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Why were the girls swooning over Sean Connery then? Or is it a case of the times changing?

Dont forget oyibo hairy chest is different from black man hairy chest. Well did i say that

not at all.

i didnt quite get the answer to the question i asked but i'd answer this question with naija mentality in my own way
i think its low to see your bf in the same state and ask for transport fare home. jesusssssssssss is that low or what?
i mean the lady is working.If you choose to give her whether she asks or not is up to you, however if someone travels from one state to another to see you, its only nice to help her out even if she does not ask you especially if she kind of like complained bout the transport fare issue before she came.

Sorry did she travel over to come and see you or is it the same city. m asking cos of ur 1k statement u made

would you prefer if she ran around and pretended and you knew nothing about it?
That being said are you sure she understands what she still has with you? why going to the ex's party and spend the night there? strange and why did you tell her follow your conscience most guys will say point blank ''m not comfortable with that''
what a relationship you guys have

i was waiting abit for the thread to pick up or see if it would die a natural death. it has happened to me trice. The first and most depressing was back during my unidays. it was a Sunday after church i went to the market to buy some stuffs on my way back this guy sat by my side. About halfway i noticed this slow movement on my thigh. i thought it was the friction of something. i mean it could have been anything maybe the book he was holding or my load or bag. it just didnt dawn on me. i didnt look up at him, i mean what was the need but i just kind of felt uncomfortable through out the trip. When i got down, i noticed this stain on my native (the skirt)

i was so so sad, i just kept looking at him walk away. Then like i was possessed by something i called out to him, he stopped he was sweating profusely holding his bible. I was really calm (very strange) and i asked ''why, what is wrong with you? look at what you did, are you mad or what?'' he just kept on apologizing on and on. then i finally said '' you need Jesus, you need to ask him to heal you and make you stop this nonsense and he was like ''ok ok i will, m sorry'' IN RETROSPECT I SHOULD HAVE SLAPPED HIM (i think i was in shock d whole time i did all that preaching)
i walked to my hostel, first took my cloths off had my bath and cried all the time. When i told my bf he didnt believe till date he says its impossible for a guy sitting by your side pe&*s to stretch and all the way and do that. But i know what happned to me on that day, maybe it was his sweaty palm (some measure of comfort for me huh)

if both of u work and bring an income, it should just be fine. may be we should consider this: what if she charged u for any sexual touch? kiss: 5 $, touch 1 breast : 2.50; suck 1 breast : 3.00

UnCloth her : 4 $. eat her Poussy 12 $ get your snake sucked : 7 $ touch her buttocks 1. 5 $ sex in the shower 2. 5 $ missionnary position 1.5 $ doggie 5.00$ if u cum 20 $


taking care of a woman u love is a priviledge and an honor

funny funny

M thinking if the lady earns her own money you need not bother about things like her hair, nail or her cloths unless you ar buying cloths for her.   i guess
And it depends on how you guys discuss she could contribute her widows mite to help you out for some of the bigger things to be done. lol

oh dear, if wer talking then i just go cold n he'd b like ''y ar u dull'' na really why are you dull like u dont know
i like to be left alone to think things through, i try very hard not to react too sharply then cos most times u end up regretting it
i do things to take my mind off the issue house chores, reading, watching tv
thereafter we talk it over, hug and forget it

I'm not too sure if this has been addressed before or if romance is the right segment for it. The offence is one of a romantic nature sha and i think its not too serious for crime allow me put it here. moderator you can move it to where u deem fit.

Have you experienced someone touching you inappropriately in a bus or taxi. have you done it yourself? i will share mine soon. 

Very low

Romeo for real has said it all i'd ask her the purpose of the ring if i were you, it would seem you guys are not talking well enough i mean knowing the intention of the other as to the plans for the future and all. why dont u tell her this as well

THE TRUTH IS THAT I AM NOT THINKING OF MARRIAGE NOW UNTIL  AFTER MY MASTERS IN AUSTRALIA . I LOVE HER BUT  I DONT THINK IT IS WISE FOR ME TO PROMISE HER MARRIAGE SINCE I HAVE SOME THINGS TO ACCOMPLISH B4 I GET MARRIED.

in case u have not done so

but please, never tell the child that the mother is no good.

