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Heartbrokengirl:
Plz slow down. She complimented me and asked if he would bring me around more. We were having a general conversation and she was pleased. She said her phone was in the car and asked me to bring mine for her to dial her number. It was after that he deleted it, preventing me from saving it. She never messaged me either...



I am a christian

First U cant be on thesame ship with Jonah and expect journey mercies, bae the truth is he took advantage of ur desperation and weakness for ever thinking u will find that man in ur dreams, we all do but the truth is perfect pple only exist in our dreams.
Pls know this, no successful handsome guy is available, they are all taken. But ask urself if marrying a muslim would work for u as over time u must convert which is not my problem, but his religion permits 4 can u share?
Love they say is blind but marriage na eye opener. I believe u have learnt a lesson, wear it round ur neck like a necklace. Adios Sis

Heartbrokengirl:
I met a few members of his family. They were welcoming


He is muslim

And are u a muslim or free thinker?

I love the fact that u admit to starving ur wife sexually, but her committing adultery is unacceptable.
Man if dowry is ur reason for bringing her back then u have no reason as u might choke her in sleep one night if she ever offends u. Its like buying a spoilt bread and still want to eat it because it cost u an arm and leg.
Man U know ur heart better than anyone here, if u love ur wife and u are sure she regrets the shameful act, pls hold this family talk to settle, but if like i said the dowry is ur reason, pls get a good lawyer and claim custody of ur children, and u might want to try or do a paternity test. An adultrous woman can never raise morally sound children.

Lol, U mean she wants to only use for excretion? chai the devil is a liar.
Now my 2 cents. Bro 9ja girl work way for u out of this country, and perfect in every endeavour except that u dont get to test her humidity constantly.
Brother come closer, lay ur hands on ur prick and repeat after me; say " father !!! every alakoba in my life, let them be uprooted ".
But if pounding the pu.na.ni pavement is still ur priority guy i no mind exchange Zzor for ur bae, I bet she go satisfy ur life but ....hmmm.

Zzor:
When they take all sorts of rubbish, what do you expect from them?

Zzor my love, we dont take rubbish, its a gift from God. Even Abraham still they chuk at 100 yrs and begat Isaac so what is wrong asking for good sex.

pretydiva:
Oga that is not the reason

Bae U r right, 9ja babe are just monika's all the lovina's are dead and gone.

femi4:
Exactly, how many of them from the North even completed secondary school

They dont hv to, its why they introduced NBIAS, such that when u and i are busy battling physics, chemistry, further maths and biology their boys just only need to present Nbias Certificate to get admission into any tertiary institution. Just imagine arabic studies as a prequisite for Engineering Or Medicine.

If u generalize it i think i will disagree with u cos the ones u refer to come from a particular region and na dem dey get federal job. Now if u tell me 90% of Nigerian graduates cant write a good, error free and concise formal letter, I think yes am with u on this one.

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Europeanian:
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WRONG ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Change is constant.. people do change oh.

For the fact he doesn't want to let her go, he loves you and guys like this do end up marrying the lady they cnt let go. Don't listen to all these other advices saying you should quit the relationship. Most of them are just sadist and don't like anything marriage. The guy love you, stick with him and have enough dialogue with him.

Young man i speak from an endless wealth of experience, as i hv counselled more severe cases than this. I believe i know when love has gone awry and stale, i know when to hold on and when to quit or let go, and i can tell u there is nothing to salvage in this relationship.
If he laid his hands on u when u single, trust me he has the tendencies of knocking u out when u r married to him.
I want to believe this young man calling me out shares thesame proclivities as our pugilist boy friend.
He that has ears let him hear.

First u dated or accepted him for the wrong reasons, considering his recent demeanor, i think he's going true some pyschological trauma and he tends to carryout his frustration on u.
My 2 Cents albeit i dont know if it would suffice, pls walk away its already toxic. Walk while u still can or God forbide it may be ur demise, cos the guy who is maiming u emotionally and punching softly now would place no value on u when u r married to him.
Pls run and never look back, but if him prick still dey sweet u, oya carry on, We shall meet at the golden gate.
A living dog is better than a dead lion.

Gayatri:
What are the red flags please??... He loves his girlfriend but he does not want to let me leave him because i help him get focused than his girl aside the feelings he has for me... Please make me understand...

A word they say is enough for the wise.

Op pls edit, teaching in a private school for salaries below minimum wage is not a collar job, but a " Brown Collar Job".

Just like her lips.

alexsoftwork:
Wow! what does she do 4 living?

Lol stupid boy, u wan kill ppl with laugh. Lets just say, she's a hustler like her ...

All because of shiloh.

Sending Nudes to a guy u have never met!!! waow just waow. No offence but pure water get value pass ur body. No matter how cheap u r, always remember self respect permeates every fibre of our being.
Now my advice, the guy sees u as a LovePeddler and for a guy to be willing to pay for ur flight tickect, girl thank ur stars cos u for enter yahoo boy hand, ur head or kitten for don dey generate Naira by now.
I know u created this account to mask ur identity, but just hear urself out abeg cos i know they say a man runs after a woman until she catches him, but the reverse is ur case. Why run after men if truly u r 24 cos i know beyond the shadows of doubt u r also fibbing 24. Cant u even see the guy is a potential wife beater if he's not a yahoo boy. Girl love they say is blind, but marriage na eye opener. There are no perfect guys they only exist in our dreams. I do hope u learn from this episode of ur life and hop u wont be that naive again.

