Romance › Re: 10 Signs Your Village People Don't Want You To Have A Girlfriend by tosyne2much(op): 10:29pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
IBreakRules: this OP is a mad man I swear. No vex for me jawe  |
Romance › Re: 10 Signs Your Village People Don't Want You To Have A Girlfriend by tosyne2much(op): 10:18pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
Skmoda360: this one weak me. tosyne2much clear for road i wan faint...lol hehehehe! The case get as e be ooooo  |
Romance › Re: Romancelanders.. Please Grant Me This Request So I Can Live On by tosyne2much(m): 10:01pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
Ooooops!
Don't even know what to say bro |
Romance › Re: 8 Hilarious Thing That Will Happen If It Snowed In Nigeria by tosyne2much(m): 5:41pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
You forgot to add that pregnancy rate will rise because people will start sleeping around  |
Nairaland General › Re: Some Useful Safety Tips For Your Friends And Family by tosyne2much(m): 5:33pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
Nice one bro. I learnt one or two things from your safety precautions |
Romance › Re: Its A Woman's World, Love, Respect And Cherish Her by tosyne2much(m): 4:14pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
Pheals: lolzzzzz
trash for lawma I know say na where dem dey see you be this  |
Science/Technology › Re: Whale Found In Ikuru Town's Beach, Rivers State (Photos) by tosyne2much(m): 4:12pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
Nigerians are still better na. Na Indians worst pass.. Those ones even eat butterfly and cockroach  |
Romance › Re: My Woman Sex Life Is Dead, Someone Should Help Pls. by tosyne2much(m): 3:47pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
Eeeehyah! I'm not experienced in this aspect and I hope you find a solution to your problem  |
Education › Re: You Belong To Indomie Generation If You Didn't Read This As A Yoruba Student by tosyne2much(m): 3:39pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
I can relate to it  |
Romance › Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by tosyne2much(m): 3:37pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
sirfee: Thank you so much for this post,a million likes for it.This post reminds me of my failed relationship with ex,we broke up few months ago because we decided to face reality and save our unborn children from the consequences of recklessness.We are As patients which means.....you know the rest. There's a wide difference between love and stupidity. I can't even listen to any pastor even if he uses all the Bible verses to aggravate my faith, so that I will marry such a person (AS-AS). I can't let my foolishness put my child(ren) into long suffering. Although, some people do it and get away with it but it's a stupid thing to do if you ask me |
Romance › Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by tosyne2much(m): 3:23pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
matrix600: They say that all generalizations are false, so generally summarizing doesn't do it. It is equally easy for people to lay their hands on their keypads and 'generally summarize' about people's individual choices.
There are always people who do not comply with the herd mentality, the popularity of an idea does not make it stand above the less popular, it just means that most people subscribe to it.
If I say that I can marry a person who cannot bear a child, because you do not see from my eyes, do not claim that I am deceiving myself. Even though I agree in this case that it is easier said than done, but do not forget that every thing in this world is easier said than done. But they still get done. By sheer resolve. If it's not easier said than done, why do MOST men take a U-turn the moment they realize a lady is a prostitute or sleeps around? Why? This is probably out of the fear of inability to conceive due to the fact that she must have aborted her life out, which may be detrimental to her womb Now, ask yourself how many men can take such a huge risk, if child bearing is not a major prerequisite for marriage Like I said earlier, let's leave sentiment apart and be realistic |
Romance › Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by tosyne2much(m): 3:03pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
sosa993: I'm still saying the same thing, curable or not I won't. This is not a game, but real life. The only reason I'll marry such a an is if he worth it. And he must make it known to his family he's the one with fertility issues. Then we're good to go, if not, I'll move on. This is what I've been telling some people on this thread You need to see the way women parade the pregnancy section of Nairaland, desperately asking for advice on how to conceive due to the stigma placed on them by their families A man obviously will never receive the pressure for childlessness, but the wife will be the one that will bear the pressure, unless it's known that it's the man that has issues |
Romance › Re: Its A Woman's World, Love, Respect And Cherish Her by tosyne2much(m): 2:58pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
This is absolutely ridiculous |
Romance › Re: Guys, how do you control your public erection,share your experience! by tosyne2much(m): 2:56pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
Romerocollins: I just tire for that lady ooooo, who tell her say pre-cum comes immediately a guy have an erection, she is a woman and she does not know how man body work and there she is opening her mouth so wide and talk, she think man penis be like toto!
