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WebmastersRe: 509 Bandwidth Limit Exceeded - Nscdc.gov.ng by touchmeder: 8:10pm On Mar 15, 2013
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That man has done what no other has been able to do NSCDC is now known for sure
PoliticsRe: Robbery, Shooting At Murtala-Muhammed International Airport In Lagos by touchmeder: 11:09am On Mar 14, 2013
hyperbaba: pix of those injure and killed in the attack
ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo cry cry cry cry cry cry oh nooooooooooooooooooooo
Hard currency was taken then this should be a case of undercover work. That money will not vanish into thin air. Let these security guys go undercover and follow the trail. An armed robber died too, someone must know that face and his accomplice can be caught if good investigative work is done. Oh Nigeria
Jokes EtcRe: Hilarious Photos Of "His Oga At The Top" (NSCDC) by touchmeder: 10:51am On Mar 14, 2013
naptu2:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yIPc4k5YH9o
That was painful to watch. lipsrsealed
Music/RadioRe: Timaya Ft Terry-G - Malo Nogede by touchmeder: 8:28pm On Mar 12, 2013
Nothing new same old sound lipsrsealed undecided
PoliticsRe: Headmaster, Three Teachers Shot In Kano by touchmeder: 8:03pm On Mar 12, 2013
oh my country Nigeria. By the way are corpers not serving in this state and other volatile states in the Northhuh lipsrsealed
FashionRe: Jim Iyke Vs Male Model: Who Wore It Better? by touchmeder: 7:59pm On Mar 12, 2013
Hands down to the model. If for nothing then the leg
CelebritiesRe: Rita Dominic's Style At The AMVCA 2013. Hot Or Not? by touchmeder: 9:32pm On Mar 10, 2013
Hot
CelebritiesRe: Mercy Johnson's Advice To Ladies by touchmeder: 5:16pm On Mar 08, 2013
FlirtyKaren: GUYS, PLEASE PAUSE. MERCY JOHNSON SAYS SHE NEVER WROTE THIS. SHE NEVER GIVE PURITY BREAST FINISH NA TO SIDDON WRITE ARTICLE.
I said it, her tweets have confirmed it. She does not have the moral right to go into this kind of talk after her well publicised ''husband snatching saga''. lipsrsealed
CelebritiesRe: Tuface And His Family Arrive In Eket For His Wedding by touchmeder: 4:53pm On Mar 08, 2013
Now this is how to marry a woman properly undecided
Please if you have not done traditional marriage ask yourself why? lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by touchmeder: 2:23am On Mar 08, 2013
maclatunji: You are right. However, there has to be a lot of caution. I would prefer if the widow waived most of the rights a typical second wife would demand be met and be satisfied with the man's care and a reasonable amount of affection that can keep her focused on her 5 children who are her primary constituency. She keeps the house with her kids and has the man's ear when she needs it. So far, I think she has been decent, let us hope things work out well.

The man should never sleep with her if he has not married her. That would be a betrayal of his own family, neices and nephews and his late brother.

If he marries her, he can go ahead. His own wife will be very upset if she is clingy but if she is a wise woman won't object overly and only demand that her position and that of her kids be respected.
I keep reading slowly to make sure i am reading right but my eyes are not deceiving me. Is there any woman that will willingly accept this? And then i remember again the Islamic reasoning behind this. Wow
RomanceRe: Can I Marry My Senior Brother's Wife? by touchmeder: 7:53pm On Mar 07, 2013
olawole oladipo: Dear Colleagues,

Unfortunately, I lost my senior brother (the same mother the same father) three years ago at age of 50, my brother left one wife with five children. My brother's wife still young (thirty years) plus. She so interest on me after the burial/outing service or some months later, she always calling me on the phone that I abandoned her. In fact, I try my best for her by sending money to her through bank account to take herself because I'm leaving at Ajah, My brother did not complete his house project before his untimely death, myself with support of family member complete the building and she is living there at Ogijo Ikorodu. Also her first son (19 years old)stay with me and caring for him. There was a day she told me on the phone that "Did i think she will marry another person after 5 children to my brother" and everything is not money, she want to see me, Infact I feel somehow that day.

