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It is shameful to say the least
it belittles the body of christ
i cant count the number of times ive witnessed this (all manner of people doing this)
they expect to be paid for the prayers and someone said something
passengers are scared, they feel the prayers will gurantee them a safe journey(which as a child of God u already have in Jesus name) for which they need to recipocate in equal measure

my dear relax. i have not been in your shoes so i may not be as qualified as some to speak but worse things have happened to people. Some people seem complete but have passed through hell.
A broken relationship, you can have another don't worry maybe he was never yours in d first place.
A job you will get, these might not happen today today but its a process that will build your person and take you places.
dont worry bout him, making money and being with fine chicks and all that. painful as it may be let it ease please. its his life, wish him well and let it go
i know as girls how our body issue makes us. All i can say is just build up your confidence. you see very fat people inshort obese, people with physical challenges, and all what have you. The difference is the how you feel about you.
God bless u

CheeMoney:
When ever she wants to go shopping for anything, I release money to her account. At the end of the day as someones wife, when she comes back while talking on how the shopping went, I expect her to say honey see how it went and so on. Example; lets say we budgeted 80k for a lace material & she got it for 50k, is it a crime for me to know? I don't know for others but it gives me a sense of belonging. Even though she spends all the money voted for that particular shopping, let me know how it was spent. Kind of a break down. Is that too much to ask? I just want to be carried along thats all.

No ur expectations are not too much. this is only reasonable, especially for someone not working yet, contributing neither her family to the wedding. it is a team thing. the idea is not trying to squeeze it all of you or save on your head because at the end of the day she is going to stay in that house with you. At most she says at the end of the day ''this is how it went, i was able to get it at a cheaper rate. i was thinking maybe we can use the remaining money to do this or that''
i am sorry but you are about to wed that sort of woman
yes that type that will play with figures to get more from you
do it to the weekly shopping and the children's needs
All the best

i knew it. i knew it was only a matter of time again. lol

three pastors told me that we can marry, they even said we are meant for each other, i told her this but is just like chasing after the wind

What in heavens name do u people mean when u do things like this?

What is her reason for not wanting you?

der must be a reason or u cant decode it. dont worry i'd soon crack it for you.

i know one in my fellowship then in school he used to act like a baby. i dont think he was gay he was just childish,an ajebutter, girlish and used to whine (''ohhhhhhhhhhhh whats that'' and all that kind of girlish talk)and generally act like a chick. Oh and he was nice

Please advise on what i can do.

please leave her alone

lol

I think this is a lie

@ touchmeder
I see where you're coming from, but I have finally accepted that I can't really change because its just me. maybe because i'm too shy or i'm scared of taking advantage of Undecided

When u meet that one person and u believe without a shadow of doubt u should not be shy or scared especially if they are giving you love like that (and want more from you)and ure just smiling in return all the time over time it becomes boring and small things like that are discouraging. He will look outside and see couples and start wishing ''if only she could act a bit more , ''. now now u would'nt want that huh.
Go outside your comfort zone and do or say something really sweet for a try. you would feel funny at first but over time if u work on it, u'd definately grow bolder and feel at ease with it. you may never b all so mussy mussy but u'd not b where u used to be. see it as a little moderation to your perfect self not a total change

u appear ok, its your way of life. A healthy balance of both worlds is just fine.

By the poster's defination i would say i am warm. i used to be very very cold but over time i had to change cos my bf was not just that and he showed me how much he loved by words and deeds. oh boy i had to step up my game and m better for it today

Now this got me laughing really hard. i agree with some of the artist honestly but OJB common that guy will come back(he is good). And i always wondered why ''searching'' always remained low. i love that song with a passion

it is so wrong ure married even if ure so sure u'd never meet him.
d same man everyday
its just wrong

Churches are supposed to be treated as charitable organization but do they act as such in Nigeria?
i fault everyone of us, some people are shouting here with their personal business do they pay a dime?
But then i wont blame them as such, because the environment is harsh, they are trying to cope in that unfriendly climate and get the business on their feet, who is talking tax then?
Some of us that work so hard and pay tax, where is this money going
Do you see anything tangible at the end of the day
Is it the most simple things, road , water, power, health
what then do we expect?
The churches become a shadow of the society
the man of God has a vision to reach souls and all that, he starts out well along the line the need to expand for the sake of the kingdom is apparent
soon he has a primary school, Secondary School, University, Hospitals
u name it, they say ''it is our own, it is our own, we built it''
as a member of the church is it really your own?
you and i know better
may God help our country

Uhmnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn trust is the keyword here
how has she been all this while, is she a trustworthy person
has she cheated before
y not take her word for it

They lived together in the same room thrughout the service year.she sees this guy as a perfect being different from others and she invited her purposely for me to appreciate all he did for her.i was very mad with her for keeping this from me while it lasted.fellow nairalanders i find it difficult to believe this story,what do you think?

but then again why did she keep this from you and stay for the full duration. i beg oh on 2nd tots you have to ask her serious questions. Was it the full duration or just the first weeks or something

m sorry i have to disagree with the overwhelming opinion here
for someone with your fears and profession (and most importantly in my opinion for peace of mind)
i would say go ahead and find out
if i ever found myself in a situation where the legality of a previous marriage was put into question
and could be erased by the court of law(especially a not so good previous marriage)
and it would not hurt anyone (as you have put it)
i would say go for it, verify, and if it is true let it be expunged
u are a lawyer, you should know better
little things like this make alot of difference which might not be clear in the eyes of the ordinary man
The mentality of a good deal of Nigerians is ''let it go leave it for God, it is over, let God be the judge'' and all that
you say you are not in love with him
so ur emotions are not in question here
i say find out for you peace of mind

Our marriage is about a year plus now and we have a very sweet and handsome baby boy. He was 6 months old last week. I missed my "show" last month and I just confirmed I am pregnant again. I am thinking of doing something "funny" but my husband is seriously against it. Is it not too early to have another baby as my boy is still breastfeeding?

i have read books that stated that once you start breastfeeding, it sort of acts like a contraception preventing pregnancy. Now what is all this i am reading? I am confused now ohhhhhhhhh . Is it ok to take the injection type of contraceptive while breastfeeding? please married women or those with experience should answer me. i dey learn

Do most naija men wear rings sef talkless of polygamist?
Unless ure a Christ embassy member

i laugh. i shared my story on another thread(https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=263446.msg3762194#msg3762194) but this makes me remember another one. i once had a friend at the university that asked me out for quite sometime. one day as he kept talking as usual he started crying and shit. Now this guy said he will jump from faculty 3rd floor or so. How many pple went to uniben here? (oya jump now lol)
honestly i weak i was abit confused and sorry for him but mostly embarrassed.
what a wimp. wer still friends till date sha

@bold is the major reason why marriages are falling apart in the west. Women are yet to differentiate between an advice and an order. Some of you tell your husbands not to go out in the evening even if he really wants to and he respects that but when it turns around, it becomes an order. Just live your life and make sure you listen to whatever somebody is telling you and see some sense in it. Alcohol impairs your judgment and women are more vulnerable to that. I mean, you can get pregnant from an alcohol related careless sex from an unknown stranger. Agreed a woman can take a glass of 5% alcohol wine but even at that, she should case the joint before doing it. Doing it at home or in the company of other non gay female friends is strongly suggested. All these women drinking an 80% proof liquor needs to enter into rehab

i laugh see ur rules for a woman drinking alcohol.

what do i do?i still love this babe

you know u dont love her, 5months of chating online without meeting her, is that how u love. ure only jealous now cos you friend has her and to that i say (good riddance)

dat im considering showing some of the girl's topless pics to my friend sister

there is no need for that. let go u will heal over time

Secretz:
say: 'Ok, I dash you' and put the phone down.

i like this one

, a glass of wine, champs is subtle and gracious enough if taken moderately,

May God bless u

U are fine nothing do u
lovely pearly smile

@poster
You beg to toast her, you beg for her to accept, you beg her to follow you to the bank, you beg her to calm down, you beg her to go home, you beg her to receive your calls, you beg her to accept your begging, you beg her to stop acting the way she is doing, you beg her to take her to the spot of the incident, You beg her into marriage and on and on .

@poster

Abi you want us to join you to dey beg the babe?

lol lol lol what a childish girl u have for a gf? good God, u need to move on and see how good women treat their men, u too will realize u were once childish agreeing to put up with this mess

why 9ja girls in london drink too much. do they want somebody to marry them. i see 2 last week drinking beer and talking like agbero. they are yoruba girl and i ask them whether they want somebody to marry them as they are alcoholic and they start quarell wit me. who go marry woman that drink beer. you go marry them if na you?. if you wan husband and you drink alcohol you no serious.only white woman are allow to drink alcohol

Make una see me see this poster oh. So now only oyibo women are permitted to drink in his opinion.

i guess NIFOR can close now

my family and bf