i agree, in due course she will know all she needs to know. don't bad mouth your ex or allow your wife to do same in front of her
even if the woman committed adultry let it not me smeared on your daughter's face. when she has more sense she will use her own mouth to ask her mother questions. that information as bad as it is will not be enough to break the bond between mother and daughter. why do i say this? i was friends with sisters whose mother left their dad while they were still very young. The marriage appeared to be a very difficult one with a man who she claimed was difficult to live with and please. There was no way on earth he would have allowed her take her children so she decided to make the painful decision to leave them in his capable hands and move on with her life while she was still young. All their lives the dad and step mother kept saying things like ''wicked child,wicked children that's how you will abandon your child just like your mother, she didn't like you''  etc
Those words were constantly with them and deflated the self esteem of one of them. She was a lovely child with zero self esteem and issues too deep.

Allowing them have time in the presence of your mother is clearly wrong. She neeeds to spend time with her mother maybe on some weekends or short holidays(for the maintime until you grow more confident) i doubt the mistakes she made in her earlier marriage should be enough to disqualify her from her natural skills as a mother. She might have committed adultry but that does not mean she does not love her daughter.
when she gets back speak with love and sternly to her. she must know it is wrong to run away from home and it would not be tolerated. let her grow in an atmosphere of love thus being able to trust and confide in you and indeed her stepmother (hopefully )

Finally prayers and more prayers (that should handle a stubborn ex) when your words cant do much let prayers pave the way for you.
All the best

Take sometime out and travel, invest in a business
invest in good shares
build a house and be involved in the project until completion (if u don't have one yet)
join a good club (are they still there) maybe golf club or other social clubs (i hope the babes there make you see road)
help the needy
train a relation (who has bin asking you for help and u know need it)
take some course in psychology (the human mind is enough to fill your days with wonder)

hey chick dont mind me only checking d intentions. Honestly m in a fix here myself
der seem to be technically wrong with it (in times like this i like oyibo dem nor go even consider this one an issue)
would i? NO, i wont but then again its you, listen to your heart and do what u wish
All the best

Do you remotely like him by any chance cos he is in d uk now? or did u always fancy him?

i like her for that

In a weird way she intrigues me as well for being bold enough to do that.
one part of me says ''she is new she does not know enough'' another says ''like she gives a damn''
and that i find really intriguing

Ohhhhhhhhhhh i can see why, 7posts welcome to nairaland. You might end up having to change your username and come in as someone else in future.

Some chicks do this anyway with their boyfriend would that make them prostitues?
its not like its right anyway why did you take the money. Its your business if you choose to sleep with a guy you hardly know but taking money from him
damnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn girl and finally why why why why in heavens name is your picture up there for the world to see?
This is simply amazing

i will contribute my quota even if i can sponsor the wedding on my own i wont. let him do his bit like the man he is.
Knowing the kind of parents i have, they will pitch in too
everyone is happy at the end of the day huh

That's right if you are not healed enough from your past hurt, you cant totally commit to a new relationship
how long you choose to heal from your past hurt is up to you
if you lose good men while taking more than enough time to heal is your business as well
either way you have to allow yourself heal and not get into rebound relationships to prove a point and finally dont spend eternity over a wasted relationship
and oh yes a simple ''m sorry'' this last guy is in order, not cos you want him back (you said yourself he is a good person)
maybe for keeping him as a stand by giving him hope when you know you were not ready
if he has the patience he just might wait abit for you, who knows?

i am so glad its over that part of the programme was a show of shame.

A friend of mine told me a story like this too
how one big aunty abi na house girl again in their house used to touch him there
and he'd be trying to pee but he could not pee
it was a sensation he didnt understand at that time
he laughed all the while he narrated the story
but i didnt find it funny one bit
but from what i am reading here again
it would seem the guys dont mind too
[s]wonder how these adults that do it ever think the children will forget those acts. Most never do[/s]

This is very sad

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This whole story got me laughing and shedding tears
especially this part

So he fractured my finger and bent it back and wouldnt let my finger go until I gave him his phone back, then I left and I told him we were DONE

oh my God where is the icon for laughing and rollin on the ground by the way dude ure on nairaland people wont go easy on you with this gay story
All the best

Some are so so so true. God bless better naija man i beg

lady made sense to me.