In conclusion, as a christian I don't want to cheat my own "housewife" or look like I'm commiting adultery or fornication. What Can I do? to marry her, OR to tell her to leave my brother's house to go and marry another person with five children.

Please I need your Help.

From Safejourney, Ajah, Lagos
I dont get it. Is she not his widow who probably suffered with him and bore him children before his death? Why in heaven's name should she leave the house. I'm so sorry but i dont understand this. This is the problem with Nigerians why not mind your home, and continue with your life while praying to God and assisting your nephew and his mother in anyway as God blesses you. It now becomes an issue if ever she chooses to remarry because of the house your brother built for his family and you guys completed? This is what people talk about trying to take your brother's house from his widow. If this woman is good, then this property will be for her children eventually thus remaining in the family eventually. Are you doing this because you want another property or for another strange reason? Have you had eyes on this woman?




Eyah. If you were a Muslim, I would have said consider marrying her. She wants a man and has set her eyes on you. No woman would like a co-wife so I understand your wife's position too.

To be honest marrying her sorts out many problems. If we say she should go and look for her own man, what will happen to your neices and nephews?

Talk to your wife about it, who knows she may have the heart of a saint. However, is your ex-brother's wife a decent woman? Can she relate with your wife with respect?


Your story is one of the reasons I can't claim 100% that polygamy is out of the question for me even if I prefer monogamy.

It is a tough call.
Wow are you for real. Honestly speechless lipsrsealed
HealthRe: Baby Born With Encephalocele In Katsina by touchmeder: 1:27am On Mar 07, 2013
How could this condition not have been spoted during the many ultra sound session? Tell me? lipsrsealed undecided
Music/RadioRe: New Video: Kefee – Beautiful by touchmeder: 4:30pm On Mar 06, 2013
Its a lovely song, but the video falls short. Please ask Davido and Bankyw who shot their last video lipsrsealed undecided
i still love the song though
Christianity EtcRe: Stop Thief...the Tithe Belongs To God...by Bishop Dudley by touchmeder: 12:46pm On Mar 06, 2013
Oh no he didnt. Lol
FamilyRe: 8-Month-Old Deaf Baby's Reaction To Hearing For The First Time! by touchmeder: 7:15pm On Mar 05, 2013
stillwater: grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G2cGPuvNlGc[/flash]
Lovely lovely song see me dey thank God.
Blessed be his name... grin
FamilyRe: 8-Month-Old Deaf Baby's Reaction To Hearing For The First Time! by touchmeder: 4:18pm On Mar 05, 2013
God who made man and gave him knowledge to help solve medical issues is FAITHFULLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL. GLORYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY grin cheesy cheesy cheesy grin
CrimeRe: Damoche's Murder: Police Recovers His Phone by touchmeder: 3:34pm On Mar 05, 2013
berem: The mobile phone belonging to the late singer, Damino Damoche has been recovered by the police.



Following the investigations on the alleged cult-related murder that happened last Thursday at the Lagos State University, Ojo, officers of the Ojo Police Division say they have gotten a trail that may lead to the murderers.

Speaking to NET in confidence, one of the detectives attached to the case said that Damoche’s GSM phone was brought in by a campus marshal (security).

‘The campus marshal said an unidentified student brought the phone to him claiming that he picked it up from the ground after the attack.

We have since asked the marshal to provide the student for questioning or he will remain in our custody for more interrogation’ the detective said.

The officer also denied making series of arrests as reported by some media saying, ‘No arrests have been made so far, we are still investigating and hopefully with the link we are following we should be able to wrap-up the case.

http://thenetng.com/2013/03/police-recover-damoches-gsm-phone/
Why why why this is the reason people wont come out and help the police. Good old dectective work with that phone will reveal more. Who picked the phone and turned it campus Marshal or police is most likely not going to be the individual who pulled the trigger lipsrsealed
FamilyRe: Marriage And The Sickle Cell Anaemia by touchmeder:
Abali1: I am impressed about how you answered the questions. Again, if you are AA, THERE IS NO WAY YOU CAN HAVE A SS CHILD.

Thank you.
i know that dear. I was answering your questions from an objective point of view at times sad
Please see my answer on No4
FamilyRe: Marriage And The Sickle Cell Anaemia by touchmeder: 12:29pm On Mar 05, 2013
[quote author=Abali1]This thread is born out of the desire to get people's opinion concerning those of us living with SS. Below is a draft questionnaire I intend distributing to people, in the course of researching Sickle Cell Disease (SCD).

