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This is the reason i never ever take this forum seriously. its an avenue to undwind, no yim, full photos,hangouts,meetings. Theres too much drama in real life already

Was she not doing the domestic chores before she took in (did she complain)
so you cant bear for a while ehn?
All this kind men sef
nawa for una

sme sme boy putting my sister through all this stress.

follypimpi:
If the dude is raised in 9IJA it will be very difficult for the Mum to approve your union with him,NO Mother will watch his 1st child who happen to be a SON to get married to a Mother of 3 and whose also Older as well regardless of how Happy y'all are.

its not even about the mother now. What Nigerian dude raised straight from Nija with no baggage himself a first son for that matter would want to end up with an older lady with kids? Well unless its for oopssssssssss papers
its not impossible but damn u'd be using torch light to find such guys. Beats me hollow

Did you just say you are a single mother of three?

oh dear is she? i missed that part i guess. Does he have kids as well? please was this man raised in America or Nigeria. (this will change alot of things oh)

All these excuses of Yoruba and African American marriage is not working for me at all
if he is serious about you and he loves you as much as u claim here, he will marry you come what may
even in Nigeria with the different tribes issue some couple still stick to their gun (my cousin is an example of such, what did the groom's parents not do to her, today they are happily married with 2 lovely children and these so called people that gave her a tough time are the ones doing ''our wife, our wife )
their parents may alienate them for a while but will succumb overtime especially when the success of the marriage is evident to all
let me say it again if this man truly loves you, as you claim he will marry you
by the way did he grow up in the states or move from Nigeria as an adult or teenager
the age thing is tricky but it depends on the answer given to the question above
are u older than him by more than five years? how comfortable is he about the difference in age thing?

this thread nor go kill me wit laff ohhhhhhhhh c dt fati bom bom
c poster dont be decieved an obese lady would not cut it for most folks but a lady with just abit of flesh would be fine, too thin is ok for some but not as glorified as in other places

wow this is , and she looks pretty too. The mind behind wanting to do something like that
it beats me

oh dear m sorry please seun is right. She needs to see a doctor ASAP. Prostinor would not prevent disease it can only prevent pregnancy. Sorry has she told you how it happened?(please dont push it sha gradually it will come out, thats if it not already out)
i can only advise you support her, guy see even if you dey fear and all that stuff just put that aside act the role of a friend. she needs someone who can support her too. talking and all that sort of stuff. A good doctor or some sort of pastor figure or trusted elderly person would do. All the best

What sort of friend does that to someone else.
m abit skeptical bout this girl B
that's how those chicks act esp when its a rich guy or someone abroad (Uhmnnnnnnnnnnnnnn shakes head)
it might work sha, but i'd be extra careful in a relationship like yours
invite her for a holiday if you must
how are you coping with all her friend (girl A) is throwing on you guys with the witches stuff and everything
uhmnnnnnnnnnnnnnn una get power ohhhhhhhhh

This topic will do better in the family session

Wat a touching story mannygee i read ur post twice.an inspiration @poster what more can one say, they have said  it all God will perfect your own.

For an average Nigerian girl 9 is abit too many in my estimation. just my opinion

Great response so far
but m just curious y do they leave 2cheat in d first place?

nothing is wrong with you as long as she is ok with it. you should even be thankful, hopefully you will end up with taller kids. Abi u nor know say man na man weda im short or not?

---Telling obvious lies and still feeling smart, sheesh Angry

lol

--- Refusing to come on top or go on her knees Grin

now dts wat u get when u date a fake,over religious sanctimonious girl, by d way if she does it, d same guys gonna start saying ''wot a LovePeddler''