A man can touch his penis and still pick something and eat but Women can not. Una no go kill person for this Nairaland 
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Romance › Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by tosyne2much(m): 2:53pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
sosa993: temporary or not I won't. Even though it's curable fertility issues nko?  |
Romance › Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by tosyne2much(m): 2:52pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
Saintmary: circa 2014. Threads and counter threads. Your posts have grown cynical though. Ooooops! Thank you very much for the motivation  |
Romance › Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by tosyne2much(m): 2:49pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
sosa993: on a norms I can, if he's infertile. But the typical Nigerian man cannot stay with his woman through hard times, so why should I do that for a man. The man who would make me marry him even when he's sterile must be really worth it o. I really like your sincerity. There's a difference between marrying a barren person and marrying someone that only has temporary or curable fertility issues. |
Romance › Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by tosyne2much(m): 2:47pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
UnityBeggar: Na so.The lies on this thread is nauseating.Some saying yes for the sake of commenting and getting likes. Someone just said marriage is for matured minds, meaning, getting married to a barren person connotes MATURITY. I laff  |
Romance › Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by tosyne2much(m): 2:36pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
UnityBeggar: Even when it doesn't come from their hearts. Ehn now  |
Romance › Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by tosyne2much(m): 2:36pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
Saintmary: You're jealous abi. Oya take your own. Btw, I used to like your posts. Are you sure? Which of the posts?  |
Celebrities › Re: J Martins Fights Show Promoters In United States (Video) by tosyne2much(m): 2:32pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
Erhun10z: But They Said Fight.. Its Either The Use Of Hand Or Mouth.. Since He Is A Celebrity, I Was Expecting Puches. But The Guy Know Say Nor Be 9ja He Dey, Na He Use He Brain. Let him try it and that would be the last time he will ever set his feet on the soil of US  |
Romance › Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by tosyne2much(m): 2:29pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
Saintmary: Awwwwn. Such a rare person. And he won your heart with the comment he made right?  That's why ladies always cherish men who say what they want to hear |
Romance › Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by tosyne2much(m): 2:27pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
matrix600: Love is not an illusion my friend, illusion is illusion, love is love. Unlike two AS patients in this scenario only one person has a choice - the person without the problem. And so it boils down to priority.. What is more important in this marriage - spouse or kid. While the majority will pick the 'kid', the few would pick their 'spouse', all subject to the one person's choice and resolution.
The consequences he would be ready to bear when already resolved to bear it. A foolish choice is still a choice, a stupid decision is still a decision, and life goes on. There are exceptions to love bro, and that's what I'm trying to point out. |
Romance › Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by tosyne2much(m): 2:22pm On Jul 08, 2017*. Modified: 3:15pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
matrix600: @ tosyne2much and sirfee, you guys are too quick to label others who do not share your position, stop being immature. If this was a debate, is this how you'll respond to your opponents?
On the subject matter, place yourself in the position of the person who is unable to have a child, how would you feel if because of that your spouse leaves you, would you resign yourself to being single all your life, and not secretly wish for someone who will overlook your situation?
If you can resign yourself to single life, do you believe you deserve it?
If you can't, then you will agree with me that there'll be some kind of joy in you when you realize that you've found someone who will stay.. people are there to bring joy into other people's lives. Even if not having kids is the price they pay.
I think in the process of convincing you, I've succeeded in convincing myself, so my answer to the OP is YES I CAN. It's all about choice mehn.. Mind you, I'm not forcing anyone to subscribe to my opinion, maybe it's because I'm just being a realist that's why my opinion was contaminated by the bitter truth, which you found offensive.
Do you know that it's very easy for many of you to lay your hands on your keypads claiming you can do this and that, but in the real sense, you practically do otherwise.
The truth of the matter is that, everyone has got a standard and choice in life, and I believe that my standard and choice has nothing to do with me, being matured or immature. However, some men marry prostitutes or single mothers out of their personal choice while some men see it as a huge risk which they can't put their neck in
Personally speaking and general summarizing, the beauty of marriage is children. Take it or leave it |
Politics › Re: Yusuf Buhari Graduates With A Masters Degree From UK University (Photo) by tosyne2much(m): 1:58pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
Ngokafor: ..I remember the noise apc zombie supporters made because of this picture of milo satchet the crook in London hospital used to deceive his iddiotic supporters..
..They deceived themselves with tales of how buhari had only mud houses in daura,150cows and no money to buy APC forms...buhari had barely won the election before the truth came out..Aisha's expensive life-styles,buhari's properties all over the place even in Port-Harcourt,kids schooling abroad e.t.c all came to fore
..Apc members and supporters are far bigger crooks than pdp ten times over..trust me. Lmao 
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Romance › Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by tosyne2much(m): 1:45pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
sirfee: I don't discriminate or mock people because of their predicament but the truth must be told;many of us(including the politically correct folks on this thread) would cancel such wedding.Most Africans marry because of children,I have seen religious homes break away because of barrenness(no offence to the barren) That's why I said love is an illusion but when reality sets it, they will compromise their stand. It's just like when two AS patients get married out of the illusion of love, but when the consequences of their action tell on their children, they hate themselves for taking stupid decisions |
Romance › Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by tosyne2much(m): 1:13pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
sirfee: May you live long bruv,most of the guys saying yes are liars and pretenders,it is easier said than done. Don't mind them jawe  |
Events › Re: Children Dancing & Rocking At A Party (Photos, Video) by tosyne2much(m): 12:38pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
This is what happens to the children of parents who were brought up in an immoral way |
Travel › Re: Container Falls On Two Fully Loaded Commercial Buses In Ojota, Lagos (Photos) by tosyne2much(m): 12:35pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
That guy obviously cannot survive
RIP to the deceased |
Romance › Re: Lady Breaks Up With Boyfriend Because Her Parents Weren't Pleased With Him by tosyne2much(m): 12:32pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
This story get k-leg ooo |
Romance › Re: Guys, how do you control your public erection,share your experience! by tosyne2much(m): 12:11pm On Jul 08, 2017*. Modified: 2:43pm On Jul 08, 2017 |
OP, I will suggest a more befitting title "Guys, How Do You Control Public Erec'tion? Share Your Experiences"
Anyway, I'm coming back to modify 
#Modified#
I will just deep my hands into my pockets like a gentle man and use style to adjust it sideways, so that it will not disgrace me in public places
Or
I will cease my breadth for about thirty seconds and it will start becoming flaccid. This works like magic  |
Romance › Re: Would You Still Marry Your Lover If You Discovered That They Can't Have Children by tosyne2much(m): 11:50am On Jul 08, 2017 |
Destined2win: That's not nice. Nobody should accept barreneness. It's not natural Only if these young lads know the stigmatisation placed on barren women in this part of the world. |