QUESTIONNAIRE:

1) Did your parents do genotype testing before they got married? I don't know, i never asked.

2) If not, do you consider yourself 'lucky' to have escaped being born a SS? Not really there were both AA, it could not have turned out in another way i guess. Dont forget you can be an AA or AS and come down with something bad later on. Life is in God's hands.

3) Would you categorize Sickle Cell as a terminal illness alongside Cancer or HIV/AIDS? No i wont. I'd rather say debilitating. Don't forget cancer caught early is treatable and people living with HIV can live long and full lives these days as long as they take their medication.

4) With you knowledge of Sickle Cell disease, which genotype pairing do you think is the most compatible for someone with sickle cell to marry? Definitely AA, Perhaps AS too but you need to have loads of money to do selective stuff to produce healthy babies i guess undecided

5) Do you think that with the right education and awareness of Sickle Cell disease, that someone living with Sickle cell can live a long, healthy and productive life? Yes it is possible. Lots of challenges but possible.

6) In your estimation, how long do you think that a SS person can live? In other words what is the expected Life expectancy? Lord knows, everyone differs
7) Can you marry someone living with Sickle Cell? NO

cool If NO, what are your reasons? (Please state a cogent/tenable reason)I do not wish to knowingly go through the trials and tribulations of bringing up a child with sickle cell. I have lived with a family friend, i lost a cousin, I knew of a class mate. Its too much. When that child looks at you and ask ''why'' what grammar would you speak?

9) Do you think a SS male can father a child? Certainly YES

10) Do think a SS female can carry a pregnancy to term? Fraught with challenges but definitely YES

11) Have you ever been in close association with a SS person? Yes, i lived with a family friend whose daughter was a sickler. It was no joke, this week we are happy the next the woman is running all over the place and the house is on edge until the episode passes by. Lord have mercy. You don't want this

12) If yes, do you consider them different from other people having AA or AS? Definitely not, they are people like you and me. end of
Nairaland GeneralRe: Lagos New Trend Of Traffic Robbery by touchmeder: 5:29pm On Mar 04, 2013
Is it not something like this that happned to the young doctor that was killed a while back? lipsrsealed undecided
Christianity EtcRe: Give Your 'Tithes' And Offerings To The Less Fortunate In Church by touchmeder: 6:38pm On Mar 03, 2013
Its slightly amazing how folks come on here and say op and others are leading people to hell and they will be cursed blablabla. Most of these individuals are speaking based on what they have been fed for lord knows how long. Most of you, yes most of you are just playing sentiments and not quoting scriptures to back your point. These guys are replying you with the same scriptures (the word of God) and all i see is more accusation about end time things and punishment. Lord have mercy smiley cheesy grin grin cheesy smiley grin grin cheesy smiley grin
Ask yourself when has tithe become a burden? Is it not men that formulate these things? God by his very nature is not one to put his children under bondage. Give this or that lest the devourer eats what you have worked for. Pleaseeeeeeeeeeeee
In all lets not forget to give, God's word teaches that and there is no doubt about it. Its more blessed to give however let no man lay a compulsory burden on you all in the name of tithe.
Christianity EtcRe: Give Your 'Tithes' And Offerings To The Less Fortunate In Church by touchmeder: 5:04pm On Mar 03, 2013
Mintayo: see how you have misled this guy?
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Christianity EtcRe: Give Your 'Tithes' And Offerings To The Less Fortunate In Church by touchmeder: 2:55pm On Mar 03, 2013
There has always been something about this tithes which i never fully understood. The Malachi scripture that was always quoted didnt ring true in my spirit. It put God in a role where he punished if you didnt pay a tenth of your earning. I never understood this. They made it seeem God was into some sort of recieving a particular sum and if this was not done, I was in trouble. Thats not the nature of God at least not what my bible teaches me.