Preciousgirl:
What exactly about a lady attracts you?

Character
Intelligence
Creative and industrious. As long as she can convert #5 to #500 for me its a go. I rather marry an Alakija than marry present 9ja babes who only have sex to offer, and funny enough they are not good at it.

One name in common, BUHARINOMICS

saaphiere:
May God Almighty deliver us from time wasters in Jesus name Amen.

Like 9ja G***s.

Zzor:
I want to get married, I'm a fan of early marriage but irresponsible men all over the place, it's easier to pass through the eye of a needle than to get a responsible man. God I'm still waiting for your miracle

My problem with this bae be say she's too impeccable. Sweet heart there is no perfect man out there as they only exist in our dreams. Even Bible says if u r waiting for perfect condition, u r wasting ur time. The beauty about life is in ur ability to change the not so perfect to perfect, urgly to beautiful.
Zzor love, u r not perfect either, stop playing assistant God.
Every guy deserve a virgin too. Brothers is the volume ok, as i hope this would suffice.

Am still in shock, cant believe we still have morally decent and emotionally stable babylons on NL. See how the lazy ones come after her. The Feminist and the 2k sharp sharp.

Even though I'm Yoruba but I think Igbo language is far better than our language and I urge every Yoruba person to learn Igbo

Ur name says it all, a fucking pipsqueak.

I understand how emotionally traumatised u r right now, but taking the easy way out (suicide) is just what a loser would contemplate. I came up with this philosophy like no matter how urgly the situation may look like i will always protect my joy. No amt of anger, or a excuse for suicide is worth going to hell for.
I know it may be difficult but u have got all that it takes to overcome the mess, u r built for such a time as this, u hv what it takes to win. Cowards take the easy way out, dont be coward.
In every problem their is a profit, it all depends on where u place ur focus. I understand u feel betrayed and disappointed but are those flimsy excuses good enough to abandon ur children, would u rather take the easy way out like a coward and hv one promiscus man raise ur children?
Look, not even animals would abandon their offspring without a fight. Remember d law of emotions states: a stronger emotions will dominate and overide a weaker one.-ve emotions r major causes of psycosomatic illness. Man Up !!!!!

Dem choke wella, i know quite alot of them claiming 9ja today, most of them claim Taraba, Adamawa.

greymiles:
When the whole Igboland is telling you someone is not right... u suppose to agree
What a kid can not see on a tree, an elder will see while sitting
But this Yoruba people will never hear... they prefer to bow to Hausas than igbos

What have u been smoking lately, a yoruba man bow to an igbo man. Pls dont get me started abeg.

BeLookingIDIOT:
Apart from Shi'as,how have Nigeria officially persecuted xtians for their faith

Federal Job = Islamic Job

saaphiere:
I will get there.

Bae trust me pray for a happy marriage and not wish for expensive wedding.

DenreleDave:
Good day guys, I am currently posted to akwa Ibom and I am at the capital city..... I am not planning of sitting down at home after return from my ppa... I need something to be doing coz I don't want premium tears after it ends.... My service year ends in Oct/ Nov and I want sumtin I can learn within those month and it will be beneficial to my career...

Option 1: Go learn fashion design.. I want to learn ladies own though, I have seen a place but I haven't approached the shop owner yet..

Option 2: Go for those course certification like Human resources management Hrm, HSE, Advanced project mgt, customer service mgt graphics. @ Aftermath consult here in uyo..

Thanks in anticipation.......

Please help me take to front page, I don't want to waste my service year.....

I have more degrees than a thermometer yet they bring nothing like the skills acquired.
Just i once said a welder than a graduate of sociology. Acquire the skill thank me later.

AuntRose:
Typical Nigerian Man. Nigerian Men disgust me to the high heavens, a lady can't show some nice attitude without it being misinterpreted by most Nigerian men as a call for séx... So pathetic I share a country where 85% of the male population are perverts.

Everything translate to séx to all Nigerian Men? Why??

Perverts!

If 9ja Men Are Perverts Pls Try India Madam Feminist.

bouncin04:
I'm a single guy ( 32 years ) who's aspiring to get married maybe in 2 to 3 years time , but news about failed relationships and my experiences gives me cold feet , I can't handle being cheated on as I just got out of one toxic relationship . So I ask people already in marriages if they have for once regretted being married to their current partners , if yes kindly give your reasons and share how you are coping with them , and if no also share your formula towards keeping a happy home , so we learn . Thanks in anticipation .

My candid advice to u, pls spend the next 2 yrs learning tolerance cos marriage is the ministry of Tolerance and Offence, where u work twice as much and not get appreciated and u dont get to fight back when maimed emotionally except u intend to create a rill in that union.
I will always tell brothers if u cant forgive u have no business with that institution.
NB: in this dispensation marriage depends on money, so make that cash first.

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