him even when he's sterile must be really worth it o.

UnityBeggar:
Na so.The lies on this thread is nauseating.Some saying yes for the sake of commenting and getting likes.

UnityBeggar:
Even when it doesn't come from their hearts.

Saintmary:
You're jealous abi. Oya take your own. Btw, I used to like your posts.

Erhun10z:
But They Said Fight.. Its Either The Use Of Hand Or Mouth.. Since He Is A Celebrity, I Was Expecting Puches. But The Guy Know Say Nor Be 9ja He Dey, Na He Use He Brain.

Saintmary:
Awwwwn. Such a rare person.

matrix600:
Love is not an illusion my friend, illusion is illusion, love is love.
Unlike two AS patients in this scenario only one person has a choice - the person without the problem. And so it boils down to priority.. What is more important in this marriage - spouse or kid. While the majority will pick the 'kid', the few would pick their 'spouse', all subject to the one person's choice and resolution.

The consequences he would be ready to bear when already resolved to bear it.
A foolish choice is still a choice, a stupid decision is still a decision, and life goes on.

matrix600:
@ tosyne2much and sirfee, you guys are too quick to label others who do not share your position, stop being immature. If this was a debate, is this how you'll respond to your opponents?

On the subject matter, place yourself in the position of the person who is unable to have a child, how would you feel if because of that your spouse leaves you, would you resign yourself to being single all your life, and not secretly wish for someone who will overlook your situation?

If you can resign yourself to single life, do you believe you deserve it?

If you can't, then you will agree with me that there'll be some kind of joy in you when you realize that you've found someone who will stay.. people are there to bring joy into other people's lives. Even if not having kids is the price they pay.

I think in the process of convincing you, I've succeeded in convincing myself, so my answer to the OP is YES I CAN. It's all about choice mehn..

Ngokafor:
..I remember the noise apc zombie supporters made because of this picture of milo satchet the crook in London hospital used to deceive his iddiotic supporters..


..They deceived themselves with tales of how buhari had only mud houses in daura,150cows and no money to buy APC forms...buhari had barely won the election before the truth came out..Aisha's expensive life-styles,buhari's properties all over the place even in Port-Harcourt,kids schooling abroad e.t.c all came to fore

..Apc members and supporters are far bigger crooks than pdp ten times over..trust me.

sirfee:
I don't discriminate or mock people because of their predicament but the truth must be told;many of us(including the politically correct folks on this thread) would cancel such wedding.Most Africans marry because of children,I have seen religious homes break away because of barrenness(no offence to the barren)

sirfee:
May you live long bruv,most of the guys saying yes are liars and pretenders,it is easier said than done.

Destined2win:
That's not nice. Nobody should accept barreneness. It's not natural

Destined2win:
I am not ruling out adoption for others bUT nobody should be comfortable with it. I am addressing the answer based on the question asked.

To me nobody is barren, I can't marry someone accepting that the person will never be able to conceive. I'd rather not marry the person. If I eventually marry the person, it's with the belief that she'd be able to conceive.

matrix600:
are you saying a person that is unable to have a child doesn't deserve to be married?

If Yes, that is totally unfair to those people, and that would leave a black mark on the virtues of the marital institution. Meaning that marriage is not meant for all.

If No, then you believe that the ones who marry these people are deceiving themselves.

You underestimate the power of choice.

benlay:
If u write to get likes... you know that yourself. If it has not happened to u, you don't know how it feels. People say that until they face reality. I was there before. When people start asking questions then you want to proof that u don't have problem but your wife, and u go outside your marriage to have a child, do u think your marriage will still stay? If you know the process of adoption, u will run. Think about it... our elders say "oo ji ya oni ogbon, tani teacher re"? (if you have not experience hardship, u can't claim u are wise otherwise who was your teacher)

jaychubi:
If not for children I dnt see d reason for marriage. Love and all those nonsense is an illusion. My wife must be 3 months pregnant b4 serious marriage plans begin

AmoryBlacq:
This is why i like you my man!

Mynd44:
Funny that you seem to he able to judge people based on their posts.

Oh well, everyone with their psuedo-intelligence

Alero3Arubi:
I believe some things are just private but if there is a need to provide it for peace and trust then just do it.
As for me, I can't be trying to monitor another human being.
But if I notice you always hold your phone very close and can't let go of it when I'm around then I'm out.

I'm not interested in monitoring you but why the fear?

odinga1of:
Boss Tosyne2much you are too funny.

I hope you are funny like dis offline ooo.

Baddest69:
this one killed me