''“Will a mere mortal rob God? Yet you rob me.
“But you ask, ‘How are we robbing you?’
“In tithes and offerings. 9 You are under a curse—your whole nation—because you are robbing me. 10 Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. Test me in this,” says the Lord Almighty, “and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that there will not be room enough to store it.
11 I will prevent pests from devouring your crops, and the vines in your fields will not drop their fruit before it is ripe,” says the Lord Almighty. 12 “Then all the nations will call you blessed, for yours will be a delightful land,” says the Lord Almighty.
Israel Speaks Arrogantly Against God
13 “You have spoken arrogantly against me,” says the Lord.


It never sat well with my spirit and now i know why. I will keep studying my bible on this issue but i think i know where i stand now. I thank God for shinning light on this issue for me today. Let each man be convinced. I know i am already. I feel sooooooooooooooooo liberated...
FashionRe: Male Student Wears Wrapper To School; Wins 20K Bet by touchmeder: 3:13am On Mar 03, 2013
What is the issue with this?
I looked at this picture and smiled, it reminded me of my days in school with some crazy guys that used to commit like this
thats the life of a student. You only get to do these sort of crazy things once for the fun of it
far better than being in a cult or being a thief
Over zealousness naim worry the security men. When you expect them to step up to the plate, thats when all of them will scatter undecided
O boy carry on rocking jare nothing do you
Jobs/VacanciesRe: After Getting Her A Job, I Was Abandoned by touchmeder: 2:11pm On Mar 02, 2013
She was never a true friend in the first place undecided
You should be thanking God sef, some events happen in this life to test the true extent of one's friendship and she has failed
Have you not heard of people drifting away or forming not friends after they have a new job, get married, go abroad e.t.c
It happens everyday MOVE ON embarassed
HealthRe: Nil by touchmeder: 7:40pm On Mar 01, 2013
ovalrose: So,i can never experience an heavenly feeling because i was circumcised?
embarassed embarassed embarassed
TravelRe: How Painful US Visa Denial Could Be.... by touchmeder: 7:13pm On Mar 01, 2013
babyfaiz: .

i know to some confidence means arrogance. while you can deduce that about from my post, i will tell you that i am not arrogant. i just feel that this consular were just making a mockery of many nigerians and I wasn't pleased. I guess I was trying to prove a point and may have appear to him or you as arrogant.
Since its tourism have you thought of travelling somewhere else? So much hype about the States but alot of nice places too even cheaper. Even in that Africa there. Ever heard of Seychelles lipsrsealed Oooops dont shoot me just a suggestion smiley
After a while (after say 6months to a year) you can try the States again if you so desire undecided
TravelRe: How Painful US Visa Denial Could Be.... by touchmeder: 6:21pm On Mar 01, 2013
ogb5: You are a flight risk.

There is a high probability that if you go to the US you will not return, hence the denial.

thats what I can think of in your case
smiley cheesy grin smiley cheesy smiley grin grin cheesy smiley smiley smiley cheesy cheesy cheesy smiley smiley grin Nawa o @ Op wish i had some sort of super tip to give but what i'd advise is give it a rest for now. Dont be in a super hurry to go there within the next few months. You said ''this is my second time applying for US tourist visa within the space of 5 months'' that is beginning to sound desperate which many people here have said is a big ''no no''. Better luck next time...
CrimeRe: Female ' One Chance' Thief Arraigned In Lagos by touchmeder: 5:50pm On Feb 28, 2013
Not uncommon for women to be involved. they are usually seated as innocent passenger to hide the fact it is really ''one chance'' in operation. so even if you are skeptical about getting into a bus and you see a seemingly innocent woman, one's fears are allayed. this happened to a very close family member and all the while she was robbed, she said there was a woman sitting silently in one corner of the bus. May God help us. wonder why she was granted bail, such a woman can flee... angry
Music/RadioRe: Wizkid - Azonto (Video) by touchmeder: 11:55pm On Feb 27, 2013
Really like really like really to be honest i was expecting much more from this video...soooooooooooo much more
still i got love for you Wiz
Christianity EtcRe: Pictures of Hilarious Church Posters by touchmeder: 4:29pm On Feb 27, 2013
grin cheesy grin smiley grin grin grin Ive laughed soooooooooooooooo hard at the pictures on this thread. Its just amazing, i cant even explain it
Then i went back and looked at all the pictures again and this time around i was sad sad embarassed undecided
Which seemingly intelligent person will fall for this? But thats why i felt sad somewhat sad too many gullible people

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